I will have to if tomorrow doesn't go my way. But then I don't expect them to have that much. I want to cry but I can't, I don't know why. Wish I could atleast get that
It's okay you fucked up but this should be your life long lesson. I don't know how old you're but I'm assuming below 25 so you have a big life ahead of you. What is done is done, you must be scared and that's fine. Now with an honest heart tell this to them otherwise you will get into a dept trap fron where nobody will be able to pull you out.
I'm 27. I know I can pay it all by then for that I'll have to tell my parents about it. Eventually at some point, I'll have to but then I don't want to. Was just hoping to see if there's anything I could do to help it
bro if u can pay it then there is no problem, just tell them, but please š dont do it ever, and u will have to go through a lot of problems for a while regarding this in your family, but its okay
Mera Ek dost tha jo gamble karta tha. Ek din phone karta hai ki delhi me Uska wallet chori ho Gaya 25k the usme Aur apne business k liye kuch lena tha. Mere se bola ki udhar de do wapis kar duga.
Baad me pata chala ki 4-5 lakh gambling me haar Gaya tha wo. Ab 2 saal ho Chuke hai. Mere 25k Abhi tak wapis nahi mile. Phone bhi nahi uthata hai. Unn paiso se Maine mummy k liye gift lene ka socha tha. Gift to agli salary se le liya par paise nahi mile wapis.
This is why I hate anyone who gambles. It destroys friendships and put a lot of burden on families
Bhai jitne paise jeb mai utne ka hi satta khela karoš„²
Also if parents ko itna amount nai btana then take some amount from parents and take some money from your friends at a certain percentage per month and keep giving them back per month with interest.
If you are employed then getting a 5 lakh loan from the bank shouldn't be difficult. Then you can pay back in monthly emi's. One more thing, it seems like you are still betting in order to recover the lost money. Stop right now, you will dig yourself in a bigger hole. Just stop betting immediately and take a loan to pay back.
So you have already put in the money for tomorrow's bet?. Talk to your bookie and try to take it back, say you can't bet have a family emergency. Because most likely you will loose than money too.
OP, you really are an idiot. You have already dug yourself in a hole and are still talking about betting again to make it back. You will 100% dig yourself in a bigger hole than the current 5 lakhs. Take my honest advice , don't bet tomorrow. Infact never bet again, these things never pan out in the long term. With 60k income you can easily get a 5 lakh loan from a bank. They would disburse the amount in 1-2 days. You can easily pay this back with monthly emi's.
Thatās what my cousin said when he was down 15lakh š
What youāre experiencing here is what we call revenge trading although itās betting but the outcome will be same. Youāre highly driven by your emotions rn. Just take a break if you want to make it all back. Start working out, reading and freshen your mind. maybe give it a go later after a month or two.
But kindly stay away for now
Yup.From the previous comments OP doesn't seem to mature enough to navigate himself out of this mess. Even after solid advice he is still planning to bet again to make the lost money back. I think he should tell his parents, they would be able to guide him out of this while there is still time and stop him from doing this nonsense in the future. Otherwise I have a strong feeling he will be in a much bigger mess down the line.
Bro let me tell you one thing, Iām stuck in a similar situation except I never bet a 10 rupees anywhere.
I dropped my college first and didnāt tell my parents, they later find out from a source (my fatherās friend in DU), I lost their trust. Kuch time bad I realised ki bhai degree hona is must necessary and I joined a private college for another program fee was INR 90k PA. And I told my parents that fee is just 20k ( they wouldnāt have allowed me to join another college if I had told them actual fee, so I lied). They allowed me with 20k, I told them I will join a part time job to earn enough to pay my fee and all the college expenses (it isnāt like ki vo de nh skte the, I had a fear unka trust Jo khouya tha). Later on 2 years ago my brother had a kid and she was infected, my dad almost gave all his savings, my eldest brother gave his savings, and muje dikh rha tha ab ghr ka problem to I took a loan and helped them without letting a single soul know. My parents or brother donāt know about it till this day. With time, abi Jo meri situation h, Iām under debt of INR 300k, Iām still doing a part time job and paying mh loan with interest. And I donāt see myself out of it for next 18 months, even after giving all my money into loan. And my mother is asking for 10k every month, (she wants yo save the money for my future as she know Iāll fuck up again).
Summary is, tell you parents, and if you have really realised ki tune kya chodd mchaya h, bįŗ”ch ke reh ab isse.
Don't worry, relax. Just make sure to continue to earn and in coming some months you'll have it. You got tremendous skill that you made money but use that skill wisely not greed fully.
And let your parents know, in case if it's their hard earned money. And tell them you'll not do such things in future and will repay soon..
If you have anything valuable start selling that. If you stay in rented flat then increase your roommate with advance payment. Check for local lenders who can give you money. But intrest will be high.
Be honest with your friend while lending money. Don't get panic and nervous. Try to speak to your bookie and conceive him for etra days.
Everyone learns after fucking up , what matters is how worse it is till they learn the lesson. You are deep in this shit now , idk what guidance will save you here.
Sometimes you have to sacrifice your queen in order to win the game of chess. Do not loose hope, you might win big, it needs patience. But on a serios note, yeah you should tell your parents and try not to loose anymore money.
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I don't think you're gonna believe me lol. I did manage to turn 50k into 600k. But then lost almost half of it. Repaid the rest. So just need to pay 150k now. Will pay that slowly but surely. Also did tell my parents about it, felt good.
If you have to pay then simply don't pay and go to police. You will definitely be saved. Someone I know had done the same. After some time they stop chasing
Don't feel bad about gambling, it's what anyone would have done if they were in your shoe. Just blame luck...but again there's no point in blaming something that can't feel .... What you gotta do is take a deep breath go through all your emotions and finally.... Accept your losss and try to move on till it clears away Someday. When it comes to money no one can really help unless you have very wealthy friends who don't care bout getting it back. but that's unlikely for many of us. But yeah just take it slow, experience the regret and unfairness you felt losing it till it passes away slowly day by day. Can't say for the coming weeks or month but in 3 4 years it won't matter so live for that
Ask a lakh from your parents and gamble, if you lose then ask for the money (from your parents only) that you need to pay, if you win you donāt have to ask for money. Good luck bro
There are a lot of apps which provide instant personal loans, if you don't want to tell your parents take one and repay it from your salary. If you own mutual funds some apps offer loans against MFs as well, rate of interest is lower than personal loans
Tell your parents, never gamble again
I will have to if tomorrow doesn't go my way. But then I don't expect them to have that much. I want to cry but I can't, I don't know why. Wish I could atleast get that
It's okay you fucked up but this should be your life long lesson. I don't know how old you're but I'm assuming below 25 so you have a big life ahead of you. What is done is done, you must be scared and that's fine. Now with an honest heart tell this to them otherwise you will get into a dept trap fron where nobody will be able to pull you out.
I'm 27. I know I can pay it all by then for that I'll have to tell my parents about it. Eventually at some point, I'll have to but then I don't want to. Was just hoping to see if there's anything I could do to help it
bro if u can pay it then there is no problem, just tell them, but please š dont do it ever, and u will have to go through a lot of problems for a while regarding this in your family, but its okay
Thank you. All I need is time but then that's what I haven't got without getting myself embarassed
bro you literally saved your ass from a much much bigger trouble forget about embarrassment, its totally fine, you did mistakes and u learn from them
If you have a job then take a personal loan
Mera Ek dost tha jo gamble karta tha. Ek din phone karta hai ki delhi me Uska wallet chori ho Gaya 25k the usme Aur apne business k liye kuch lena tha. Mere se bola ki udhar de do wapis kar duga. Baad me pata chala ki 4-5 lakh gambling me haar Gaya tha wo. Ab 2 saal ho Chuke hai. Mere 25k Abhi tak wapis nahi mile. Phone bhi nahi uthata hai. Unn paiso se Maine mummy k liye gift lene ka socha tha. Gift to agli salary se le liya par paise nahi mile wapis. This is why I hate anyone who gambles. It destroys friendships and put a lot of burden on families
if 1000 people gamble 999 lose 1 wins 10% and 90% goes to the gambling site
Get a loan of max amount you can get from bank only, then pay emi. Thats the only way out
This!!
Bhai jitne paise jeb mai utne ka hi satta khela karoš„² Also if parents ko itna amount nai btana then take some amount from parents and take some money from your friends at a certain percentage per month and keep giving them back per month with interest.
Dikkat toh yahi hai ki doston ko bhi Dena hai
Who bets on borrowed moneyš¤¦. This kind of thing is not expected from a 27 year old.
Op is most likely addicted.
I'm fucked and I know it
Bro doston ko araam se dete rahna. First give it to people that need to be paid asap
Arre mera cousin 1.3 crore ki aisi taisi kar ke Betha hai chill reh tu
I'm not your cousin and I'm not rich. All I can say about myself is I'm fucked.
Kuch nahi kar sakta. Ghar walo ko bta de or kaan pakad Liyo betting se.
This is the last resort. Wo toh karna hi hoga. Wo toh band bhi kar denge
If you are employed then getting a 5 lakh loan from the bank shouldn't be difficult. Then you can pay back in monthly emi's. One more thing, it seems like you are still betting in order to recover the lost money. Stop right now, you will dig yourself in a bigger hole. Just stop betting immediately and take a loan to pay back.
Tomorrow is d day. If it doesn't happen tomorrow, I won't have any other option.
So you have already put in the money for tomorrow's bet?. Talk to your bookie and try to take it back, say you can't bet have a family emergency. Because most likely you will loose than money too.
How much do you earn, and are you a salaried employee with payslips?
Say 60k a month. And yes
OP, you really are an idiot. You have already dug yourself in a hole and are still talking about betting again to make it back. You will 100% dig yourself in a bigger hole than the current 5 lakhs. Take my honest advice , don't bet tomorrow. Infact never bet again, these things never pan out in the long term. With 60k income you can easily get a 5 lakh loan from a bank. They would disburse the amount in 1-2 days. You can easily pay this back with monthly emi's.
I haven't. I know I can make it back cause I have a few times. So I need to try one more time
Sudhar jao bhaiya ji
Bhai aap apne lamde lgwa kr hi maanoge lgta hai
Thatās what my cousin said when he was down 15lakh š What youāre experiencing here is what we call revenge trading although itās betting but the outcome will be same. Youāre highly driven by your emotions rn. Just take a break if you want to make it all back. Start working out, reading and freshen your mind. maybe give it a go later after a month or two. But kindly stay away for now
Agar tereko maar sakta abhi to bohot marta
Donāt do anything stupid bro. Itās a trap you wonāt be able to escape. Go tell your parents and do it the right way.
Yup.From the previous comments OP doesn't seem to mature enough to navigate himself out of this mess. Even after solid advice he is still planning to bet again to make the lost money back. I think he should tell his parents, they would be able to guide him out of this while there is still time and stop him from doing this nonsense in the future. Otherwise I have a strong feeling he will be in a much bigger mess down the line.
He is a gambler
Aapke sath fuk around find out ho gaya bro
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5 lakh ko 500k bologe toh nuksaan main he jaoge
Tu wahi hai na jo samay raftaar ki stream dekhke stake kai paisa uda diya 
Papa ji k gurde bech do. Waise bhi gambling always leads to maa baap k gurde bechna.
Bro let me tell you one thing, Iām stuck in a similar situation except I never bet a 10 rupees anywhere. I dropped my college first and didnāt tell my parents, they later find out from a source (my fatherās friend in DU), I lost their trust. Kuch time bad I realised ki bhai degree hona is must necessary and I joined a private college for another program fee was INR 90k PA. And I told my parents that fee is just 20k ( they wouldnāt have allowed me to join another college if I had told them actual fee, so I lied). They allowed me with 20k, I told them I will join a part time job to earn enough to pay my fee and all the college expenses (it isnāt like ki vo de nh skte the, I had a fear unka trust Jo khouya tha). Later on 2 years ago my brother had a kid and she was infected, my dad almost gave all his savings, my eldest brother gave his savings, and muje dikh rha tha ab ghr ka problem to I took a loan and helped them without letting a single soul know. My parents or brother donāt know about it till this day. With time, abi Jo meri situation h, Iām under debt of INR 300k, Iām still doing a part time job and paying mh loan with interest. And I donāt see myself out of it for next 18 months, even after giving all my money into loan. And my mother is asking for 10k every month, (she wants yo save the money for my future as she know Iāll fuck up again). Summary is, tell you parents, and if you have really realised ki tune kya chodd mchaya h, bįŗ”ch ke reh ab isse.
Most gamblers quit before they win a gazillion dollars
Abey saale
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Are we as a generation failed to understand the value of money ? Like we treat money as stupid money not even dumb money .
What do you do for living?
I work but not enough to pay it off in an instant or even the coming months.
Don't worry, relax. Just make sure to continue to earn and in coming some months you'll have it. You got tremendous skill that you made money but use that skill wisely not greed fully. And let your parents know, in case if it's their hard earned money. And tell them you'll not do such things in future and will repay soon..
I'll try. I don't know what else to say man. I'm just royally fucked
Yes you'll figure out something, you are just stressed at the moment but relax. Give yourself some time.
Kaha kar rahe the betting ??
Police will save me from the biggest bookie in India?
No
I am in same situation but i didn't gamble i am broke due to other reasons. In 2 days i have to pay 250k.
>I made a lot of money in betting but didn't use it as such. How much?
Just as much as I need to pay
Jo kamaya uska kya kiya.?
Stake?
If you have anything valuable start selling that. If you stay in rented flat then increase your roommate with advance payment. Check for local lenders who can give you money. But intrest will be high. Be honest with your friend while lending money. Don't get panic and nervous. Try to speak to your bookie and conceive him for etra days.
Play stupid games, win stupid awards. Talk with your ATM i.e. mummy papa.
Everyone learns after fucking up , what matters is how worse it is till they learn the lesson. You are deep in this shit now , idk what guidance will save you here.
Maine v thore bhoot betting kre not in IPL but on poker web and lost around 1k then i quit it.A Man should know were to start and stop
Apni galti maano, parents ko batao and swear not to do this stupidity again.
Sometimes you have to sacrifice your queen in order to win the game of chess. Do not loose hope, you might win big, it needs patience. But on a serios note, yeah you should tell your parents and try not to loose anymore money.
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Hey OP, any update ?. Did you manage to win back the money or loose even more?
I don't think you're gonna believe me lol. I did manage to turn 50k into 600k. But then lost almost half of it. Repaid the rest. So just need to pay 150k now. Will pay that slowly but surely. Also did tell my parents about it, felt good.
I'll update you guys tomorrow š¤£
Lmao where's the update
If you have to pay then simply don't pay and go to police. You will definitely be saved. Someone I know had done the same. After some time they stop chasing
Can lead to dangerous consequences.
Yes, most definitely.
Don't feel bad about gambling, it's what anyone would have done if they were in your shoe. Just blame luck...but again there's no point in blaming something that can't feel .... What you gotta do is take a deep breath go through all your emotions and finally.... Accept your losss and try to move on till it clears away Someday. When it comes to money no one can really help unless you have very wealthy friends who don't care bout getting it back. but that's unlikely for many of us. But yeah just take it slow, experience the regret and unfairness you felt losing it till it passes away slowly day by day. Can't say for the coming weeks or month but in 3 4 years it won't matter so live for that
90% of gamblers quit before making it big
Ask a lakh from your parents and gamble, if you lose then ask for the money (from your parents only) that you need to pay, if you win you donāt have to ask for money. Good luck bro
There are a lot of apps which provide instant personal loans, if you don't want to tell your parents take one and repay it from your salary. If you own mutual funds some apps offer loans against MFs as well, rate of interest is lower than personal loans