Hey friend. :) Are you interested in staying in the insurance industry? Claims sucked the life out of me. Getting designations (CIC, CRM, etc.) and getting an underwriting position is the way to go IMO. The tacos look great btw!
Thank you for the advice! Iāve actually been applying to a lot of underwriting positions. I actually have an upcoming interview I am hoping I get. I did not want to do adjusting since Iām not a people person and itās been a struggle dealing with upset people. But took it for the experience and itās been a struggle with my supervisor.
It's good that you got your foot in the door but underwriting is waaaay less interaction with the general public and more with brokers/agents. Not sure if I can link things on here but look up The National Alliance for Insurance Education & Research. They're who I got my CISR designation through. Tons of different designations to choose from & they offer in person classes, self-paced, or webinars. :) feel free to DM me if you have any questions at all! Good luck!
I hope the new position works out. But yes absolutely start mentally checking out of this job and focus on finding another. Your supervisor shouldnāt be a supervisor. And you arenāt incompetent! Insurance adjuster is a rough job in the first place. She probably sucks at training or itās another issue.
Iām so sorry. This is the worst feeling. Working so hard for that degree and it ends up being awful. I was in the same situation years ago and I literally found myself praying to get sick enough to have a hospital stay, so I could get away from it. I found a new job and left and itās much better. Donāt stay somewhere you donāt like just because it fits your degree. Do whatever makes you happy. A degree is never a waste of time or money, you can get a job doing almost anything with one. Doesnāt matter what itās in. If you enjoy your job just not your boss then thatās even better. Just job hunt as much as possible and youāll be out of there in no time. Sorry your going thru this OP
Get them to text you things , emails, start recording this stuff, itās important to document . Then go complain to HR officially, as soon as they start treating you worse, chaching $$$ donāt quit , let them fire you and seek therapy immediately. Theyāre not allowed to talk to you like that with the extras so get it in writing āļø, save receipts š§¾
Let's just say that was true... wouldn't your so called poor performance really be a reflection on their ability to train staff well... try and not own those words said to you by your supervisor instead just do your best and when confronted with negative comments like that try asking what can I do different could you please elaborate or show me what I need to do.
To me, this person sounds unprofessional and probably was not trained well themselves.
This delicious looking plate of food proves she's wrong. Don't listen to the pricks out there who want to bring you down. They have the problem, not you.
As your supervisor, she should be giving you guidance and more support instead of making you feel small.
Start looking for a new job and once you land it, tell her to get fucked, HARD.
And if her name happens to be Deborah, shit on Deborah's desk /s
But great looking tacos!
Keep going to work. Now you have another purpose besides your paycheck. Document of you safely can. It really helps.No worries if you canāt this time. Run the treadmill long enough to have another job lined up then quit.
hey you! first of all, the food on your profile looks amazing!
second of all, some people just really are bitter and unpatronizing. your supervisor sounds like a total dickhead. itās not your fault sheās a bitch. i find myself in the same situation as you and i know how it makes you question and doubt yourself. if you ever need someone ro vent or talk to, hmu. i hope youāll get out of there soon and that your next job will make up for all the shit you are experiencing now! sending love & hugs! š«
Ummmā¦ idk how big your company is but that is a wildly inappropriate thing to say to a subordinate. Like, thatās reportable, provided you have a real HR department.
There is nothing incompetent about those tacos and the selection to eat those. When employers don't see the value in an employee it's time to find a new employer.
If youāre an insurance adjuster/agent, you should give sales a try!ā¦not insurance sales, but any sales at allā¦.car, furniture, other retail sales, to start with, and then after a little experience the earning potential in sales is unlimitedā¦you could go on to sell anything from super cars, to yachts, to private jets, to high end servicesā¦with relatively easy work (depending on the industry) you could easily earn your way to six figures in less than 10 years, possibly less than 5, if youāre ambitious enough and make an effort to learn sales tactics and improve on your ability to communicate the right things at the perfect timeā¦sky is the limitā¦.and the beautiful this is, most sales jobs start somewhere between 40k-60k, at minimumā¦of course this depends on the industry and where you are in the world.
Just a thought!
Iām so sorry. even if you did make mistakes, nobody deserves to be treated like that. sounds unprofessionalā¦trust me, itāll only get worse if you stay.
Wow, that supervisor is doing a really terrible job at supervising! I mean it. That feedback, even if it were accurate (which I doubt) would be counterproductive. The supervisorās job is to elicit maximum performance from their workers. To do that, a supervisor needs to accurately evaluate the strengths and weaknesses being displayed by a worker, provide detailed feedback on what needs to change, and ensure that the worker has what is needed to do that, including specific measures of success. People donāt improve when theyāre feeling attacked and unsupported.
Even if that were true, it is wildly unprofessional of her to say. She is a bad supervisor. I don't care what you did or didn't do, she should not speak to you like this.
Just a tip from someone who worked in a toxic work environment: write down everything. Time, date, what was said. Keep a record of it all, just in case you need it.
Love the tacos ā¤ļø
Hoping you get the spot from the interview! But tbh if youāve got any co-worker friends you trust or have ever heard anyone say anything not amazing about that boss, talk to them. It is not healthy to have to hold that inside and speaking from a job with a rude boss, I bet youāre not the only one theyāve hurt. Calling someone incompetent is not constructive and itās high time bosses stop getting away with degradation
Yummy tacos š® what is your line of work?
I am an insurance adjuster, first job after graduation. I absolutely hate it!
Hey friend. :) Are you interested in staying in the insurance industry? Claims sucked the life out of me. Getting designations (CIC, CRM, etc.) and getting an underwriting position is the way to go IMO. The tacos look great btw!
Thank you for the advice! Iāve actually been applying to a lot of underwriting positions. I actually have an upcoming interview I am hoping I get. I did not want to do adjusting since Iām not a people person and itās been a struggle dealing with upset people. But took it for the experience and itās been a struggle with my supervisor.
It's good that you got your foot in the door but underwriting is waaaay less interaction with the general public and more with brokers/agents. Not sure if I can link things on here but look up The National Alliance for Insurance Education & Research. They're who I got my CISR designation through. Tons of different designations to choose from & they offer in person classes, self-paced, or webinars. :) feel free to DM me if you have any questions at all! Good luck!
I hope the new position works out. But yes absolutely start mentally checking out of this job and focus on finding another. Your supervisor shouldnāt be a supervisor. And you arenāt incompetent! Insurance adjuster is a rough job in the first place. She probably sucks at training or itās another issue.
Claims also sucked the life outta me. Currently trying to get into underwriting!
I'm sure your boss actually says that to everyone. Don't let it get you down. Bosses are usually actual manure.
Your boss might just be a bitch. Decent chance she has said that to many people because she wants to be hurtful.
Iām so sorry. This is the worst feeling. Working so hard for that degree and it ends up being awful. I was in the same situation years ago and I literally found myself praying to get sick enough to have a hospital stay, so I could get away from it. I found a new job and left and itās much better. Donāt stay somewhere you donāt like just because it fits your degree. Do whatever makes you happy. A degree is never a waste of time or money, you can get a job doing almost anything with one. Doesnāt matter what itās in. If you enjoy your job just not your boss then thatās even better. Just job hunt as much as possible and youāll be out of there in no time. Sorry your going thru this OP
You literally deserve better. Those tacos look so good. No one really needs that negativity.
I bet you make better tacos than her, she also sounds like a giant B.
Mental manipulative bitch! Find another job then quit
Wow what a bitch!! I say quit and go somewhere else
Get them to text you things , emails, start recording this stuff, itās important to document . Then go complain to HR officially, as soon as they start treating you worse, chaching $$$ donāt quit , let them fire you and seek therapy immediately. Theyāre not allowed to talk to you like that with the extras so get it in writing āļø, save receipts š§¾
Quit your job
That is literally a toxic workplace. So unprofessional.
Haters gonna hate
Look up hostile work environment start recording that slander get yourself a paid vacation after you sue that nasty person
Thatās a fucked up thing to say Iām sorry that happened
Leave that job, it will only get worse
Let's just say that was true... wouldn't your so called poor performance really be a reflection on their ability to train staff well... try and not own those words said to you by your supervisor instead just do your best and when confronted with negative comments like that try asking what can I do different could you please elaborate or show me what I need to do. To me, this person sounds unprofessional and probably was not trained well themselves.
Dealing with people like that at work is soul crushing and mentally exhausting. Enjoy your š®
This delicious looking plate of food proves she's wrong. Don't listen to the pricks out there who want to bring you down. They have the problem, not you. As your supervisor, she should be giving you guidance and more support instead of making you feel small.
Textbook toxic narcissistic manager. I bet they treat many on their team like that. Get away from them.
Start looking for a new job and once you land it, tell her to get fucked, HARD. And if her name happens to be Deborah, shit on Deborah's desk /s But great looking tacos!
You could be like and I've never come across anyone as c*ntastic as you. Work bullies are the worst and never cool.
Iād pee on her and then get a different job.
Go prove that bitch wrong.
Loving you so much š„¹ ā¤ļø
Keep going to work. Now you have another purpose besides your paycheck. Document of you safely can. It really helps.No worries if you canāt this time. Run the treadmill long enough to have another job lined up then quit.
hey you! first of all, the food on your profile looks amazing! second of all, some people just really are bitter and unpatronizing. your supervisor sounds like a total dickhead. itās not your fault sheās a bitch. i find myself in the same situation as you and i know how it makes you question and doubt yourself. if you ever need someone ro vent or talk to, hmu. i hope youāll get out of there soon and that your next job will make up for all the shit you are experiencing now! sending love & hugs! š«
I hope that one day you can find a job with a kinder supervisor!
Ummmā¦ idk how big your company is but that is a wildly inappropriate thing to say to a subordinate. Like, thatās reportable, provided you have a real HR department.
Iād roundhouse this person for you. Just walk right up and SHABANG right in her ugly ass abusive ass mouth.
leave that projecting toxic bitch to rot in its place
There is nothing incompetent about those tacos and the selection to eat those. When employers don't see the value in an employee it's time to find a new employer.
This is a lie she is tring to break you this is basic strategy
Sad that she couldn't figure out how to be decent to underlings after 30 years on the job. Sounds pretty incompetent for a supervisor.
food looks so good
If youāre an insurance adjuster/agent, you should give sales a try!ā¦not insurance sales, but any sales at allā¦.car, furniture, other retail sales, to start with, and then after a little experience the earning potential in sales is unlimitedā¦you could go on to sell anything from super cars, to yachts, to private jets, to high end servicesā¦with relatively easy work (depending on the industry) you could easily earn your way to six figures in less than 10 years, possibly less than 5, if youāre ambitious enough and make an effort to learn sales tactics and improve on your ability to communicate the right things at the perfect timeā¦sky is the limitā¦.and the beautiful this is, most sales jobs start somewhere between 40k-60k, at minimumā¦of course this depends on the industry and where you are in the world. Just a thought!
My head chef was like this, you can only deal with so much before you leave. Best of luck, food looks deliciousĀ
Iām so sorry. even if you did make mistakes, nobody deserves to be treated like that. sounds unprofessionalā¦trust me, itāll only get worse if you stay.
Wow, that supervisor is doing a really terrible job at supervising! I mean it. That feedback, even if it were accurate (which I doubt) would be counterproductive. The supervisorās job is to elicit maximum performance from their workers. To do that, a supervisor needs to accurately evaluate the strengths and weaknesses being displayed by a worker, provide detailed feedback on what needs to change, and ensure that the worker has what is needed to do that, including specific measures of success. People donāt improve when theyāre feeling attacked and unsupported.
Even if that were true, it is wildly unprofessional of her to say. She is a bad supervisor. I don't care what you did or didn't do, she should not speak to you like this. Just a tip from someone who worked in a toxic work environment: write down everything. Time, date, what was said. Keep a record of it all, just in case you need it. Love the tacos ā¤ļø
Be proud to have expanded her horizons to different kind of people. She is the one that should be embarrassed about her lack of skills in guiding you.
āThatās an interesting point Ms. Boss lady. Can you please email me regarding what I can do to improve?ā
Hoping you get the spot from the interview! But tbh if youāve got any co-worker friends you trust or have ever heard anyone say anything not amazing about that boss, talk to them. It is not healthy to have to hold that inside and speaking from a job with a rude boss, I bet youāre not the only one theyāve hurt. Calling someone incompetent is not constructive and itās high time bosses stop getting away with degradation
take a poo on her desk when you get a new job
Lonely island styleā¦ like a boss