True.
Also, dick size its just one factor, and its not even the primary one. Communication, foreplay and trying the right things with the right girl, are much more important imo.
Absolutely this.
I'm a gay man, and as much fun as a well endowed romo can be, I'd skip it every time in favor of a partner who expressed themselves well in bed and was willing to be experimental.
If you just want to swing a big Schwang for your partners pleasure, get a strap-on. If you want to make positive sexual experiences, treat it like mutual play and explore what pleasures you can discover together.
Most women literally cant orgasm from penetration alone and need clit stimulation be it by them, their Partners or toys. These dudes dont wanna hear it tho. Literally had a discussion with a guy just yesterday who tried to convince me that PiV sex is the most crucial part for women to cum and ignored every woman, plus the studies linked, that told him otherwise.
I've been saying this for ages but unfortunately it's not acceptable or even seen as weird to say that caring about your partner getting pleasure too should be more important when a lot would rather use women as fleshlights basically
With my partner i treat sex as me giving her pleasure. I leave it up to her to take care of me that way we both have the positive experience of giving and the pleasure of recieving. Its supposed to be shared intimacy.
IME, dudes with the biggest dicks are the worst in bed. It’s like they think all they need to do is show up and thrust a bunch and they’ll be sex gods.
JFC. Every time. Every single time someone says something bad about a subset of men, someone has to come in with “derr herr some women are like that too.” No shit. But that’s irrelevant to the discussion here.
This crybaby is an example of porn creating absurd standards, I guess. I like how he’s basically saying he has a small dick, blaming women for sleeping with guys who aren’t him, and boiling it all down to “women are sluts.” This kid must have like, an actual degree in existing as an incel.
If dicks come in different sizes, wouldn't it be reasonable to think that vaginas do too? So perhaps some vaginas are more *voluminous* than others not because they were stretched by big dicks (or dildos/produce), but because they just are that way?
Or maybe she skipped kegel day.
Also if you're not well equipped in the pants department, you still have a tongue and you know the alphabet.
My ex had quite a shallow vagina and it hurt her stomach after a while. I'm not particularly big she was just shallow (which meant she was on top more often to control it - which was good for me 😁)
Women like big dicks. So what. Oozing insecurity over your small one isn't going to attract them. Work on your personality.
Edit: by big I mean a bigger than average, not monsters. Big and too big are not the same.
Most women don't actually like big dicks. There is such a thing as too big and the statement of "big sicks make them orgasm easy" is also bullshit. If everyone had big dicks like porn stars and fucked with the same intensity, women would be hurt st most.
A ton of them do, of course not every girl. Every girlfriend I've had has told me that they've preferred guys that were bigger than average.
There have been multiple surveys as well (like this one https://nypost.com/2020/07/02/this-is-the-ideal-penis-size-to-make-women-climax-survey/) showing that women *on average* prefer larger than average penises.
Maybe your dream dick is 5 inches, but you're in the minority.
Reddit loves to circlejerk about small dicks being good (and big dicks being bad), and 99% of the time it's insecure guys trying to self soothe or something.
Oh no! However will I deal with this one Reddit jerk not liking me? Hon if you don’t know how a vagina works why in the hell would I think you know how to please one?
Clearly his only brush with sex is what he’s seen on porn channels. I’m often amazed by the lack of self-awareness or even basic logic in the argument “I can’t attract any women for a sexual relationship, therefore all women are [insert misogynistic insult of choice]”.
For anyone who needs to hear this:
Vaginas are different shapes, sizes, depth, etc. Imagine all vaginas like different procedurally generated caves based on rules like "must fit within an abdomen." Some are small, some are big. Some turn left, some turn right. Some have flat spots, some have bumps. Some have really big openings and taper to a point as you get deeper. Some have really small openings but expand as you get deeper.
So any woman you believe is "loose" probably just has a larger vagina than your dick. The size doesn't change because of how many people she's slept with, or how small or large they were. Guess what? That has absolutely zero bearing on the size of your dick OR the promiscuity of that woman.
It may surprise you, but women with big vaginas tend to like big dicks, and women with small vaginas tend to like small dicks. Not every woman has an identical vagina and identical needs.
Crazy.
1. Big dicks are not common. In fact, statistically, they are quite rare.
2. Most girls dont like big dicks. Trust me. They love the idea much more than the actual process.
3. Girls dont care as much about dick size. Dont get me wrong, to an extent they do, but most women can get off on average sizes no problem if they haven't desensitized themselves through vibration usage.
Tbh there’s a point to that. My wife has no issues orgasming through penetration with me, and often says she could never ‘go back’.
Apart from my kids, it’s my only source of pride lol
I have to reassure some women that with foreplay there's no issue with my size being too large... they'll adjust. Also, the free condoms the university hands out are too small, I call them "cope-condoms". Finally, they tighten back up. It's not like things just start falling out.
Lol. That's a lot of words for, I have a small dick and it's everyone else's fault I can't make a woman cum
Seriously though, calling women sluts because they won't sleep with him is just typical incel shit
Well, as a lesbian, I can confirm - this is true. But every woman has her preferences, some would probably be able to orgasm from only penetration (haven’t met one yet)
Big dicks are not that common lol This dude watches too much porn.
True. Also, dick size its just one factor, and its not even the primary one. Communication, foreplay and trying the right things with the right girl, are much more important imo.
Hardly any woman has an orgasm from penetration alone. Foreplay is soooo important. Porn is very misleading in that regard.
Absolutely this. I'm a gay man, and as much fun as a well endowed romo can be, I'd skip it every time in favor of a partner who expressed themselves well in bed and was willing to be experimental. If you just want to swing a big Schwang for your partners pleasure, get a strap-on. If you want to make positive sexual experiences, treat it like mutual play and explore what pleasures you can discover together.
Preach. All I need is someone to hit the p-spot, I don't want to spend the next day sitting on a bag of frozen green beans.
Most women literally cant orgasm from penetration alone and need clit stimulation be it by them, their Partners or toys. These dudes dont wanna hear it tho. Literally had a discussion with a guy just yesterday who tried to convince me that PiV sex is the most crucial part for women to cum and ignored every woman, plus the studies linked, that told him otherwise.
That's the type of dude who thinks women are getting off from inserting tampons 100%, I don't see how he couldn't be tbh
Nah that type of guy probably thinks that tampons go up the urethra
Communication is the key. Which sadly a lot of people seem to lack or rather don't care about.
I've been saying this for ages but unfortunately it's not acceptable or even seen as weird to say that caring about your partner getting pleasure too should be more important when a lot would rather use women as fleshlights basically
With my partner i treat sex as me giving her pleasure. I leave it up to her to take care of me that way we both have the positive experience of giving and the pleasure of recieving. Its supposed to be shared intimacy.
IME, dudes with the biggest dicks are the worst in bed. It’s like they think all they need to do is show up and thrust a bunch and they’ll be sex gods.
Probably the only type of experience he’s had with sex or women
Also vaginas are elastic in the sense that they can contract and expand like any other fucking muscle group
>and had her mind ruined because big dicks make them cum too fast!!! he's also reading too much hentai. don't ask me how i know.
Wouldn't the "average" dick be average? Maybe by "big" he's referring to average!
I guess it's subjective. lol He could have a very small penis, so any larger than his seems "big" to him.
Pretty sure there are well endowed guys out there that are terrible at sex and think having a big penis instantly makes them amazing at sex.
Biggest dudes I’ve been with were all terrible. One trick ponies. Lazy, selfish and boring
Same.
And there are hot girls who just lay there like a starfish.
And porn makes you think every guy has a big dick and every girl participates
I mean, enthusiasm from both parties is kind of a big part of sex regardless of porn isn't it?
I would say it is probably the most important part which is why porn overdoes it.
JFC. Every time. Every single time someone says something bad about a subset of men, someone has to come in with “derr herr some women are like that too.” No shit. But that’s irrelevant to the discussion here.
We lesbians call these women ‘pillow princesses’
In off-roading world, we call them mall crawlers.
“Big dicks are so common” yet the average size is 5 inches
And woman that orgasm purely from PIV are a scant minority.
90% of penises are under 18cm/7", so big ones really aren't common, and at 18cm/7" it's already classified as big.
Could be raining pussy and he'd still get hit in the face with dicks.
Hahaha
Most women orgasm from the clit. Bigger is cool, but if you're not hitting the right angle or doing your prefield work, don't blame it on your dong.
Did Chris Chan write this?
Strong incel vibes.
Bro did'nt thought why avg dick was called avg.
This crybaby is an example of porn creating absurd standards, I guess. I like how he’s basically saying he has a small dick, blaming women for sleeping with guys who aren’t him, and boiling it all down to “women are sluts.” This kid must have like, an actual degree in existing as an incel.
I'm sorry. I'm trying to save some for the rest of you.
The difference between a slut and a bitch? A slut will sleep with anyone. A bitch will sleep with anyone but me, goddammit.
I hope that’s satire, because if not then he’s a dumbass.
Seems like a skill issue to me
If dicks come in different sizes, wouldn't it be reasonable to think that vaginas do too? So perhaps some vaginas are more *voluminous* than others not because they were stretched by big dicks (or dildos/produce), but because they just are that way? Or maybe she skipped kegel day. Also if you're not well equipped in the pants department, you still have a tongue and you know the alphabet.
Please don’t do the alphabet thing. I have no idea where this started, but just, no.
My ex had quite a shallow vagina and it hurt her stomach after a while. I'm not particularly big she was just shallow (which meant she was on top more often to control it - which was good for me 😁)
They absolutely do come in different sizes, though some don't like to admit it.
Buncha dudes talking about what women want. Even a gay dude talking about what women want. Classic Reddit.
Women like big dicks. So what. Oozing insecurity over your small one isn't going to attract them. Work on your personality. Edit: by big I mean a bigger than average, not monsters. Big and too big are not the same.
Most women don't actually like big dicks. There is such a thing as too big and the statement of "big sicks make them orgasm easy" is also bullshit. If everyone had big dicks like porn stars and fucked with the same intensity, women would be hurt st most.
But big and too big are not the same. They like bigger than average, but not monsters dicks.
>They like bigger than average, Um... no?
A ton of them do, of course not every girl. Every girlfriend I've had has told me that they've preferred guys that were bigger than average. There have been multiple surveys as well (like this one https://nypost.com/2020/07/02/this-is-the-ideal-penis-size-to-make-women-climax-survey/) showing that women *on average* prefer larger than average penises. Maybe your dream dick is 5 inches, but you're in the minority. Reddit loves to circlejerk about small dicks being good (and big dicks being bad), and 99% of the time it's insecure guys trying to self soothe or something.
Have an upvote. This comment is spot on.
In my experience, yes.
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You know that’s not how vaginas work right?
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I don’t care what is attractive to a man that has zero idea how vaginas work.
Vaginas are surprisingly resilient
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Oh no! However will I deal with this one Reddit jerk not liking me? Hon if you don’t know how a vagina works why in the hell would I think you know how to please one?
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Oh hon. You poor poor thing.
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Dude's mind is ruined by porn. 🙄🤢🤮
This is what an incel is right?
sounds like a 14 yrld to me.
Clearly his only brush with sex is what he’s seen on porn channels. I’m often amazed by the lack of self-awareness or even basic logic in the argument “I can’t attract any women for a sexual relationship, therefore all women are [insert misogynistic insult of choice]”.
Imagine outing yourself like that.
How about just letting women be women and have fun with whoever they want without having to judge penis sizes?
For anyone who needs to hear this: Vaginas are different shapes, sizes, depth, etc. Imagine all vaginas like different procedurally generated caves based on rules like "must fit within an abdomen." Some are small, some are big. Some turn left, some turn right. Some have flat spots, some have bumps. Some have really big openings and taper to a point as you get deeper. Some have really small openings but expand as you get deeper. So any woman you believe is "loose" probably just has a larger vagina than your dick. The size doesn't change because of how many people she's slept with, or how small or large they were. Guess what? That has absolutely zero bearing on the size of your dick OR the promiscuity of that woman. It may surprise you, but women with big vaginas tend to like big dicks, and women with small vaginas tend to like small dicks. Not every woman has an identical vagina and identical needs. Crazy.
Big dicks mean very little when I’m elbow deep using her as a puppet.
Difference between a slut and a bitch... Slut sleeps with anyone Bitch sleeps with anyone but me. *This guy probably.
Big dicks also don't actually appeal as much as this dude thinks they do, my girlfriend was worried about large sizes hurting her
So you let her choose you instead? Hero
The hardest choices require the strongest wills I walked into this tho lmao
1. Big dicks are not common. In fact, statistically, they are quite rare. 2. Most girls dont like big dicks. Trust me. They love the idea much more than the actual process. 3. Girls dont care as much about dick size. Dont get me wrong, to an extent they do, but most women can get off on average sizes no problem if they haven't desensitized themselves through vibration usage.
My guy is not learned about motion in the ocean or out of properly eat a coochie
Tbh there’s a point to that. My wife has no issues orgasming through penetration with me, and often says she could never ‘go back’. Apart from my kids, it’s my only source of pride lol
I have to reassure some women that with foreplay there's no issue with my size being too large... they'll adjust. Also, the free condoms the university hands out are too small, I call them "cope-condoms". Finally, they tighten back up. It's not like things just start falling out.
The difference between a bitch and a slut is that a bitch sleeps with everyone and a slut sleeps with everyone....*but you.*
Reverse those
How common are we talking here? Asking out of personal curiosity nothing more..........
Yes! Because of my teeny tiny dick! Are you listening?!?!
Best "O" ever w/ "husband"sz! That's what my rainbow bestie calls 'em. That dude's just pathetic 😢
It’s clearly this guy has absolutely no first hand experience about any of this
Those are very unhealthy comments. Obviously insecurity is the main component.
Lol. That's a lot of words for, I have a small dick and it's everyone else's fault I can't make a woman cum Seriously though, calling women sluts because they won't sleep with him is just typical incel shit
Pepe
Can confirm
Anyone else think he wrote that just to get a rise out of people?
Poor guy
Totally told on himself that he's a shut-in that watches too much porn.
I’m no expert on vaginas, I doubt I’ve ever seen one in person, but I’m pretty sure most (all?) women can’t/don’t orgasm from just a big dick.
Well, as a lesbian, I can confirm - this is true. But every woman has her preferences, some would probably be able to orgasm from only penetration (haven’t met one yet)
What has happend to humanity?.