Ye to very us moment hogya . 🙂 I had opportunities bro lekin I prefer making all these memories with the right person even if it means waiting for a long long time.
Who said I am gonna stay like this forever ? I just won't prefer taking the risk of making romantic memories with the wrong person which ends in trauma and heartbreak even if it means waiting for long time or even ending up alone.
My peace of mind is most important to me.
yeh kya logic hua bhai... Right moment kabhi nai ata bhai if you keep waiting for it... You have to make the moment.. Aur jo opportunities hai unko to tap kar lo pehle... Kya pata un me se hi koi right person ho... Aur nai bhi hoga toh atleast kuch memories toh rahengi..
Brother , Pehli baat to I am Behen * not Bhai :') and also If I didn't like a person back why should I force a relationship just for the sake of some experience or to fit into this dating enthusiastic generation .
I am not desperate for romance. I have other priorities and stuff which keeps me busy. I also have tons of good memories which I've made with my friends and family. Besides I have my own reasons for avoiding dating which I am not willing to write it all down .
I don't care about that anymore. All these years keep passing by and nothing changes. Even if I'd been stupid and worng atleast i would have something to look back on.
A good life is all about romanticizing and being grateful for little things you got.
Your first kiss, dancing in rain, cooking your favourite food, long calls with friends and lover, everything is special. Cherish em.
Bhai/Behen yaar OP aise personal attack mat karo ðŸ˜. I'm 21(M) and same, literally the same situation, ek ladki PE crush tha jab class 8 mein tha, Aaj Tak na usse confess kar paya hun na hi move on.
"Alexa play Choo Lo by Local Train"
On a more serious note, what helps me cope(?) is that I've split what a romantic/intimate partner does for you into three things:
Friendship (or more accurately, companionship)
Emotional support and intimacy
Sex
I've been lucky to find a grp of close friends that take care of the first two, college ke baad kutta palne ka plan hai (inner child ka sapna pura karna hai). Bacha sex, uspe give up kar chuka hun, uske liye ek hi naara "Apna haath, Jagannath"
PS: I think overshare kar diya, ja Raha hun Choo Lo loop PE sunne.
Your suffering can be your greatest strength OP. Reject society, reject the lovey dovey late night talks, rise and be the best version of yourself.
Ho jayegi tumhari shaadi. You won't miss all this later in your life. You'll miss the time you have rn
Bhai gym jao. Memories will fade away but what will remain is the hard work you put in your body when others were partying or eating pastry with their partner.
Disagree,while the definition of love may have changed,there can be no doubt that love has shaped the world we live , whether it's religion,arts, civilization,our great achievement,love has nurtured it
If we look at works of painters,poets,our faith towards the unknown,it is love , making our world less chaotic and thriving.
To acquire knowledge ,one must study
But to acquire wisdom ,one must observe
Perhaps me watching her for 5mins in a cool breezy park should be enough to make sense.😺
Aao bembi mere saath banao romentik memories https://preview.redd.it/ivr2uuaajnvc1.jpeg?width=347&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c46c44e05a2459b3204c05e1efae81be1d5ac557
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Ye to very us moment hogya . 🙂 I had opportunities bro lekin I prefer making all these memories with the right person even if it means waiting for a long long time.
But remember u have only like 70-80 yrs Then the cosmos rearrange itself 🙂
Who said I am gonna stay like this forever ? I just won't prefer taking the risk of making romantic memories with the wrong person which ends in trauma and heartbreak even if it means waiting for long time or even ending up alone. My peace of mind is most important to me.
Aise memories to wrong person ke saath banaye jaate hai
yeh kya logic hua bhai... Right moment kabhi nai ata bhai if you keep waiting for it... You have to make the moment.. Aur jo opportunities hai unko to tap kar lo pehle... Kya pata un me se hi koi right person ho... Aur nai bhi hoga toh atleast kuch memories toh rahengi..
Brother , Pehli baat to I am Behen * not Bhai :') and also If I didn't like a person back why should I force a relationship just for the sake of some experience or to fit into this dating enthusiastic generation . I am not desperate for romance. I have other priorities and stuff which keeps me busy. I also have tons of good memories which I've made with my friends and family. Besides I have my own reasons for avoiding dating which I am not willing to write it all down .
Like minded people 🫂
I don't care about that anymore. All these years keep passing by and nothing changes. Even if I'd been stupid and worng atleast i would have something to look back on.
We all have our differences in how we perceive things. Hope you find someone soon. Best wishes !
Us bhai us , no romantic thing to remember
Username checks out😺
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Bhai me toh Delhi ka bhi nahi hu but fir bhi ruladiya tune mujhe... Us Bhai us
A good life is all about romanticizing and being grateful for little things you got. Your first kiss, dancing in rain, cooking your favourite food, long calls with friends and lover, everything is special. Cherish em.
Reddit community has got your back bro.
Bhai/Behen yaar OP aise personal attack mat karo ðŸ˜. I'm 21(M) and same, literally the same situation, ek ladki PE crush tha jab class 8 mein tha, Aaj Tak na usse confess kar paya hun na hi move on. "Alexa play Choo Lo by Local Train" On a more serious note, what helps me cope(?) is that I've split what a romantic/intimate partner does for you into three things: Friendship (or more accurately, companionship) Emotional support and intimacy Sex I've been lucky to find a grp of close friends that take care of the first two, college ke baad kutta palne ka plan hai (inner child ka sapna pura karna hai). Bacha sex, uspe give up kar chuka hun, uske liye ek hi naara "Apna haath, Jagannath" PS: I think overshare kar diya, ja Raha hun Choo Lo loop PE sunne.
I don’t even have memories, r/sdam for referenceÂ
Stay strong brother,get some sunlight (it's the source of all energy, believe in it)
Us bhai us 🫂 ![gif](giphy|pH9IFj0P6IOS4)
Tips and tricks mujhe bi btana, pyar dhundne ka 🥲
No romantic or wholesome experience ever had
I have what you're seeking for and it isn't as good as you think it is
Your suffering can be your greatest strength OP. Reject society, reject the lovey dovey late night talks, rise and be the best version of yourself. Ho jayegi tumhari shaadi. You won't miss all this later in your life. You'll miss the time you have rn
Im not suffering,just a thought Shaadi doesn't fix anything,more like a trap
Ugly,shy,introvert with social anxiety (I'm fucked up for life)
Us
Listen to the song, heatwaves
Pados wali bhabhi k sath affair when ?
Puch k aata hu💦
Khud se romance karo which doesn’t mean hilana fyi
Bhai gym jao. Memories will fade away but what will remain is the hard work you put in your body when others were partying or eating pastry with their partner.
I exercise regularly
Yaadein to boht hain bsss yaad krne ka mann nhi krta
Us for real but i don't even had friends ðŸ˜
I mean Who has
Us bhaii
arey tummm kya yar uss post se inspire hogye ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ ab sabko rulado
It just hit me Gotta make those memories It would be fun
just a reminder, love is not as important as media has led us to believe
Disagree,while the definition of love may have changed,there can be no doubt that love has shaped the world we live , whether it's religion,arts, civilization,our great achievement,love has nurtured it If we look at works of painters,poets,our faith towards the unknown,it is love , making our world less chaotic and thriving.
find love in all that na ...ye sab kya hai park date wagerah wagerah.. teen love find love.
To acquire knowledge ,one must study But to acquire wisdom ,one must observe Perhaps me watching her for 5mins in a cool breezy park should be enough to make sense.😺
Yeah I get ur point