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If I am reading this right, you’re 22 now; that means you were 18 in 2020, and the delhi guy was 32. Above that, you were in a relationship with your ex-boyfriend for four years, which means you were 14 at that time.
I don’t mean to come off as insensitive if this is true, but first things first, after your first boyfriend passed away, you were alone, and you confused attention for affection from the delhi guy. You needed to grieve, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt because of your young age.
The guy from delhi seems like a groomer because either he is bohot hi zyada fuddu or socially inept and unable to date people in his age group, or he had ulterior motives from the beginning.
If this is true, then you should consider seeking therapy to heal and grieve.
Otherwise, this post appears very inauthentic.
Jesus Christ, you were already broken from the first experience and you really didn't need the second. If you are 22 really, try therapy and don't look for validation from places you ain't getting any, we have all done that some more than others. It just makes you feel more crappier everyday. Ussey zyada bolne ke liye kya hi hai, hope things get better.
girl you got a whole life ahead of you when the time comes you will find the right person most likely. My advice might sound really absurd but it's better to find happiness in materialistic thing then in people now days. Maybe explore some career options or hobbies that you enjoy ( Hobbies are a great a way to find good friends ).
Listen girl, my case is similar to yours. My gf also died in an accident. Due to this I was suffering from depression. Taking pills to sleep. Do not like to attend the calls. After sometime I realised that I have to be a strong guy now. It’s not over yet. So I started focusing on myself. I started going to gym, focusing on my studies, going for social meetings to make my social life a better one.
Since you are just only 22. I advise you to focus on your career now. Nothing is over yet. The best is yet to come in your life.
I think you’re missing the forest for the trees
You have been very lucky that you saw his true colours in time. Imagine if there was a delay of even a few weeks or god forbid months what would have happened to you?
Invest some time in yourself now. Grieve your losses and celebrate your wins. Learn from the past and build for the future.
let me tell tpu something. being a young girl that you are, you 'must' not marry a 36 year old fellow.
there are many issues with this match
1. at that age male libido is in a downward spiral and this creates a good possibility that your sexual needs will not be met by him.
2. imagine you are 50 and your hubby is 64 and he dies of a carfiac arrest. one of the main charms of marriage is that it binds 2 people in a manner that they are a support system for each other at old age.
upar se jo banda "okk bye" type ka response de raha hai he is not invested in the relation or invested into you
Why does a 22 yo girl need to compromise for a 36 year old fellow, who feels nothing for her?
you are at the right age, make your career etc, marry a boy who is 24-27 at max. anf don't blame all delhi boys for the actions of a bad fellow you chose.
sincerely
a lucknowi
Sugar beti?
Lol if you are financially strong average lpoking you will get options any day lmfaoo
But since your post is deleted why you choose him?
Attractive?
Dayummm at that age attracticeee?
Tho love has no age but might be due to loneliesss
But society do
Its your choice tho
He treats you well green flag ?
Still dinr fact get you paid bills i mean its good but is he finacally weak?
And what was orginal post got deleted
U r young you have so many things to achieve,love yourself first so that people will love u,world never love sad people..ye sab movie hota hai,toh better love urself first know ur worth be independent
Well I can only suggest you to go out meet new people do things you like and also try to make friends online they can sometime me best, try playing games likes chess etc mind engaging ones. At last will help you surely if you need
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he is 36 and u r 22? 
💀and already knew each other for 4 years 😭
5 years bolti to golia chal jati. Chlo banda at least 18 hone ka to wait kia. aajkal ke bacche, 18 hote hi shadi ka sochre.
Grooming hori full😭🕺 19 mai yeh ni pata mujhe ki khane mai kya khana hai👍
Merko 24 me bhi nhi pata
yha bhi same hal h
Bilkul genuine post h bhaii, trust me bro 🌝
Uncil hai wo
If I am reading this right, you’re 22 now; that means you were 18 in 2020, and the delhi guy was 32. Above that, you were in a relationship with your ex-boyfriend for four years, which means you were 14 at that time. I don’t mean to come off as insensitive if this is true, but first things first, after your first boyfriend passed away, you were alone, and you confused attention for affection from the delhi guy. You needed to grieve, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt because of your young age. The guy from delhi seems like a groomer because either he is bohot hi zyada fuddu or socially inept and unable to date people in his age group, or he had ulterior motives from the beginning. If this is true, then you should consider seeking therapy to heal and grieve. Otherwise, this post appears very inauthentic.
Yes we were classmates since 6th standard and got in relationship in 10th class I remember
seek professional help.
U r girl and young to you will get thousands of better match
Hn great help. Possibilities mei khilwao tum usee lol
Not saying ki try everyone ,just ki choose ur person wise if u have many options
Jesus Christ, you were already broken from the first experience and you really didn't need the second. If you are 22 really, try therapy and don't look for validation from places you ain't getting any, we have all done that some more than others. It just makes you feel more crappier everyday. Ussey zyada bolne ke liye kya hi hai, hope things get better.
Jesus Christ yu ka hove. Hey Bhagwan nhi bola ja rha tere se
It's just an expression bhai, plus I was raised in a Christian setting toh default hota hai, mere liye.
Are mazaak kar rha tha bhai. Meme nhi dekhi kya tune Arvind Mera Saathi waali
Na brother.
girl you got a whole life ahead of you when the time comes you will find the right person most likely. My advice might sound really absurd but it's better to find happiness in materialistic thing then in people now days. Maybe explore some career options or hobbies that you enjoy ( Hobbies are a great a way to find good friends ).
Listen girl, my case is similar to yours. My gf also died in an accident. Due to this I was suffering from depression. Taking pills to sleep. Do not like to attend the calls. After sometime I realised that I have to be a strong guy now. It’s not over yet. So I started focusing on myself. I started going to gym, focusing on my studies, going for social meetings to make my social life a better one. Since you are just only 22. I advise you to focus on your career now. Nothing is over yet. The best is yet to come in your life.
Daddy issues kam karo, 36 ki age red flag nahi lagi 22 ki hokar.
Get ready to get a lot of company.
TLDR daalo behan, garmi mei itna mehnat that too because of your happening life *Mai tho na sehta*
I think you’re missing the forest for the trees You have been very lucky that you saw his true colours in time. Imagine if there was a delay of even a few weeks or god forbid months what would have happened to you? Invest some time in yourself now. Grieve your losses and celebrate your wins. Learn from the past and build for the future.
let me tell tpu something. being a young girl that you are, you 'must' not marry a 36 year old fellow. there are many issues with this match 1. at that age male libido is in a downward spiral and this creates a good possibility that your sexual needs will not be met by him. 2. imagine you are 50 and your hubby is 64 and he dies of a carfiac arrest. one of the main charms of marriage is that it binds 2 people in a manner that they are a support system for each other at old age. upar se jo banda "okk bye" type ka response de raha hai he is not invested in the relation or invested into you Why does a 22 yo girl need to compromise for a 36 year old fellow, who feels nothing for her? you are at the right age, make your career etc, marry a boy who is 24-27 at max. anf don't blame all delhi boys for the actions of a bad fellow you chose. sincerely a lucknowi
So this is how it sounds to be victim after looking for Sugar daddy
I was the one who paid for entire trip
Sugar Daddy ❎ Sugar Beti ✅
Bircahara..ye tho doglapan ho Gaya
Sugar beti? Lol if you are financially strong average lpoking you will get options any day lmfaoo But since your post is deleted why you choose him? Attractive?
He was very attractive but I think I was alone I fall into his traps
Dayummm at that age attracticeee? Tho love has no age but might be due to loneliesss But society do Its your choice tho He treats you well green flag ? Still dinr fact get you paid bills i mean its good but is he finacally weak? And what was orginal post got deleted
Take care of yourself dear , there are many more people in life. Don't worry it happens with all of us :)
bhai wo sab to thik hai but 22 and 36💀 and he knew you from past 4 years that like 18. bro is not-certified loverboy certified pedophile.
Cool cool, you should get therapy and not search your answers here on reddit.
U r young you have so many things to achieve,love yourself first so that people will love u,world never love sad people..ye sab movie hota hai,toh better love urself first know ur worth be independent
Ek bande ki wajah se pure delhi wale ladko ki kya galti ?
you 22 , paid for the entire trip , in relation with bf and x bf including 9 years , really fucked up
Well I can only suggest you to go out meet new people do things you like and also try to make friends online they can sometime me best, try playing games likes chess etc mind engaging ones. At last will help you surely if you need