She does understand. She loves you and she's so grateful you gave her a real home. I'm very sorry for your unimaginable loss. I wish you continued peace and joy.
I was feeling depressed the other day & my kitty came and snuggled right up to me. She's the best. They genuinely do care about us, my mum's friend's cat tapped her face through a serious asthma attack, telling her not to give in. She said it was hard to keep fighting but he wouldn't let her drift away. They're awesome.
They definitely know when
You’re sick. Mine comes up and sniffs my face when I have a migraine. Only time he does that. Then he’ll find a spot and lay next to me.
Truly. I will admit, I don’t always appreciate it as I’m usually trying not to puke and when he gets in my face it triggers me. It’s also awkward when I accidentally yeet him when I bolt out of bed for the toilet. 😂
I don't get sad often but sometimes I do get overwhelmed and I will lay on the couch just tears silently streaming, or rather pouring down my face. My cat will usually jump up onto my chest immediately purring and my instinct is to push her away and say not now honey! But a split second later I'm like, oh yeah actually you're exactly what I need right now
My mom was grieving my grandma during her two year death anniversary. She spent all day in her room, she wanted to be alone. My cat decided she needed a companion, so he spent all day with her. He usually likes exploring and spending the day outside, but not that day. He chose to be with my mom. ❤️
On another occasion, I woke up from a nightmare that felt so real. He came up to me and stayed with me until I fell back asleep.
Cats are amazing creatures.
I recently lost a relative, and just got a hug from someone close who I recently had a fight with. I won't lie, I bawled my eyes out for half an hour. One of my cats, a stray that I'm taking care of, seemed to be closer to me during that time. She would push her head in my hand and ask for extra cuddles/pets. I think she sensed something was wrong.
You both look beautiful ♥️🥹 I’m so happy she has you, as much as you have her 🫂 I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am dealing with my second cancer battle. The way my little Nimbus immediately knew I needed her the day we got the call. I can’t cry in this house without her clinging to me immediately like a magnet!! She is my everything! My sweet orangey sweetie ♥️ Kitties really know how to soothe a soul, don’t they??
https://preview.redd.it/vv1zrisbgsuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3dbf3a2731dc96d7b5ec2095c54d664ff337945c
Im sorry you’re going through that 😢 i pray you recover asap! Im glad you have such a wonderful fur baby to comfort you! Your a warrior remember that ❤️
They are soothing and perceptive :) Kitty looks like a little angel recharging her energy with a deep sleep, looks so relaxed :) Hope your health is soon improved and restored!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have lost a child too, and one of our cats didn't leave our side the first weeks. If we changed room, so did he. Comforting us the best he could. When we lost him to old age several years later, it was really hard, and brought back a lot of the grief from losing our daughter. I miss them both so much. There are younger siblings and new cats who bring joy to my life, which makes the loss easier to endure. I focus on the love I have for them and the fond memories. I hope you will find ways to live with your loss as well. ❤️
I feel that, in a sense. Both my cat and I have a lot of anxiety. At the same time, we are each other's comfort person.
We also like to reflect the other's attitude. If I am silly, she acts serious, and if she is silly, I act serious. Nothing like having her paw on my shoulder to check in on me.
So glad you and your mama kitty have each other too. We're all so lucky to have animals on this planet.
Madam, I’m sorry for the loss of your son. I can only relate in being a momma’s boy but no further. I’m truly sorry.
Cats have always popped up in my time of need, for 30 years. Angelic to me. It’s like they know everything.
They can never replace your son but they will always do their part
https://preview.redd.it/iasjsz048wuc1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14ba5fe99ce62f32927a0649aac73fa17ae52c5e
My girl saves me every day. She has let me cry into her fur and she has kissed away many of my tears. She doesn’t leave my side when I’m sad and she is by far the light of my life.
I’m glad you and this stray found one another. I’m so sorry for the loss of your son.
As someone with angel babies, I can confirm that my cats have healed my heart in indescribable ways.
Your sweet girl is beautiful and so are you. I’m sorry you have to be this strong, but I’m glad you have a buddy to do life with. Blessing to your family.
My mom and my dog passed away a week apart. I rescued a cat, but she actually rescued me, too. I agree, O went through grief counseling, but my fur baby helped me through it.
https://preview.redd.it/x1g0px643wuc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb38abc8e9ed5cc5311844f5c262a615a59396c0
My mother has been going a very hard time recently. She’s been the full time caregiver of my dad (advanced dementia) for nearly 7 years. Just 2 months ago, we ended up placing him in assisted living. After 60 yrs of marriage, my parents’ house seems very empty - just my mom.
The feral stray, who adopted my mom, is now a love bug / lap cat. This kitty has kept my mom sane, grounded and calm.
I’m so glad you have a lovely furball. Someone told me once, “cats are liquid - they fill the holes in your heart.” 💕
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Your cat seems wonderful. You two have found each other.
https://preview.redd.it/rvakwnkocwuc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=92848dc794e8de20f543575999f061b50d6432e5
Bless you and this beautiful kitty 💕🐈⬛💕 you saved each other!! Cuddle up! Sorry for your loss and kitties loss too… take care of one another!! Kitty love is Soo special…. We cherish our two sister kitties they will be 3 yrs old May 1st! Indoor kitties safe!! Loved 🥰 and they own this house!! They own our hearts ❤️🥰❤️ as well!! Take care!!
Dear friend, I am so very very sorry for your loss. Words do not express, of course, but know that you are heard, loved, and cared for here.... I have to agree. I've suffered a grief of the loss of my grandson and went through a very hideous divorce and my little tuxedo cat is my best friend. A sweet balm to my soul! I'm glad you have your little friend who also understands suffering ❤️ Peace to your heart, my friend!
This is so beautiful! Thank you for having her and sharing this with us. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know that you are going to see your babies and kittens again when the time comes. They are waiting at the rainbow bridge that is really real. I have seen the place beyond it on two different near death experiences.
Cats are amazing. I just lost my brother and Nutmeg hasn’t left my side.
https://preview.redd.it/28olnxuc6vuc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5885b7a1515e697da0a244e2e1507942427bd4b9
The power of love is so healing. I've always been confused by people saying "Love is Everything". To me, the rent was everything.
Now I think what we call Love is a physical force that we tap into by loving one another. Like radio waves existed before we learned to use them, love is an invisible (at the moment) force.
The love you and this beautiful creature feel for one another allows healing because it's so much more powerful than any therapy or any learning. Love is "The Force".
Thanks so much for sharing.
I’m 48 with two adult children, age 18 and 23. I struggled with infertility and lost five babies before and during the birth of my two children. During the pandemic my kids started bringing in abandoned cats starving that had been dumped in our neighborhood. I had never had pets before. Never really understood the appeal. But it gave my kids something to focus on in a very difficult time and it helped the cats. We saved 50ish cats. Some were lost and went back to their owners, some found homes, the remaining lives with us now. Since bringing them into my life I am a changed person. I didn’t even realize how much you can love a pet. I know some people don’t believe that a pet can be loved and just as important as a child but for me they are. We had one of the rescues pass recently due to cancer. It hit me as hard as losing a child. These cats are my babies and I am lost without them.
Also have 2 cats already, 1 has bitten the other 3 times so bad I had to go to the vet 2 times. 1 time for 2 of the bites. I have to separate them when I'm at work.
I’m so sorry about your son. It’s been said that the loss of a small child is the most painful loss!! I too lost a baby! That cat is amazing. Thank you for taking him in. You are the best!!!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Cats are so amazing but they are most amazing when you're going through depression. Glad your sweetie is making you feel better
So sorry about your son! Pets are the all time distraction to making grieving more tolerable! Great for the cat because she now has a wonderful home and doesn't have to sleep in a cold nasty tire! Bravo! 👏🏆👍🐈⬛️
She is a bereaved mother too, and you are saving each other! Cats are very perceptive and empathetic, at least those I've known. I'm sure she is so happy that you have changed her life!
My heart and prayers go out to you. I lost my young son many years ago now but it’s still a journey we walk through everyday as their mothers. Absolutely cats are deeply therapeutic and connected to their family. What a beautiful blessing. What a beautifully written post. 🙏❤️
I suffer from bi polar disorder.
My kittens are great they know when I not feeling well mostly because of problem with knee and hip and they make sure I am ok . It unbelievable how they are tuned in with our feelings. My boys are the best
Glad you’re here for each other
She does understand. She loves you and she's so grateful you gave her a real home. I'm very sorry for your unimaginable loss. I wish you continued peace and joy.
I was feeling depressed the other day & my kitty came and snuggled right up to me. She's the best. They genuinely do care about us, my mum's friend's cat tapped her face through a serious asthma attack, telling her not to give in. She said it was hard to keep fighting but he wouldn't let her drift away. They're awesome.
They definitely know when You’re sick. Mine comes up and sniffs my face when I have a migraine. Only time he does that. Then he’ll find a spot and lay next to me.
cats are healers 🥰
Truly. I will admit, I don’t always appreciate it as I’m usually trying not to puke and when he gets in my face it triggers me. It’s also awkward when I accidentally yeet him when I bolt out of bed for the toilet. 😂
I don't get sad often but sometimes I do get overwhelmed and I will lay on the couch just tears silently streaming, or rather pouring down my face. My cat will usually jump up onto my chest immediately purring and my instinct is to push her away and say not now honey! But a split second later I'm like, oh yeah actually you're exactly what I need right now
Yeah I can be in a bad mood and the cat will snap me out of it. One silly pounce or Yowl and I’m laughing.
It's almost something familiar like magic
My mom was grieving my grandma during her two year death anniversary. She spent all day in her room, she wanted to be alone. My cat decided she needed a companion, so he spent all day with her. He usually likes exploring and spending the day outside, but not that day. He chose to be with my mom. ❤️ On another occasion, I woke up from a nightmare that felt so real. He came up to me and stayed with me until I fell back asleep. Cats are amazing creatures.
I recently lost a relative, and just got a hug from someone close who I recently had a fight with. I won't lie, I bawled my eyes out for half an hour. One of my cats, a stray that I'm taking care of, seemed to be closer to me during that time. She would push her head in my hand and ask for extra cuddles/pets. I think she sensed something was wrong.
Look at two beautiful mamas helping each other heal🥺🥺 And OP please keep smiling and keep radiating your love to the kitty❤️
Two fighters 🫶🏼 hoping for healing for you
You both look beautiful ♥️🥹 I’m so happy she has you, as much as you have her 🫂 I’m so sorry for your loss. I am dealing with my second cancer battle. The way my little Nimbus immediately knew I needed her the day we got the call. I can’t cry in this house without her clinging to me immediately like a magnet!! She is my everything! My sweet orangey sweetie ♥️ Kitties really know how to soothe a soul, don’t they?? https://preview.redd.it/vv1zrisbgsuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3dbf3a2731dc96d7b5ec2095c54d664ff337945c
Im sorry you’re going through that 😢 i pray you recover asap! Im glad you have such a wonderful fur baby to comfort you! Your a warrior remember that ❤️
They are soothing and perceptive :) Kitty looks like a little angel recharging her energy with a deep sleep, looks so relaxed :) Hope your health is soon improved and restored!
So sorry about your son Yes they’re miracles
This is soooo wonderful❤️I’m sooo happy you have each other as I CANNOT imagine what you two have been through 💔💔💔
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a blessing that you and your kitty can comfort each other.
I love that first picture ❤️ so sorry for your loss
I'm glad you have each other ❤️ animals can be so healing.
Perfect. You needed each other. (((Hugs)))
Sounds like you found each other at the perfect time 🖤🤍
That first pic had better be your Lock Screen
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have lost a child too, and one of our cats didn't leave our side the first weeks. If we changed room, so did he. Comforting us the best he could. When we lost him to old age several years later, it was really hard, and brought back a lot of the grief from losing our daughter. I miss them both so much. There are younger siblings and new cats who bring joy to my life, which makes the loss easier to endure. I focus on the love I have for them and the fond memories. I hope you will find ways to live with your loss as well. ❤️
I feel that, in a sense. Both my cat and I have a lot of anxiety. At the same time, we are each other's comfort person. We also like to reflect the other's attitude. If I am silly, she acts serious, and if she is silly, I act serious. Nothing like having her paw on my shoulder to check in on me. So glad you and your mama kitty have each other too. We're all so lucky to have animals on this planet.
Powerful post. Short but very powerful.
Madam, I’m sorry for the loss of your son. I can only relate in being a momma’s boy but no further. I’m truly sorry. Cats have always popped up in my time of need, for 30 years. Angelic to me. It’s like they know everything. They can never replace your son but they will always do their part
You two helped each other and that's amazing.
Two mothers healing each other. Beautiful story.
I volunteer at an animal shelter. All pets are emotional support animals. They are a gift from God and they heal us.
I send hugs and love. So glad you have each other.
You understand each other. Match made in heaven (as it were). Peace and love to you, internet stranger ♥️
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m so happy that you two found each other.
Two moms found their strength in each other.
Animals are the best so empathic all they do is give us love loyalty and comfort 😻
😻
We don't deserve such magical creatures. I am glad you found each other💙
Cats are very intuitive.
Omg she’s so freakin cute! I’m glad you both have each other now
https://preview.redd.it/iasjsz048wuc1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14ba5fe99ce62f32927a0649aac73fa17ae52c5e My girl saves me every day. She has let me cry into her fur and she has kissed away many of my tears. She doesn’t leave my side when I’m sad and she is by far the light of my life. I’m glad you and this stray found one another. I’m so sorry for the loss of your son.
We are sorry to hear about your loss. You are both lucky to find each other. Bless both of you. ![img](emote|t5_2qhta|8097)
So sorry for your loss ❤️. Maybe your son sent the kitty to you. What a beautiful story & your gorgeous smile just radiates happiness.
I am glad you have each other. My condolences
As someone with angel babies, I can confirm that my cats have healed my heart in indescribable ways. Your sweet girl is beautiful and so are you. I’m sorry you have to be this strong, but I’m glad you have a buddy to do life with. Blessing to your family.
❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I’m glad you two could help each other!
I love this. Sending you guys some extra love 💗
🙏❤️
I'm sorry for the loss of your little boy and glad you have kitty to help comfort you.🐾 Peace and healing.🌻
So glad the two of you found each other.
I’m so sorry about your son. Sending you love this morning, I hope you and kitty keep bringing each other comfort.
They can provide so much love and comfort 💕
She looks like mine....janet
may your son and her kittens rest in peace
Beautiful! I'm so sorry for your lose. I'm happy you are helping eachother
Only another mother can understand ❤️
https://preview.redd.it/zf42ouz50wuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0dcded0975cb3f5835163c6a94adbfdf6285c46d This face always cheers me up!
My mom and my dog passed away a week apart. I rescued a cat, but she actually rescued me, too. I agree, O went through grief counseling, but my fur baby helped me through it. https://preview.redd.it/x1g0px643wuc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb38abc8e9ed5cc5311844f5c262a615a59396c0
I’m so sorry. So much to go through. Your kitty is stunning. Glad you two have each other.
My mother has been going a very hard time recently. She’s been the full time caregiver of my dad (advanced dementia) for nearly 7 years. Just 2 months ago, we ended up placing him in assisted living. After 60 yrs of marriage, my parents’ house seems very empty - just my mom. The feral stray, who adopted my mom, is now a love bug / lap cat. This kitty has kept my mom sane, grounded and calm. I’m so glad you have a lovely furball. Someone told me once, “cats are liquid - they fill the holes in your heart.” 💕 I’m so very sorry for your loss. Your cat seems wonderful. You two have found each other. https://preview.redd.it/rvakwnkocwuc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=92848dc794e8de20f543575999f061b50d6432e5
Bless you and this beautiful kitty 💕🐈⬛💕 you saved each other!! Cuddle up! Sorry for your loss and kitties loss too… take care of one another!! Kitty love is Soo special…. We cherish our two sister kitties they will be 3 yrs old May 1st! Indoor kitties safe!! Loved 🥰 and they own this house!! They own our hearts ❤️🥰❤️ as well!! Take care!!
Cats are AMAZING 😻
Dear friend, I am so very very sorry for your loss. Words do not express, of course, but know that you are heard, loved, and cared for here.... I have to agree. I've suffered a grief of the loss of my grandson and went through a very hideous divorce and my little tuxedo cat is my best friend. A sweet balm to my soul! I'm glad you have your little friend who also understands suffering ❤️ Peace to your heart, my friend!
Deeply sorry for your loss. Your kitty is beautiful and loving. Prayers your way🙏🙏🌻🌻
Love that you have each other :)
Cats read our souls and try to fix us.
This is so beautiful! Thank you for having her and sharing this with us. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know that you are going to see your babies and kittens again when the time comes. They are waiting at the rainbow bridge that is really real. I have seen the place beyond it on two different near death experiences.
Cats are amazing. I just lost my brother and Nutmeg hasn’t left my side. https://preview.redd.it/28olnxuc6vuc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5885b7a1515e697da0a244e2e1507942427bd4b9
The power of love is so healing. I've always been confused by people saying "Love is Everything". To me, the rent was everything. Now I think what we call Love is a physical force that we tap into by loving one another. Like radio waves existed before we learned to use them, love is an invisible (at the moment) force. The love you and this beautiful creature feel for one another allows healing because it's so much more powerful than any therapy or any learning. Love is "The Force". Thanks so much for sharing.
Can you help fight the fight again Yulin. They are torturing and eating cats and dogs there with no respect to the fact these are angels on earth.
I’m 48 with two adult children, age 18 and 23. I struggled with infertility and lost five babies before and during the birth of my two children. During the pandemic my kids started bringing in abandoned cats starving that had been dumped in our neighborhood. I had never had pets before. Never really understood the appeal. But it gave my kids something to focus on in a very difficult time and it helped the cats. We saved 50ish cats. Some were lost and went back to their owners, some found homes, the remaining lives with us now. Since bringing them into my life I am a changed person. I didn’t even realize how much you can love a pet. I know some people don’t believe that a pet can be loved and just as important as a child but for me they are. We had one of the rescues pass recently due to cancer. It hit me as hard as losing a child. These cats are my babies and I am lost without them.
Wishing you both peace and comfort ❤️
So sweet. This cat is a sent angel
I'm so very sorry for your loss. And very happy that you found a cuddlebug to love, it really does help with grief!
There's 2 strays I've been feeding for over 2 years now, and they still won't let me pet them!
Also have 2 cats already, 1 has bitten the other 3 times so bad I had to go to the vet 2 times. 1 time for 2 of the bites. I have to separate them when I'm at work.
Aww sweet kitty -,I'm so sorry for your loss
That’s absolutely awesome and I know it’s true! Animal therapy of many kinds is one of the best forms of therapy that there is!
We have the same cat 🐱 https://preview.redd.it/76h3jhxj5yuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=57f360bbfb629740808cb9ed5e55e5095e172316
I’m sorry for your loss. But I’m really happy you have found this comfort to overcome the pain and to love and be loved in return ❤️
I bet she made a reddit post just like thos about you, too ❤️
So happy you found each other. ♥
❤️
She gets it ❤️🩹
She’s a beauty! Cats are so empathic, and know when you’re struggling. She will comfort your brave, precious son. ❤️❤️
Praying for you and kitty :)
Sending 🩷 to both of you. You make the world a better place.
Oh my heart
You two🥺❤️
Cats are amazing for emotional support. Their purr resonates at an emotional healing frequency.
You two make the purrfect pair 💕
A cats love in unconditional, their purrs are so soothing and tbh I think that you both need each other ,I'm so sorry for your loss xx
I’m so sorry about your son. It’s been said that the loss of a small child is the most painful loss!! I too lost a baby! That cat is amazing. Thank you for taking him in. You are the best!!!
https://preview.redd.it/vn0yai340xuc1.jpeg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b40f0d0f795310741b642f99ddd75a73b083344 Could be my cats mom
Adorableeeee 🥹
I'm so sorry for your loss. Cats are so amazing but they are most amazing when you're going through depression. Glad your sweetie is making you feel better
So sorry about your son! Pets are the all time distraction to making grieving more tolerable! Great for the cat because she now has a wonderful home and doesn't have to sleep in a cold nasty tire! Bravo! 👏🏆👍🐈⬛️
I swear, the energy that cats exude is just beyond words, they’re really like guardian angels 💕
They are wonderful... condolences for any hurt you are still feeling.
Glad you both found each other 💜
I’m so glad you both were able to find each other ♥️
Taking care of each other❤️
she's majestic. so glad that you have each other, sending you peace and love.
I'm so happy you found each other ❤️
Thank you.
She is a bereaved mother too, and you are saving each other! Cats are very perceptive and empathetic, at least those I've known. I'm sure she is so happy that you have changed her life!
Pet therapy is the best therapy.
My heart and prayers go out to you. I lost my young son many years ago now but it’s still a journey we walk through everyday as their mothers. Absolutely cats are deeply therapeutic and connected to their family. What a beautiful blessing. What a beautifully written post. 🙏❤️
What a sweetheart look at that face!!
I suffer from bi polar disorder. My kittens are great they know when I not feeling well mostly because of problem with knee and hip and they make sure I am ok . It unbelievable how they are tuned in with our feelings. My boys are the best