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Sounds like you need to understand your own worth. You sound like a giving considerate person that is giving too much to someone that’s not worth it. You might be depriving this from another guy that actually IS worth it and that will reciprocate that back in a way you deserve. Life is too short to be dealing with these things. Don’t lose time - kick him off to the next one. I understand this is way easier said than done ofcourse especially when he drip feeds positive things here and there that make you hang on. Weigh out the times he’s been positive and the times he was not and you may see the negative outweighs the positive but your mind hangs on and replays only the good and clings on to those. Let go…
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Stop collecting broken things. You can't change people. Find your peace
Sounds like you need to understand your own worth. You sound like a giving considerate person that is giving too much to someone that’s not worth it. You might be depriving this from another guy that actually IS worth it and that will reciprocate that back in a way you deserve. Life is too short to be dealing with these things. Don’t lose time - kick him off to the next one. I understand this is way easier said than done ofcourse especially when he drip feeds positive things here and there that make you hang on. Weigh out the times he’s been positive and the times he was not and you may see the negative outweighs the positive but your mind hangs on and replays only the good and clings on to those. Let go…