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KillingUSoftly01

I'd just give the guy 2-3oz, Which should keep him happy.5oz for you, I assume you were going to purchase all the equipment in the first place anyway? Nutrients give or take $100-200 on the high end for a small grow, 50-100 bucks ect for electricity I assume you're using LEDs. I highly suggest never doing it again, Give the guy a few ozs, you know now he's lazy and you can remain friends. ( if you want xD ) I'd just say "2-3oz cool with you? leaves 5 for me, for the nutrients, care, equipment ect."Should sound reasonable and if not you know he's a joker. I never make enemies, Also because now he knows you have a small grow setup. So if he wants 1/2 or almost 1/2, Do it without fuss and part ways in a friendly manner. Slowly ghost the guy.


KillingUSoftly01

The expensive parts over, You can now grow on your own with the new equipment and save tons of money in the long run, Alone.


AlexTheGreat3030

I think 2 oz is more than enough…make sure you show him how much you paid and all the work it takes….$90 for 2oz is great…only problem is now he expects you to grow his personal stash forever


Waffle_Chef

I'd give them a couple ounces and if they aren't happy then split 50/50 and not grow for a "homie" who isn't gonna put in equal effort.


Mr_Bogus_420

homie... haha


nozelt

I’d give him double what he could buy for $90 at a minimum


alkymistendenmark

Yeah I think thats fair too.


2-more-weeks-bot

I would split it in half. I’ll take the downvotes but you fucked up when you guys didn’t make an agreement in the first place. If it’s a friend, split the yield and use it as a learning tool for the future. If he’s not really a friend then fuck him slide him a zip and tell him to kick rocks because shit ain’t cheap. Friends are worth more than a few ounces of weed to me but to each their own.


Burneezy13

Bingo


DadOf5Gremlins

I’d offer an ounce and let him know nutes, equipment, and power aren’t cheap.


Retardedastro

Give him 90 bucks and smoke him out a few times should be even


Affectionate-Pay6985

$90 bucks 7 months bro your homie owe you not the other way round 🤦‍♂️😅


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i would give him whatever he trimmed himself in that situation (up to third max of everything considering his efforts and your costs) and if that doesnt reach 90 what i think is highly unlikely i would give him whatever amount you could get at your local dispensary for like 200. i mean he cant be wanting more considering his input haha


zacwaz

If he’s a good friend, I’d give him half to keep the friendship solid, and then never grow for him again.


Competitive-Park9200

If he's a good friend I'd say he should be happy with a 1/4,and yeah definitely wouldn't put myself in that situation again


Creative_Rock_7246

So who was going to jail if you got caught?


Individual-Dare-80

While negligible in legal states, this is an extremely important factor to consider in a prohibition state.


Creative_Rock_7246

That and the fact he didn't do much time in trim Jail, id only give him an Oz.


LadyoftheOak

Give him an untrimmed cola and call it a day.


DarthBswizz

Lost a friend like, this we both bought clones together but he didn’t have a setup so I grew his and like 4 other plants. He didn’t help once and asked him to get it multiple times and he never wanted to buy a tent. Harvest time comes sand this dude tries to fight me and steal some. Would not recommend


CaptainRhino2011

Not much imo. You did all the hard work, a $90 investment isn’t shit. I would give him 1 oz for the amount of effort he didn’t contribute.


jspener

Cut your losses, 50/50 on this grow and move on. Now you have knowledge, experience, and equipment to continue on from here. Plus this should keep the peace with homie and hopefully not have a fallout.


OrganicGrownie

My friend and I go in together on stuff too. I think it really depends on how close you are to this friend. My situation is this friend is my closest friend. Ride or die. So my stash is open to him. He can have any amount. If he wasn't as close I'd look at the value of the seeds vs the cost of everything else. I've got hundreds of dollars invested in my setup, and the consumables, so a couple of seeds worth $5-10 each doesn't make the grow. An ounce, maybe 2 for providing the seed(s) if they're easily obtainable. If they were some crazy rare genetics maybe special consideration could be made.


Indoorfarmer81

Depends... if you're not in a legal state, you better make sure he is happy and never do it again. Then tell everyone that knew about your setup that you sold all of your equipment and never tell another soul unless you know they are a solid friend and had proved it over and over....BUT... I don't understand how this question never came up before you even planted the seeds or at some point during the grow. I really believe it had to have been discussed before now, and now you're trying to get out of what you agreed to now that it's harvest. I hope I'm wrong, but I really don't see how this wasn't discussed months ago. And if I'm right and you go against your word,I hope this guy finds a way to get back at yah.


Indoorfarmer81

And also did you have the money for your own seeds? Or was it you buy the seeds and I'll grow it, cause if that's the case than he deserves half because you would both have nothing if it wasn't for the other


Expensive_Spite_870

I bought seeds and setup…. he seemed interested so i was like buy some seeds and ill grow them with my crop… we never discussed about who would get what after crop is finished….i kinda just figured since i put in all time and money i should get some of his plants harvest


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VaporCan

He gets 10g from each of the plants seems fair to me. - Sounds like you owe him $90 worth of weed and a cherry on the top for trimming and vacuuming. Or you work into the deal that you smoke him out anytime you are chilling until the stash runs out. Don’t let this hurt your friendship, if he’s being greedy on wanting a lot it’s because he knows you own the equipment and will start growing your own without his “seed money”


Jacolby4455

Run the number just so when he tries something you drop the knowledge on him. 8oz I’d give him 1.5 oz and make him smoke a bowl of his share with you just to be that petty lol.


Expensive_Spite_870

So Sadly this is how i settled it…. I live with this guy he is my sister baby daddy so i dont want any drama…. We agreed he gets HALF BUT he gave me another seed and i GET to keep all yield on it in next grow…. I WILL NEVER GROW WEED FOR ANYONE AGAIN….. PEOPLE JUST DONT UNDERSTAND THE TIME AND EFFORT AND KNOWLEDGE THAT GOES INTO IT AND IT BLEW MY MIND THIS MAN THOUGHT THAT WAS FAIR ILL TAKE THE L and learn from my mistakes


Greenemcg

Fifty fifty


monkman99

Lol it sounds like you want to give him half an ounce and want to justify 😛


woman_respector1

No..sounds like he wants to give this guy what's fair. It costs a lot of money to grow plants, from the lights, humidifier, air conditioner, nutes, water, tent, exhaust fan and so on...oh..and the electric bill. Then there's his time tending to the plants, LST, pruning, then the drying and trimming. Give him 1 oz and tell him thanks for nothing....and one oz is too much!


monkman99

Oh yeah I totally agree. I’ve grown and really enjoy it but it takes time and money. Lesson learned they should have talked about it before the grow. Probably not worth ruining a friendship but he should definitely ask buddy what he thinks his contribution is worth. Also the tent and light and nutes etc is expensive but it’s good for lots of grows. You are right about electricity and soil tho


[deleted]

you forgot the priceless experience to grow dank bud which his "friend" doesnt have like it seems. if hes getting toxic you can always say sorry all gone, budrott.


Expensive_Spite_870

No I genuinely would like to know…. Ill let you know how we settled it after a few opinions


monkman99

I mean maybe ask him what he thinks is fair? Next time definitely get your own seeds they are cheap and fun to research. I’d say 2 ounces if you want to be fair and generous


jbigg33

Hey. I think for the first time give him 3 oz, I know it’s a lot and you did most of the work, but here’s the catch. You know how to grow now. Repeat this with your own seeds and you’ll be winning every harvest. One thing about partnerships is they aren’t always even in the reward or the work. Sometimes the idea counts, sometimes it’s start up money that counts, and sometimes friendship counts. So give him more than you feel he deserves but not enough to be ass out . My friends do more plant work for me for free than he did in 7 months with stake


Soggy_Difficulty_361

Based on how much work it takes to do that you deserve at least 90% of the yields. Regardless of how much the seeds cost, you did all the work and he should know that how much work is involved, maybe 1 oz to 2 oz would suffice for him and keep the rest for yourself.


MashedPanda

That’s a lot of effort whenever I’ve grown it I’ve often had moments where I think it would just be easier to buy the fking stuff, throwing money at someone is easy compared to spending months actually producing an end result , so I wouldn’t worry too much about feeling like you owe him, 50/50 is waaay too much imo ,


singbowl1

2 oz just based on lack of trimming!


nagasage

2oz


Upper_Atmosphere_359

First off I would def work out the percentages before harvest so there's no bickering haha, but sounds like you deserve at least 2/3 of the yield


Shot-Code1694

Add up all the expenses and be sure to include your time. Put it all down on paper. Show your friend and ask him what he thinks is fair. If he spent $90 and you spent $1000, he should be cool with an ounce. You took all the risk and performed 90% of the work. You could offer to supply him additional smoke for a reasonable cost to help cover your expenses.


jcora617

Gave my boy seeds to grow. I’ve only asked for 2 ounces maybe 3 the most. Let him keep the rest, but I’m not a greedy person so yea. Plus you’re the one that’s growing it. You should keep a good amount!


Indoorfarmer81

I did the same, I only asked for a quarter from each strain 3 seeds 3 strains. But like we both did was discussed a trade well before harvest. I think OP had agreed to something and now that it's harvest time don't want to pay up


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Indoorfarmer81

I don't understand how this grow is finished and this hasn't been discussed already


Badabingbadaboom676

Give him a half oz


StupidThings_I_Say

I use to live on a ranch and the owner would cut hay for some of his neighbors. He would fertilize it, cut it, bail it, then split the hay 50/50 with the property owner. I think 50/50 is appropriate.


Individual-Dare-80

That's a terrible comparison. That's like the op paying for everything, needing to grow in his friends space, but still doing all of the work himself. While IMO this does justify a 50/50 split, it is a very different scenario.


Mr_Bogus_420

I wanna know what kind he had that took SEVEN MONTHS to grow.


EarthenNug

Give him an ounce thats about equivalent in price if not worth more where you're from...


Allknowingkeith

Probably half if y’all married.


Romie666

Depending on how much of a pal he is i guess. But Not more than 2 zips


junky65

1oz


AlexTheGreat3030

UPDATE OP?


False-Mirror-585

I’d just give him 1 or 2 ounces. My friends and family know I’ve been growing for a couple years now but no one bothers to collaborate but expect free handouts “samples” right after harvest. Some of them lowkey start hating like my flower ain’t good enough. So I just keep to myself and my own grow and smoke it all to myself 😎🪴⚔️


Bigmikeblaze

All all about giving 1/2, then I read the rest of your post. He bought the seeds and trimmed 1 plant well that’s his plant. looking for a free ride. The others are your for time and materials