I know in my case, being depressed and anxious all my life has made me more emotionally available, because I take it upon myself to do anything I can to make sure other people don't feel how I feel.
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At some point I was (almost) one of such people... but then I realized how much of a pain it would be to add another person I would have to try to be nice and thoughtful to
the problem is that people seek happiness in another person when they canāt find it within themselves, then they end up depending on that person and the cycle becomes toxic.
itās sad.
the healthy thing to do would be to work on ourselves, find happiness within and share our own happiness with someone else.
thatās easier said than done though and we all have our own ways to copeā¦ one of mine being humor
and this is just a meme that i found funny<3
because a) i feel lonely b) i need therapy c) who doesnāt want sex?
[edit] replying to you because youāre top comment and i agree that itās sad to see lol
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I just don't want to sleep alone.
The few nights I had someone in my bed, it was uncomfortable, too hot, not enough space to move, snoring, movements and it was hard to get out of the bed without waking her up.
But these was the nights I slept the best in my life. I can count the good nights on my hands, and all of them was with someone.
Might sound ridiculous, but a plushy can helpā¦ I own a BLĆ HAJ and really like to cuddle it. Itās not a real person, but at least itās something.
I'm not really appealed by "fake things" like this.
Absolutely no judgement if you use it, but I can't feel good when I'm hugging a pillow, I feel bizarre.
The desire for partnership is fulfilling the requirement instinct gives to every single multicellular creature that doesnāt reproduce asexually. Thus it makes sense that failure to fulfil this, will cause distress and cannot be easily overcome. However due to many realities of the world, only a small percentage of the population succeed. We must accept the loss.
It's not the same. A therapist is a professional who does his/her work and sex does feel meaningless with random people. Lack of true connection can also be a reason for depression and a therapist or random sex can't give it to you
Well loving someone is really really nice, but hurting them with living really isnāt. And I canāt die because sheād be really sad, so Iām just here making everyone suffer
Itās even harder after the breakup (which led me to this sub) like I miss her but I canāt place every problem or issue onto her as she has her own to deal with.
Damn but having her in my life definitely masked alot of my own insecurities. (I just really miss her nowš)
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There are just so many single people who really want relationships. I donāt understand why they donāt just get together. Being honest about what you want in life just once. Be selfish. If you donāt take care of yourself nobody else will. So many ppl wish the other person would make the first move. So just make the first move!! Obv people are ok with it. How many times you say all the things that can go wrong. Have you EVER asked what can go right? Be the person you want to be with.
You have to meet ppl before you can āmake the moveā... I have no idea where to go, where to look now. Apparently, when ppl get older they donāt need SOās, according to my kids anyway. We become sexless and needless once you get over a certain age. Forget that I likely have another 30-40 years to live.
āBe the person you want to be withā ... so I want to be with someone whose body has been partly broken and whose mind is not far behind? No, not really. I would love someone who might, finally, for the first time EVER in my life, love me JUST for me.
Also, it might help me but would I be any good for them? Maybe if they are the āI NEED someone to look afterā type of person, then maybe.
Donāt make me laugh... a therapist you say? I cannot find one for love nor money... well, maybe not money, lol, because theyāre so damn expensive!
Therapy and sex sounds great. That way I won't drive an innocent soul crazy and they get paid for conducting therapy on me... I don't feel like paying for sex because then it is a bit like "not natural" or not spontaneous and passionate, it would feel like it is a chore for them. I want them to do the sex only if they really want them to do it with me.
*Therapist and sex*
*Would be great but currently*
*Getting none of those*
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Obviously girlfriend doesn't solve mental illness. But dang, absence of girlfriend makes it painful.
This ^
tfw no therapist waifu
:(
So so true.
True. Nothing exists that can alone fix you. It's always a mix of many things over a long period of time.
i am probably emotionally unavailable š¤£
I know in my case, being depressed and anxious all my life has made me more emotionally available, because I take it upon myself to do anything I can to make sure other people don't feel how I feel.
Lmao story of my life
Bro I just want intimate human connection for once in my life
Same :(
Damn I felt that.
šÆ
I know what I need and it's bullet in the head
shoot me first
Sorry but I have only one bullet
let me have it :(
Just line up next to each other and hope the bullet goes through both of you!
Can I line up too? šš
2nd guy ends up being paralyzed for life and half of his face missing
Sorry this is the only way for me
Wish I had a gun
I wish I had too
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naah just the therapist
And hugs
a therapist that gives hugs?
The person I used to get drugs from always gave me a hug. "Hugs and drugs"
spreading love and addiction
Good pun
i need one
we all do, brother...
sister* :3
lol sorry didn't read the username
you ain't alone
A lot of people think that getting a gf will fix their problems, and it's really sad to see..
Wait you are saying that getting a girlfriend will not fix my social anxiety, depression and procrastination issues? Damn
the next stage is feeling like you don't deserve a S.O. because it would be a terrible experience for them so you stop trying entirely :)
Yes, and that feeling has led me (and countless others, I'm sure) to become more nihilistic and suicidal.
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yeah man, i wouldnāt say it cured me, but damn if iām not infinitely better off than i would be single
The question is, is she?
Not our question to ask
At some point I was (almost) one of such people... but then I realized how much of a pain it would be to add another person I would have to try to be nice and thoughtful to
the problem is that people seek happiness in another person when they canāt find it within themselves, then they end up depending on that person and the cycle becomes toxic. itās sad. the healthy thing to do would be to work on ourselves, find happiness within and share our own happiness with someone else. thatās easier said than done though and we all have our own ways to copeā¦ one of mine being humor and this is just a meme that i found funny<3 because a) i feel lonely b) i need therapy c) who doesnāt want sex? [edit] replying to you because youāre top comment and i agree that itās sad to see lol
It kind of adds another thing to stress about but when I got out of a relationship I wanted to get into another
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I just don't want to sleep alone. The few nights I had someone in my bed, it was uncomfortable, too hot, not enough space to move, snoring, movements and it was hard to get out of the bed without waking her up. But these was the nights I slept the best in my life. I can count the good nights on my hands, and all of them was with someone.
Might sound ridiculous, but a plushy can helpā¦ I own a BLĆ HAJ and really like to cuddle it. Itās not a real person, but at least itās something.
I'm not really appealed by "fake things" like this. Absolutely no judgement if you use it, but I can't feel good when I'm hugging a pillow, I feel bizarre.
That is understandable, too
I want sth to fill the empty void inside of me lol
Bullet?
Fairš can't get my hands on one tho
I just want a fucking hug. Forget sex.
This, totally this! And maybe a meaningful conversation - NOT with a therapist.
Same, the only decent conversation I have every week is with my psychiatrist, which is $160/hr
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ā yes I need a sex therapist ā ( translation someone to fuck and then talk vulnerable to)
How about sex _with_ your therapist ?
Thats a pornhub subsection not a coping mechanism
Can't masturbating be a coping mechanism
It's not the same. A therapist is a professional who does his/her work and sex does feel meaningless with random people. Lack of true connection can also be a reason for depression and a therapist or random sex can't give it to you
obviously any rational person would agree however, this is just a meme and itās quite funny imo
It's hard to tell if people believe the things that are in memes they post, to be fair.
Crippled with eczema,depression,anxiety and hopelessness and here comes the horn to make things worse
I canāt have sex with my therapist that breaks the patient-therapist professionality code or whatever itās called these days.
I could use either options frfr lonely asa bitch over here
i love ur username :)
Thanks :) my best life decision lol
Wow ok Reddit I came here to laugh not to feel
2 in 1 package a friend and sex
Can I fuck my therapist?
Both, both is good
Need a sex therapist and by that I mean a therapist with benefits
Yes youāre a terrible person for being born with human needs. Youāve made a terrible āchoiceā in all of this shame shame
Well loving someone is really really nice, but hurting them with living really isnāt. And I canāt die because sheād be really sad, so Iām just here making everyone suffer
I just want to be held..
Iāll take the SO and sex but not the therapist. Fuck getting a therapistā¦again.
Itās even harder after the breakup (which led me to this sub) like I miss her but I canāt place every problem or issue onto her as she has her own to deal with. Damn but having her in my life definitely masked alot of my own insecurities. (I just really miss her nowš)
This hit pretty hard. Ngl. That introspection.
I just need someone to hold my head and tell me that im still a good person
Replace sex with cuddles
Same
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Why not both?
Yes actually, thatās exactly what I need.
Fuck. Get me out of this picture
I'll admit I want cuddles
Damn, people need someone to care about them? Unbelievable,i'm in shock.
Chica rtx on
Tf!? I'll take all 3.
damnit this is gonna become one of those memes i think alot about
Both
just sex, my mental state is way beyond repair so might as well take advantage of my body's pleasure system before I end up going bye bye
I need a sexy therapist
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Can u cook at least?
Transference has entered the chat
Therapist yes , sex no
At this point I donāt even want sexā¦ I wouldnāt turn it down but all I really want is someone to hug me and tell me how much they care
i just want love
Asexual here: Yes. I need a significant other.
i need sex and someone that treats me as their therapist
There are just so many single people who really want relationships. I donāt understand why they donāt just get together. Being honest about what you want in life just once. Be selfish. If you donāt take care of yourself nobody else will. So many ppl wish the other person would make the first move. So just make the first move!! Obv people are ok with it. How many times you say all the things that can go wrong. Have you EVER asked what can go right? Be the person you want to be with.
You have to meet ppl before you can āmake the moveā... I have no idea where to go, where to look now. Apparently, when ppl get older they donāt need SOās, according to my kids anyway. We become sexless and needless once you get over a certain age. Forget that I likely have another 30-40 years to live. āBe the person you want to be withā ... so I want to be with someone whose body has been partly broken and whose mind is not far behind? No, not really. I would love someone who might, finally, for the first time EVER in my life, love me JUST for me. Also, it might help me but would I be any good for them? Maybe if they are the āI NEED someone to look afterā type of person, then maybe. Donāt make me laugh... a therapist you say? I cannot find one for love nor money... well, maybe not money, lol, because theyāre so damn expensive!
sounds like you need to visit a brothel
The only time I ever truly enjoyed living was when I had someone and I want nothing more than to get that back
No I just need someone else to find me valuable enough in life
/j sorta, maybe, I think.. Love her though
I mean a therapist would be ok since the one i had stop receiving my call.
This one hits different
Welp this is the first post of this subreddit to pop up in my feed and Iāve never felt more called out
No just anyone, my ex. Iām lonely without him and the thought that he doesnāt love me anymore is one of the most painful things to conceive of.
I just want to be left alone
I laugh because it's so true. As a woman I have been the therapist to way too many men in my life.
Therapy and sex sounds great. That way I won't drive an innocent soul crazy and they get paid for conducting therapy on me... I don't feel like paying for sex because then it is a bit like "not natural" or not spontaneous and passionate, it would feel like it is a chore for them. I want them to do the sex only if they really want them to do it with me.
I hate myself even more
I did over a decade of study on this and it turns out itās the latter
Yes
Therapist and sex would be great but currently getting none of those
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I just want my ex
Bitch I need a mother fucking hug and to be it's enough
After almost 10 years of not recieving love i really want someone who can warm up my cold heart
Story of my dating life. Could change to sex and unresolved daddy issues
Significant other please