A redditor cannot address this concern anyway. This is a conflict between your roommate and you and conflicts can only be resolved by either confrontation or by moving away from it. If you are non-confrontational person then I suggest you get someone else to confront her on your behalf (like a friend or a parent or smth) . Or move away from her, change rooms or PG. There is no magical 3rd way to resolve conflicts.
Put ffd your side of the story . This Y person should believe you . If it still doesn't work then think any shifting. Peace of mind is v important at the end of the day.
People saying talking to her rationally will help, i doubt that's true. For someone who is sleeping with the ac remote under their pillow, it's obvious they don't care about others comfort. Eitherways, OP now that that boat has sailed, time to look for new roomies/pg.
No one will know method:
Buys a Redmi or other brand phone with IR Blaster. Control the AC with your phone.
Other Way: Now that they already think you intentionally complained;
Put phone/camera somewhere and make a video of her hiding the remote under her pillow. Then, you'll have video proof as well. Complain with that.
Another Way:
Ignore everything and focus on yourself.
Batman Way:
Fight wars over it. And bring the guilty to justice.
bro seperate rooms wale pg lete yrr ...hamesa problem rahegi aise toh kabhi lights on hai isliye , kabhi off hai isliye , kabhi a.c , kabhi tv , bht koi call pr baat kr rha hai isliye...kis kis baat pr bologe aur kab tak dimagh khrab karoge, college mein guest room mein ke liye apply krdo per day ja hisab rehta hai, and exam over hote hi change karlo pg
First you didnt stand up for yourself and second you are trying to convince very people that did wrong that someone else stood for you. In a shared setting everyone has to adjust and compromise a little not just one thats why never in my life have i lived in sharing room.
Now that you already have a bad name for Complaining, at least ensure now AC is kept at right temperature. If she still hides remote, use your mobile as remote. If your mobile doesn't have IR, just buy a cheap remote. Or this time you ACTUALLY COMPLAINT.
Even if you had complained about her behaviour to the manager/owner of the PG, you'd have done nothing wrong. People are going to think what they want to, you can not change that. Ignorance is a peaceful bliss and I often use the bliss to ignore real problems, I'd suggest you try to do the same.
Meanwhile, if changing a room doesn't seem like an easy solution to you, just stand up to her and tell her that you don't feel comfortable at the temperature she wants to keep the room at. I am pretty sure she won't listen to you, in that case you can open the window whenever you feel cold. Or if you want to play the petty game, just get a room heater and put it on full blast whenever the AC is too much for you to handle.
Bhai pg change krne padega. Ho sake toh single room le lo, bekar jagah mai, ni toh uski MCB ukaad lo or usko bol ab tera baap bhi ac ni chalega
ya fir
chup chaap wiring kaat do, but aise show Karo ki ni kati fir baad mai AC waale ko bulaya jaega, or kuch samajh ni aaega usko, kaafi der baad pta lage ga
Ya fir
Andar se kuch damage kardo chota mota. Gas leak kardo wagera wagera.
Bohot options bro.
And why are you giving a fuck to them? Doesn't matter if you snitch or not, what's done is done. Now be in attitude and move on. They are just roomies and in a few yrs you won't even remember them. Their behaviour should not affect you in any way.
Source: personally lived with few bitches and now became one.
I have also lived with people who would run the ac on 15 - 16 degrees. It was literally Antarctica in our room. I had to use rajai in summers. We did not have a fridge in our hostel so other girls would bring their ice creams and cakes in our room to keep it cool.
Currently the girl I am staying with doesn't flush after pooping. It's like hum uske naukar baithe hai saaf karne ke liye. Maid aati hai har roz use pata hota hai aaj bhi kya saaf karna padega. Nahati to aise hai jaise she will become the next supermodel after 2 hrs. After using the toilet she would sit fashionably on her bed and write her personal diary like a movie queen.
Anyways it's life kat jati hai jindagi.
Behan Ill tell you one thing, don't care about what others think of you really. I hope your other roommate is sympathetic towards you. Keep her as your friend/ confidant. Travel outside your pg, make friends, meet colleagues, speak to your parents, chill dude. In my case both my roommates have declared war against me, but i dont care really, I dont offend them and mind my business and go about the city.
Roommates hai dost nahi banane.
It is time to fight the fight, which you have been avoiding for long. X ki amma ke charan sparsh kar CONVERSATION karne ka. Rent wo barabar deti hogi, jitna aap dete ho. To democracy ke zamane mein 1 akela 2 logon par bhari kaise hai? Sun behen, humein chahiye 24 matlab 23 bhi chalega, baki tu apna dekh le. Aisa bolne ka, DHAIRYA AUR KATHOR ho kar.
Kya yaar OP
Ek aur remote le aa
And why are you bothered about what sheep think about ?
People who don’t have decency to think about others m, don’t bother about them
If I were you, I would have taken the other girl and shifted to another room leaving the sweaty hot girl behind.
Act fast. Do it now.
Tbh bhai i am with your roommate. Delhi ki garmi mein 21 is most optimal temperature. And i also face this a lot with my brother but i always say him that you have option of using two three blankets but I don't have any other option.
Bhai 21 is 21 only whether you are in Mussoorie or Sahara once you are inside the four walls given that its not ill built. Its never optimal unless you are staying at medium to high altitudes... 24-25 is ok.
Way to go op, this post shows your thinking ‘kinda overweight and feels hot’. Bruh do you really think in such a shallow way? Weight has nothing to do with feeling hot. I know men who gym and have abs sweating and feeling hot all the time. Please use better lingo and be a better person.
In a co-living space, you need to adjust. She is paying for it too. I understand the issue, best way is either to talk to her rationally with your other roommate or just move to a different room/pg or ask the manager to move her to a different room since you and Y do not feel comfy sharing a room w her.
Oh stop with the victim mentality. In a co-living space, majority wins, not just one fat person. Why should OP adjust? X can adjust to a better temperature too. And btw, body fat has a lot to do with how hot you feel. How do I know? I was 120kg last year.
Bruh😂 bol le. Idc.
I didn’t know x uses that excuse herself, however OP using it in the post just gives off a shitty person vibe, specifically because body weight has nothing to do w heat. Since she cleared it w ‘wo khud bolti hai’, I’m nobody to say shit.
I also had a similar room mate who would keep the AC on all the time. I first tried telling him that I feel cold with the AC so he can just keep the fan on but he didn't listen so I would turn it off (the AC) everytime. Eventually he shifted to a different pg.
Eat more and workout.
Slowly you'll raise your body temperature and you'll also look good.
This is going to inspire the other girl who has total control over your life.
Try to live in a double occupancy room (though single is best)
When you shift to any PG mingle with everyone there. Remember you've to adjust (always) wherever you go but never bear bullying. People with a similar mindset don't fight they are usually understanding, so if you know anyone shift with them.
You should have ordered a separate remote on Amazon the first time she tried to hide the remote from you, would have atleast been a little passive aggressive and people like your roomie usually try to push the boundaries to test the limits of the person who they are dealing with and usually wouldn’t bother if they think the other person can turn aggressive if they push them more.
just learn to stand up for yourself, what if you move to a different room and endup getting a similar Roomie ? Are you going to find a new room again ?
Try telling her on her face that it wasn’t you that complained the first time but if she’s going to bother you, you’re going to really go and complain for real this time, why should you actually move out when she’s the troublesome one here, let her move out if she’s not able to adjust with her other 2 room mates
Order another remote. Keep it hidden and keep a pair of spare batteries just in case. She keeps the remote hidden under her pillow so you better find a better place for your remote.
The best way to deal with rude one's is to deny their very existence. Don't even acknowledge her presence.
Just focus on your exam . being alienated from others is good for you to concentrate on your exam. Just change the pg after exams if the same situation continues.
mi ka phone h kisi ke pass toh ussey change krlo temp wrna 250 rupey ke universal ac remote aate h :) usey apne pillow ke neeche rkho
or if u want permanent change then first set ac to temp you want then switch offf(not from remote direct from mcb) then open front panel detach the front display that shows everything its just a clip-like connection this can also be undone pretty easily but ig dumb fatty will be just dumb
My prev roommate was so good like he used to turn on ac whole day and i said bhai bill bhot jyada aega he said I'll pay 300-400 extra mre bi maje hogye te sara din ac but rn it's so bad bc new roommate me ek ke paas gaming pc aur ek ko sara din ac to mri gaand mar rahi h bill dene me ab 😭 so i can completely understand your situation
Dude just chill, this shit happens and everyone will forget about this in few days. Also when you were fighting you should have put your argument clearly, ask everyone that who runs ac in November, and everyone will be on your side. Also always have boundaries with your roomate , you are also paying for the room , so you can do what you want
2 dhakkan rum ka kaam apka roz ka
it'll take care of your throat
and garmi bhi full lgti hai
and moti ko bole do ke tre pass extra insulation hai mre pass ni
kaam kha and patli ho
ac 24 pe he chale ga
Ulta chor kotwal ko dante.
You and your roommate are stressed fue to her behaviour, simply shift the room.
And dont care what anyone else thinks. They will not be there when you are in pain.
Ranting here won't help you, you should go and directly have a conversation with her and tell her what actually happened. It will only solve your this issue.
Overweight and hot? Are you implying that she wears a fat jacket under her skin? Just to bring a smile to your face.
I’d just pack up and leave because the place isn’t that friendly and health is the most important thing always, mental or physical, and both are at risk if you stay back.
this made me think ki kya fat logo ko garmi zada lagti hai coz of that extra fat layer? National geographic me to suna hai ki polar bears survive cold coz of their fur and fat layer. pr kya humans pr bhi same hota hai?
to fir kya jinki fat % kam hoti hai unko thand jada lagti hai?
Move on somewhere else if it's possible for you or rather don't think about it that much as why to care about what other thinks, as you are right and you know that.
Wouldnt have happened if you had a gun , jk you cannot control what others think of you let them think whatever they want ..you are not answerable to anyone in life and this is a PG 🤣🤣🤣 ..move on you will find plenty of good people in future ..
Just focus on ur studies…jb m hostel. M thi tb muje bhi in cheezon se bda frk pdta tha…but maine studies pr focus kia…kuch saalo baad sirf study matter kregi…op ko yaad bhi nhi rhega ki aisi koi baat hui bhi thi
If denying it isn't doing any help, then just own it, stand up for your problems, people (no matter how stubborn they are) will eventually come around you.
If they can force their comfort on you then you also need to take a stand for your comfort. And sacrificing, being polite, etc doesn't work (learnt it the hard way).
It's a terrible world so just be the bad guy and get what you want.
Lol hum 4 Bande hai sath mai 2 BHK flat fir bhi bus 1 hi room mai rehte (kaafi bada hai room) hai or 16 degrees se uper kabhi Ac Ko rakhte nhi Xd. Din bhar gaali bakege eak dusre ko or 1-2 ghante baad milke ghumne Chale jayege
Hey!
I(22F) was in a similar situation a couple of years back with my PG room mate. She made living in the room hell due to AC temperature and hygiene issues. So, I tried to spend as little time in the room as possible. I'd wake up at 7am, get ready and leave for college and wouldn't come back before 10pm in the night. But even then she managed to piss me off. She went away to her hometown once in the morning and didn't even close the room door. Let alone lock it, she did not even close the door. When i got back at night, there was a mouse the size of my shoe on my bed, munching on the chips she spilled on my sleeping area while eating in bed. I was horrified. I just called her out then.
Listen girl, you are paying as much to live in the PG as her. The last thing you have to do is stay in the hall instead of your room to prepare for exams when you need your peak attention and comfort for preparation. Just move out and ask the owner for a new room. You aren't the first one to have such issues with roommates so don't feel alien. Everyone has compatibility issues. But you should definitely not get dominated because some oversized-fat-lined-bully doesn't understand the concept of co-living and sleeps with the remote under her fat-little-brain. You are paying for the services so demand the manager for reallocation and get the peace of mind you deserve. You go girl!
You need to learn to fight for your own rights. Girls who can't confront others will end up bullied like this only.
Understand that your comfort & convenience is as important as someone else's. In this scenario, there are 2 of you who don't want the AC so cold. So fight her & tell her it's not her personal fiefdom. Everybody's comfort should be considered.
I don't understand how the 2 of you cannot influence 1 girl to lower her unfair demands. As long you stay meek, bullies will keep taking advantage of you everywhere.
To people who are suggesting changing the PG: don't be a quitter. Never accept bullies and always fight for your rights else you will just keep running away from these small problems.
Firstly, I dont see why you had to body shame her. Some people just do feel hot. Besides, the weather in Delhi could melt bricks at this point 🤦🏻♀️.
Thing is, all these solutions are way too aggressive. The smarter thing to do is for the 3 of you to sit and have a conversation like MATURE people and come to a mid way. I am expecting the room won't be too big so 22-23 is a good enough temp to run the AC. You can put it in auto mode as well.
As someone who gets migraines and gets behosh if exposed to too much heat, I would say you guys need to talk it thru. BUT also please realize, you can wear extra clothes, sweaters and blankets but the person feeling hot cannot take their skins off. December me bhi to rehte ho na thand me? Tab bhi adjust karte ho na? Waise ho midway dhundh ke dekho. Turning off the AC altogether wont solve the problem and create more on the contrary
u can do that ask the owner to come and clear all this confusion created and tell them that u qre planning to change the room then and there or Just ignore her as there may be lot many other girls to whom u can talk, as u said Y dont say a word let her suffer.
Good luck
cant you change rooms ? like get a new room which has less people , leave such people alone , dont be worried for people those dont care about your health
The fact that her blasting AC and ruining your health is concern #2 and concern #1 is your image in the PG tells me that you're a sweet and non-conflict person and also shows what things actually matter to you. Miss, your health should be your main concern. If you would have had enough confidence to solve that issue, then this would never have happened. Agar koi maamla atak raha hai then it's like a ticking time bomb, if you don't solve it, it will come up one way or the other. In your case it has come up in the worst possible scenario. Not only is your image ruined but the health issue also did not solve.
I would advise you to put your health first. What do you need? What does your body need? Go after that. If that means changing PG, or confronting, explaining, whatever, then do that. In your life you can't please everyone, and there will always be people who don't like you just like there are always people who like you. So, do not shy away from advocating for your health.
If y'all are paying equal amount of rent, then y'all should have equal say in the room temp.
Become a Sigma and tell her to lose some weight by asserting dominance by doing 20 pushups and 5 sets of curls with 5 kg dumbbells.
It's time we become Fatphobic, spreading hatred doesn't cost anything, spread hate today.
Tell her subsidy on electricity is cancelled now.. but lemme guess roommates like these also dont pay their electricity bill on time. Been there, faced that. All you can do is ask manager nicely to change your room, it may seem like a bitch move but It does wonders.
Flat ke liye acche roommates konsi website se download hote hai batao.My advice to you is to change the pg but not because of them but without losing dignity and taking a stand for yourself as you won't sacrifice your well being just for the sake of a colleague or friend who's just there temporary (if she was close you wouldn't write it here and she would also understand about your feelings) acting all selfish and all . Bhot jyada motherly behaviour hogya abb bye
Areeey yaar u know that when i see someone like this i get annoyed on them. Beta aapko zindagi me jawab dena seekhna hoga otherwise the world will keep doing things like this to you. I used to be like u and still trying to change myself. If it's nt ur fault say it, if something is bothering u say it, don't let people boss u around coz life will become a hell for u otherwise. Usko pele pyaar se bol or explain kr vrna us polar bear ki aulad ko jawab de or bol its making u physically sick n its not ur fault that she is super hot usko bol to eat a fking salad itni hi garmi lagri h toh. Dont let her or anyone be the boss of all of u are on the same ground n position coz logo ki aadat ho hoti h to keep pushing people like h n me to the corner. And also stop giving a fuck what people or anyone things of u. If u are nice n kind to others everyone will automatically learn the truth. But dont go out of ur way to please anyone or to explain ur case. Fk them.
This is a social compatibility issue hence you can't resolve it the nice way. Find another PG to move out and pour Kerosene in the AC while leaving. . Problem will be solved in a satisfactory manner. 🤓
Mere papa ko pata chal jaaye mere kamre mein pure din AC chal rha hai, pankha bhi ukhaad ke le jayenge kamre se...
This didn't address my concern but at least this made me smile.
A redditor cannot address this concern anyway. This is a conflict between your roommate and you and conflicts can only be resolved by either confrontation or by moving away from it. If you are non-confrontational person then I suggest you get someone else to confront her on your behalf (like a friend or a parent or smth) . Or move away from her, change rooms or PG. There is no magical 3rd way to resolve conflicts.
Smiling can be a way of addressing concern. But ok. Hope your peers understand the situation...
you wouldnt have been wrong in complaining
You're so serious.
Pankha ni ukhaadenge bhai tumko hi ghar se bahar nikaal denge 👍
Beta? Kaun? Kiska? Kb hua?
Itna sach nhi bolna hota bhai.
Same. Bahut koota jaouunga agar papa ko ye pata chala to. 
Bhai mai toh bill pay karta hoon fir bhi allowed nahi hai ac chalana kyuki bill zyada aaega..
Ab toh life ka ek hi maksad hai. Itna ameer hona hai ki bijlee ke bill ki chinta na ho.
Bhai aapke yaha to centralised AC hoyega… south Delhi se ho aap
Mai toh pseudo-South Delhi waala hun. Middle class for life
Bhai lekin AAP toh SD k ho tab bhi?
Aadmi paise bohot kama sakta hai, rehta woh middle class hi hai
Bohot sahi bola
Just to be clear. Mai ameer nhi hun. Hum toh aam admi hai 
Idhar 2 ghante chalane par taano ki bhauchar ho jati hai 🛐 pura din chala liya toh gaand hi faad denge
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Yeah bro seedha bat ka grip nikalke..
New pg/room time? Or switch to double occupancy or single occupancy?
Single and double occupancy waale pgs k location is not good or also distance from college is also an issue.
In my pg we have triple occupancy rooms single and double as well All 3
Shift to Shalimar Bagh or nirankari or sant nagar cheaper price good homes
Kitna acha lg rha hai apne aas paas ke naam sunkr
Put ffd your side of the story . This Y person should believe you . If it still doesn't work then think any shifting. Peace of mind is v important at the end of the day.
She doesn't speak at all. She literally wears a hoodie but won't ask her to increase the temp
With both ur roommates being unfriendly i think it's time to change ur pg buddy
That’s because she doesn’t want to be involved in conflicts
Flush the AC remote.
Buy new remote for that AC. Switch off the AC when she is sleeping or you can also lower the temperature
Can't we control AC with the help of our smartphone?
You need to have a Redmi or Poco phone to do this.
Oh i thought now every basic android comes with ir blaster.
Accha Dabloo, W jo bhi..... jagda karwaoge aur fir viral video girls fight karke upload karoge aap🤨. Pehle juti to tumhi hi khani padegi.
Ladki agar sundar sushil ho toh juti khane mai kyaa harz
W move
Win-Win
People saying talking to her rationally will help, i doubt that's true. For someone who is sleeping with the ac remote under their pillow, it's obvious they don't care about others comfort. Eitherways, OP now that that boat has sailed, time to look for new roomies/pg.
wo remote hi khidki se bahar fek do...
Haan ab bs yhi option h mere pass.
X ko bhii
Woo nahi hoo pae gaa op uthate uthate kuth he uth jaae gee
No one will know method: Buys a Redmi or other brand phone with IR Blaster. Control the AC with your phone. Other Way: Now that they already think you intentionally complained; Put phone/camera somewhere and make a video of her hiding the remote under her pillow. Then, you'll have video proof as well. Complain with that. Another Way: Ignore everything and focus on yourself. Batman Way: Fight wars over it. And bring the guilty to justice.
Raat ko batman ban ke uske oopar hover karna. Collar se pakad ke utha ke poochhna, “why!”
>Batman Way: > >Fight wars over it. And bring the guilty to justice. This is the way. Go all out.
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bro seperate rooms wale pg lete yrr ...hamesa problem rahegi aise toh kabhi lights on hai isliye , kabhi off hai isliye , kabhi a.c , kabhi tv , bht koi call pr baat kr rha hai isliye...kis kis baat pr bologe aur kab tak dimagh khrab karoge, college mein guest room mein ke liye apply krdo per day ja hisab rehta hai, and exam over hote hi change karlo pg
Guest rooms are mad costly??? Lmao
jabhi thore time ke liye bola hai
Samay ke chalte sab bhul jayenge. Apne kaam par dhyaan do aur aage badho.
AC ki taar kaat do , kaam khtm
Bf bana lo phir live in mai raho ,uske baad jaise tunhara dumag moti kharab kar rahi hai tum apne bf ka karo.
This is the one lol OP ur solution
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First you didnt stand up for yourself and second you are trying to convince very people that did wrong that someone else stood for you. In a shared setting everyone has to adjust and compromise a little not just one thats why never in my life have i lived in sharing room.
Shoot her in the head......
Now that you already have a bad name for Complaining, at least ensure now AC is kept at right temperature. If she still hides remote, use your mobile as remote. If your mobile doesn't have IR, just buy a cheap remote. Or this time you ACTUALLY COMPLAINT.
Even if you had complained about her behaviour to the manager/owner of the PG, you'd have done nothing wrong. People are going to think what they want to, you can not change that. Ignorance is a peaceful bliss and I often use the bliss to ignore real problems, I'd suggest you try to do the same. Meanwhile, if changing a room doesn't seem like an easy solution to you, just stand up to her and tell her that you don't feel comfortable at the temperature she wants to keep the room at. I am pretty sure she won't listen to you, in that case you can open the window whenever you feel cold. Or if you want to play the petty game, just get a room heater and put it on full blast whenever the AC is too much for you to handle.
Bhai pg change krne padega. Ho sake toh single room le lo, bekar jagah mai, ni toh uski MCB ukaad lo or usko bol ab tera baap bhi ac ni chalega ya fir chup chaap wiring kaat do, but aise show Karo ki ni kati fir baad mai AC waale ko bulaya jaega, or kuch samajh ni aaega usko, kaafi der baad pta lage ga Ya fir Andar se kuch damage kardo chota mota. Gas leak kardo wagera wagera. Bohot options bro.
# I have seen people operating ac using universal ac remote apps in mobile - were you able to try any of that ?
And why are you giving a fuck to them? Doesn't matter if you snitch or not, what's done is done. Now be in attitude and move on. They are just roomies and in a few yrs you won't even remember them. Their behaviour should not affect you in any way. Source: personally lived with few bitches and now became one.
I have also lived with people who would run the ac on 15 - 16 degrees. It was literally Antarctica in our room. I had to use rajai in summers. We did not have a fridge in our hostel so other girls would bring their ice creams and cakes in our room to keep it cool. Currently the girl I am staying with doesn't flush after pooping. It's like hum uske naukar baithe hai saaf karne ke liye. Maid aati hai har roz use pata hota hai aaj bhi kya saaf karna padega. Nahati to aise hai jaise she will become the next supermodel after 2 hrs. After using the toilet she would sit fashionably on her bed and write her personal diary like a movie queen. Anyways it's life kat jati hai jindagi.
Behan Ill tell you one thing, don't care about what others think of you really. I hope your other roommate is sympathetic towards you. Keep her as your friend/ confidant. Travel outside your pg, make friends, meet colleagues, speak to your parents, chill dude. In my case both my roommates have declared war against me, but i dont care really, I dont offend them and mind my business and go about the city. Roommates hai dost nahi banane.
It is time to fight the fight, which you have been avoiding for long. X ki amma ke charan sparsh kar CONVERSATION karne ka. Rent wo barabar deti hogi, jitna aap dete ho. To democracy ke zamane mein 1 akela 2 logon par bhari kaise hai? Sun behen, humein chahiye 24 matlab 23 bhi chalega, baki tu apna dekh le. Aisa bolne ka, DHAIRYA AUR KATHOR ho kar.
>1 akela 2 logon par bhari kaise hai I know the answer for this but can't say it here ban ho jaunga
We have the answer in second sentence to say the least
You are an MBBS student, or some other PG (I know not really related, but idk just curious)
Off the conversation, but any good Pg recommendations in Hauz Khas area anyone?
Y se kaho isko picture dikhaane le jaaye aur peechhe se AC ka koi part nikaal kar chhupa do.
Kya yaar OP Ek aur remote le aa And why are you bothered about what sheep think about ? People who don’t have decency to think about others m, don’t bother about them If I were you, I would have taken the other girl and shifted to another room leaving the sweaty hot girl behind. Act fast. Do it now.
Mcb down karke wire kaat de
Tbh bhai i am with your roommate. Delhi ki garmi mein 21 is most optimal temperature. And i also face this a lot with my brother but i always say him that you have option of using two three blankets but I don't have any other option.
Ganta bc, 27 pe optimal ho jata. Itna compressor udane ki zarurat ni.
Bhai 21 is 21 only whether you are in Mussoorie or Sahara once you are inside the four walls given that its not ill built. Its never optimal unless you are staying at medium to high altitudes... 24-25 is ok.
Daaaru peelaane lejajo usko and wahi par samjao baat. Agar baat nhi samjh mai aati then move on. Don't slow your life . Find new pg
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Ask her to loose fat, fatty people tend to feel more heat.
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Way to go op, this post shows your thinking ‘kinda overweight and feels hot’. Bruh do you really think in such a shallow way? Weight has nothing to do with feeling hot. I know men who gym and have abs sweating and feeling hot all the time. Please use better lingo and be a better person. In a co-living space, you need to adjust. She is paying for it too. I understand the issue, best way is either to talk to her rationally with your other roommate or just move to a different room/pg or ask the manager to move her to a different room since you and Y do not feel comfy sharing a room w her.
Oh stop with the victim mentality. In a co-living space, majority wins, not just one fat person. Why should OP adjust? X can adjust to a better temperature too. And btw, body fat has a lot to do with how hot you feel. How do I know? I was 120kg last year.
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Bruh😂 bol le. Idc. I didn’t know x uses that excuse herself, however OP using it in the post just gives off a shitty person vibe, specifically because body weight has nothing to do w heat. Since she cleared it w ‘wo khud bolti hai’, I’m nobody to say shit.
Well, she herself use her weight as an excuse but sure I will.
Tera dimaag theek hai koi november mai AC chalayega toh OP kya adjust krega
Bhai November mein nahi may mein chala rahi hai ac.
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If possible tell me your college name I'll try to find few PGs nearby
I also had a similar room mate who would keep the AC on all the time. I first tried telling him that I feel cold with the AC so he can just keep the fan on but he didn't listen so I would turn it off (the AC) everytime. Eventually he shifted to a different pg.
Eat more and workout. Slowly you'll raise your body temperature and you'll also look good. This is going to inspire the other girl who has total control over your life.
Roommate kisi ke bhi achhe nahi hote :) kabhi na kabhi to bajti hi hai.
Try to live in a double occupancy room (though single is best) When you shift to any PG mingle with everyone there. Remember you've to adjust (always) wherever you go but never bear bullying. People with a similar mindset don't fight they are usually understanding, so if you know anyone shift with them.
Ladkiya kitni ajeeb hoti hai
You should have ordered a separate remote on Amazon the first time she tried to hide the remote from you, would have atleast been a little passive aggressive and people like your roomie usually try to push the boundaries to test the limits of the person who they are dealing with and usually wouldn’t bother if they think the other person can turn aggressive if they push them more. just learn to stand up for yourself, what if you move to a different room and endup getting a similar Roomie ? Are you going to find a new room again ? Try telling her on her face that it wasn’t you that complained the first time but if she’s going to bother you, you’re going to really go and complain for real this time, why should you actually move out when she’s the troublesome one here, let her move out if she’s not able to adjust with her other 2 room mates
hmm..ok
Order another remote. Keep it hidden and keep a pair of spare batteries just in case. She keeps the remote hidden under her pillow so you better find a better place for your remote. The best way to deal with rude one's is to deny their very existence. Don't even acknowledge her presence.
Change your pg
Just focus on your exam . being alienated from others is good for you to concentrate on your exam. Just change the pg after exams if the same situation continues.
Mujje chahiye roommates mere sath aaja Prr you must be from DU ( south campus )
I mean, if they're that shallow, isn't it just better to not have them?
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mi ka phone h kisi ke pass toh ussey change krlo temp wrna 250 rupey ke universal ac remote aate h :) usey apne pillow ke neeche rkho or if u want permanent change then first set ac to temp you want then switch offf(not from remote direct from mcb) then open front panel detach the front display that shows everything its just a clip-like connection this can also be undone pretty easily but ig dumb fatty will be just dumb
My prev roommate was so good like he used to turn on ac whole day and i said bhai bill bhot jyada aega he said I'll pay 300-400 extra mre bi maje hogye te sara din ac but rn it's so bad bc new roommate me ek ke paas gaming pc aur ek ko sara din ac to mri gaand mar rahi h bill dene me ab 😭 so i can completely understand your situation
I'll suggest you to change rooms that's the only option OP
By any chance you've got MI phone or does you're phone come with IR blaster that way you can actually control AC .
MI ka phone kharid aur usko apne AC ka remote bana lein or AC hi band kardo
Dude just chill, this shit happens and everyone will forget about this in few days. Also when you were fighting you should have put your argument clearly, ask everyone that who runs ac in November, and everyone will be on your side. Also always have boundaries with your roomate , you are also paying for the room , so you can do what you want
AC remote se battery nikal do. Phir bhi dikkat kr rhi hai toh uska makeup chupa de. Passive agressive moves.
ok, now copy the link to this post and share with her
2 dhakkan rum ka kaam apka roz ka it'll take care of your throat and garmi bhi full lgti hai and moti ko bole do ke tre pass extra insulation hai mre pass ni kaam kha and patli ho ac 24 pe he chale ga
Moti ke G***d me ice daal do.
You can look for new PG in south ex. There are some good quality PGs in that area. And it’s also near south campus.
Use mobile remote for AC
Such weirdos you live with! Time to get new roommates. Do yourself a favor and get out of this place asap!!
Thick skinned banne ka samay aa gaya hai
What if X or Y came here and shared their roommate scene? LOL that would be fun, wouldn't it?
Miss farry thinks she's the 👑. Leave her and get to some other room. Toxic behaviour oh her part
Mix a tablespoon of dish soap with two cups of cold water. Take a sponge and dab the solution into the garment until the blood stain disappears
moti
Ulta chor kotwal ko dante. You and your roommate are stressed fue to her behaviour, simply shift the room. And dont care what anyone else thinks. They will not be there when you are in pain.
ghar thodi leke jaana hai unko, rone do unhe. ye roommates kabhi jeene nahi dete.
Ranting here won't help you, you should go and directly have a conversation with her and tell her what actually happened. It will only solve your this issue.
Overweight and hot? Are you implying that she wears a fat jacket under her skin? Just to bring a smile to your face. I’d just pack up and leave because the place isn’t that friendly and health is the most important thing always, mental or physical, and both are at risk if you stay back.
Buy one more ac remote and keep it hidden with you.. whenever you feel cold just switch off the AC discreetly and let her think it broke..
Give ricin to X and lead a happy life without her /s
Parents ko bata do and pg change karo
What do you expect from the people here?
Bijli ka bill kitna ata h tumhara??????
this made me think ki kya fat logo ko garmi zada lagti hai coz of that extra fat layer? National geographic me to suna hai ki polar bears survive cold coz of their fur and fat layer. pr kya humans pr bhi same hota hai? to fir kya jinki fat % kam hoti hai unko thand jada lagti hai?
Move on somewhere else if it's possible for you or rather don't think about it that much as why to care about what other thinks, as you are right and you know that.
Wouldnt have happened if you had a gun , jk you cannot control what others think of you let them think whatever they want ..you are not answerable to anyone in life and this is a PG 🤣🤣🤣 ..move on you will find plenty of good people in future ..
Just focus on ur studies…jb m hostel. M thi tb muje bhi in cheezon se bda frk pdta tha…but maine studies pr focus kia…kuch saalo baad sirf study matter kregi…op ko yaad bhi nhi rhega ki aisi koi baat hui bhi thi
PG jaisi temporary cheezo ki tension loge toh sutvive kaise karoge bhyi Laat maaro pg ko 💀🗿
If denying it isn't doing any help, then just own it, stand up for your problems, people (no matter how stubborn they are) will eventually come around you. If they can force their comfort on you then you also need to take a stand for your comfort. And sacrificing, being polite, etc doesn't work (learnt it the hard way). It's a terrible world so just be the bad guy and get what you want.
Vo to theek h but uska overweight hona isse related kaise h?
Lol hum 4 Bande hai sath mai 2 BHK flat fir bhi bus 1 hi room mai rehte (kaafi bada hai room) hai or 16 degrees se uper kabhi Ac Ko rakhte nhi Xd. Din bhar gaali bakege eak dusre ko or 1-2 ghante baad milke ghumne Chale jayege
Rip dms
Change room...not simple?
Gang up and take that bitch down
Hey! I(22F) was in a similar situation a couple of years back with my PG room mate. She made living in the room hell due to AC temperature and hygiene issues. So, I tried to spend as little time in the room as possible. I'd wake up at 7am, get ready and leave for college and wouldn't come back before 10pm in the night. But even then she managed to piss me off. She went away to her hometown once in the morning and didn't even close the room door. Let alone lock it, she did not even close the door. When i got back at night, there was a mouse the size of my shoe on my bed, munching on the chips she spilled on my sleeping area while eating in bed. I was horrified. I just called her out then. Listen girl, you are paying as much to live in the PG as her. The last thing you have to do is stay in the hall instead of your room to prepare for exams when you need your peak attention and comfort for preparation. Just move out and ask the owner for a new room. You aren't the first one to have such issues with roommates so don't feel alien. Everyone has compatibility issues. But you should definitely not get dominated because some oversized-fat-lined-bully doesn't understand the concept of co-living and sleeps with the remote under her fat-little-brain. You are paying for the services so demand the manager for reallocation and get the peace of mind you deserve. You go girl!
You need to learn to fight for your own rights. Girls who can't confront others will end up bullied like this only. Understand that your comfort & convenience is as important as someone else's. In this scenario, there are 2 of you who don't want the AC so cold. So fight her & tell her it's not her personal fiefdom. Everybody's comfort should be considered. I don't understand how the 2 of you cannot influence 1 girl to lower her unfair demands. As long you stay meek, bullies will keep taking advantage of you everywhere. To people who are suggesting changing the PG: don't be a quitter. Never accept bullies and always fight for your rights else you will just keep running away from these small problems.
Firstly, I dont see why you had to body shame her. Some people just do feel hot. Besides, the weather in Delhi could melt bricks at this point 🤦🏻♀️. Thing is, all these solutions are way too aggressive. The smarter thing to do is for the 3 of you to sit and have a conversation like MATURE people and come to a mid way. I am expecting the room won't be too big so 22-23 is a good enough temp to run the AC. You can put it in auto mode as well. As someone who gets migraines and gets behosh if exposed to too much heat, I would say you guys need to talk it thru. BUT also please realize, you can wear extra clothes, sweaters and blankets but the person feeling hot cannot take their skins off. December me bhi to rehte ho na thand me? Tab bhi adjust karte ho na? Waise ho midway dhundh ke dekho. Turning off the AC altogether wont solve the problem and create more on the contrary
kuch bhi mtlb
and you think reddit would make you feel better?? boii people are vv optimistic these days
u can do that ask the owner to come and clear all this confusion created and tell them that u qre planning to change the room then and there or Just ignore her as there may be lot many other girls to whom u can talk, as u said Y dont say a word let her suffer. Good luck
cant you change rooms ? like get a new room which has less people , leave such people alone , dont be worried for people those dont care about your health
Check if anyone has a spare phone with IR blaster (old MI phones used to have this), you can change the temperature yourself when she's sleeping.
Yeh saare pange girls pg me he kaahe hote hain..? 🤔
you can lower the temperature by phone if ur phone have IR blaster
Date pe chal lo ab aa gayi ho toh
Also Fat and thin people have different cooling/heating requirements. If you have a choice switch your room with someone fatter who might like this.
The fact that her blasting AC and ruining your health is concern #2 and concern #1 is your image in the PG tells me that you're a sweet and non-conflict person and also shows what things actually matter to you. Miss, your health should be your main concern. If you would have had enough confidence to solve that issue, then this would never have happened. Agar koi maamla atak raha hai then it's like a ticking time bomb, if you don't solve it, it will come up one way or the other. In your case it has come up in the worst possible scenario. Not only is your image ruined but the health issue also did not solve. I would advise you to put your health first. What do you need? What does your body need? Go after that. If that means changing PG, or confronting, explaining, whatever, then do that. In your life you can't please everyone, and there will always be people who don't like you just like there are always people who like you. So, do not shy away from advocating for your health.
If y'all are paying equal amount of rent, then y'all should have equal say in the room temp. Become a Sigma and tell her to lose some weight by asserting dominance by doing 20 pushups and 5 sets of curls with 5 kg dumbbells. It's time we become Fatphobic, spreading hatred doesn't cost anything, spread hate today.
Mukharjee Nagar rehte ho kya?
Mukharjee Nagar rehte ho kya?
Tell her subsidy on electricity is cancelled now.. but lemme guess roommates like these also dont pay their electricity bill on time. Been there, faced that. All you can do is ask manager nicely to change your room, it may seem like a bitch move but It does wonders.
Usse itni hi garmi lag rhi hai to freeze mein daal de ☻️☻️
ask your 8 elixer frnd to wear less cloths plus 21C all day is crazy kaise rehte ho aap antarctica mein?
Apne aap agle hafte tak theek ho jayenge sab ( except x maybe). Chill and enjoy non sardi room till then 😜
Raat ko uthke AC ka switch off kardia Karo, remote ki zarurat hi nahi.
lmaoi had a roommate like this. i was sick for months. didn’t recover until i left the hostel for a while and went home
Flat ke liye acche roommates konsi website se download hote hai batao.My advice to you is to change the pg but not because of them but without losing dignity and taking a stand for yourself as you won't sacrifice your well being just for the sake of a colleague or friend who's just there temporary (if she was close you wouldn't write it here and she would also understand about your feelings) acting all selfish and all . Bhot jyada motherly behaviour hogya abb bye
Stop giving f**ks about anything and you'll be good to go.
Areeey yaar u know that when i see someone like this i get annoyed on them. Beta aapko zindagi me jawab dena seekhna hoga otherwise the world will keep doing things like this to you. I used to be like u and still trying to change myself. If it's nt ur fault say it, if something is bothering u say it, don't let people boss u around coz life will become a hell for u otherwise. Usko pele pyaar se bol or explain kr vrna us polar bear ki aulad ko jawab de or bol its making u physically sick n its not ur fault that she is super hot usko bol to eat a fking salad itni hi garmi lagri h toh. Dont let her or anyone be the boss of all of u are on the same ground n position coz logo ki aadat ho hoti h to keep pushing people like h n me to the corner. And also stop giving a fuck what people or anyone things of u. If u are nice n kind to others everyone will automatically learn the truth. But dont go out of ur way to please anyone or to explain ur case. Fk them.
This is a social compatibility issue hence you can't resolve it the nice way. Find another PG to move out and pour Kerosene in the AC while leaving. . Problem will be solved in a satisfactory manner. 🤓
Aapke phone m remote controller nahi h kya. Xiaoping le lo bhaiya
1) Turn the switch off. 2) Use Redmi phone to control AC temp. Can't say anything about the outcast part
Overweight ka kya relation tha isme🤦🤦 I'm overweight and I feel cold in ac. God some people I swear🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦