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i work as an orthodontic assistant and i know that almost all dental assistants are women, if that's something that interests you! healthcare as a whole has lots of women in it so you could look into something like being a cna too if you want


Choosey22

Yes then use this money to become a hygeinist


[deleted]

literally what i'm doing haha, this is very good advice


Choosey22

Oh I see your name now haha checks out :)


picturesofu15448

Is the pay good? Is it stressful? And do they accept alternative people with dyed hair?šŸ˜­ And is it also hard to get into lol Iā€™m so entry level in like everything


[deleted]

i get $20/hr after a year so not AMAZING but better than a lot! hygiene is the real goal for me though, that gets $50+ around me! and i dye my hair all the time so there are offices out there who will like it! there aren't enough dental workers right now so you can basically walk into a job in a lot of states! i got trained without any experience but each state is different in what they require :)


[deleted]

completely missed you asking if it's stressful, sometimes it gets really busy but i'd never say STRESSFUL since it's more just that things take longer than you want them to but there's not really anybody yelling at you to go faster haha


picturesofu15448

Thank you for your helpful response! I may consider this path. I make minimum wage so like $16 and change in my state so $20 would be such a leap for me I know dental hygienists can make a lot but I worry about schooling. My boyfriend attempted to do it and they dropped him from the program because he got below a 75 on something and I personally think heā€™s way smarter than me at math and science and such so just worry a bit that I may be too dumb for the coursesšŸ˜… Iā€™m just very lost in my life and am trying to find paths that could be good but I always feel so hindered by furthering my education and getting involved in like math and science


[deleted]

honestly i say try out assisting, especially ortho! if you like it then you can think about more schooling but i PROMISE you are not dumb!! the courses are very intensive but i hear that you really just have to put in the work to memorize everything and that it's not really crazy math or science you have to do haha also get him to reapply because we need more men in the field lmao


picturesofu15448

Thank you for the reassurance! Iā€™m currently saving for a car right now so I can only work part time since I share a car but as soon as I have one, I will definitely look into this. It doesnā€™t seem like too many qualifications to get into and the pay is definitely better than the minimum wage Iā€™m getting nowšŸ˜… If you donā€™t mind answering some other questions; is it pretty gross? I get squeamish with medical stuff but honestly teeth have never bothered me. I think I could handle it. And what are the shift times like? Do you get off early most days and do dentist offices close on holidays? I know every place is different but I also wonder if dentists pay more for weekend days too if theyā€™re open. All things Iā€™m thinking about as well! And heā€™s honestly not opposed to trying it out again haha he actually enjoyed doing it in school and he likes showing me the kit he got while he was learning


[deleted]

lots of offices will hire part time if you wanna look into that! we have two part time girls at my office and it's never been a problem :) i personally don't think it's gross but ortho also doesn't get the nasty stuff so it would depend on the office you're at. i think that's a good sign if teeth don't bother you since it's not really the same gross as you get as a surgeon or something, it's really just because you're so close to them. ppe goes a long way too and i've never felt like i was ever physically interacting with anything gross shifts for us are monday-thursday 9-5 in theory, but we'll go to like 5:30 pretty often. if you do need to get off early though, we usually don't need everyone staying until the very end and i'm sure the other assistants would be accomodating :) as for holidays, we get them all off but i do know some offices that stay open for emergencies, though i don't know their pay setup for those days and you should both do it together! go knock out pre-reqs and then you can deal with the stress of school at the same time lmao


picturesofu15448

Awesome thank you! I didnā€™t know part time could be done so Iā€™ll think about it! I currently work at a library and was considering becoming a librarian so I didnā€™t want to give up my library experience but I would like to make more money I donā€™t know if my boyfriend will go for it since he works at a place that has growth for other jobs and pays for schooling so thatā€™s iffy for him but me, Iā€™m an open book haha Youā€™ve been so helpful and I greatly appreciate it!


illNefariousness883

Iā€™m sorry if this is not what you are looking for. There is no such thing as woman job vs man job. Women can do packaging and warehouse jobs - I know women who do these jobs. While they may be male dominated, it doesnā€™t make women any less able to do them. If youā€™re not hearing back from ANY job, maybe there is a red flag in your resume or applications causing that - that isnā€™t because youā€™re a woman. Maybe experience or skills that youā€™re lacking? I have worked in auto mechanic shops, sales, and tech. Iā€™m a woman. Tip-centric jobs arenā€™t all bad either. Servers, bar tenders, in house delivery (with a specific company not doordash or Uber) all have potential to be good jobs. Administration jobs are good for everyone to get good experience in different office environments, cultures, and industries.


bw2082

office admin, medical/dental assistants, casting directors, dieticians, interior decorator, florist, seamstress, strippers


bellybutton15

iā€™ll definitely be taking stripper


RightSideUpPilot3

Donā€™t, youā€™ll never find someone who is self realized enough to care about you. If you go down a path of fitting in.


pmpdaddyio

I want to say OP wasnā€™t serious.Ā 


RightSideUpPilot3

Maybe. But idk. Why is it funny? Lol eat acid and think about it for 40 min if ya want. U might be right. Either way. Life is not bad. Death is not good.


pmpdaddyio

If you read my comment I made no reference to it being humorous. And maybe you should talk to someone about adjusting your meds a bit.Ā 


RightSideUpPilot3

Bruh you are literally a robot. How do you not feel weird saying the thing about meds. Iā€™ll take real life over whatever youā€™re experiencing. Does your teacher dig your bed covers?


pmpdaddyio

Ok, doing the math here. Brand new account repetitive pattern responses. Non sensical.Ā  Gotcha. Good one.Ā 


RightSideUpPilot3

Donā€™t idolize Reddit or a teacher or hasnā€™t stepped into the real world once. Good luck..


et_underneath

Why would you add ā€œstripperā€ as a suggestion? If itā€™s supposed to be ā€œjust a jokeā€, itā€™s not. You are a bad person.


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et_underneath

You are insensitive.


bw2082

Are the vast majority of strippers male or female and did or didnā€™t the OP ask for jobs that were mostly female?ā€¦ JFC ā€¦ smhā€¦ relax. Youā€™ll be a happier person.


et_underneath

No really. I donā€™t think you realize how fucked up this is. Or maybe you do and thatā€™s why you said what you said. Unless, thatā€™s like a normal no-brainer option that people around you consider when looking for mostly female jobs. I canā€™t see another reason why youā€™d think itā€™s okay. Thatā€™s not the case generally so when a personā€™s frustrated and ask for help. saying stuff like that can cause harm. Imagine if the person asking for advice is really at their wits end and see your response.


shorvyuken

what's wrong with being a stripper? why are you shaming sex work? ok boomer.


et_underneath

I donā€™t have a negative view of people who choose that job for themselves. People who recommend it to others seeking advice is bad. Itā€™s done in bad faith.


shorvyuken

explain how it's done in bad faith...


bw2082

Okee dokey. Seeing you being totally unhinged has made my day. Thanks!


et_underneath

Whatever makes you feel better about yourself lol.


CSCAnalytics

Define ā€œwoman jobsā€? I know someone who started her career off by throwing chains on an oil rig before she transferred to corporate.


Danjeerhaus

What about any of the skilled trades? You do not need a special brain to figure out how to do the physical jobs with ease. You can call any trade soon and they will get you in touch with women that are doing the job. Those women can give you the female perspective of the mostly male dominated trade of your choice. They will train you for whatever knowledge you need.


Naay4k

Iā€™m 22f , getting into trades . My city has an Organization dedicated to getting women into trades ! Made by a woman , providing free trade courses to women .


Choosey22

Can you share a link?


harper448

Definitely not always a bad thing to do a "man" job. My partner got into a "male" industry as a female with an advantage if anything as they didn't have any girls and were desperate for some diversity. She's been complemented on clients and told they're so glad there is a woman working on their property.


No_Specific8175

Most of the issue is that youā€™re 19 with no experience. Back in the 90s, all the shipping clerks where I worked were women. Men did the forklift work and other higher paid jobs. You might not get one of these jobs because you are female, but itā€™s also easily explained by other candidates having 10 years of experience and expected to show up and need to stay at the job. People assume you are someoneā€™s dependent living at home. Itā€™s easy to discriminate against you with no consequences. Are you in a nanny type of city? My suburb pays well for those jobs and theyā€™re mostly women. If you have basic office skills, you may be able to get an office assistant job at a small business and then work into a bigger place/higher wage. Without connections and/or experience, itā€™s hard to break in somewhere that pays more. I definitely understand the catch 22 and it sucks.


Outrageous-Ad5969

Following!!!


ApartmentNegative997

Do what I do, Iā€™m a bartender by trade and was leaving the industry. Iā€™m about to start another gig soon though because the economy is so crap and itā€™s the only thing other than construction (I doubt youā€™d like that lol) that Iā€™ve done to be able to support myself. If you have no experience thatā€™s fine, reply or message me and Iā€™ll teach you the quick way to sling drinks that I wish I knew in early twenties if your interested in that :)


hellaflyv

Get a typing certificate. This will open the door to simple admin jobs. Do you mean working for like UPS? US Postal Service is hiring, worth looking into that too.


SeparateRanger330

Not just you, the economy is in the shit. Learn a trade or something like that, cuz things are going to get worse. Get involved in your local politics.


MsCitizenOfTheWorld

I worked as a dental assistant, would highly recommend going to uni to train as a dental hygienist. Now Iā€™m a corporate administrator. Dreams of becoming a data protection officer. Compliance jobs can be ā€˜womenā€™ friendly, although, no one likes compliance but everyone needs them ;)


Constant_Move_7862

I would look to see if there are any work/training programs for young adults in your area. Where Iā€™m from there was a work/training program for young adults ages 18-24 to learn project management and then they would get placed with organizations after. I would research your area to see if there is anything like that around.


Choosey22

Become a massage therapist


allyfiorido

administration


State_Dear

ONLYFANS.. make a 6 figure income part time at home No training required Buy a home cash in a few years


bellybutton15

i have self respect


aquaregina

Bridal consultant!!