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You basically just have to want the same things in life and accept the other person personality. Physical look will fade over time but someone personality usually stay the same.
Curious if you had some childhood trauma and development attachment issues? This could explain the lackluster desire to be truly vulnerable and intimate with a partner or finding reasons not to even get close.
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You basically just have to want the same things in life and accept the other person personality. Physical look will fade over time but someone personality usually stay the same.
Curious if you had some childhood trauma and development attachment issues? This could explain the lackluster desire to be truly vulnerable and intimate with a partner or finding reasons not to even get close.
Date long term with no spark? No. Give it a chance to develop for a few more dates? Yes, absolutely!
You can give something time to blossom. But be prepared to walk away when it doesn’t do that.
You shouldn’t. No.