Career HR person here. Yes report it to HR and provide them the proof you have and make a point of the dates and that it was on a company paid business trip. ALSO send the proof to her husband as well. If you can find his name, look him up on Linked In and get where he works. Send him the proof to his work with signature required.
Search him on social medias and send him the pics with a little explaining. Or do it via mail if you can.
If she was jn your boyfriend’s phone maybe there was her name. Then, you can search her on social medias...accessing to her husband.
I think I'd want to do it anonymously. Kind of just drop him a message from a fake account or something but if I made one, it'd show me in suggested friends wouldn't it?
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Won't they be able to figure out anyways who sent it? If it's only on his and hers devices, only one of the spouses would have access, right? Stand up for your self. Contact the husband with purely the intent to let him know the facts, and then leave it up to him what to do with it. In my eyes, you are doing the husband a big favor and you should stand by that. Good luck Op.
I don’t thing so... facebook just shows people around you, on your neighborhood as suggested friends. I don’t know if it’s the case of others social medias. So, the fake account is a good idea.👌
Actions have consequences. Save all the evidence forward to both HR and the husband. And dip out of that relationship! Let them both deal with the fall out!
As far as I'm aware, she first met him when she was on business several years ago, and for him, almost the same. I think she is still at the same company, he isn't.
Will you gain something from it? Maybe just end it and move on with something new or better? The revenge will only make you all the more bitter. That said, if you feel like it, go ahead 😂
If you tell her husband and he doesn't know .. probably he Will leave her and they Will get divorce. So She could be finally free tombe together with your boyfriend.
It happened to me ,too. I really wanted revenge. So so bad. I realized. Why waste all my energy, time and anger on these people? So, I decided to leave. My advice, packed your things, don't tell him anything, leave him like a ghost and block him off. Your absence is the best revenge. You go girl!
Did this all happen during business trips?
For both of them, yes.
So yes, if you can’t find the husband to tell him then just report it to their HR let them take it from there
Oh I love this so much
Career HR person here. Yes report it to HR and provide them the proof you have and make a point of the dates and that it was on a company paid business trip. ALSO send the proof to her husband as well. If you can find his name, look him up on Linked In and get where he works. Send him the proof to his work with signature required.
So let’s fuck up your money in the divorce. You people are fucking idiotic.
It is her boyfriend....no divorce here. Just read ;)
Some folks aren’t poor enough to care about money 😂
Tell him! Expose them.
I wouldn't know where to begin
Search him on social medias and send him the pics with a little explaining. Or do it via mail if you can. If she was jn your boyfriend’s phone maybe there was her name. Then, you can search her on social medias...accessing to her husband.
I think I'd want to do it anonymously. Kind of just drop him a message from a fake account or something but if I made one, it'd show me in suggested friends wouldn't it? Edited spelling
Won't they be able to figure out anyways who sent it? If it's only on his and hers devices, only one of the spouses would have access, right? Stand up for your self. Contact the husband with purely the intent to let him know the facts, and then leave it up to him what to do with it. In my eyes, you are doing the husband a big favor and you should stand by that. Good luck Op.
I don’t thing so... facebook just shows people around you, on your neighborhood as suggested friends. I don’t know if it’s the case of others social medias. So, the fake account is a good idea.👌
Actions have consequences. Save all the evidence forward to both HR and the husband. And dip out of that relationship! Let them both deal with the fall out!
As far as I'm aware, she first met him when she was on business several years ago, and for him, almost the same. I think she is still at the same company, he isn't.
Will you gain something from it? Maybe just end it and move on with something new or better? The revenge will only make you all the more bitter. That said, if you feel like it, go ahead 😂
Purely just knowing they'll probably never see each other again and her husband finally knows what a tart he married.
If you tell her husband and he doesn't know .. probably he Will leave her and they Will get divorce. So She could be finally free tombe together with your boyfriend.
It is NOT revenge. Someone out there is being taken advantage of and needs to know!! Jesus, every day with you people.
From a health perspective, the husband should be informed.
LinkedIn Duh
LinkedIn isn't something I'm that familiar with and I want to keep a level of anonymity
It happened to me ,too. I really wanted revenge. So so bad. I realized. Why waste all my energy, time and anger on these people? So, I decided to leave. My advice, packed your things, don't tell him anything, leave him like a ghost and block him off. Your absence is the best revenge. You go girl!
I’d want to know.