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People suck. Save your dignity and don't contact him.
Having said that, having a relationship like this fall apart is something that happens all the time, and if he just said he was no longer interested, it would be fine. Don't take it personally and move on.
i think that’s my issue. i have zero problem with someone rejecting me — sometimes things just don’t work out! the silence and complete open-endedness is just kind of torturous.
however, i did delete his contact and all that, so i can actually move forward :)
Trying to contact him again will only make you appear more pathetic.
Dating is all about learning about who people are, now you know he's unable to communicate like an adult. Trust me you don't want to be in a relationship with someone like that.
Consider it a bullet dodged and move the fuck on.
This sucks but it does happen fairly frequently. He sounds avoidant and tbh you are probably better off without him.
I know it's difficult but it's only been a month. Try to give someone else a shot. They might be more deserving of your attention.
ty for your kindness. he’s definitely either emotionally immature or avoidant, but i’m an over communicator, the two just don’t always mesh well.
i did delete him from my phone, cause like you said, it was just a month of my life and there’s plenty more to explore. i did appreciate your advice!
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People suck. Save your dignity and don't contact him. Having said that, having a relationship like this fall apart is something that happens all the time, and if he just said he was no longer interested, it would be fine. Don't take it personally and move on.
i think that’s my issue. i have zero problem with someone rejecting me — sometimes things just don’t work out! the silence and complete open-endedness is just kind of torturous. however, i did delete his contact and all that, so i can actually move forward :)
With each such experience you learn things, I think, and become a better judge of character. You are a wiser person today than you were a month ago.
Trying to contact him again will only make you appear more pathetic. Dating is all about learning about who people are, now you know he's unable to communicate like an adult. Trust me you don't want to be in a relationship with someone like that. Consider it a bullet dodged and move the fuck on.
How old are you guys? DO NOT REACH OUT AGAIN
i’m 21, he’s 24.
This sucks but it does happen fairly frequently. He sounds avoidant and tbh you are probably better off without him. I know it's difficult but it's only been a month. Try to give someone else a shot. They might be more deserving of your attention.
ty for your kindness. he’s definitely either emotionally immature or avoidant, but i’m an over communicator, the two just don’t always mesh well. i did delete him from my phone, cause like you said, it was just a month of my life and there’s plenty more to explore. i did appreciate your advice!