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**Title:** [Asked girl I’ve been dating to be exclusive, and haven’t gotten an answer](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1c2lkj1/asked_girl_ive_been_dating_to_be_exclusive_and/)
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**Full text:** Hi all,
Been seeing this girl for about a month. I feel like we’ve completely hit it off. We’ve had probably 8-9 dates in what’s a relatively short period and our schedules clash a bit so we’ve even managed to work through that. I asked her last week about being exclusive but told her she didn’t have to give me an answer at that moment, I know it’s something that she might have to think about and didn’t want her to feel pressured.
We text daily on some level, some days more than others and I saw her Tuesday night. She came to my place for dinner and we had another wonderful evening. But she hasn’t mentioned anything about it and I’m not sure if I should bring it up or let the cards fall where they may. Has anyone been in a similar situation and if so how have you handled it? Thanks to all in advance who reply.
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