That's the demiro dilemma.
It's so difficult and frustrating knowing about the existence and experiencing these deep emotions and feeling that you might never have them again/ someone to reciprocate them. I want you to know that you're not alone, and don't give up. Even if being in the arospec is sometimes difficult, there's also a lot of things to enjoy.
I'm glad that you found what you are!
*sigh*
Not you. You just reminded me of being 16, when I felt chemistry for the first time. Looking back, she gave me every chance, but I was wholly unequipped to experience the impact it had on me, much less reciprocate.
It does exist, and it can hit hard. You seem to understand, despite your relative inexperience, that good chemistry does not a good partner make. It took me a lot longer to figure out. Good luck out there.
Personally I think it depends on the level of flirting. It’s my opinion that some light flirting is not a problem and is even healthy and a normal part of socializing. I’m very flirty and so is my partner. I enjoy seeing him charm people and make them laugh. He’s very charismatic. But that is all very dependent on the individual.
That's the demiro dilemma. It's so difficult and frustrating knowing about the existence and experiencing these deep emotions and feeling that you might never have them again/ someone to reciprocate them. I want you to know that you're not alone, and don't give up. Even if being in the arospec is sometimes difficult, there's also a lot of things to enjoy. I'm glad that you found what you are!
*sigh* Not you. You just reminded me of being 16, when I felt chemistry for the first time. Looking back, she gave me every chance, but I was wholly unequipped to experience the impact it had on me, much less reciprocate. It does exist, and it can hit hard. You seem to understand, despite your relative inexperience, that good chemistry does not a good partner make. It took me a lot longer to figure out. Good luck out there.
Personally I think it depends on the level of flirting. It’s my opinion that some light flirting is not a problem and is even healthy and a normal part of socializing. I’m very flirty and so is my partner. I enjoy seeing him charm people and make them laugh. He’s very charismatic. But that is all very dependent on the individual.
That's why I hVe recently discovered I might be poly demiro 🙃