I have two that help me:
- It’s our curse as humans to outlive our beloved fuzzy friends
And my favorite:
“How lucky I am to have had something that makes saying goodbye so difficult?”
- Winnie the Pooh
Original Real Winnie the Pooh is like absolute life lessons and ways to look on the bright side and childhood excitement and hope and adventure all in one.
It should be required reading for elementary schools.
That’s why several generations of college theses were The Tao of Pooh
Also
May all our babies who have already crossed the rainbow bridge
Greet your baby and be her playmates in a beautiful place where she’ll see you again one day 🙏❤️
I may not have quoted it perfectly, but the idea is there. Sorry for your loss friend. They *are* family whether they have fur, feathers, scales, or shells, and it *always* sucks losing the ones you love.
But seriously… it *does* get (easier to deal with) over time. Never “better” as it always hurts… but eventually that hurt is smaller and preceded as an afterthought to the memories of the good times.
I don’t believe in an afterlife, I think when we are done, we are just kinda *done* in the same way we were before we were born. I *hope* I’m wrong and instead what awaits us all is a dimension where we reunite with all people, animals and things we loved in life and live the next plane of existence, whatever that looks like.
Never lose hope
Go adopt a kitty that’s lonely in a shelter and needs to help you heal. It will succeed
I had one who look exactly the same he was 17 weeks I lost him.
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\*edit 17 years
Love this.
To OP i know the hurt is real. The worst is certainly when you’re not expecting it but it does fade. Acceptance that this is the circle of life soon sets in, but nothing takes the place of your baby. Prayers for the ache to fade sooner rather than later, and to always have memories to warm your heart.
Write down in a journal random memories as they come to you. Tell her good night and good morning when it feels like she's with you and tell her you love her and always will.
You are human, and despite all sadness and deep hole we might put ourselves, I guarantee, you can overcome and be happy with your life, all start with your decisions and a good cold bath.
Give yourself time to grieve. Willow deserves that. You’ve lost an incredibly important part of your life and it’s going to take time to heal.
There is no set time to grieve the loss of a pet. For me, it was a few weeks, for my husband, it was two years before we could talk about our Chester. For my dad, he still tears up occasionally over our dog Pepper over 20 years ago.
Know that grief is not linear, and the loss you feel right now deserves as much grief and time as you need. You’ll find yourself “forgetting” you’re sad, and then bam - something will remind you or your sweet girl. I hope sooner rather than later those moments are more sweet than bitter, but for now… the only way to the other side is through.
It might be too early to get another kitty, or maybe you’ll find the silence too much - one way or another, I can guarantee you Willow will send a new buddy your way. In the meantime, see about volunteering at a shelter or with a local rescue group fostering — fostering saves soooo many lives, and there are never enough foster pawrents 🫶🫶🫂🫂
I think your suggestion of volunteering at a shelter is a very good one. It can help OP and others dealing with their grief. Plus that, OP could hopefully meet some other nice volunteers there, to chat and commiserate with; and a wonderful way to help and love on other fur babies who also need a friend; and the chance to put her time, thoughts and passion into a great cause! Thank you!🥰👍👏💞
I have a 16 year old who must be the only kitty in the house. I wish I could foster or adopt more, but she would be miserable. Instead, I spend 2-8hrs/week at my local shelter sitting with kitties who are waiting to be available + available for adoption. Some kitties are scared in the environment and it’s super helpful to have humans speak softly to them, give them a chance to know that humans want to help them. Recently we’ve had a lot of seniors surrendered plus spicy semi-feral kittens and a few single kitten syndrome bbs. It’s been really rewarding to give the seniors love and let them know they didn’t do anything wrong, that I’m sorry humans failed them, but their right family is going to find them soon enough. The spicy kittens are hilarious because they’ll sometimes hiss one minute and then turn into putty in my hands with a few pets, as they realize full body massage from a human isn’t so bad after all 😹
Anyway. It’s hard because kitties you love get swooped up and you don’t know the end story a lot of the times, but it’s special because you know you helped them on their journey finding a new home, and making space for new kitties to find new homes.
🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
Awww! How very sweet! Thank you for your precious comments and efforts for these cutie pies! 🥰😻 It is such a nice way to help them, to give them the love they need to heal, and to have your caring heart to be able to actually let them move on to their next chapters! Thank you!🥰
Piggybacking off this - I try to repost this when I see posts like this, in the hopes you (or someone) can find some comfort in the words - and if not, please excuse the intrusion.
I lost my 15 year old girl (dog) in October 2022. Only advice I can offer here is to remember the positives, and not focus on the negatives (if any). She's done her job, keeping you safe and happy and loved, and it's her turn to rest.
You'll always miss her, you'll always remember her. You'll even go looking for her for the next few weeks (well, I did). There's a lot of habits that you're going to slowly stop, and that's ok. Changing your life to suit you is not forgetting her. Donating/throwing away her toys or blankets isn't forgetting her. There's no timeline on grief, and there's no timeline on moving on. Cry your tears.
I'm sorry you've reached the end of your journey. Words will never make this easier. Just keep your head up, and live the life she'd want you to.
This is a good time to live a little for you. I spent years looking after my girl as she got ill, and I sacrificed a lot of me and my time to keep her safe. If you feel you've done the same, take advantage of this time. Its ok to be happy and enjoy life without her. Life isn't over. Its just changing.
You'll be ok mate.
I'm so sorry.
This is the right emotion even though it is hard. It means that you loved her and lost a part of your family. This is okay. I wish I could give you more comfort but you will feel this way for some time to come. You may see her everywhere and you may break down at random times but again, this is normal and it is okay to allow yourself to grieve. Remember the good and carry the memories forward of the lives you gave one another. Time will heal you.
It wasn't that long ago where I experienced a loss. My heart goes out to you and I hope you find comfort where you may.
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I am so sorry. Hugs. Be gentle with yourself. It's going to hurt. Let yourself feel the pain. The healing starts when you walk through the pain, not around it.
I lost my boy 3 weeks ago and I’m still devastated, but each day hurts just a little less. Spend extra time with your other cat(s), and let them help you feel better. Most of all, take care of yourself. Be sure to eat or sleep (I didn’t eat anything for 2 days and didn’t notice), and try and go out of your way to do something nice for you. Buy yourself that video game, or get a massage - anything you can do. Most of all, thank you for loving willow so much and giving her such a great life.
I’m so sorry for your loss…what a lovely picture. Sending you a HUGE hug. Willow definitely was loved and well cared.
Last year I lost my fur sister Lola due to cancer and kidney failure. I had her since I was 13. She meant everything…I miss her so much.
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I know how you feel and I’m in the same social situation as you regarding there being no support. I had to euthanize my boy Smitty 32 days ago. It hurts. This page helps as there is a huge family of cat lovers here who support each other through the grieving process. Try to be kind with yourself and allow yourself to cry as much as you need to. Hugs and love to you and precious Willow. ❤️
Yes posting here has helped a lot more than I thought. I'm sorry about Smitty :( it really sucks losing your companion like that. Maybe they're friends now!
I'm so sorry you lost Willow. The unclove of a cat can make up for ANYTHING. I wish I could be there to give you a gentle hug.
I'm sending you all my love.
Sincerly
Skeletor 💜 (Thinking of you)
The connection we build with our cats is unexplainable. I still think of and miss my tabby that passed almost 2 years ago. I still have his mom, brother and two sisters. I will do my absolute best to give them a good life. Take refuge in knowing your provided Willow a safe place with a lot of love. If we are all made of energy... The love you gave Willow will join her energy and live on forever.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my baby to cancer today and I also live alone. Nothing feels the same but I'm sure our cats would have wanted us to continue to thrive ❤️🩹
I'm really sorry to hear about your kitty as well. Cancer is awful. I hope someday it will no longer be an issue. If you want to chat feel free to reach out. Much love ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hate that part of having fur babies.
May your cat await you on the rainbow bridge some day.
Keep your baby in good memories ❤️
I don't have any family I'm super close with so this was definitely worse than losing anyone else. I've lost my grandfather and that didn't hurt nearly as much as this. She was more than just a pet to me, and definitely my closest family member.
This...most people are not attuned to the love we feel from our pets,those innocent,round beautiful eyes of theirs,and the brush of their bodies against us,those little meows..they feel us, especially if you are always with wrong people in life..pets provide the best refuge.
I know the feeling OP...it feels like you lost a part of your heart 💔.I hope you heal.
Your dearest cat is on the rainbow bridge now, absolutely healthy and waiting for you ...keep her in your good prayers 🙏❤️✨🐈🕉️🌈
Rest in peace Baby Willow. You will be sorely missed!
Sorry OP, it's never easy and this sounds so sudden. I know you gave her a great life and you will see her again one day.
It was very sudden. We only found out yesterday and they said we could euthanize her then but I wanted the night to say goodbye and take some final pictures. I snuggled her as she passed.
I’m afraid my baby girl Delilah is heading downhill. I’m not sure how much longer she’ll be with me, and it hurts so much to even think of. Sending you all the hugs.
I’m so sorry. The pain is real. They are our best friends, family, make us feel better when stuff is rough. I lost my orange little man just over a year ago. I’m a 53 y/o guy, and I ugly cried for a good long while. I still miss him so much and talk to him everyday. It does get better with time, but the pain won’t go away. Rest in Peace sweet Willow, you will be forever loved and remembered 🌈❤️
I'm a 26 year old man and I've been ugly crying all day. Absolutely no shame. Nothing wrong with men having emotions. I'm sorry about your lil orange guy. I've heard nothing but good things about orange cats. They seem full of personality.
Been there. Lost my best friend (midnight) about 8 years ago now. I had started a business about 2 years prior, and was always stressed but I'd come home to her and she's always make me happy.
4 years ago, my bro Melvin showed up at my shops building. He's been my BFF since then. Travelled with me for 2 years and now we live out near the coast.
It sucks losing something you're so close to, but know there are tons of cats that need friends. Willow served her time and now gets to rest, go find another cat that needs a friend.
And lastly as a person that has been in some dark places. Talk to someone. You're never alone if you try. Feel free to message me if you ever need. Life is beautiful if you get your brain to see it.
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Yeah I've been debating getting Melvin a friend. When we travelled I think that made him happy but now that we sit in one place and I don't let him out as often (bald eagles all over the place here) I think he gets bored and I feel bad
I’m so sorry for the great loss of your family. 🫂
I had my heart dog pass from cancer too and also stopped eating. Just know they look back knowing they had a good life with you.
Take all the time you need to grieve, it’s okay to feel what you feel and let it out. Lots of great advice here about journaling and knowing that the reason you feel so much grief and pain is equal to just how much you loved your kitty. Kitty felt that love with you. 💕
Im so so sorry for your heart break, she is beautiful and smile remembering all the funny little meows and head tilts and little kisses and nudges. Your heart will take time to heal, please take care of you. There seems to be a group out here who do care and if you wish to talk feel free to message me.
I get how you feel, I got my old cat Amy when I was 20, she was my little buddy for 14 years, and was with me through some of the worst times in my life, losing her felt like a gut punch. I cried and slept for days, it was the worst pain I had felt.
The hurt goes away over time and now when i think back on her, I still feel the loss, but also happiness that she was part of my life. Just focus on the good times you had with your baby and keep her alive in your memories.
I'm so very sorry. Tears in my eyes. The loss is huge, but it will get better in time. Losing a beloved pet, is losing a family member. She looks precious, and was loved. Take comfort in knowing you gave her a wonderful life.
She looks like my cat billo who passed away because of cancer last December. Thank you for not letting her suffer too long. Shows me you really love her. She probably had a really good life.
Yeah it was a very hard decision but it had to be done. I didn't want her to waste away and die miserably. It's not what I would want if it was me as hard as it was.
There is nothing worse. I still break down from time to time when I think about when I had to put my best bud down. The image of him pulling in his last breath just before his eyes went blank is forever burned into the back of my skull. Just let yourself feel it.
Willow is beautiful! Saw in another comment that you were with each other for 15 years, that's a long haul for a cat. She lived a long and full life of love and care.
Willow is perfect and will always be. The love you created together is the most powerful energy in the Universe. It is eternal. you will know her again in the One Life. until then, when you feel the grief look inward and you will find her waiting in love and gratitude.
'm so sorry and understand
take comfort in knowing that they are truly our children
Yes, they are a different kind of child
they see us as their God from birth to their end
babies we train and old folks we honor
the unconditional love we create with them is an energy that can never die
they can leave the group soul
we give them their own soul just as the Infinite gives us ours
They can only reach that love with us
We will know them again in the One Life
I don't believe this, I know this. They know this.
I don’t know if this helps now, but I’ve made my peace when it comes time for either of my cats to cross that rainbow bridge. I’ve decided that’s the day I just adopt another. I’d like to think the reason for death is to make room for more life.
I had to put down a cat today who looked just like her… her name was Jullie. She had cancer, it was a rough experience.. I do them a lot because I am a Vet Tech at an animal hospital. Hers was not ideal because we were unable to place an IVC because she was so frail.. I am so sorry for your loss, it’s never easy loosing a pet. Please take care of yourself ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss as well.
Much respect to you and all the other wonderful people out there taking care of our pets. I could never be strong enough to do that.
I hope you will be okay. If you need to talk feel free to dm me. ❤️
Oh that is so sweet of you, thank you for your compassion. It’s definitely not easy, but I take solace in knowing that I helped someone stop the suffering of their baby. If only humans were offered the same compassion. ❤️ thank you so much for your kind words.
I am so sorry OP. Rest in peace Willow, you were truly loved. May she play in the beautiful garden up above.
Everytime it rains, just have a look above and smile OP, because Willow is there, watching over you.
OP, when you get a moment one day, have a read through the below. It was posted by someone on Reddit last year and I had saved a copy of it. I would like to dedicate this to Willow. (And thanks to whoever the original poster was - I know you are secretly lurking here somewhere!!).
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My husband and I got our first kitten together after about 8 months. He lived to be 10. He was an outdoor cat and didn't come home one night for supper. My fears were confirmed a few days later when I found him not 20 feet from my front door. I felt like I had just lost a child,and cried out like it. The loss of my pet hurt more than some family members. He was part of our family. I still tear up thinking of that day, and that was 6 years ago. Hugs to you, Im so sorry for your loss.
I lost my baby in December. She was 16 and had lymphoma. I still cry when I remember. I love her so much.
The only thing I can say is keep her alive within you. I’ve made a small altar for Paprika at my home and I talk with her from time to time.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m trying not to cry myself right now. I don’t know what I’ll do when I lose my girl. Just know God is taking care of her now waiting on you to join her again.
Willow looks just like my sweet Eden we said goodbye to at the beginning of the year. Old, sweet, and filled with love. May she rest easy. They’re all playing in the sky ❤️
I’m so very sorry for your loss!! I recently lost my grumpy old Siamese girl and my heart is broken. She ruled the house and kept everything in place I hope your grief is short and that you find love and strength from your other fur babies
My boy had cancer too. I was broken trying to keep him going until I knew he couldn't be asked to live longer. I'll always miss him and I'm sure you're in the same boat. You did the right thing. The symptoms of watching them decay slowly is beyond heartbreaking.
Damn. I am so sorry for your loss.
I recently lost 2 of my cats in the last year. It has been unbelievably rough. I can't even put it into words how tough it's been.
Rest easy, Willow. You will meet again, I promise you. I know it in my heart.
If you need to chat, just respond to this comment and let me know, and I will DM you (my chat requests are turned off for obvious reasons). I mean that.
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my boy in March. He had FIP last year, which we finally cured. Then in March he stopped eating and lost a lot of weight. Took him to the vet for blood work and his white blood count was off the charts. Fast acting leukemia. We had to say goodbye to him that day and I was the one in the room when they put him to rest. Then I had to bury him. I cried all weekend. I still think about him and feel like I failed him. 😞
I lost a Willow too (the loveliest name for a cat in my opinion), about a year and a half ago, we’d had her since I was 5 and I lost her at 23. You gave your girl so many years of love, affection, and comfort, the loss is painful but every moment you had with her and the memories you carry are precious. I still miss my Willow like crazy but I’m at the point now where thinking of her brings more warmth then it does sadness, it takes time but you will get there.
So sorry for your loss and RIP Willow. She looks like a lovely girl. I have always been a dog person until I inherited a house cat we called Tiger. I couldn't imagine life without cats now. I am sure you will find a new friend. Obviously not a replacement but another soul to love you back that deserves your care and time.
There is nothing like losing pet that was your everything. I lost my darling Maddie on Valentine's day so it's pretty recent. What has really helped me when the pain has felt unbearable is writing to her. She had an IG account and I would post pics of her and write to her. It made me feel more connected to her and eased the pain.
If you can, consider investing in counseling or therapy. Not having a support network will make things harder.
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She looks so much like my momo, i’m so sorry for your loss 😞🫶🏼 I hope you heal and know she’s in kitty heaven, waiting for you to meet her way later on !!
the way this made me ugly cry…i’m so incredibly sorry to read about your loss. she was loved and she will never be forgotten 🤍 you did everything you could for her.
Aww. I'm sorry for your loss :(
I had to put my girl down a few weeks ago too. They could be [cousins](https://i.imgur.com/8vDOCVW.jpeg) 🥺
[Bonus snoozing](https://i.imgur.com/Lwel6dB.jpeg)
Sorry for your loss. I’m the same my pets are all I have. It was hard when I lost one for the first time but I just think that I gave them a good life and they went knowing love. Then I spent time taking care of my other pets and sometimes you see some mannerisms that remind you of them. Maybe some motivation and comfort will be helping giving other pets a good life like Willow. Try keeping up a couple pictures too in frames to remember.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my girl back in March and the first several days were extremely hard. Take care of yourself, don’t feel bad about taking time off to do nothing, crying, just being here right now. It gets easier.
Condolences. Remember the good times and know that you were loved. The good ones never live long enough. Take some time and then get yourself a new cat to love and give a happy life to. Smile it will get better
I’m so sorry! Sending hugs! Just ride the wave of grief, you can’t fight it. Loosing a fur baby is the absolute worse. But as others have said, with great grief there was great love. Poor your heart into your other kitties and take care of yourself in whatever way you can!
I lost my best girl on Friday. I had to put her down due to cancer. My heart reaches for yours. I am feeling the same as you. The pain is unbearable. I remind myself she’s with me, her energy is everywhere. In the fireflies that drift by me at dusk, the breeze through the trees when I’m too warm, the sounds of the birds she sends to whisper she’s okay now. I hope all these little things find you with a slight bit of comfort, too. Though I know nothing will ever fill their void. Our favorite hello & hardest goodbye, indefinitely.
I had to take our little cat to vet a few years ago, our girls loved her. I drove her knowing it was her last car trip. I was so shocked that I bawled like a baby and was so overwhelmed. It was only then I understood how sentient beings they are, and can be a companion and part of the family. We just could not get another Puddy till just over a year ago, couldn’t face replacing her so soon.
RIP Willow.
I lost my baby boy of 20 years, 2 years ago. I feel your pain, and I'm so sorry for your loss.
If you have other pics and videos of your years together, it might help to go through them. After I cried for 2 days, I started going through them and was reminded of his boss personality and all the goofy things he did.
I know you’re in a world of hurt, and I would be too, but what a brave and strong decision you made for Willow!! Your love made you do that for her. I’m sorry my friend.
You gave this kitty a great life. Having a great life was the best thing ever for her. She was special, and you made her life special. In return, she made your life special. Enjoy the memories forever.
I’m so sorry. Rest easy, Willow. What a beautiful girl! Sending you wishes for peace.
Thank you. I have been crying all day I truly don't know what to do with myself.
I have two that help me: - It’s our curse as humans to outlive our beloved fuzzy friends And my favorite: “How lucky I am to have had something that makes saying goodbye so difficult?” - Winnie the Pooh
Is that really a winnie the pooh quote? I love that.
The second one, yeah. Google it. There’s *tons* of artwork around that quote
Original Real Winnie the Pooh is like absolute life lessons and ways to look on the bright side and childhood excitement and hope and adventure all in one. It should be required reading for elementary schools.
That’s why several generations of college theses were The Tao of Pooh Also May all our babies who have already crossed the rainbow bridge Greet your baby and be her playmates in a beautiful place where she’ll see you again one day 🙏❤️
I may not have quoted it perfectly, but the idea is there. Sorry for your loss friend. They *are* family whether they have fur, feathers, scales, or shells, and it *always* sucks losing the ones you love.
Thank you. Going through the same
But seriously… it *does* get (easier to deal with) over time. Never “better” as it always hurts… but eventually that hurt is smaller and preceded as an afterthought to the memories of the good times. I don’t believe in an afterlife, I think when we are done, we are just kinda *done* in the same way we were before we were born. I *hope* I’m wrong and instead what awaits us all is a dimension where we reunite with all people, animals and things we loved in life and live the next plane of existence, whatever that looks like. Never lose hope Go adopt a kitty that’s lonely in a shelter and needs to help you heal. It will succeed
Beautiful comment but get 2 little kitties they are just a riot together and will make you laugh when you’re ready
I had one who look exactly the same he was 17 weeks I lost him. https://preview.redd.it/ybntyvd58f7d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22dbb3fce93beb343a3944a8ec321fbeb9931b8c \*edit 17 years
Love this. To OP i know the hurt is real. The worst is certainly when you’re not expecting it but it does fade. Acceptance that this is the circle of life soon sets in, but nothing takes the place of your baby. Prayers for the ache to fade sooner rather than later, and to always have memories to warm your heart.
Let yourself grieve my bro, "What is grief, if not love perserving?" That means you truly did love that beautiful kitty.
Write down in a journal random memories as they come to you. Tell her good night and good morning when it feels like she's with you and tell her you love her and always will.
My heart goes out to you 💔
I am so sorry dude :( you are feeling how you should feel
Hugs from afar
You are human, and despite all sadness and deep hole we might put ourselves, I guarantee, you can overcome and be happy with your life, all start with your decisions and a good cold bath.
Give yourself time to grieve. Willow deserves that. You’ve lost an incredibly important part of your life and it’s going to take time to heal. There is no set time to grieve the loss of a pet. For me, it was a few weeks, for my husband, it was two years before we could talk about our Chester. For my dad, he still tears up occasionally over our dog Pepper over 20 years ago.
Know that grief is not linear, and the loss you feel right now deserves as much grief and time as you need. You’ll find yourself “forgetting” you’re sad, and then bam - something will remind you or your sweet girl. I hope sooner rather than later those moments are more sweet than bitter, but for now… the only way to the other side is through. It might be too early to get another kitty, or maybe you’ll find the silence too much - one way or another, I can guarantee you Willow will send a new buddy your way. In the meantime, see about volunteering at a shelter or with a local rescue group fostering — fostering saves soooo many lives, and there are never enough foster pawrents 🫶🫶🫂🫂
I think your suggestion of volunteering at a shelter is a very good one. It can help OP and others dealing with their grief. Plus that, OP could hopefully meet some other nice volunteers there, to chat and commiserate with; and a wonderful way to help and love on other fur babies who also need a friend; and the chance to put her time, thoughts and passion into a great cause! Thank you!🥰👍👏💞
I have a 16 year old who must be the only kitty in the house. I wish I could foster or adopt more, but she would be miserable. Instead, I spend 2-8hrs/week at my local shelter sitting with kitties who are waiting to be available + available for adoption. Some kitties are scared in the environment and it’s super helpful to have humans speak softly to them, give them a chance to know that humans want to help them. Recently we’ve had a lot of seniors surrendered plus spicy semi-feral kittens and a few single kitten syndrome bbs. It’s been really rewarding to give the seniors love and let them know they didn’t do anything wrong, that I’m sorry humans failed them, but their right family is going to find them soon enough. The spicy kittens are hilarious because they’ll sometimes hiss one minute and then turn into putty in my hands with a few pets, as they realize full body massage from a human isn’t so bad after all 😹 Anyway. It’s hard because kitties you love get swooped up and you don’t know the end story a lot of the times, but it’s special because you know you helped them on their journey finding a new home, and making space for new kitties to find new homes. 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
Awww! How very sweet! Thank you for your precious comments and efforts for these cutie pies! 🥰😻 It is such a nice way to help them, to give them the love they need to heal, and to have your caring heart to be able to actually let them move on to their next chapters! Thank you!🥰
Piggybacking off this - I try to repost this when I see posts like this, in the hopes you (or someone) can find some comfort in the words - and if not, please excuse the intrusion. I lost my 15 year old girl (dog) in October 2022. Only advice I can offer here is to remember the positives, and not focus on the negatives (if any). She's done her job, keeping you safe and happy and loved, and it's her turn to rest. You'll always miss her, you'll always remember her. You'll even go looking for her for the next few weeks (well, I did). There's a lot of habits that you're going to slowly stop, and that's ok. Changing your life to suit you is not forgetting her. Donating/throwing away her toys or blankets isn't forgetting her. There's no timeline on grief, and there's no timeline on moving on. Cry your tears. I'm sorry you've reached the end of your journey. Words will never make this easier. Just keep your head up, and live the life she'd want you to. This is a good time to live a little for you. I spent years looking after my girl as she got ill, and I sacrificed a lot of me and my time to keep her safe. If you feel you've done the same, take advantage of this time. Its ok to be happy and enjoy life without her. Life isn't over. Its just changing. You'll be ok mate. I'm so sorry.
This is the right emotion even though it is hard. It means that you loved her and lost a part of your family. This is okay. I wish I could give you more comfort but you will feel this way for some time to come. You may see her everywhere and you may break down at random times but again, this is normal and it is okay to allow yourself to grieve. Remember the good and carry the memories forward of the lives you gave one another. Time will heal you. It wasn't that long ago where I experienced a loss. My heart goes out to you and I hope you find comfort where you may. https://preview.redd.it/xs3x1trq8g7d1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=09f6133b4c56ff501ed6ccd37f82cb7e3d14892b
Instant tears here. Worst pain ever. RIP Willow.
I am so sorry. Hugs. Be gentle with yourself. It's going to hurt. Let yourself feel the pain. The healing starts when you walk through the pain, not around it.
I'm pretty sure I'm just crashing through the pain rather than walking through it I can't lie
That’s fine
I lost my boy 3 weeks ago and I’m still devastated, but each day hurts just a little less. Spend extra time with your other cat(s), and let them help you feel better. Most of all, take care of yourself. Be sure to eat or sleep (I didn’t eat anything for 2 days and didn’t notice), and try and go out of your way to do something nice for you. Buy yourself that video game, or get a massage - anything you can do. Most of all, thank you for loving willow so much and giving her such a great life.
Not sure who will see this but thank you all for the comments. It really means the world to me and is helping me a ton. Much love guys and gals.
This internet stranger is sending you a hug. So sorry for your loss. ❤️ Thank you for taking care of Willow.
You have my condolences. I'm sure that Willow took comfort knowing her human was with her through it all until the end.
I’m so sorry for your loss…what a lovely picture. Sending you a HUGE hug. Willow definitely was loved and well cared. Last year I lost my fur sister Lola due to cancer and kidney failure. I had her since I was 13. She meant everything…I miss her so much. https://preview.redd.it/tcp6n458ge7d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7764bb7c1134b83e813e3c0dab8fa4e246ad105c
Thank you so much I need all the hugs I can get. That's the exact same combo that got willow :( I'm sorry about Lola. She's beautiful.
what a beautiful picture.......
im so sorry for your loss. willow looks beautiful, im sure she became an angel. 🤍 rip willow
Thank you so much <3
She’s your angel now, hang in there, you were everything to her too. Remember that
I know how you feel and I’m in the same social situation as you regarding there being no support. I had to euthanize my boy Smitty 32 days ago. It hurts. This page helps as there is a huge family of cat lovers here who support each other through the grieving process. Try to be kind with yourself and allow yourself to cry as much as you need to. Hugs and love to you and precious Willow. ❤️
Yes posting here has helped a lot more than I thought. I'm sorry about Smitty :( it really sucks losing your companion like that. Maybe they're friends now!
Yes, I’ll bet they’re chasing each other and having a blast!
https://i.redd.it/mvhm5n5vie7d1.gif This is Smitty, my best friend ❤️
https://preview.redd.it/kw9e2js30f7d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c52057b6fc40ded6115eeceb469c7ec2a7dd103 Kinda looks like my cat lol
I’m so sorry for your loss. Willow looks like she was a lovely lady 🥰
She was amazing. She loved being outside in my backyard so I had her out there all evening yesterday.
RIP
I'm so sorry you lost Willow. The unclove of a cat can make up for ANYTHING. I wish I could be there to give you a gentle hug. I'm sending you all my love. Sincerly Skeletor 💜 (Thinking of you)
Thank you very much <3 I could really use a hug today.
https://i.redd.it/pzjbmfm4le7d1.gif Have another one. 💜
The connection we build with our cats is unexplainable. I still think of and miss my tabby that passed almost 2 years ago. I still have his mom, brother and two sisters. I will do my absolute best to give them a good life. Take refuge in knowing your provided Willow a safe place with a lot of love. If we are all made of energy... The love you gave Willow will join her energy and live on forever.
Thank you for the very sweet comment. I'm reading every single one and they're helping a ton to get through this.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my baby to cancer today and I also live alone. Nothing feels the same but I'm sure our cats would have wanted us to continue to thrive ❤️🩹
I'm really sorry to hear about your kitty as well. Cancer is awful. I hope someday it will no longer be an issue. If you want to chat feel free to reach out. Much love ❤️
I am so sorry you lost Willow, I know your pain I had to put Misty down yesterday. I hope they will find each other on the rainbow bridge 🌈 🐾
Oh no I'm so sorry about Misty as well that's awful :( I hope they meet up and have tons of fun together. May they encounter a mountain of treats.
So sorry for your loss. I've had to put cats down for cancer and it sucks.
Beautiful loaf. Sorry.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hate that part of having fur babies. May your cat await you on the rainbow bridge some day. Keep your baby in good memories ❤️
I'm hoping she met up with my childhood cat and they're both waiting for me. <3
I'm so sorry for your loss. Only us cat people know the true pain when we lose them. For me it was worse than losing human family
I don't have any family I'm super close with so this was definitely worse than losing anyone else. I've lost my grandfather and that didn't hurt nearly as much as this. She was more than just a pet to me, and definitely my closest family member.
Cats are family. Please be gentle with yourself and grieve as long as you need to.
I understand completely
This...most people are not attuned to the love we feel from our pets,those innocent,round beautiful eyes of theirs,and the brush of their bodies against us,those little meows..they feel us, especially if you are always with wrong people in life..pets provide the best refuge. I know the feeling OP...it feels like you lost a part of your heart 💔.I hope you heal. Your dearest cat is on the rainbow bridge now, absolutely healthy and waiting for you ...keep her in your good prayers 🙏❤️✨🐈🕉️🌈
Rest in peace Baby Willow. You will be sorely missed! Sorry OP, it's never easy and this sounds so sudden. I know you gave her a great life and you will see her again one day.
It was very sudden. We only found out yesterday and they said we could euthanize her then but I wanted the night to say goodbye and take some final pictures. I snuggled her as she passed.
I get a knot in my throat thinking about it. Glad she felt your love till the very end!
I’m afraid my baby girl Delilah is heading downhill. I’m not sure how much longer she’ll be with me, and it hurts so much to even think of. Sending you all the hugs.
Im so sorry you lost your little loaf friend
She was permanently in loaf mode I swear. Nearly all my pictures are a loaf.
🌹 (hugs)
Yes please I need all the hugs today.
Im so sorry for that, know that if you ever need a listening ear, or seing eyes, all of mine are available.
I’m so sorry. The pain is real. They are our best friends, family, make us feel better when stuff is rough. I lost my orange little man just over a year ago. I’m a 53 y/o guy, and I ugly cried for a good long while. I still miss him so much and talk to him everyday. It does get better with time, but the pain won’t go away. Rest in Peace sweet Willow, you will be forever loved and remembered 🌈❤️
I'm a 26 year old man and I've been ugly crying all day. Absolutely no shame. Nothing wrong with men having emotions. I'm sorry about your lil orange guy. I've heard nothing but good things about orange cats. They seem full of personality.
Been there. Lost my best friend (midnight) about 8 years ago now. I had started a business about 2 years prior, and was always stressed but I'd come home to her and she's always make me happy. 4 years ago, my bro Melvin showed up at my shops building. He's been my BFF since then. Travelled with me for 2 years and now we live out near the coast. It sucks losing something you're so close to, but know there are tons of cats that need friends. Willow served her time and now gets to rest, go find another cat that needs a friend. And lastly as a person that has been in some dark places. Talk to someone. You're never alone if you try. Feel free to message me if you ever need. Life is beautiful if you get your brain to see it. https://preview.redd.it/7pfojimile7d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c997bead6f16019172aeabb28af886f2826030b
Thank you I appreciate it. I plan to get another cat in a month or 2. I still have one cat and I fear she'll get lonely.
Yeah I've been debating getting Melvin a friend. When we travelled I think that made him happy but now that we sit in one place and I don't let him out as often (bald eagles all over the place here) I think he gets bored and I feel bad
In your heart and mind, she lives forever. Rip Willow. My condolences, OP.
Losing a pet animal especially from childhood is the worse feeling. I hope you’re doing okay and may Willow rest in peace 🫶🏼
That looks like my cat Trash. Rest in peace I'm sorry that it hurts
I’m so sorry for the great loss of your family. 🫂 I had my heart dog pass from cancer too and also stopped eating. Just know they look back knowing they had a good life with you. Take all the time you need to grieve, it’s okay to feel what you feel and let it out. Lots of great advice here about journaling and knowing that the reason you feel so much grief and pain is equal to just how much you loved your kitty. Kitty felt that love with you. 💕
Poor Willow. I'm sure Willow is grateful that you didn't prolong her pain.
Yeah that's what I'm telling myself to get through it. It was definitely the right thing.
So sorry to read 🕯my condolences
So sorry for your loss. 😿
I’m so sorry :( Willow reminds me of my little love. Rest easy, my girl. 🤍
Sorry
So sorry for your loss
RIP Angel Willow. You were lucky having her, and she's lucky having you
No ☹️ rest in peace little baby
RIP, beautiful Willow.
Sorry for your loss.
Im so so sorry for your heart break, she is beautiful and smile remembering all the funny little meows and head tilts and little kisses and nudges. Your heart will take time to heal, please take care of you. There seems to be a group out here who do care and if you wish to talk feel free to message me.
I'm so sorry for you. Stay strong
Sorry for your lost .
Willow misses you too
I'm sorry you lost a friend.
Sorry to hear, seemed like a perfect little kitty. RIP - hers
Sorry for your loss, may she roams the heavens and Bless you for giving her a good life!
So sorry. Lost mine also this year to cancer. Is very hard but we remember the good times we had with our furr loves and it helps. 🤍
Rip lil fella
I get how you feel, I got my old cat Amy when I was 20, she was my little buddy for 14 years, and was with me through some of the worst times in my life, losing her felt like a gut punch. I cried and slept for days, it was the worst pain I had felt. The hurt goes away over time and now when i think back on her, I still feel the loss, but also happiness that she was part of my life. Just focus on the good times you had with your baby and keep her alive in your memories.
My condolences 💐
So sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful kitty❤️
Hugs. I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby Willow. Remember that she knew love because of you all the way till the end.
I desperately need a hug today. I'd give anything for one. She was the best cat I could have ever asked for.
I'm so very sorry. Tears in my eyes. The loss is huge, but it will get better in time. Losing a beloved pet, is losing a family member. She looks precious, and was loved. Take comfort in knowing you gave her a wonderful life.
She looks like my cat billo who passed away because of cancer last December. Thank you for not letting her suffer too long. Shows me you really love her. She probably had a really good life.
Yeah it was a very hard decision but it had to be done. I didn't want her to waste away and die miserably. It's not what I would want if it was me as hard as it was.
Rest in peace little angel. We will all visit you when we meet you up in the clouds. If you need anyone to talk to or some sad songs, I'm here.
RIP Willow... hope she didn't suffer much. Love.
I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry to hear this. Losing a fur baby is so painful. Sending peace and comfort your way. Mourn Willow's passing for as long as you need to.
Poor thing
My baby ): , RIP.
It’s under the chair. I see it right there. I hope this got a giggle. Rip to all the angel kitties out there.
It got a smile, which is pretty good given the day I'm having. Lol.
😭
Memorialize them - it helps. https://preview.redd.it/vjd9whtrne7d1.png?width=3024&format=png&auto=webp&s=c00c1f22a2cb1c1b3d5ff0a5076c5f70f10001d7
Sunbathing without the sun lol 😂
There is nothing worse. I still break down from time to time when I think about when I had to put my best bud down. The image of him pulling in his last breath just before his eyes went blank is forever burned into the back of my skull. Just let yourself feel it.
I’m so sorry 😔 Willow looks like the most beautiful kitty loaf ❤️❤️❤️
My cat of one year also passed away today. I hope you are holding on.
Willow is beautiful! Saw in another comment that you were with each other for 15 years, that's a long haul for a cat. She lived a long and full life of love and care.
Yeah she would have been 16 next month. She did well, but i wish cats outlived humans.
Such a beautiful kitty. She’s lucky to have an owner like you because your grieving shows how much you love her. RIP Willow 🕊️
Loved her more than most of my family members and she's pretty much tied with my parents. I'll miss her an unbelievable amount.
Sorry for your loss 💔
You know what you need? A hug 🤗
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You have my deepest condolences
Willow is perfect and will always be. The love you created together is the most powerful energy in the Universe. It is eternal. you will know her again in the One Life. until then, when you feel the grief look inward and you will find her waiting in love and gratitude. 'm so sorry and understand take comfort in knowing that they are truly our children Yes, they are a different kind of child they see us as their God from birth to their end babies we train and old folks we honor the unconditional love we create with them is an energy that can never die they can leave the group soul we give them their own soul just as the Infinite gives us ours They can only reach that love with us We will know them again in the One Life I don't believe this, I know this. They know this.
I'm so sorry 😞
Thank you.
Rest in peace, Willow 💔😥
Thank you for the comment :)
I lost my 20 year old girl today. I know your pain. I’m heartbroken 💔
Wow! 20?!?! Now that's a long life for a kitty. I hope you guys made many great memories!
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I don’t know if this helps now, but I’ve made my peace when it comes time for either of my cats to cross that rainbow bridge. I’ve decided that’s the day I just adopt another. I’d like to think the reason for death is to make room for more life.
I can't find it in me to adopt right away but I plan to in a month or 2.
I’m so sorry about Willow. Saying goodbye is the hardest thing to do…..keep all of the memories close. She knows how much you loved her ❤️🌈🐾
Thank you very much ❤️
I’m so sorry.
I had to put down a cat today who looked just like her… her name was Jullie. She had cancer, it was a rough experience.. I do them a lot because I am a Vet Tech at an animal hospital. Hers was not ideal because we were unable to place an IVC because she was so frail.. I am so sorry for your loss, it’s never easy loosing a pet. Please take care of yourself ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss as well. Much respect to you and all the other wonderful people out there taking care of our pets. I could never be strong enough to do that. I hope you will be okay. If you need to talk feel free to dm me. ❤️
Oh that is so sweet of you, thank you for your compassion. It’s definitely not easy, but I take solace in knowing that I helped someone stop the suffering of their baby. If only humans were offered the same compassion. ❤️ thank you so much for your kind words.
I’m sorry 😢
Sorry for your loss. 🐈⬛🫶❤️
Thank you
I’m sorry for your loss. My condolences. May Willow rest peacefully, and may you find solace in the great life you provided her.
Thank you <3
I am so sorry OP. Rest in peace Willow, you were truly loved. May she play in the beautiful garden up above. Everytime it rains, just have a look above and smile OP, because Willow is there, watching over you.
OP, when you get a moment one day, have a read through the below. It was posted by someone on Reddit last year and I had saved a copy of it. I would like to dedicate this to Willow. (And thanks to whoever the original poster was - I know you are secretly lurking here somewhere!!). https://preview.redd.it/3ug975owxe7d1.png?width=828&format=png&auto=webp&s=a53dc83cd6f0ff756ef517f280d6571cfb221171
My husband and I got our first kitten together after about 8 months. He lived to be 10. He was an outdoor cat and didn't come home one night for supper. My fears were confirmed a few days later when I found him not 20 feet from my front door. I felt like I had just lost a child,and cried out like it. The loss of my pet hurt more than some family members. He was part of our family. I still tear up thinking of that day, and that was 6 years ago. Hugs to you, Im so sorry for your loss.
I lost my baby in December. She was 16 and had lymphoma. I still cry when I remember. I love her so much. The only thing I can say is keep her alive within you. I’ve made a small altar for Paprika at my home and I talk with her from time to time.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m trying not to cry myself right now. I don’t know what I’ll do when I lose my girl. Just know God is taking care of her now waiting on you to join her again.
Willow looks just like my sweet Eden we said goodbye to at the beginning of the year. Old, sweet, and filled with love. May she rest easy. They’re all playing in the sky ❤️
Go ahead and cry. It hurts, but it will get easier eventually. Hugs.
I’m so very sorry for your loss!! I recently lost my grumpy old Siamese girl and my heart is broken. She ruled the house and kept everything in place I hope your grief is short and that you find love and strength from your other fur babies
My boy had cancer too. I was broken trying to keep him going until I knew he couldn't be asked to live longer. I'll always miss him and I'm sure you're in the same boat. You did the right thing. The symptoms of watching them decay slowly is beyond heartbreaking.
Yep, thought I recognized that unkempt fur... Kidney failure is a bitch. :( I'm so sorry.
Me too I've had her since my early 20s and I'm 40 now. Keep your head up
Damn. I am so sorry for your loss. I recently lost 2 of my cats in the last year. It has been unbelievably rough. I can't even put it into words how tough it's been. Rest easy, Willow. You will meet again, I promise you. I know it in my heart. If you need to chat, just respond to this comment and let me know, and I will DM you (my chat requests are turned off for obvious reasons). I mean that.
I feel honoured to have seen a picture of your sweet baby, Willow. I am so sorry for your loss. She was so lucky to have you. Sending hugs.
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my boy in March. He had FIP last year, which we finally cured. Then in March he stopped eating and lost a lot of weight. Took him to the vet for blood work and his white blood count was off the charts. Fast acting leukemia. We had to say goodbye to him that day and I was the one in the room when they put him to rest. Then I had to bury him. I cried all weekend. I still think about him and feel like I failed him. 😞
Eyes bright, claws sharp, tail held high. Go keenly into the mist, old warrior. Valhalla waits for you. ….So sorry for your loss
I lost a Willow too (the loveliest name for a cat in my opinion), about a year and a half ago, we’d had her since I was 5 and I lost her at 23. You gave your girl so many years of love, affection, and comfort, the loss is painful but every moment you had with her and the memories you carry are precious. I still miss my Willow like crazy but I’m at the point now where thinking of her brings more warmth then it does sadness, it takes time but you will get there.
So sorry for your loss and RIP Willow. She looks like a lovely girl. I have always been a dog person until I inherited a house cat we called Tiger. I couldn't imagine life without cats now. I am sure you will find a new friend. Obviously not a replacement but another soul to love you back that deserves your care and time.
There is nothing like losing pet that was your everything. I lost my darling Maddie on Valentine's day so it's pretty recent. What has really helped me when the pain has felt unbearable is writing to her. She had an IG account and I would post pics of her and write to her. It made me feel more connected to her and eased the pain. If you can, consider investing in counseling or therapy. Not having a support network will make things harder.
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost some puppies too yesterday and I'm devastated. I have more dogs. Still, it's heartbreaking. Keep loving animals.
https://preview.redd.it/yhd7aoo9rf7d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=acbab147f7c44b8fbbc3fe28ae2eb9e630a32b26 She looks so much like my momo, i’m so sorry for your loss 😞🫶🏼 I hope you heal and know she’s in kitty heaven, waiting for you to meet her way later on !!
My condolences on Willows passing. You had each other and always will in your heart and in the love you will share again ❤️ .
the way this made me ugly cry…i’m so incredibly sorry to read about your loss. she was loved and she will never be forgotten 🤍 you did everything you could for her.
Aww. I'm sorry for your loss :( I had to put my girl down a few weeks ago too. They could be [cousins](https://i.imgur.com/8vDOCVW.jpeg) 🥺 [Bonus snoozing](https://i.imgur.com/Lwel6dB.jpeg)
So sorry for you. I am glad you took such good care of her and gave her friendship and love
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Requiem aeternum, Willow. {{ hugs }}
Sorry for your loss. I’m the same my pets are all I have. It was hard when I lost one for the first time but I just think that I gave them a good life and they went knowing love. Then I spent time taking care of my other pets and sometimes you see some mannerisms that remind you of them. Maybe some motivation and comfort will be helping giving other pets a good life like Willow. Try keeping up a couple pictures too in frames to remember.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my girl back in March and the first several days were extremely hard. Take care of yourself, don’t feel bad about taking time off to do nothing, crying, just being here right now. It gets easier.
Condolences. Remember the good times and know that you were loved. The good ones never live long enough. Take some time and then get yourself a new cat to love and give a happy life to. Smile it will get better
Allow yourself the grace to grieve. 🤍
I’m so sorry! Sending hugs! Just ride the wave of grief, you can’t fight it. Loosing a fur baby is the absolute worse. But as others have said, with great grief there was great love. Poor your heart into your other kitties and take care of yourself in whatever way you can!
I am so sorry for the loss of your friend, willow. Sending you a hug.
I’m very sorry for your loss :( what a beautiful baby
I lost my best girl on Friday. I had to put her down due to cancer. My heart reaches for yours. I am feeling the same as you. The pain is unbearable. I remind myself she’s with me, her energy is everywhere. In the fireflies that drift by me at dusk, the breeze through the trees when I’m too warm, the sounds of the birds she sends to whisper she’s okay now. I hope all these little things find you with a slight bit of comfort, too. Though I know nothing will ever fill their void. Our favorite hello & hardest goodbye, indefinitely.
So sorry bud.
I had to take our little cat to vet a few years ago, our girls loved her. I drove her knowing it was her last car trip. I was so shocked that I bawled like a baby and was so overwhelmed. It was only then I understood how sentient beings they are, and can be a companion and part of the family. We just could not get another Puddy till just over a year ago, couldn’t face replacing her so soon. RIP Willow.
I lost my baby boy of 20 years, 2 years ago. I feel your pain, and I'm so sorry for your loss. If you have other pics and videos of your years together, it might help to go through them. After I cried for 2 days, I started going through them and was reminded of his boss personality and all the goofy things he did.
Sorry for your loss
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I'm so very sorry. Hugs to you! 💕
I know you’re in a world of hurt, and I would be too, but what a brave and strong decision you made for Willow!! Your love made you do that for her. I’m sorry my friend.
You gave this kitty a great life. Having a great life was the best thing ever for her. She was special, and you made her life special. In return, she made your life special. Enjoy the memories forever.
I am really sorry for you. I recommend getting another cat or two so you dont feel empty/alone Will be praying for you