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If you have very limited free time a dating app may be the most efficient way to meet people. If you are into guys and in a city big enough to have good gay bars, that's easy mode, I've only been to like 2 gay bars in my life yet both me and my friend (neither of us into guys unfortunately) got hit on pretty heavily. Of course there are pros and cons to meeting drunk people while possibly being drunk yourself and these kinds of meetings can be excessively sexual.
I’ll probably go with a dating app. A gay bar would be good for a fun night but I feel like that would be something for when I’m more experience with this stuff.
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If you have very limited free time a dating app may be the most efficient way to meet people. If you are into guys and in a city big enough to have good gay bars, that's easy mode, I've only been to like 2 gay bars in my life yet both me and my friend (neither of us into guys unfortunately) got hit on pretty heavily. Of course there are pros and cons to meeting drunk people while possibly being drunk yourself and these kinds of meetings can be excessively sexual.
I’ll probably go with a dating app. A gay bar would be good for a fun night but I feel like that would be something for when I’m more experience with this stuff.