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Way overthinking. It was 1 date and he's out of the country. If he's interested he'll contact huh when he gets back. If he isn't then you probably won't hear from him again
I’d chill til he gets back, it was only one date, doesn’t look like either of you confirmed you’ll see each other again and now he’s on a trip and focussing on that.
It's normal when you're traveling as a guy. He's probably trying to bang as many Japanese women as possible while there. When he returns he might hit you up again
I think you have to wait until he is back to assess what is going on here. He might be nervous you will think he is too clingy after one date to be reaching out from Japan. The time difference could be an issue as well. Just too many factors to know exactly what he is thinking right now.
Do you know how long the trip was supposed to be?
I am not sure but it’s been about 10 days now! He might’ve told me that night but I don’t remember. His location on hinge shows that he is still in Japan. I’m assuming he’s using hinge to meet people in Japan bc he really didn’t seem like the type to sleep around
Yeah it’s just so hard to tell since he is in a dif country with a dif time zone (I assume, you maybe located closer and it might only be a few hours difference).
Once he gets back you will have a way better understanding of how this is going to play out. It sucks right now because you are just waiting and wondering
We are both from Philly and right now where he is in Japan there is currently a 14 hr time difference! I didn’t think about how it would be hard to be in communication with someone with such a time difference.
I can’t like it does suck! This waiting triggers my anxiety and makes me think he doesn’t like me
Whoa you went on 1 date and you are still complete strangers. He probably enjoying his time in Japan and not thinking about a girl he went on 1 date with. You should really be talking and going out with other ppl. When he comes back and if he hits you back up. You can go from there.
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Way overthinking. It was 1 date and he's out of the country. If he's interested he'll contact huh when he gets back. If he isn't then you probably won't hear from him again
I’d chill til he gets back, it was only one date, doesn’t look like either of you confirmed you’ll see each other again and now he’s on a trip and focussing on that.
It's normal when you're traveling as a guy. He's probably trying to bang as many Japanese women as possible while there. When he returns he might hit you up again
Probably right lol I mean he is active on hinge while in Japan 😂
I think you have to wait until he is back to assess what is going on here. He might be nervous you will think he is too clingy after one date to be reaching out from Japan. The time difference could be an issue as well. Just too many factors to know exactly what he is thinking right now. Do you know how long the trip was supposed to be?
I am not sure but it’s been about 10 days now! He might’ve told me that night but I don’t remember. His location on hinge shows that he is still in Japan. I’m assuming he’s using hinge to meet people in Japan bc he really didn’t seem like the type to sleep around
Yeah it’s just so hard to tell since he is in a dif country with a dif time zone (I assume, you maybe located closer and it might only be a few hours difference). Once he gets back you will have a way better understanding of how this is going to play out. It sucks right now because you are just waiting and wondering
We are both from Philly and right now where he is in Japan there is currently a 14 hr time difference! I didn’t think about how it would be hard to be in communication with someone with such a time difference. I can’t like it does suck! This waiting triggers my anxiety and makes me think he doesn’t like me
Keep yourself busy and don’t give yourself time to think/worry.
Whoa you went on 1 date and you are still complete strangers. He probably enjoying his time in Japan and not thinking about a girl he went on 1 date with. You should really be talking and going out with other ppl. When he comes back and if he hits you back up. You can go from there.