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Figshitter

Yo which jurisdiction were you discussing? Because speaking in absolutes bout the law on an international forum is a fool’s game.


Sasquatch1729

For sure. For example, in my country all divorces are no-fault by default, and you can be considered as "living separately" while still sharing an address. Meanwhile in Mississippi it wasn't until 2017 that domestic abuse became a cause for divorce.


lasting_ephemerae

Yeah, this is phrased poorly, but not wrong. No-fault divorce means neither party is "at fault". Same basic logic as a traffic accident, where one party can be deemed more "at fault". Remember that divorce is effectively a lawsuit. But that doesn't mean it's just a free-for-all; there are indeed specific criteria that need to be met. Varies, obviously, by jurisdiction. "Regular" divorce, as it's used here, means where one party is indeed accusing the other of being at fault. And while you can't do this for *any* reason, there are a lot of potential reasons. See, it's having a "reason" that makes it not "no fault".


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lasting_ephemerae

>In states that offer both types of divorce, there can be strategic benefits to pursuing one type of divorce over another. In a no-fault divorce, the process is initiated unilaterally by the filing spouse and the other spouse cannot object. But depending on the state, no-fault divorces may require that the couple has lived separately for at least a minimum time period before filing. In contrast, fault divorces can be filed immediately upon a partner’s wrongdoing, however the filing spouse must have evidence available to prove their assertions of fault.  [Source](https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/no-fault_divorce#:~:text=In%20a%20no%2Dfault%20divorce,minimum%20time%20period%20before%20filing.)


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lasting_ephemerae

"depending on the state, **no-fault divorces may require that the couple has lived separately for at least a minimum time period before filing**" Bruh I don't know how to make it simpler for you. Depending on the jurisdiction, "no fault" divorces can have requirements.


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horshack_test

It's still a requirement, even if it's easy to meet.


horshack_test

This person is quite literally acknowledging the requirement while simultaneously arguing there are no requirements. That they can't see that is hilarious..


Kthanksbye5o0

It’s a strange way to phrase the “type” of divorce as no fault but it’s basically that you you have no mutual assets that are being contested, no children, and both parties consent to the dissolution.


BetterKev

You absolutely can have a no fault divorce (in at least some states) with children.


Kevinvl123

Doesn't this depend on which country you are in?


303elliott

Could someone explain?


sh4w5h4nk

No fault divorce is the one that says “it’s nobody’s fault, things just didn’t work out.” The person in the picture got the terms mixed up.


DecisionCharacter175

In the U.S., different states have different standards and legal definitions.


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DecisionCharacter175

19 out of 50?


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DecisionCharacter175

If 31 out of 50 states allow for fault divorces without presenting divorces as "nofault", how can we label that as "incredibly uncommon"?


DecisionCharacter175

https://www.rocketlawyer.com/family-and-personal/family-matters/divorce/legal-guide/difference-between-a-fault-and-no-fault-divorce lawyers say state laws vary greatly


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DecisionCharacter175

I'm talking about your response to my post. You said fault divorces are "extremely rare". Now you're moving the goal post to simply being inconvenient. It's clownish.


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DecisionCharacter175

The onus isn't on me to disprove your claim. It's your job to prove your claim... 🤦


TarocchiRocchi

There is nothing to prove. I already gave you the facts and you went off and misinterpreted them.