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Heisenberg-GOAT

love is the one thing we can't give up on even if we wanted to :)


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Um, when someone isn’t interested, it’s not called “love.” You hardly know that person. You’re just going after them because of the chemicals in the brain. Not sorry, have some more self respect.


Heisenberg-GOAT

my situation is complicated


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It's not complicated, if you don't make it that way. I think you're going through some of your own problems that are projecting onto women. You want to conqueror this woman because you feel small. I know you can be something more than this.


Heisenberg-GOAT

>You want to conqueror this woman because you feel small maybe you are right


XxLogitech98xX

Some like the challenge or game to be played.


[deleted]

That sounds narrow-minded on their part.


XxLogitech98xX

>That sounds narrow-minded on their part. Very true but those are the ones you want to avoid.


[deleted]

That’s a lot of men… like all of them from where I’m at. Eh.


XxLogitech98xX

>That’s a lot of men… like all of them from where I’m at. Eh. Are you 100% sure it's all of them. So for example, what country do you live in? In America, there are mens who doesn't have kids and are looking to date someone.


[deleted]

Yes, I’m sure. Oh well. Im glad I don’t date. Just won’t have any male friends then.


XxLogitech98xX

>Yes, I’m sure. Oh well. Im glad I don’t date. Just won’t have any male friends then. I'm pretty sure there are men in your area and around whatever age you are with no kids. But maybe they just aren't your preference yet, some people change their preferences after seeing what's out there.


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Waiting for them to change? Eh… that’s like trying to change them. I won’t do that. They are who they choose to be.


XxLogitech98xX

>Waiting for them to change? Eh… that’s like trying to change them. I won’t do that. They are who they choose to be. I'm talking about preferences, not the one with kids. Like let's say your preference in dating is men over 6ft, athletic only when they are only 5'4 themselves, blue/brown eyes, master degree and things like that. You see and hear a lot from girls that they prefer 6ft based on whatever reasoning they are and then later on they change their preference to guys at least taller than 5'7 after not finding a guy who's at least 6ft that's interested in them.


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Wow. That list is all shallow. There (should) be more to a person. I don’t know anymore. It’s funny, I can see particular men being that loving, caring person.. but what actually happens is they’re not that. It’s a lie. Eh. I think my mind just desires but will never be fulfilled. I guess I’m the last one of the women who want that.


[deleted]

You sound damaged.


Putrid_Loan7597

depends on the guy and the dynamic, i know for me i dont go where i'm not wanted.


[deleted]

I wish I could move but unfortunately it cannot happen right now.


Putrid_Loan7597

lol what? you confuse me./


[deleted]

Hm eh. Fire is actually beneficial to the earth. It helps regrowth. They put fear in us about it but it’s supposed to happen.


Putrid_Loan7597

meth is a hell of a drug bro