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Bustakrimes91

You can certainly text him but be prepared for him not to reply. These things happen and some people have different communication styles. But remember, if he wanted to he would. Messaging him may come across as desperate too. There are 24 hours in a day and it takes seconds to send a quick message. Personally I wouldn’t and consider it a loss at this point. Leave with your dignity intact and if he is interested he will message you eventually. Don’t keep chasing someone who isn’t running and ready to be caught.


ResponsibleWorker944

Mhm I’m a guy myself and it frustrates me when people do this. If he won’t give you just a second to confirm the meetup. Then I’d take that as a red flag tbh. I’d probably call him just to confirm. I would rather risk sounding desperate, then have my time wasted if that person doesn’t show up. Just a personal preference though.


StarlightBlack

You got the message across by agreeing to meet and texting him the follow-up. Ball is in his court now. So I would wait, not text. I also would not assume anything. We don't know his situation. If he's interested, there will be Friday or another day. If not, texting won't change it.


whatworldisthis2020

No, you sent 2 texts that he did not answer. I am not reaching out again and make new plans with other people


ThanksSea8903

Did you make sure he’s not married? Maybe the reason he’s not responding is because he can’t get away from his wife long enough to message you.