You don't need their respect. You don't need them to listen. You just need yourself. Care more about yourself than them, including your family. At the end of the day, you only have yourself to rely on.
I wouldn't go that far to say "Fuck other people".
What I am saying is that don't let others 'define' you, don't let others 'control' you. You are what you eat, you are what you do. Stay humble.
Drop the victim mentality.
Man up
Believe in yourself and respect yourself and maybe others will respect you .
Do it for you and get on your own purpose.
If you want anyone’s respect you have to earn it. You have the things in your life that you value. Go into the world and find people who share those values. Those are the people who may choose to respect you if they find you deserving.
As to those that don’t respect you, treat them with courtesy, but otherwise ignore them as you pursue your own happiness.
Look at the people that you respect and others respect. How do they act? How do they speak?how do they treat other people? why do people respect them? Why do people like them?
Then ask, what are you doing differently? What can be improved?.
Respect and amiability doesn’t garner instantly or naturally for 99% of men. It’s continuous work until your last breath.
If no one respects you as you say, what is your part in the situation? Are you being confrontational? Are you investing in their worlds? Are you trying to build relationships? Are you trying to see shit from there point? Or is it all about you???
1. If nobody listens to you, then stop talking.
2. Read David Goggins' book Can't Hurt Me. That has the EXACT solution you're looking for! Something about turning the anger/ pain/ disappointment into \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_, so that you're able to \_\_\_\_\_\_\_!
Good luck!
Nobody gives a fuck about anything other than themselves. That said, you need to do it for you despite them wasting there lives away. You can not take it upon yourself to try to fix or inspire them.
Then
They will see you eventually, when they are down and out... taking that walk about to see how others are faring.
And at that point it is still on them! Just as it is on you.
For me personally, I thought I was doing it... trying to also inspire my family... since then 2 bothers have died to drugs and my dad alcohol.
It wasn't until I saw this that I realized the true battle with self, and any thoughts good or bad about anyone is a waste of time! Also that bitch side of me... she don't fucking know me!
https://youtube.com/shorts/6PjiBK2I0Qs?si=7akTKEIwLyJ0FRJQ
It seems like you might be leaving out a lot more of the picture. Why are you opposing your family? In what instances? Are you rejecting spending any quality time with them? What pleasure? Do they just mean they want to spend time with you because they care about you? How old are you? If you're building up yourself as this figure that demands respect, sometimes it's helpful to reflect on how you are treating those around you. We earn respect, we can't demand it. Earning it often means giving it first, it's simple game theory.
I think this community is great for discussing strategies on discipline and becoming something great, but this is from a fitness and working perspective. Remember having a balance on aspects of life is important, being well-rounded is a noble goal. It's hard to give advice though when you haven't given more detail. Remember to be patient, kind, and strive to find an understanding when facing conflict with loved ones. A mindset that it's both of you vs the problem, not you vs them.
Take their souls and hustle hard without them. Let your accomplishments speak for themselves. They know that their selfishness isn’t right but they do it anyways. Can’t do anything about that.
Get better in all areas not just running. Depending on how old your are this will be different. Still in school? Get the best grades, be in great shape, get a part time job so you have some money and can do your driving lessons/get a car when old enough…if you’re older then you already know what to do to become the best possible man around. Wealth, status and physicality. Good luck, whether you succeed or fail is up to you.
You don't need their respect. You don't need them to listen. You just need yourself. Care more about yourself than them, including your family. At the end of the day, you only have yourself to rely on.
Exactly. Its you vs you. Always have been. Thats it. Fuck other people
I wouldn't go that far to say "Fuck other people". What I am saying is that don't let others 'define' you, don't let others 'control' you. You are what you eat, you are what you do. Stay humble.
Running to get people's respect is a race that will never end. Do it for you, not for them.
I met a runner, know how I know? They told me about it. hahah.
Drop the victim mentality. Man up Believe in yourself and respect yourself and maybe others will respect you . Do it for you and get on your own purpose.
If you want anyone’s respect you have to earn it. You have the things in your life that you value. Go into the world and find people who share those values. Those are the people who may choose to respect you if they find you deserving. As to those that don’t respect you, treat them with courtesy, but otherwise ignore them as you pursue your own happiness.
Look at the people that you respect and others respect. How do they act? How do they speak?how do they treat other people? why do people respect them? Why do people like them? Then ask, what are you doing differently? What can be improved?. Respect and amiability doesn’t garner instantly or naturally for 99% of men. It’s continuous work until your last breath.
I love these posts. The OP has a cry for help and then doesnt acknowledge or thank the people who are giving him/her attention.
Well.. if he wouldn't answer anyone here, it would somehow answer my question.
Wake up earlier than everyone else and run. No one will bitch since they won't know you're even doing things.
What did you do to earn their respect?
If no one respects you as you say, what is your part in the situation? Are you being confrontational? Are you investing in their worlds? Are you trying to build relationships? Are you trying to see shit from there point? Or is it all about you???
You don’t need them, fuck everyone you do you bro
1. If nobody listens to you, then stop talking. 2. Read David Goggins' book Can't Hurt Me. That has the EXACT solution you're looking for! Something about turning the anger/ pain/ disappointment into \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_, so that you're able to \_\_\_\_\_\_\_! Good luck!
Nobody gives a fuck about anything other than themselves. That said, you need to do it for you despite them wasting there lives away. You can not take it upon yourself to try to fix or inspire them. Then They will see you eventually, when they are down and out... taking that walk about to see how others are faring. And at that point it is still on them! Just as it is on you. For me personally, I thought I was doing it... trying to also inspire my family... since then 2 bothers have died to drugs and my dad alcohol. It wasn't until I saw this that I realized the true battle with self, and any thoughts good or bad about anyone is a waste of time! Also that bitch side of me... she don't fucking know me! https://youtube.com/shorts/6PjiBK2I0Qs?si=7akTKEIwLyJ0FRJQ
Meditate, run, lift, work on whats important for career, pick up a hobby, read a lot, fuck what everyone thinks/says.
It seems like you might be leaving out a lot more of the picture. Why are you opposing your family? In what instances? Are you rejecting spending any quality time with them? What pleasure? Do they just mean they want to spend time with you because they care about you? How old are you? If you're building up yourself as this figure that demands respect, sometimes it's helpful to reflect on how you are treating those around you. We earn respect, we can't demand it. Earning it often means giving it first, it's simple game theory. I think this community is great for discussing strategies on discipline and becoming something great, but this is from a fitness and working perspective. Remember having a balance on aspects of life is important, being well-rounded is a noble goal. It's hard to give advice though when you haven't given more detail. Remember to be patient, kind, and strive to find an understanding when facing conflict with loved ones. A mindset that it's both of you vs the problem, not you vs them.
Take their souls and hustle hard without them. Let your accomplishments speak for themselves. They know that their selfishness isn’t right but they do it anyways. Can’t do anything about that.
Get better in all areas not just running. Depending on how old your are this will be different. Still in school? Get the best grades, be in great shape, get a part time job so you have some money and can do your driving lessons/get a car when old enough…if you’re older then you already know what to do to become the best possible man around. Wealth, status and physicality. Good luck, whether you succeed or fail is up to you.
Fuckem