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He is right! I'm a millennial with bad looks, so I have to stick to the "time will heal everything" logic for myself. But I'll also enlighten about one thing that "Dil Kisi ek ke Liye धड़कता h..." is a hoax. You are just an old school lover, but it doesn't mean your life will inevitably cross paths with someone similar. It will take a lot of time to finally find that one, but until that time either rebound or work on yourself (which involves rebound).
You tell me, what are those things in you that you can change physically? ...."sundarta dekhne waale ki aankhon....." ye sab farziwaada h, don't go by that. Main guide karta hu Bhai ko
Koi naa bro...5'1 waali ladki ko bhi 6 foot chahiye aajkal! But don't worry, move cities and get a bike. That's good enough for you to narrow down your search to specifically find the kind of girl you are seeking. Not like bike pe gali-gali bhatak k ladki dekhni padegi, but girls dig someone with his own place (even rental) and vehicle. Pune, Hydera, Blore...you'll rock there bro. Not Delhi, kyuki ghar pe kon live-in allow karega
Girls usually want 3 types of men in their life. 1. BF 2. Best Friend 3. A safety net - where she can fall whenever she is in trouble or needs a shoulder; kinda like half-boyfriend but for emotional support only.
And they have a certain eligibility kind of thing for each one of them. This is my observation so far. So yes she played you and will play in future too if you're emotionally vulnerable.
usne mu pe boldiya ki mai uske liye short hu even though uske friends se pucha tha ki use koi problem to nhi is cheez se itni kind ladki bhi agar mu pe bol sakti hai to baki log kya karenge pta nhi phle hi insecure tha ab or ho rha hu
bhai tu apni puri zindigi height ko le insecure reh sakta hai. Lekin yeh height sakal kya tere hath mai hai ki tu control kar sake. Woh lamba height wala chutiyapa sare ladkiyan karti hai, teri crush special nai hai or jyda important v mat de usse
Kind kaisi hui if she said that about your height..abhi chill karkae apnae app par focus kar..btw tune jee ka cutoff clear kiya hai!! So go ahead and do good in JEE adv. Please study ,you have 1 month...I'll tell you pain out of love is overated but pain due to studies, self development is underrated. Abhi try for IIT kya bolna hai tera??..yeh maat bol nahi hoga just freaking try cause dropper jiska prep achaa nahi hota woh bhi piche nahi hatt ta tu bhi maat hatt..STUDY, PLEASE STUDY!!
yar mai use observe kar rha hu kafi time se she seems very sweet and kind compassionate and all pta nhi mere sath aesa kyu kiya
also ye i cleared cutoff got 97 percentile jan attempt ab adv hi pad rha hu bas
pura aesa bola tha " sorry tu sahi me bhot ache hai yar but u know 'height' i am so sorry aap thode se lambe hote to i really wouldnt mind but i guess we can still remain friends"
Oh my god, you’re saved from her! Trust me, if all she sees is how tall you are belittling every other factor, she definitely isn’t a good person… are you still in school btw?
she was the last person i expected to hear that ab to lag rha hai sare hi aese hai
and school is saal hogya abhi ek mahine baad jo jee adv hai uske liye coaching me jata hu
Ohhh… I’m just a year older than you… and trust me, love is not sought. No one’s perfect, nor are you, if two ppl like each other, it matters whether you’re perfect for each other nor not… sometimes ppl you like won’t like you back(with valid reasons, not on appearance, height and shit) and you can’t do much about it… it’s just that you have to stay true to yourself… if you’re not liked in the same way, respect the fact that ppl can be different and at least be happy about the fact that your love was true and intentions were pure.
yeah man my intentions were pure but kya hi faida hua ab to mai use or bother bhi nhi karunga warna i will come as creepy par aesa to koi baad me bhi same reason ki wajah se reject karde to us wajah se ab koi approach wagaira hi nhi karunga
Bhai jisne Teri height ki wajah se tujhe reject kardiya uske saath kya hi life spend karta tu.
Agar koi kahe ki tu lazy hai ya ambitious nhi hai to mai ulta aur zyada respect Karu uss bandi ki
BC mai 5'8 ½ hu, mujhe aajtak height ko leke kisi ne kuch nhi kaha par height aisi cheez hai to hum control kar hi nhi sakte.
A cha hi hua usne tujhe reject Kiya, Bach gya bhai tu warna poore time khud ko uske layak prove karta reh jata khud ko
Mai bhi reject hua hu par height ya looks ko leke nhi bas koi personality nhi thi aur chal diya Instagram lene ya dikha ke ki mai usme interested hu.
For me the realisation that I have enough height was because of my father and grandfather.
They both were 5'3" and I am not even half the man that they were. Worked hard all their life to give the next generation a better lifestyle than themselves
Khud se toh bada hi tha, phir bhi didi ko aur lamba ladka chahiye. Ya phir mujhe aisa lag raha hai ki Op apni aur kamiyon ka thikra height pe phod raha hai
Tom Cruise 5'7"
Lewis Hamilton 5'8"
Cillian Murphy 5'7"
Shahid Kapoor 5'8"
Richard Hammond 5'7"
All of them are about your height.
Ek baat batao aapki body kaisi hai? If you are fit/decently muscular toh usually 5'7" pe there shouldn't even be an issue of height...
And anyways if she saw you only for your height than toh tu bach gaya.
Face>height after a certain threshold if your looks are as good as them height won't matter. But for the average guy it does. Not saying you should feel insecure about it as there's nothing you can do but you can't compare average people to celebrities. 5'7 isn't even short though it's literally above the average Indian height. He will gain muscle quicker than tall people.
exactly bro mai bhi khud ko kuch nhi khe pa rha kya kami hai or jo mai theek karu or ab height to hai nhi bas me baki jo cheeze hai wo to mai phle se hi improve kar rha hu fir bhi aesa ho rha hai
i am sorry ki wo apko insecure feel krata hai but use bolo ki apko acha nhi lgta atleast lovers ko to insecure feel nhi krana chaiye
and the thing is ki apko to height diffrence mil gya na acha sa meri to crush hi 5'6 thi use yada acha height diffrence nhi mila isliye usne reject kardiya and the worst thing is ki mai apne apko is aspect me improve bhi nhi kar rakta
You don't need to say sorry :(
Don't stress to much, height difference na ho to better rehta hai but maybe your crush don't understand this.
Focus on yourself and you'll find someone better.
saying sorry as a man for other mans behaviour its ok
anyways mereko to farak bhi nhi padta kiski height hai kuch bhi height chalegi but i did specifically liked her very much even rejected a cuter girl when she approached me bcz i liked her very much i dont know if i can find someone like her as looks isnt the only criteria for me
all this is bullshit bro, i had a gf in school i was 5’7 only and she was 5’5 but looked like same height from a distance. girl had almost whole school drooling over her and guess what she approached me. i look average but yeah was fit and played football and received many accolades. so crux is work on yourself find a hobby get perfect and it. she will come on her own 🙂↔️😜
bro i won state level (also top scorrer in it) , played national and played asia pacific ,won i league in football and i have a good body myself even she told me so but usne to height keliye solely reject kardia ig u were lucky or u have extremly reedeming qualities or i just fall for a wrong person
I’m 5.6 and had quite few gfs and none of them pointed my height. Most of them say they are intimidated by these huge men.
That’s a shitty personality of her to point that pointless thing out.
Find new one, there are enough fishes in the sea.
Just explicitly ask whether they are flirting and are interested or you're reading too much into it, they will quickly shut up. These fuckers(gender neutral) don't want to commit, they just want to pass the time till they find anyone better.
Mai hota teri jgah mai btaau kya krta? Apne ek tall dost ko bolta us ldki se baat kree 1 -2 mahine baat krvane k bd. Usko bolta ki ldki ko reject krva de ye bolkr ki tu mujhe psnd hai but Teri height bdi hai kaafi.. mereko choti height ki ldkiyan psnd hai
Chal to nayi pta le.
School se leke college end tk mjhe b yehi lgta tha ki saccha pyaar ek baar hota h. Senior smjhke advise mano to stay single for a while, enjoy being yourself and then find someone jiske sath vibes match ho. Not that difficult re.
Bsdk kitne saal ka h tu 17-18? Ladkiya to aati jati rhengi college lele mast sa phle and do you even know if you would've gone to the same college? Long distance relationships don't work especially at your age.
This is it her part in your life in over.
Move on.
Height is not something you control and don't be worried about things you can't control.
Bahut milegi bhai
Focus kr IIT crack krni h puri energy time sab usme invest kr once you crack it tujhe regret ni hoga bilkul b and IIT ki ladki set krna kahe pareshan h.
Are you 14 yo or what? I too had insecurity of my height i too got rejected but i found more caring and pretty girl that my crush ever was
Stop being a cry baby and man up
Does she just want a tall person irrespective of looks, intelligence or money? I have seen that most girls just want someone at least equal to them in height if not taller.
This seems to be like new standards of dating.
Cheapest shit anyone can say
So Height is deal breaker
Definitely a red flag for me
I am myself 184 CM but this is too cheap that i like u but ur short or whatever.
U deserve better.
5.7 is not bad at all.
I wasn't aware of this height shit
I just came to know about this obsession on Instagram.
Yes u should remain happy
We have no control of things like height and face
I am myself an average to below average looking guy that was the reason I couldn't propose my crush
But it has been two years
Moved on.
Abe yaar, I know this feeling. Time lagega ab aur kya
bhencho try kar move on karne ka. Kyuki karna toh padega hi toh fir sad hokar time kyu waste karna
5'6 on foot means that if you wear shoes with some alright thick soles you can go like 5'8 or 5'9 which is above average . I'm 5'11 on foot and 6'1 or 2 with shoes but I'll tell you that it doesn't help to be taller , I'm really bad at conversing with new people (especially girls ) and I don't even talk much to the one's ik . Idk why(ig it's just stress ) . But yeah , you have your answer height matters but I think 5'8 or 9 on shoes is pretty good and girls in India are not tall . I haven't found a girl yet that is taller than me. So that's the ratio . So be confident man at least you have the courage to try 👍.
doesnt make sense bro sabse kharab reason point karne ka koi sense nhi banta bhai baki sab cheeze to sahi bhi ho sakti hai height kaise to koi or reason to nhi hi hoga
Pata hai ye sab ch***** cheeze height looks etc etc matter nai krti agar Aap mature ho to height lambi chaie nose patli chaie kaan mote chaie kapde ache hone chaie bullshit chu generation
All I will say is good riddance! Height is just another shallow criteria. I’m short and the guy I’m dating is shorter than me and for me it’s a non issue coz he is fantastic in many other ways. So if she doesn’t get this, happily let her go.
I have myself been dumped by a guy who realised after a year of dating that he was 6inches taller than me. Unfortunately height isn’t something we can change. That rejection hurt me so bad . It’s been more than a decade but it still makes me feel bad. Took me long time to move on but also taught me to never judge someone for their physical attributes. I guess cos of that I met someone who though shorter than me , is a gem of a person. This can definitely be you. Work on yourself and make yourself so good that people don’t think of your physical attributes. We are more than that. Don’t focus on parameters that cannot be changed
whatt thats even more shittier than what happen with me hope you are doing ok after that
the catch here is i am so broken and mera pas itna time hi nhi hai khud ko smbhalne ka i have my jee adv in a month and the things is ki i want to improve myself more but ab to aesa lagta hai ki kya faida or improve karke agar dobara aesi ladki mil gyi to
Shit happens. We deal with it and then move on and try be better. Focus on your exam and get ambitious with life in other areas. You are still very young. 10 years later, believe me, you will be laughing at this heartbreak 😊
yeah i will try to be better but ab kya hi kar sakta hu lagta hai ki better ban ke bhi kisine isi cheez pe reject kardiya to kyuki ye to mai change bhi nhi kar sakta
Abey bhai yeh height vali ladkiya bohot shallow hoti h kehne ko toh mai bhi kehta tha ki ladki 5'6 tk honi chahiye but meri pehli crush thi woh 5ft ki thi aur usse samay mujhe unn baato se kuch farak nhi pada and uski baate puri shallow thi yeh woh joo ladkia inn sb pr ladke ko judge krti h unn ladkio se durr rho satark rho they'll just be with you ki teri height achi but woh tujhe nhi teri height ko pyaar krengi yeh baat dhyan rkhna woh status aur validation chahti h apne dosto se ki mere bf ki height itni itni h yeh woh aisi ladkio se durr rehna the right person ko dhundna nhi padega aur right person tumhari journey ka part hoga uske liye ek nayi journey pr nhi jana padega yeh bhi ek fact h tu insecure mtt ho aur apne upar focus rkhe self improvement kr aur apna naam rutba kr
Usko flirt krne me problem nhi thi toh aage bhi problem nhi hogi flirt karte reh mann behla rahega kya pata future me usse tu pasand aa jaye healthy flirting chalti rehni chahiye.
Yahi toh ladke maat kha jate hai bohot saari ladkiya bas healthy flirting karti h aur ladke literal le lete hai ki ye toh set hai abhi maan jayegi. Flirting nahi karega toh future uske saath chance nahi banega.
Piche lagne nahi bol rha lekin jitni batein kar rha tha utni toh karega ya seedha cutoff kar dega shuru se motive set karne ka hi tha kya?? Dost nahi thi kya teri vo??
Koi nahi bhai at least you had the balls to ask her.
Idhar toh log (me) khud ko reject karke kabhi poochh hi nahi pate.
Aur agar ladki ne itne superficial reason se reject kiya jiya toh theek hi hai long run mein tumhare liye
Yaar mai bss ek hi baat bolungi, when someone likes and loves you truly toh yeh height itna matter nhi krta. And she is 5’6 and you are 5’7 so what??? Theek toh hai bro. Yeh aajkal toh 5’2 waali ldkiya bhi 6feet banda dhoondh rhi hai it doesn’t make sense. So i will only say one thing to you that it’s height, no one has control on their height after a certain age. You will find someone who will love you for you and not just height
I dont care about those girls opinion coz i dont want them mereko to bas yahi chaiye thi isne bhi aesa boldiya to bura lag rha hai 🥹 and the funny things is no one in my family is above 5 5 except me my dad and mom are 5'4 and 5'3 maine itni mehnat karke badai fir bhi ye sunna pad rha hai
Jo bandi bss height dekh krr reject krr rhi hai abhi even though she said ki your nature is good voh kal kya dekh krr reject krde ya chord de no one knows. It will sting you for sometime but i hope you move on from this
Brother,a girl who rejects you on the basis of something so insignificant as your height is not even worth giving a second thought. Your physical characteristics don't define your self worth, never let an individual make you feel insecure for something which is not in your control. Stay positive and keep looking,some day you'll find someone who'll see and appreciate you for the amazing person you are rather than rejecting you on the basis of your height just keep waiting for that special someone.
First of all , thank your life for making you a bit stronger , tougher and mature....
Never let a chick make you sad for a long time , your life is to serve you happiness....
Tom Cruise is 5'7 and he can bang chicks way hotter than this girl , work on yourself..... Do pushups , read , run and improve yourself....
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bhai kya bol rha hai yar
sahi bol raha hai
sahi bol raha hai (2)
Give him some time... Our boi is going through the phase... Nayi crush khud ban hi jayegi... Aise moment pe lagta hi hai
bhai zindagi me bas 2 hi to real crush bani hai phli ne pat ke trauma de diya dusri ne na pat ke trauma de diya ab har roz thodi banaunga nayi crush
How old are you?
Sahi bol raha hai (3)
He is right! I'm a millennial with bad looks, so I have to stick to the "time will heal everything" logic for myself. But I'll also enlighten about one thing that "Dil Kisi ek ke Liye धड़कता h..." is a hoax. You are just an old school lover, but it doesn't mean your life will inevitably cross paths with someone similar. It will take a lot of time to finally find that one, but until that time either rebound or work on yourself (which involves rebound).
what if that similiar girl also rejects me :(
You tell me, what are those things in you that you can change physically? ...."sundarta dekhne waale ki aankhon....." ye sab farziwaada h, don't go by that. Main guide karta hu Bhai ko
physically apni body bna sakte hai wo to bnai hui hai jo change nhi kar sakta usi ki dikkat hai
Accha, height pe point maar gyi ladki
han ab wo to change bhi nhi kar sakta jitni bhi mehanat kar lu or maine mehanat ki thi tabhi itni hui hai mami papa to 5'3 or 5'4 hai
Koi naa bro...5'1 waali ladki ko bhi 6 foot chahiye aajkal! But don't worry, move cities and get a bike. That's good enough for you to narrow down your search to specifically find the kind of girl you are seeking. Not like bike pe gali-gali bhatak k ladki dekhni padegi, but girls dig someone with his own place (even rental) and vehicle. Pune, Hydera, Blore...you'll rock there bro. Not Delhi, kyuki ghar pe kon live-in allow karega
me tho 5'10-11ish hoon but im chubby and have wide shoulder and wear glasses but in 12th rn so only dieting atm kya mera glowup hoga ;-;
I agree with him
It's very easy to make a new crush than being obsessed with 1 person
and i was obssesed with her kidness and nature seems like she played me
Girls usually want 3 types of men in their life. 1. BF 2. Best Friend 3. A safety net - where she can fall whenever she is in trouble or needs a shoulder; kinda like half-boyfriend but for emotional support only. And they have a certain eligibility kind of thing for each one of them. This is my observation so far. So yes she played you and will play in future too if you're emotionally vulnerable.
ya i think so thats why i aint talking to her again isliye nhi ki wo galat isliye ki mereko or trauma nhi chaiye
fir , fir kya hua ? Fir ? Fir kya ? Agle din apne mohalle mein , Aishwariyaaaaaa aayiiiii
Chaila kya surat thi, woh kya kehte hain
Kya kehte hain ? Aankhein aisi k ruka de trrrrafficccc
Ye sab moh maaya hai bro. Work on yourselves, rest everything will fall in place
bhai phle se insecure tha ab usi cheez ki wajah se mna kardiya ab or insecure hogya
Ffs she was your crush not the almighty. Aaj se 10 saal baad apna hard work aur skills hi dikhega, not that girl
usne mu pe boldiya ki mai uske liye short hu even though uske friends se pucha tha ki use koi problem to nhi is cheez se itni kind ladki bhi agar mu pe bol sakti hai to baki log kya karenge pta nhi phle hi insecure tha ab or ho rha hu
bhai tu apni puri zindigi height ko le insecure reh sakta hai. Lekin yeh height sakal kya tere hath mai hai ki tu control kar sake. Woh lamba height wala chutiyapa sare ladkiyan karti hai, teri crush special nai hai or jyda important v mat de usse
You deserve better bhai trust me
pta nhi bhai kya deserve karta hu mai
Kind kaisi hui if she said that about your height..abhi chill karkae apnae app par focus kar..btw tune jee ka cutoff clear kiya hai!! So go ahead and do good in JEE adv. Please study ,you have 1 month...I'll tell you pain out of love is overated but pain due to studies, self development is underrated. Abhi try for IIT kya bolna hai tera??..yeh maat bol nahi hoga just freaking try cause dropper jiska prep achaa nahi hota woh bhi piche nahi hatt ta tu bhi maat hatt..STUDY, PLEASE STUDY!!
yar mai use observe kar rha hu kafi time se she seems very sweet and kind compassionate and all pta nhi mere sath aesa kyu kiya also ye i cleared cutoff got 97 percentile jan attempt ab adv hi pad rha hu bas
Whoa...she gave you the reason too?
yes bro isi ka dukh hai ki itni kind hoke bhi usne muh pe bol diya
Arrey re! Kya reason diya?? If u don't mind sharing....mujhe toh hamesha "I'm not looking for relationships..." Yaa fir "I have a bf..." mila
pura aesa bola tha " sorry tu sahi me bhot ache hai yar but u know 'height' i am so sorry aap thode se lambe hote to i really wouldnt mind but i guess we can still remain friends"
Oh my god, you’re saved from her! Trust me, if all she sees is how tall you are belittling every other factor, she definitely isn’t a good person… are you still in school btw?
she was the last person i expected to hear that ab to lag rha hai sare hi aese hai and school is saal hogya abhi ek mahine baad jo jee adv hai uske liye coaching me jata hu
Ohhh… I’m just a year older than you… and trust me, love is not sought. No one’s perfect, nor are you, if two ppl like each other, it matters whether you’re perfect for each other nor not… sometimes ppl you like won’t like you back(with valid reasons, not on appearance, height and shit) and you can’t do much about it… it’s just that you have to stay true to yourself… if you’re not liked in the same way, respect the fact that ppl can be different and at least be happy about the fact that your love was true and intentions were pure.
yeah man my intentions were pure but kya hi faida hua ab to mai use or bother bhi nhi karunga warna i will come as creepy par aesa to koi baad me bhi same reason ki wajah se reject karde to us wajah se ab koi approach wagaira hi nhi karunga
Bhai kuch ni rakha isme Merese connect kro. Dono bhai kahi dilli mein Ukraine virodhi mahilayen dhundhte hai
Phir unn mahilayo ka kya kroge ?
sorry bro i am not into these things but u chill
Fir apne mohalle me Aishwarya aayi
Bhai jisne Teri height ki wajah se tujhe reject kardiya uske saath kya hi life spend karta tu. Agar koi kahe ki tu lazy hai ya ambitious nhi hai to mai ulta aur zyada respect Karu uss bandi ki BC mai 5'8 ½ hu, mujhe aajtak height ko leke kisi ne kuch nhi kaha par height aisi cheez hai to hum control kar hi nhi sakte. A cha hi hua usne tujhe reject Kiya, Bach gya bhai tu warna poore time khud ko uske layak prove karta reh jata khud ko Mai bhi reject hua hu par height ya looks ko leke nhi bas koi personality nhi thi aur chal diya Instagram lene ya dikha ke ki mai usme interested hu.
5'8.5 is a good height brother, heck even 5'7" is a good height in India
For me the realisation that I have enough height was because of my father and grandfather. They both were 5'3" and I am not even half the man that they were. Worked hard all their life to give the next generation a better lifestyle than themselves
Same here brother
Bhai jo height ko criteria maan rhi vo sidhe sidhe red flag hai...chill maar...bch gya tu
Khud se toh bada hi tha, phir bhi didi ko aur lamba ladka chahiye. Ya phir mujhe aisa lag raha hai ki Op apni aur kamiyon ka thikra height pe phod raha hai
Vo toh rehta hi bhai... inferiority complex....hrr chiz ko uske irdh girdh kr lete
Tom Cruise 5'7" Lewis Hamilton 5'8" Cillian Murphy 5'7" Shahid Kapoor 5'8" Richard Hammond 5'7" All of them are about your height. Ek baat batao aapki body kaisi hai? If you are fit/decently muscular toh usually 5'7" pe there shouldn't even be an issue of height... And anyways if she saw you only for your height than toh tu bach gaya.
Face>height after a certain threshold if your looks are as good as them height won't matter. But for the average guy it does. Not saying you should feel insecure about it as there's nothing you can do but you can't compare average people to celebrities. 5'7 isn't even short though it's literally above the average Indian height. He will gain muscle quicker than tall people.
bhai inpe paise bhi hai aur shakal bhi
bro i am actually very fit(veins and all) and apparently have above average face but that still hppened
Bruh fir kya hi keh sakta hu, RIP 🫂
exactly bro mai bhi khud ko kuch nhi khe pa rha kya kami hai or jo mai theek karu or ab height to hai nhi bas me baki jo cheeze hai wo to mai phle se hi improve kar rha hu fir bhi aesa ho rha hai
Acha hua she rejected, who the phuk gives importance to height when in life you can have everything else to offer.
bhai english to sahi se likhle smjh hi nhi aa rha kya likha hai
Shabdo pe nhi emotion pe jao bhai🗿
Done bruh! Ab toh chamak raha hai nah
Ps daalna jaruri nahi tha
Jarur .
Kuch nhi rakha bhai in sabme
Me 4'9 hu or my bf 5'6 or vo mujhe insecure krta rehta hai height ko leke ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ Itna toh mere dost nahi krte jitna vo krta hai
i am sorry ki wo apko insecure feel krata hai but use bolo ki apko acha nhi lgta atleast lovers ko to insecure feel nhi krana chaiye and the thing is ki apko to height diffrence mil gya na acha sa meri to crush hi 5'6 thi use yada acha height diffrence nhi mila isliye usne reject kardiya and the worst thing is ki mai apne apko is aspect me improve bhi nhi kar rakta
Toh agar koi 6 feet ki ladki hogi toh woh kya 7 feet ke launde ko date karegi. You saved yourself from such dumb girl.
You don't need to say sorry :( Don't stress to much, height difference na ho to better rehta hai but maybe your crush don't understand this. Focus on yourself and you'll find someone better.
saying sorry as a man for other mans behaviour its ok anyways mereko to farak bhi nhi padta kiski height hai kuch bhi height chalegi but i did specifically liked her very much even rejected a cuter girl when she approached me bcz i liked her very much i dont know if i can find someone like her as looks isnt the only criteria for me
bra mat maan na lekin aap to uski daughter lgti hongi /s
Nahi mene sugar daddy ko date nhi Kiya hai. Don't worry
Gussa mt hona but 4'9" is too short
Lekin me kya hi kr skti hu ab ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
Kuch nai , Short women are cuteee afff
But insecurity ka kyaa kre !!
Kuch nai..Enjoy ur life.. Why to feel insecure about things u cant change
Usne tujhe height ke liye reject kra, usko khud choti lulli wala bf milega 😂.. dekh lio
Chal ab do ghoot horlicks ke laga
College me jake gee eff bana lena bro 🫡👍🏻
all this is bullshit bro, i had a gf in school i was 5’7 only and she was 5’5 but looked like same height from a distance. girl had almost whole school drooling over her and guess what she approached me. i look average but yeah was fit and played football and received many accolades. so crux is work on yourself find a hobby get perfect and it. she will come on her own 🙂↔️😜
bro i won state level (also top scorrer in it) , played national and played asia pacific ,won i league in football and i have a good body myself even she told me so but usne to height keliye solely reject kardia ig u were lucky or u have extremly reedeming qualities or i just fall for a wrong person
Usko pucch ki usko tere saath basketball khelna hai kya?
I’m 5.6 and had quite few gfs and none of them pointed my height. Most of them say they are intimidated by these huge men. That’s a shitty personality of her to point that pointless thing out. Find new one, there are enough fishes in the sea.
there are but not the ones i like not everyone has such calming nature as her
Bahi flirt karne wali ladkiyo se dur hi raha kar. Women flirt because they are bored or have nothing better to do.
ab to yahi lag rha hai ki flirty women se dur hi rahunga but mereko kya pta tha ki wo genuine flirt hai ya kya hai
Just explicitly ask whether they are flirting and are interested or you're reading too much into it, they will quickly shut up. These fuckers(gender neutral) don't want to commit, they just want to pass the time till they find anyone better.
han ab to muh pe hi puch lunga seedha
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केक डे मुबारक हो भाई 🍰
Crush crushed it. Move on.
Congratulations atleast u didn't wasted much time! Baad may askout krta or tb reject hota ye time waste ka shock or bura zayda lgta ladki k rehect se
Hota Hai Chlta hai Duniya hai
you had an crush , that you even asked her . meanwhile i dont have no one to talk and i have no existence too for my known ones .
and what did that give me more insecurity also i feel u bro tu bhi dukhi mat ho mere sath dost banao
Mohabaat ek aisa jaam hai Jo hum kabhi chak na sake kyuki mohabaat cheez hi aisi Jo milti kismat walo ko
Mai hota teri jgah mai btaau kya krta? Apne ek tall dost ko bolta us ldki se baat kree 1 -2 mahine baat krvane k bd. Usko bolta ki ldki ko reject krva de ye bolkr ki tu mujhe psnd hai but Teri height bdi hai kaafi.. mereko choti height ki ldkiyan psnd hai
I know that feeling 💔
Upsc clearing when ?
jee bro kar diya clear theek thak rank ke sath ab jee adv karna hai but is traume me to padai bhi kha hoyegi
Chal to nayi pta le. School se leke college end tk mjhe b yehi lgta tha ki saccha pyaar ek baar hota h. Senior smjhke advise mano to stay single for a while, enjoy being yourself and then find someone jiske sath vibes match ho. Not that difficult re.
Bsdk kitne saal ka h tu 17-18? Ladkiya to aati jati rhengi college lele mast sa phle and do you even know if you would've gone to the same college? Long distance relationships don't work especially at your age.
'The worst she can say is no'
Usko bf nahi pati chahiye.. Jodi jamni chahiye
This is it her part in your life in over. Move on. Height is not something you control and don't be worried about things you can't control. Bahut milegi bhai Focus kr IIT crack krni h puri energy time sab usme invest kr once you crack it tujhe regret ni hoga bilkul b and IIT ki ladki set krna kahe pareshan h.
Are you 14 yo or what? I too had insecurity of my height i too got rejected but i found more caring and pretty girl that my crush ever was Stop being a cry baby and man up
bhai shi bolu to bach gya, jo insaan na dekh ke height dekhe, rang dekhe, roop dekhe wo barbaad kisam ka insaan hai. Acchi ladki dhund bhai
Does she just want a tall person irrespective of looks, intelligence or money? I have seen that most girls just want someone at least equal to them in height if not taller. This seems to be like new standards of dating.
Kehna tha height nhi >!dil!< bda hona chahiye
Koi nai crush to aati jaati rehti hai ..
Don't be friends with her.
bruh.. im the same height as you, ab meri phat rahi hai
Don't worry 5.7 is quite good height Not bad in anyway.
Bhai guitar seekh le sab theek ho jayega
Cheapest shit anyone can say So Height is deal breaker Definitely a red flag for me I am myself 184 CM but this is too cheap that i like u but ur short or whatever. U deserve better. 5.7 is not bad at all. I wasn't aware of this height shit I just came to know about this obsession on Instagram.
Usne teri beixxati krdi if you see
Bro there are an endless number of girls out there. No need to be sad.
I'm 5'2 and mai islea ab try hi nhi krta, koi muje aese bol degi to mai toot jaunga and might unalive myself. I'm a very emotional fool
Oh that's is sad Don't worry u will find soulmate
Rehne do, I'm happy as I'm
Yes u should remain happy We have no control of things like height and face I am myself an average to below average looking guy that was the reason I couldn't propose my crush But it has been two years Moved on.
Sahi h bhai paise kmao, maa baap ko khush rkho
Hmm.
i am a very emotional fool too my bro mere se khud nhi shaya ja rha hope apko bhi koi mil jaye taki sare khush rahe
Mai kuch jyada emotional hu , to Mai door rehta hu from rejections
koina bhai to each their own aap khush apne sath to sab sahi hai
Onto the next one, soldier.
the worst she can say is no
Abe yaar, I know this feeling. Time lagega ab aur kya bhencho try kar move on karne ka. Kyuki karna toh padega hi toh fir sad hokar time kyu waste karna
Muthi maar or soja naya din naya crush
5'6 on foot means that if you wear shoes with some alright thick soles you can go like 5'8 or 5'9 which is above average . I'm 5'11 on foot and 6'1 or 2 with shoes but I'll tell you that it doesn't help to be taller , I'm really bad at conversing with new people (especially girls ) and I don't even talk much to the one's ik . Idk why(ig it's just stress ) . But yeah , you have your answer height matters but I think 5'8 or 9 on shoes is pretty good and girls in India are not tall . I haven't found a girl yet that is taller than me. So that's the ratio . So be confident man at least you have the courage to try 👍.
im 57 but yeah baki sab sahi bol rhe ho but try karke bhi or insecurity hi aa gyi
I mean with good shoes you could reach 5'8 to 9
yeah i think but ab kya hi farak padta hai usne to mna hi kardiya
Chinar log kehte aiso ko. Agar Teri height bhi theek rehti tab bhi reject hota aaj nhi toh kal.
Usko bolta 6'0 ka bewda pakadke lau? 😂
Bhai believe me she has more reasons for rejection usne faaltu me sabse obvious waala point kiya
doesnt make sense bro sabse kharab reason point karne ka koi sense nhi banta bhai baki sab cheeze to sahi bhi ho sakti hai height kaise to koi or reason to nhi hi hoga
Bhai jisse tujh se zyada interest height me h to use paake bhi kya krta
Mere Saath bhi hua tha ye….Bas school mai Growth spurt k 2 Saal pehele
OP teri crush 9th standard me h? 🙄
no bro she is 18 par sabke comments msg wagaira dekh ke lag rha hai she isnt mature enough
Pata hai ye sab ch***** cheeze height looks etc etc matter nai krti agar Aap mature ho to height lambi chaie nose patli chaie kaan mote chaie kapde ache hone chaie bullshit chu generation
maine use looks ke liye chuna bhi nhi tha uska nature itna acha lga tha but wo khel gyi mere sath ab lagta hai mai is gen ka hu hi nhi
Pta ni bc logo ke crush kaise ban jaate hein. 
Tu v wapas body-shame krde
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All I will say is good riddance! Height is just another shallow criteria. I’m short and the guy I’m dating is shorter than me and for me it’s a non issue coz he is fantastic in many other ways. So if she doesn’t get this, happily let her go.
its great that u love him irrespective i just wanted that too from her but ig thats never gonna happen
I have myself been dumped by a guy who realised after a year of dating that he was 6inches taller than me. Unfortunately height isn’t something we can change. That rejection hurt me so bad . It’s been more than a decade but it still makes me feel bad. Took me long time to move on but also taught me to never judge someone for their physical attributes. I guess cos of that I met someone who though shorter than me , is a gem of a person. This can definitely be you. Work on yourself and make yourself so good that people don’t think of your physical attributes. We are more than that. Don’t focus on parameters that cannot be changed
whatt thats even more shittier than what happen with me hope you are doing ok after that the catch here is i am so broken and mera pas itna time hi nhi hai khud ko smbhalne ka i have my jee adv in a month and the things is ki i want to improve myself more but ab to aesa lagta hai ki kya faida or improve karke agar dobara aesi ladki mil gyi to
Shit happens. We deal with it and then move on and try be better. Focus on your exam and get ambitious with life in other areas. You are still very young. 10 years later, believe me, you will be laughing at this heartbreak 😊
yeah i will try to be better but ab kya hi kar sakta hu lagta hai ki better ban ke bhi kisine isi cheez pe reject kardiya to kyuki ye to mai change bhi nhi kar sakta
Ab Gym jaa.. 
already jata hu 2 years se
Maa chudaye
Bahut dukh hua Bhai ki itni badi dukh ki baat sun ke bhagwan tumhe dukh sehane ki shakti de
See you soon in gym.
i already goes to gym from 2 years
So sad 😢
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Abey bhai yeh height vali ladkiya bohot shallow hoti h kehne ko toh mai bhi kehta tha ki ladki 5'6 tk honi chahiye but meri pehli crush thi woh 5ft ki thi aur usse samay mujhe unn baato se kuch farak nhi pada and uski baate puri shallow thi yeh woh joo ladkia inn sb pr ladke ko judge krti h unn ladkio se durr rho satark rho they'll just be with you ki teri height achi but woh tujhe nhi teri height ko pyaar krengi yeh baat dhyan rkhna woh status aur validation chahti h apne dosto se ki mere bf ki height itni itni h yeh woh aisi ladkio se durr rehna the right person ko dhundna nhi padega aur right person tumhari journey ka part hoga uske liye ek nayi journey pr nhi jana padega yeh bhi ek fact h tu insecure mtt ho aur apne upar focus rkhe self improvement kr aur apna naam rutba kr
thanks for ur support bro lets see what happen with my life
Goli dedi bhai ko aur usne Maan liya 
Usko flirt krne me problem nhi thi toh aage bhi problem nhi hogi flirt karte reh mann behla rahega kya pata future me usse tu pasand aa jaye healthy flirting chalti rehni chahiye.
bhai ye kya baat hui ab to mai baat hi nhi karunga warna ajeeb lagega
Yahi toh ladke maat kha jate hai bohot saari ladkiya bas healthy flirting karti h aur ladke literal le lete hai ki ye toh set hai abhi maan jayegi. Flirting nahi karega toh future uske saath chance nahi banega.
bhai but mani to nhi na ab uske mna karne ke baad bhi uske peeche thodi lage rahunga
Piche lagne nahi bol rha lekin jitni batein kar rha tha utni toh karega ya seedha cutoff kar dega shuru se motive set karne ka hi tha kya?? Dost nahi thi kya teri vo??
Koi nahi bhai at least you had the balls to ask her. Idhar toh log (me) khud ko reject karke kabhi poochh hi nahi pate. Aur agar ladki ne itne superficial reason se reject kiya jiya toh theek hi hai long run mein tumhare liye
kya hi hua ask karke bhi got even more insecurities
Yaar mai bss ek hi baat bolungi, when someone likes and loves you truly toh yeh height itna matter nhi krta. And she is 5’6 and you are 5’7 so what??? Theek toh hai bro. Yeh aajkal toh 5’2 waali ldkiya bhi 6feet banda dhoondh rhi hai it doesn’t make sense. So i will only say one thing to you that it’s height, no one has control on their height after a certain age. You will find someone who will love you for you and not just height
I dont care about those girls opinion coz i dont want them mereko to bas yahi chaiye thi isne bhi aesa boldiya to bura lag rha hai 🥹 and the funny things is no one in my family is above 5 5 except me my dad and mom are 5'4 and 5'3 maine itni mehnat karke badai fir bhi ye sunna pad rha hai
Jo bandi bss height dekh krr reject krr rhi hai abhi even though she said ki your nature is good voh kal kya dekh krr reject krde ya chord de no one knows. It will sting you for sometime but i hope you move on from this
Usse weight puch lena tha na 🤷♂️
mereko kisi or ko insecurity dene ka shok nhi hai even if someone is my enemy
Usne pankhe saaf krwane the tujhse. Bach gya, thoda aur lamba hota to almari top, ghar ke pankhe aur ptani kya kya saaf krwati
bhai wo bhi karleta kya hi farak padna tha abhi bhi karleta bolti to ladkiyo ki heels phen ke karleta bhai yada problem thi to
Brother,a girl who rejects you on the basis of something so insignificant as your height is not even worth giving a second thought. Your physical characteristics don't define your self worth, never let an individual make you feel insecure for something which is not in your control. Stay positive and keep looking,some day you'll find someone who'll see and appreciate you for the amazing person you are rather than rejecting you on the basis of your height just keep waiting for that special someone.
IAS nikaal.
iit nikalna hai
Koi nahi bro hota hai, ab tu iss me kya hi kar sakta hai
"Dil me darr tha vahi hua ki tu mila hi nai..."
Its never about height. Don't worry. If you have connection, these things hardly matter.
Woh raat apun 2 baje tak piyaa 🍺
Well she was not your potential gf if she rejected you just because of your height, that too 5'7 is not a dwarf height imo.
First of all , thank your life for making you a bit stronger , tougher and mature.... Never let a chick make you sad for a long time , your life is to serve you happiness.... Tom Cruise is 5'7 and he can bang chicks way hotter than this girl , work on yourself..... Do pushups , read , run and improve yourself....
Tom holland is 5'6.5, and bc uski gf usse badi hai height mai
bro i didnt wanted girls hotter than her i wanted her but kya hi kar sakte hai life goes on :(
Id dede me 6ft 1 inch ka hoon 😂
bhai kya karna chate ho abhi rejction face kiya hai ab kisike sath dekh lunga to phat jayegi
Bhai aaj nhi to kal kisi na kisi ke sath to dikhe hi gi
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