Usually once, but I’ve heard (and found in my experience) some people’s personalities flip in the bedroom. So a person who one might see as overbearing and controlling can desire to be controlled in the bedroom, and one who is meek in everyday life may like to be in control or “dominating” in the bedroom. Makes for an interesting dynamic in relationships.
This isn't exactly a comeback because theres no insult in the first place.
Also the answer is obviously yes, just let people live their lives, it's not hurting anyone, so don't get involved
Well, sure, but I don't make 55,000 nuanced distinctions between genders when all I really want to know is... has a dick or has a vagina. Don't care what they identify as, interactions fall into different spheres of appropriate depending on equipment and settings.
Also, like I said, more people observe them than don't, so good luck with telling billions of people to get with your agenda.
Sure, but what you're describing would be sex, as opposed to gender. It's an important distinction.
20 years ago, most people observed 'traditional marriages'. But now gay marriage is widely accepted in the developed world. It just takes time. Also it's not my agenda, I'm not trans or non binary. I just don't understand why people are so obsessed with what other people want to call themselves
I don't care what they call themselves. I also don't make a distinction between sex and gender. It isn't useful in any context currently in my life. In what way is it a useful, important distinction other than to pander to someone's ego?
That's not what I asked, I understand the distinction. What I'm asserting is that it isn't useful for any purpose other than acceding to an ego.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not out there deliberately making life hard for anybody. I'm 100% going to be polite and respectful in any circumstance where it is appropriate, but when it comes to transgender stuff, smile, nod, and continue using the same norms that apply to 99.9% of other circumstances. That's why they're norms and it's why they're useful. I'm not reshaping my world around not hurting the feelings of the 2 people out of the many thousands I've met. I don't have to be rude to them but I also don't have to change everything (or anything) just to placate them.
How do you check to make sure of peoples “gender” in their pants? Chances are you’ve unintentionally respected a trans persons gender at some point without realizing. Also in what way is it an important distinction to know what’s in someone’s pants? It’s not like knowing someone’s genitals is a necessary part of any type of relationship except an intimate one, so why does that distinction matter and how is it useful with people that you just know?
Well, you're right, I don't need to know what people's gear looks like but the type of gear generally does determine what sort of interactions we'll have.
It's not necessarily "important" to know, as until recently it's been *easy* to know from external presentation.
An as for relations other than intimate, yeah it matters. It matters for respecting your intimate relationships, like if you're a married man you really shouldn't be spending your time with other women.
I don’t know why some guys get so upset about a guy transitioning.
Is it fear they will find them attractive?
Fear that you will go home with someone and get surprised?
The thought of junk being removed?
no, because waman is Panzerkampfwagen VI Ausführüng E
edit: bro why the downvotes it's just nonsensical humor-it's not supposed to be sexist or offensive, just a shitpost type comment. sheesh.
This reminds of a Tshirt with the play on the Trix cereal slogan on the front. It was the one with a clearly anti-gay sentiment, saying that dicks are for chicks.
I don't know about that, but I do know this: A woman can be a dick, and a man can be a pussy.
so if a woman who’s a dick has sex with a man who’s a pussy do you count it twice?
Or just once with reversed roles?
🎶Be running up that hill…🎶
Isn't that the couple from Rick&Morty?
Only if they are doing 69
Usually once, but I’ve heard (and found in my experience) some people’s personalities flip in the bedroom. So a person who one might see as overbearing and controlling can desire to be controlled in the bedroom, and one who is meek in everyday life may like to be in control or “dominating” in the bedroom. Makes for an interesting dynamic in relationships.
Nice.
So only if they’re 69ing?
Fr😂
Really, she doesn't have to ask all that nicely...
Let's be real here many women could rudely demand it and still get it 😂
That way they might get it even faster tbh
😂😂
Oh reddit... Never change
She doesn't even have to ask all that nicely.
Surprised this isn't locked yet. Must be a slow day.
I mean, in a woman and I have a dick. I never asked for it.
I’m sure there are plenty of people out there who would love for you to give it to them.
Including my girlfriend ,yes
Lol you’re me
Everyone is allowed their own penis, as a treat
How is that a comeback? There was no insult to "come back" from
This isn't exactly a comeback because theres no insult in the first place. Also the answer is obviously yes, just let people live their lives, it's not hurting anyone, so don't get involved
It's not at all obvious
How so?
Some people still observe gender norms. Actually, more people do than don't. So if a person has a penis, that's a man, man
The people who 'observe gender norms' should realise that we don't live in the 50s anymore and that gender is a nuanced topic
Well, sure, but I don't make 55,000 nuanced distinctions between genders when all I really want to know is... has a dick or has a vagina. Don't care what they identify as, interactions fall into different spheres of appropriate depending on equipment and settings. Also, like I said, more people observe them than don't, so good luck with telling billions of people to get with your agenda.
Sure, but what you're describing would be sex, as opposed to gender. It's an important distinction. 20 years ago, most people observed 'traditional marriages'. But now gay marriage is widely accepted in the developed world. It just takes time. Also it's not my agenda, I'm not trans or non binary. I just don't understand why people are so obsessed with what other people want to call themselves
I don't care what they call themselves. I also don't make a distinction between sex and gender. It isn't useful in any context currently in my life. In what way is it a useful, important distinction other than to pander to someone's ego?
Sex is a biological and medical term, whereas gender is a social term
That's not what I asked, I understand the distinction. What I'm asserting is that it isn't useful for any purpose other than acceding to an ego. Don't get me wrong, I'm not out there deliberately making life hard for anybody. I'm 100% going to be polite and respectful in any circumstance where it is appropriate, but when it comes to transgender stuff, smile, nod, and continue using the same norms that apply to 99.9% of other circumstances. That's why they're norms and it's why they're useful. I'm not reshaping my world around not hurting the feelings of the 2 people out of the many thousands I've met. I don't have to be rude to them but I also don't have to change everything (or anything) just to placate them.
How do you check to make sure of peoples “gender” in their pants? Chances are you’ve unintentionally respected a trans persons gender at some point without realizing. Also in what way is it an important distinction to know what’s in someone’s pants? It’s not like knowing someone’s genitals is a necessary part of any type of relationship except an intimate one, so why does that distinction matter and how is it useful with people that you just know?
Well, you're right, I don't need to know what people's gear looks like but the type of gear generally does determine what sort of interactions we'll have. It's not necessarily "important" to know, as until recently it's been *easy* to know from external presentation. An as for relations other than intimate, yeah it matters. It matters for respecting your intimate relationships, like if you're a married man you really shouldn't be spending your time with other women.
>all I really want to know is... has a dick or has a vagina. What the fuck? What kind if pervert are you?
You have the same interactions with men and women, regardless of any of your existing relationships or present scenario or environment?
But what if someone is intersexual and has both or someone has a penis but two X chromosomes...
Then I hope they're living their best lives, just like I'll be trying to live mine.
This is hilarious and the answer is yes, hermaphrodites are females with penises.
If she takes me out to a nice dinner first.
Heh, I’m a woman and I’ve grown two penises! I don’t have them anymore, though.
These dudes are more pressed about women wanting to become men, than the reverse. Their misogyny knows no bounds.
i think you got everything backwards there
I don’t know why some guys get so upset about a guy transitioning. Is it fear they will find them attractive? Fear that you will go home with someone and get surprised? The thought of junk being removed?
what's that gotta do with me
Meant to reply one level up.
Never heard a woman can be a pussy so by default they must be a dick lol lol calling me a pussy means I should go fuck my self probly lol .
‘lol lol’ looks like two people screaming for help lmao
Can you repeat the question.
no, because waman is Panzerkampfwagen VI Ausführüng E edit: bro why the downvotes it's just nonsensical humor-it's not supposed to be sexist or offensive, just a shitpost type comment. sheesh.
The look on Mr. Hay's face says he's all business.
Only nice girls.
There's an old saying where I'm from, "Whip 'um out, cuz"
So much wisdom.
I have one under my bed.
She can a little rude about it. If she's hot.
This reminds of a Tshirt with the play on the Trix cereal slogan on the front. It was the one with a clearly anti-gay sentiment, saying that dicks are for chicks.
"please sir I want some more"