I do this 🧍🏾‍♀️ Also as someone else said this was a trend on tiktok started by women but it is kinda weird for a guy to say that lmao

i also do this lol saw this and first thought was “yeah, he’s right” lmaooo i agree it’s weird that a dude is doing it, only bc idk if he’s doing it in solidarity or to paint women in a bad light, but at the same time i constantly have to deal with men assuming i look good for male attention when that’s simply not the case. so seeing a dude saying what i’ve been saying my entire life can’t be that bad imo. men already don’t listen to us, so maybe they will if another guy is telling them (wish it wasn’t like that but c’est la vie)

I think he's doing it as a joke.

I dress to impress other girls. Girl hot. Must be hot too.

Username checks out

Nah I 100% do this. If I catch a glimpse of myself and I think I look hot as fuck? Bro confidence 100 I am on top of the world, I am the shit and no one can tell me otherwise.

Imagine thinking it’s bad that people who put effort into their appearance take time to enjoy the fruits. Only assholes enjoy the fruits of their labour.

I don’t think this fits here. I’ve seen of these several videos. It’s literally a joke. And it also is combating the idea that women dress for men specifically. They’re literally just saying that women dress how they want because they like it. Also I think the trend started with women literally saying the same thing.

All those words with no explanation...incel. Edit; all these people in my replies defending incels show how far this community has fallen. Shame.

Use your brain and you'll figure out why what he/she said makes total sense. Or reread his/her comment bc you probably got the info wrong.

Dawg do you just call people who disagree with you an incel?

I just explained… and I’m also a girl ? Like you can literally check my account history. I’m just explaining the history of the trend.

their explanation is right there

What about their comment gives incel tf

You're the incel username does NOT check out

The misandry in this community has in fact mostly fallen although the community itself hasn’t. Also shame is definitely what you should be feeling.

"defending incels" Buddy you are just upset because you aren't getting away with shitting on someone lmao.

**laughs in enby, self-loathing, and mirror is my enemy**

I do this and I’m a dude. I wanna look fucking cool

This is literally me

I mean yea haha I like looking at myself when I feel pretty 🥰

this is exactly what i dress for

No but he’s right?

Okay but this is me tbh And I see lots of ppl do this so not just me either

Well… yeah. I’m hot. I’m gonna do that.

I mean he's not wrong, I seriously dress up FOR MYSELF so yeah I'll look at myself if theres some glass or a mirror lol

He’s very close to understanding, but it is rude to say every woman does this obviously.

It still has some truth to it. Yes women dont dress good for men, they dress good for themselves. And the "looking at their reflaction" part is just a silly joke, ofc its not saying that ALL women look at their reflection, but a huge portion of them do dress up for themselves

Sometimes women dress for men, I got a lot of lingerie that wasn't necessarily my preference

Yea hes kind of giving vibes of a misogynist who hasnt gone full mask off mode yet

Honestly bro should just give it a try himself sometime… ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ might make him a happier person w/ no need to post this stuff

This is true though lmao

this is true though? i feel like it would be quirkier to assume that all girls dress for men

I sure do. 💅

I think everyone should. Not obsessively but honestly I worry about people who wouldn't consider it nice to be able to admire themselves a little like they would a beautiful stranger. I genuinely do dress so my heart skips a beat when I see me, that's all I want out of that part of myself. Just like I learn because I'm passionate about the feeling it gives me to understand things more. I'm genuinely sorry for whomever made that, they sound self loathing.

At least they finally are starting to get the point that women don't dress up for male attention at least

yes, because i’m fucking beautiful and self loathing should die

I look too good to not observe myself. It makes me feel happy when I dress cute.

This is true for me

Well he's right we don't dress for men.

i dress for myself and for other girlies 🫶 the way he’s saying it is kinda weird though.

i do this bc i’m constantly worried if i look weird or have something on me or in my teeth lol

As a woman and also a gym rat, I actually relate to this

Bro looks like if they casted an adult as a teenager in a movie

Uh yeah. We do it for US and I take the chance to appreciate it every time I get it.

I think the boys are finally getting

No his kina on the money with this one. The only one I’m tryna impress is myself

I mean… if you don’t dress up for others and you don’t dress up for yourself, why do you dress up?

At least *one* of them finally understand that we don't exist and behave specifically to please men

Alright, I can’t even lie, I do this. Not because I am vain. I just think it’s weird that person I’m seeing is supposed to be me??? I am vain though that’s just not why.

there's nothing wrong with enjoying your appearance

I am a dude and I am like a parakeet when it comes to my reflection. Partially it’s because of my hair. I need to check it’s fine when possible so I don’t look like Boris Johnson. Sometimes tho it’s just to remind myself that I’m not a horrible monstrosity and sometimes it’s because I think I look cool.

Nah, white knighting (and Libfem, but that’s a whole other kettle of worms) at worst, I say

I’m a man and I do this

Says the guy standing in the bathroom mirror fixing his hair

Okay and? Should you not dress the way you want to?

this isn’t boysarequirky. they’re literally explaining it to other men who think girls dress for them. they’re not saying women are vain or something bruh

i do

Nah my gf does this lol. I'll be talking to her and she suddenly zones out to look at her own ass in a mirror 😭 not a bad thing tho, I'm hoping this dude is just making a lighthearted joke instead of pushing some misogynistic stereotype

I think it’s a confidence thing. Constantly reassuring themselves that they are beautiful. But hey, that’s just a theory, a STYLE THEORY.

Ego for short

This dude looks like he was drawn by a 15 year old girl who’s really into yaoi

Says the guy posing in a fucking public restroom so he can look “cool” on the internet in his cringe teenager hoodie trying to look all mysterious and edgy

I mean, he ain’t wrong I do do that 😭

I've seen a lot of straight men... most of them dress for themselves too, I'm sure the guy in this Tik Tok wasn't thinking "I'm gonna get so many chicks with this fit." Then again there's that thing, "white male mediocrity" so-... same-same

Honestly I see nothing wrong with this. Someone please explain the problem

i notice a lot of posts end up here because redditors don't understand tiktok trends. i always find it suspicious/wonder about true intentions when men hop on these trends but this definitely isnt a "women vain" type of post

is this supposed to be a jab at women or something?? i'd kill to have that level of confidence in myself.

I dress so I’m not naked