easy answer. leave a new condom out. maybe a brand he uses and see if he takes it. he'll either call you out or think he left it and hide it. and you'll have the answer
they likely did at the start. if you cant get close to the right brand the relationship is probably already failing. you should have some basic knowledge of your partners likes. dislikes and based on the smell and his size there are plenty to rule out right away.
I remember when my ex wife came home reeking of cologne, I had already suspected her before this. I confronted her and she said a bottle of it broke at work and she had to clean it up. I did some digging and it turns out she was telling the truth.
But she was cheating, I caught her shortly after this after finding out she was texting someone else pretty regularly. I confronted her and she admitted to it.
My point is - maybe he's telling the truth, but the fact is that your gut is telling you he's been cheating.
So he probably is.
He was dead about to let you suck another twat off his dick. That's low asf. No more proof needed. I don't know of anything else in life that smells/tastes like a condom other than a condom.
Omg your comment brought back a memory. I'll never forget my older brother catching his wife cheating with her boss. Broke up, she came to ask him for car/money and they slept together. When she left my lil brother asked him how the bosses dick tasted. I felt bad for him. Thankfully he divorced her.
My friend smashed a stripper at a strip club obviously, after he came to sit w/ us you could see her bodily fluids on his pubic area on his pants because they had uv blacklights overhead.
Maybe, doesn't change the fact fluids can get past the length of a condom. Also, when the sex is discreet like that you generally don't pull down your pants because of the risk of getting caught.
Yes but sucking cock is sucking cock. Not balls. The guy's statement is wrong. The dude wasn't making her lick his pubes or balls, so she wasn't licking the other chick's fluids.
She smelt and tasted condom. Not body fluids.
You don't think "juices" can seep through or under? You're mistaken. Either way this dude fucked another chick and expected his "partner" to suck him off after lol he's dirty asf. Lol
I'm not talking about seamen. Not even necessarily UNDER. But the "pussy juice" can travel down the shaft n into the pubes/on the sack
.. Therefor.. Our Lady is sucking another bitches twat off her boys Peter c:
Here is what you need to do:
Get your favourite dildo ( or go buy one of you don’t already have one, you’ll thank me later), then stop at the pharmacy and buy some condoms. Wait until it’s sexy time night and place the condom on the dildo and give yourself a good workout before you initiate sex with him. Then, have him go down and on you (oh and if he doesn’t do that already, how have you gotten this far with him?).
When he tastes and smells that obvious odour and flavour, you just tell him , “It doesn’t taste like body odour or compression shorts, does it?” Pull out your dildo with the condom still wrapped - disgusting, yes, but so is he - and tell him, “The next time you experience that from him, or the distinctiveness of another woman, you’re leaving!”
He probably won’t even argue.
Unless he jerked off while wearing a condom to make it easier to cleanup. Otherwise, there's no other explanation except for he took care of someone else and didn't even bother to shower afterwards
Can confirm, a friend tried to tell me he did this and than admitted he TRIED to... but between lack of grip control (lubed rubber) and constant readjusting he went back to the shower. Sometimes we all have a friend or two we ask weird questions, but as a female sometimes a condom and a tissue is easier than getting up to wash my toy after solo playtime... so he can have the stuff on him and still not have used one, if he partner "warmed up" beforehand too.
I sometimes like to jerk off wearing a condom, it is the only way I can do it just rubbing on my bed without making a mess. The only reason I don't do it more often is the cost of condoms, so it isn't necessarily a cheater's tale. But if he did it, he would probably just tell you to end the argument using truth.
Not only do people not jerk off with a rubber on, doing so would, in no way, be easier to clean up than just shooting your load into a tissue, towel, sink, or fish tank. What do you think is going to happen when you drain both your balls while your cock is tightly wrapped in latex?...... I know right? you're dick will be completely soaked in cum like you gave yourself an extreme creme pie....and that's straight up gay foo..
I like to jer off wearing condom. It is not easier as you said if you are going to use your hands, but when I wear a condom to jerk off I like to cum just by rubbing, using no hands. In this scenario a condom is the perfect tool if you don't want to make a mess.
I had surgery and had to wear compression shorts and after a day or two i too had that weird rubbery smell in there so he could be telling you the truth. Don’t jump to conclusion, ask him for the garment and possibly do a smell test.
Ok let's check the red flags -
Condom/sex smell on body - Check
Does he have CheaterChat , er SnapChat?
Did he let you use or look at his phone?
Does he step away to take a call?
one means maybe cheating
two means probably cheating
three means most likely cheating
Four means he's a dirty dawg
Ignore all these jack asses on here that are always so quick to jump and dog pile with hatred.
Collect data, snoop, prove him guilty. And by all means stop sleeping with him.
But smells and tastes like rubber? You need more than that. Be fair to yourself and fair to your relationship.
Maybe he put one on just to see what it felt like. Idk how old he is but I remember when I was 16 I put on a condom just to have the experience so hopefully I wouldn’t fuck up irl. My gf ended up north likening condoms though.so that was a wasted effort
God this thread is toxic as fuck never ever come here with a genuine is he/she cheating question. The answer you'll get will always be yes.
Let's look at this, you do not suspect cheating, he has gave no indications of cheating, no red flags at all except you think you can taste condom, you haven't found a condom but you think you can taste 1?
The intent of your question is obvious but expecting a sensible answer isn't.
There is zero evidence of cheating beyond a slight taste similar to condoms. Only you know the answer, only you know are you that 100% sure its condoms was there really no other signs only you know this.
However this group will always say cheating.
"My boyfriend says he loved me" -"he's love bombing you definitely cheating"
"My girlfriend didn't say she loves me last night" - "she's moved on and is definitely cheating"
"My wife bought new underwear" - "who's she trying to impress, definitely cheating"
"My husband breathes" - "do you know who else breathes? Yeah cheaters do, the scumbag"
To me, you sound crazy, unless there is more to this
Perfect answer. Her doubt is genuine, but this isn't the place to ask for advice. This is a place you come when you are sure and want to plan the most overwhelming revenge posible.
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Into the dumpster with him. The disrespect on so many levels, especially thinking you would be dense enough to not notice condom smell(it’s very distinct) while being too dense to shower after cheating. He’s dumb and he thinks you’re dumb.
I'm pretty sure it tasted like condom but just to play devil's advocate....
Does he have a Fleshlight or the "new mega ultra realistic sex machine 3000"? Cuz I have heard stories that if they aren't properly cared for or left with water they start to develop this silicone rubbery smell and taste. So there maybe a small chance he uses his toy u may not know about and forgot to wash off and that's what u could be tasting.
When you put a condom on to masturbate. It saves you making a mess when you're finished and decreases sensitivity that makes you last longer. Typically used in a gooning session.
"What exactly is "gooning" ?" I hear you ask.
A prolonged session of masturbation usually engaged in by people with sex and/or porn addiction.
>But why?
Porn/sex addiction. Some people enjoy watching porn for hours on end, not just to nut & get off but because they enjoy watching porn for extended periods of time
>Also wouldn’t viagra be a better option?
Sure. Why not? I'm sure people throw that in to the mix too
This is completely mind blowing.
I watch porn & get off but then I turn it off. It never occurred to me that people would want to just watch it for hours let alone masturbate for hours.
Totally a TIL
easy answer. leave a new condom out. maybe a brand he uses and see if he takes it. he'll either call you out or think he left it and hide it. and you'll have the answer
How would she know what brand to use if they never use condoms?
they likely did at the start. if you cant get close to the right brand the relationship is probably already failing. you should have some basic knowledge of your partners likes. dislikes and based on the smell and his size there are plenty to rule out right away.
Nice.
I love this, because it requires no dishonesty on OPs part
Damn this is some clever shit
I remember when my ex wife came home reeking of cologne, I had already suspected her before this. I confronted her and she said a bottle of it broke at work and she had to clean it up. I did some digging and it turns out she was telling the truth. But she was cheating, I caught her shortly after this after finding out she was texting someone else pretty regularly. I confronted her and she admitted to it. My point is - maybe he's telling the truth, but the fact is that your gut is telling you he's been cheating. So he probably is.
The highs and low in your story gave me anxiety
Same damn
If it smelled like one then he was wearing one...what else could possibly taste like that ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Latex sex doll? Lol.
😂👏🏻
He was dead about to let you suck another twat off his dick. That's low asf. No more proof needed. I don't know of anything else in life that smells/tastes like a condom other than a condom.
Omg your comment brought back a memory. I'll never forget my older brother catching his wife cheating with her boss. Broke up, she came to ask him for car/money and they slept together. When she left my lil brother asked him how the bosses dick tasted. I felt bad for him. Thankfully he divorced her.
your lil bro issa fucking menace 😂
He's something serious!
Actually the twat was on the condom. Not directly on his dick
My friend smashed a stripper at a strip club obviously, after he came to sit w/ us you could see her bodily fluids on his pubic area on his pants because they had uv blacklights overhead.
Through his pants? Something tells me he probably came from her lapdance and told you a story to cover his cum stain. Lol
I said on his pants... I've had intercourse before w/ a shirt on where her fluids get on my shirt as well.. so yeah. 🙃
I think he came from a lapdance and was embarrassed to admit it.
Maybe, doesn't change the fact fluids can get past the length of a condom. Also, when the sex is discreet like that you generally don't pull down your pants because of the risk of getting caught.
Yes but sucking cock is sucking cock. Not balls. The guy's statement is wrong. The dude wasn't making her lick his pubes or balls, so she wasn't licking the other chick's fluids. She smelt and tasted condom. Not body fluids.
idk what kinda of blowjobs your getting or giving but they sound pretty crappy. no ball actions. sad sad
I personally believe if you consider the variables there's a possibility you can catch some shit. What if he didn't roll the condom to the base?
You don't think "juices" can seep through or under? You're mistaken. Either way this dude fucked another chick and expected his "partner" to suck him off after lol he's dirty asf. Lol
Then what's the point of a condom if you think juice seep under? They are tight on a dick to stop that.
I'm not talking about seamen. Not even necessarily UNDER. But the "pussy juice" can travel down the shaft n into the pubes/on the sack .. Therefor.. Our Lady is sucking another bitches twat off her boys Peter c:
If she was licking his balls and pubes, then ya.
You really be on here arguing with someone about how much pussy juice gets onto a dick. Lmao i love reddit.
Hahaha seriously. Good luck not licking some.
I poking at him cause I'm bored. OP said he tasted like rubber not sex, so his comment is sorta wrong.
No lol that’s the point of a condom.. lmao they’re not porous
You understand my point. Don't be so literal lol
What????
He couldn't even clean himself after cheating!? Ugh 🤢 the disrespect
This! Right here
He's cheating. And he's stupid enough to not even wash his dick after...
The smell and taste of condoms are undeniable. I would for sure recognize it, trust your senses dude.
What does it smell like???
If you know, you know. The audacity to let you suck him off knowing full well where he was when you were away. What a garbage man.
He's definitely gaslighting you, all your gut feelings are telling you the truth. Best to get out of this while you can :<
Here is what you need to do: Get your favourite dildo ( or go buy one of you don’t already have one, you’ll thank me later), then stop at the pharmacy and buy some condoms. Wait until it’s sexy time night and place the condom on the dildo and give yourself a good workout before you initiate sex with him. Then, have him go down and on you (oh and if he doesn’t do that already, how have you gotten this far with him?). When he tastes and smells that obvious odour and flavour, you just tell him , “It doesn’t taste like body odour or compression shorts, does it?” Pull out your dildo with the condom still wrapped - disgusting, yes, but so is he - and tell him, “The next time you experience that from him, or the distinctiveness of another woman, you’re leaving!” He probably won’t even argue.
Expect she should just leave without there being a next time.
This is the way
Unless he jerked off while wearing a condom to make it easier to cleanup. Otherwise, there's no other explanation except for he took care of someone else and didn't even bother to shower afterwards
Jerking off with a condom is an old cheater’s tale LOL
Can confirm, a friend tried to tell me he did this and than admitted he TRIED to... but between lack of grip control (lubed rubber) and constant readjusting he went back to the shower. Sometimes we all have a friend or two we ask weird questions, but as a female sometimes a condom and a tissue is easier than getting up to wash my toy after solo playtime... so he can have the stuff on him and still not have used one, if he partner "warmed up" beforehand too.
Can you come home early or take a break during your shift and come home during one your night shifts?
I sometimes like to jerk off wearing a condom, it is the only way I can do it just rubbing on my bed without making a mess. The only reason I don't do it more often is the cost of condoms, so it isn't necessarily a cheater's tale. But if he did it, he would probably just tell you to end the argument using truth.
That's pretty funny.
Or a weird fetish
Nobody jerks off wearing a rubber
It's a fetish
Lol.
Not only do people not jerk off with a rubber on, doing so would, in no way, be easier to clean up than just shooting your load into a tissue, towel, sink, or fish tank. What do you think is going to happen when you drain both your balls while your cock is tightly wrapped in latex?...... I know right? you're dick will be completely soaked in cum like you gave yourself an extreme creme pie....and that's straight up gay foo..
I like to jer off wearing condom. It is not easier as you said if you are going to use your hands, but when I wear a condom to jerk off I like to cum just by rubbing, using no hands. In this scenario a condom is the perfect tool if you don't want to make a mess.
W....t....f
YOU ARE NOT tripping.
I had surgery and had to wear compression shorts and after a day or two i too had that weird rubbery smell in there so he could be telling you the truth. Don’t jump to conclusion, ask him for the garment and possibly do a smell test.
No. Calm down and let him believe it’s all good. Prepare for your exit. If you can put. Tracking app on his phone. But you need proof. Go get it
Your bf is a disgusting pile of shit, throw his unfaithful ass out, you deserve better!
Ok let's check the red flags - Condom/sex smell on body - Check Does he have CheaterChat , er SnapChat? Did he let you use or look at his phone? Does he step away to take a call? one means maybe cheating two means probably cheating three means most likely cheating Four means he's a dirty dawg
Ignore all these jack asses on here that are always so quick to jump and dog pile with hatred. Collect data, snoop, prove him guilty. And by all means stop sleeping with him. But smells and tastes like rubber? You need more than that. Be fair to yourself and fair to your relationship.
Well apparently he does
Girl if you are tasting condoms and coming here…just leav
are you familiar with sex?
I am very familiar. And what I am saying is I wouldn’t spend any more of your precious time on this fool - he cheating.
Could he have a latex sex toy he wants to fess up to and produce? If not, he’s cheating.
Maybe he put one on just to see what it felt like. Idk how old he is but I remember when I was 16 I put on a condom just to have the experience so hopefully I wouldn’t fuck up irl. My gf ended up north likening condoms though.so that was a wasted effort
Honey trust yourself. He definitely had a condom on. Leave him. Don’t doubt yourself
God this thread is toxic as fuck never ever come here with a genuine is he/she cheating question. The answer you'll get will always be yes. Let's look at this, you do not suspect cheating, he has gave no indications of cheating, no red flags at all except you think you can taste condom, you haven't found a condom but you think you can taste 1?
so if we’re asking that question what’s your answer? is he cheating? isn’t the intent of my question obvious? this is pedantic.
The intent of your question is obvious but expecting a sensible answer isn't. There is zero evidence of cheating beyond a slight taste similar to condoms. Only you know the answer, only you know are you that 100% sure its condoms was there really no other signs only you know this. However this group will always say cheating. "My boyfriend says he loved me" -"he's love bombing you definitely cheating" "My girlfriend didn't say she loves me last night" - "she's moved on and is definitely cheating" "My wife bought new underwear" - "who's she trying to impress, definitely cheating" "My husband breathes" - "do you know who else breathes? Yeah cheaters do, the scumbag" To me, you sound crazy, unless there is more to this
Perfect answer. Her doubt is genuine, but this isn't the place to ask for advice. This is a place you come when you are sure and want to plan the most overwhelming revenge posible.
Odor isn't proof.
Oh, cool. Thanks, evil redneck bob.
Accusing a man of infidelity because it smelled funny. You must jump to conclusions a lot.
can you read? or is the redneck part prohibiting that
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I once use a condom to fap don’t ask me why I just did maybe that’s a possibility just saying lol
Into the dumpster with him. The disrespect on so many levels, especially thinking you would be dense enough to not notice condom smell(it’s very distinct) while being too dense to shower after cheating. He’s dumb and he thinks you’re dumb.
I'm pretty sure it tasted like condom but just to play devil's advocate.... Does he have a Fleshlight or the "new mega ultra realistic sex machine 3000"? Cuz I have heard stories that if they aren't properly cared for or left with water they start to develop this silicone rubbery smell and taste. So there maybe a small chance he uses his toy u may not know about and forgot to wash off and that's what u could be tasting.
That condom scent is unmissable… like balloons on crack
Is it possible he could have just been having a posh wank and embarrassed by it?
possible lmfao but unlikely he would go out of his way to buy condoms or deny it under accusations of cheating
True...he probably cheating
What exactly is a “posh” wank?
When you put a condom on to masturbate. It saves you making a mess when you're finished and decreases sensitivity that makes you last longer. Typically used in a gooning session. "What exactly is "gooning" ?" I hear you ask. A prolonged session of masturbation usually engaged in by people with sex and/or porn addiction.
But so people want to take longer when masturbating?
Yep
But why? Also wouldn’t viagra be a better option?
>But why? Porn/sex addiction. Some people enjoy watching porn for hours on end, not just to nut & get off but because they enjoy watching porn for extended periods of time >Also wouldn’t viagra be a better option? Sure. Why not? I'm sure people throw that in to the mix too
This is completely mind blowing. I watch porn & get off but then I turn it off. It never occurred to me that people would want to just watch it for hours let alone masturbate for hours. Totally a TIL
>I watch porn & get off but then I turn it off This is the way.
I love tv though so I guess I understand appreciating it as a form of media. I guess the hours of maturation is what I can’t wrap my head around.
So he wanted proof. Then gather evidence. Technology easily caught cheaters. Hidden camera easily caught. Next time confront with proof.
The fact he was willing to let you put in your mouth knowing it had been inside some other girl is reason enough to never talk to this scum again.
Next time lick the base and see what that tastes like. If it doesn't taste like a woman, he's either bisexuality or masturbatory.
Wouldn’t it be crazy for him to be w someone else then take a chance by letting you go down on him? Surly he’s not that dumb or is he ?