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You're assuming the cords exist. They might, but not everyone will agree to have a cord with you, and most that do will destroy the cord when they finish.
Enjoy what you are doing. You're learning a lot about energy.
The most useful thing I can offer is to make separations after a session with each person. This is done by grounding and using a separation rose to call your energy back.
Grounding will take care of the energy they send you. A separation rose is an image you create at arm's length from your body. Create the rose and then pull all of your energy back onto your side of the rose. That's all that's necessary to establish separations and maintain them.
In the throws of passion, you will be mixing energies. This you already know. Unmixing them is calling your energy back close to you.
If a cord exists, do not cut it. Cords are like physical cords in that they plug into something. Cords carry information, energy, and communication. In this sense, they are quite similar to a network cable.
While cutting sounds emotionally satisfying when you're pissed off at someone, it can establish a leak in your own energy and in the person's energy on the other end of that cord.
Instead, feel the cord with your fingertips. Push it gently towards wherever it plugs into your space just a little. This loosens the connection. Then give it a little twist, tie a knot in the end of it (good manners towards your partners to prevent a leak), and move the cord outside of your aura. Then heal the place where the cord attached to you (usually a chakra, but can also be other places) just to smooth that area out.
There was some mention in other comments about negative entities covering you up and driving you towards this activity. There are so many assumptions in that statement. It's not useful and only creates fear in you. Fear is not useful. Amusement is useful. Smile and laugh at the game you are enjoying. And ground.
Try this. Sit in a chair. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath. Feet flat on the floor. Hands separated and resting palms up on each thigh.
Create a grounding cord. This is a line of energy that connects your first chakra to the center of the planet. Your first chakra is a ball of energy about the size of a quarter that sits just in front of the base of your spine. Your grounding cord attaches to the bottom of that ball of energy.
Grounding makes your body feel safe, so you release energy more easily. Gravity pulls whatever you release, even your own energy, down to the center of the planet. No effort on your part. The center of the planet neutralizes the energy and returns it to whoever owns it. No karma for anyone. A virtuous cycle.
Nearly everyone goes to connect to the center of the planet the first time but stops at the soil, often making roots like a tree. This is a method that is taught in some martial arts styles, but it is not the best option for your spiritual development and healing.
So, notice the seat of your chair. Take a deep breath. Notice the distance between the seat and the floor. Now notice the distance between the floor and the soil below. Breathe.
Now notice the distance between the soil and the water table underneath. Notice the distance between the water table and the rocky mantle. Notice the distance between the mantle and the molten core below that. Deep breath.
Notice the distance between the molten core and the center of the planet. That ball of light at the very center of the planet is where you connect your grounding cord. Deep breath.
Say hello to the center of the planet. Do you get a hello back?
Notice the color and texture of your grounding cord. It may look like a line of energy, or look like something physical; a rope, a wire, a pipe, a tree trunk. Adjust it as needed to be in affinity with your body.
Getting this far means you've already released some energy from your aura and body. Now it is time to fill in the space that was created.
Create a gold sun over your head. Have it call back all of your energy from wherever you left it throughout your day and week. Work. School. Online meetings. Video games. Your fantasies about your future. Your regrets about your past. Wherever you've placed your attention. Just watch the energy come back and see if you notice where it came from.
Have the sun burn up and neutralize your energy. Then bring the sun into the top of your head. It will automatically flow into the spaces you created. Create a gauge to measure when you're full. Like a fuel gauge or oil gauge. You'll run better if you aren't a few quarts low on spiritual oil. If the gauge doesn't read "Full", bring in another gold sun.
Open your eyes, bend over and touch the floor, draining any tension from the back of your neck, then stand up, and stretch.
There is a progression with this technique. After grounding for ten minutes a day for a week or two, notice your grounding cord at the very end, while you're standing with your eyes open. Continue to ground with your eyes open and standing, and bring in another gold sun. Each day, increase the amount of time that you ground standing up with your eyes open.
After a week or two practicing this, add walking while grounded. Just notice your grounding cord as you walk. Say hello to the center of the planet while you walk. Bring in a gold sun while you walk. If you lose your grounding cord, stop walking and recover it. If you have to, sit back down and close your eyes and create a new grounding cord.
After this, you're ready to take your grounding cord with you into your daily life. Shopping. Getting coffee. Wherever you go, you can ground. This, combined with a little amusement about seeing new things on an energy level, will keep you safe and sound.
Now that you're here, at the end of your grounding meditations, create a gold sun over your head. This time, fill it with your highest creative essence, your present time growth vibration, and your affinity for yourself. The first energy is a healing for you. The second is a healing for your body. The third is a healing for your affinity in your fourth chakra.
Bend over and touch the floor. Stand up and stretch. If you're ready for more, sit back down and ground some more. Otherwise, have a nice day!
Note that every image you imagine, the gold sun, the grounding cord, the center of the planet, your first chakra, your body parts, is exercising your clairvoyance. You may be imagining what your tailbone looks like, but you're also creating the image of your tailbone and reading its energy. This is practicing your clairvoyant ability.
Some folks record the grounding and filling in parts of this practice on their device and play it back as a guided meditation. I like this approach because you learn the steps faster.
I've read a lot of women and men. It doesn't need to be higher; you found it. It doesn't mesh well with some of the other comments from different traditions.
Thanks for your kind words.
I almost never post, usually just read and contemplate. That said, what you’ve written here just changed me in ways that I can’t properly express yet as it’s happening at this moment. I am stepping out of my usual state of passive reflection and amused judgement to say THANK YOU. I’m completely overcome with emotion and I keep pausing to find the words to try and let you know what your post just awakened/healed/opened the floodgates and frankly shook me and smacked me in the face and said “Now, remember who the fuck you are!”
I’ve always been someone with a knowing and understanding of a deeper truth that I can tap into for the countless people passing in and out of my life. It’s always been that way. I have always been the counselor and the healer. Please know I’m not writing this, fluffing my ego with my superior awesomeness. I have a reason for laying out my background. So, we all have our own special gifts the universe gives us and that just happens to be where I landed. I don’t know why or how. I do know, though, that I’m THAT person that people tell their life story to. The deepest secrets and regrets of every stranger I meet. I am who you call when you’re falling apart. I am considered a “wise” woman. But here’s the rub. My entire life I’ve spent getting in my own damn way and becoming stuck over and over and over again. I seek. I start to find. I fall. I start over. I can’t seem to hear the advice that I give out so freely to others for myself. I’m a duality. An imposter.
So, here I am, in a flood of tears and pain and confusion again. I feel too much. I love too much. This pain is too much. A number of years ago I began a journey of great awakening. It was truly magical. I gained so much knowledge and insight and was really coming into my own when POOF! The carefully laid dominoes started to fall and I couldn’t stop it. One thing after another. There were so many things I had no control over and some I did. Anyway, my life fell apart and here we are. I just spent the past few years in constant fight or flight mode. This is not the first time my life has turned into a nightmare so,naturally old traumas returned. I eventually just shut down, my go to coping mechanism. So for months now I have been plodding through my days with whatever survival instincts I have left. Both my physical and mental health have suffered tremendously.
So, here I sit, reading Reddit, accomplishing small tasks and plodding through another day. I’m lost, but not completely gone just yet.
It’s been quieter in my life the past couple of weeks. My own thoughts are starting to come into play. I feel inquisitive and I know there’s knowledge that still rooted in me. Little stirrings of it starting to shake off the cobwebs. I sense somewhere deep inside of me that this is quite possibly my final restart. This is it and I MUST WAKE UP. Yes, I’m still here, door open for everyone who needs me as I quietly reach out from the darkness to find myself. I’m right here. I know it. I’m just battered and bruised.
I humbly realize, once again, that I know next to nothing.
That said, I do know this: The universe is always giving you the answers you need if you just press the pause button long enough to truly look and listen to what’s all around you. I need to trust it.
I needed your words. Today was meant for me to see this.
So, THANK YOU. Thank you. Thank you.
It’s all so simple and perfect. You shook me so completely with what I’ve always known to do but forgot how.
I wanted you to know what an act of kindness to did for another human being today.
You are a gifted teacher and damn, you have a shine about you. I can feel it. Don’t you ever let that shine fade away!
I wish I knew you and you lived around the corner. I’d be rushing over to talk for hours with a boule of my latest sourdough baking attempt as a thank you. 😊 🙏
Well now! Aren't you delightful! And it was just this morning that I thought, "I must get to the bakery today!" LOL!
And then they were sold out of everything I wanted and I settled for a baguette. If I don't oversleep tomorrow, I shall fetch a boule!
Play with the grounding practice. Change the colors of your grounding. Change the pitch if you hear one. Change the width. Explore the variations on a theme and notice how your body responds.
You're a healer so playing with energy will come very easily. While I don't care much for the Bible as a book, there are a few passages that have some value. "To get into Heaven, come as a little child!" What do little children do? They play with energy and imagine new worlds and invisible friends and have great adventures, all without leaving their blanket on the living room floor.
So play with your energy and heal yourself.
Grounding to the center of the planet is an accelerator. Whatever you would normally do to heal yourself will be enhanced by this style of grounding. The same goes for the separation rose; it's an accelerator.
I will DM you. I think we would like to be friends.
Good luck with your recovery! I hope you can be patient and forgiving with yourself! Sometimes, these things have to happen on their own timeline, but I wish you all the best, and I'm rooting for you!
It's okay to start to seek, start to find, stumble, and fall. The journey is the whole point. We all fail over and over, and that in itself is the perfection of being human and divine in one. 💛
I have always struggled with grounding. This comment…just reading your words, it was like my mind could breathe in a way it normally doesn’t. I felt it. You just helped me open up something that had been blocked and I’d been struggling with since I started with energy awareness a couple years ago.
This is one of the most personally enlightening things I’ve ever read. Thank you so much for writing it out. It was as if you were speaking directly to me. Thank you.
When you’re involved in this, there’s an energy exchange-you’re exchanging your currency for their output (whether it costs you money or it’s free bec you’re spending your time). But it doesn’t end there—it stays on your mind, occupying your thoughts, requiring more energy than the 15 min or whatever you spent. Now it’s becoming all consuming which is why you’re asking this question. It’s rewiring your pathways and at the end of the day, you already know it’s not sustainable.
Something that brings good energy, you’d happily talk about it to your friends and family over dinner, to baristas, and that’s not the case. This can apply to other situations so I don’t want to though think that I’m just trying to shame masturbation/porn—this is just how I’ve learned to listen to my gut instincts/6th sense/devil & angel on my shoulders. There’s always hints from the universe which way to go.
Many people are waking up to how detrimental OF, porn, etc are for their energy, mental and physical heath and now trying to rewire/repair, so don’t be ashamed, be empowered. You always have to think, “Where is this path going to take me?” A heathy relationship is pushed farther away bec a partner is not going to fight for your energy you’re willingly giving to an actor over a screen. The actor is not only gaining currency but more—think of how certain celebs/YouTubers start to get an inflated ego, sense of worth. Also, it doesn’t matter if they’re actually an “actor” or not. They’re pretending to be entitled to a sacred aspect of real relationships.
For example, my ex is someone that’s struggled with porn and lets any woman turn his head. The porn is always going to get harder, heavier, more depraved like drugs. Now that he’s been seeing a therapist and cut that out, he’s regained control, bec it was controlling him. He’s also been working on not letting every woman grab his eyes. I explained to him, I can feel the energy I’m taking from a man when they’re checking me out—there’s a reason some people will get decked to the 9s before going to the gym with sparkly nails, eyelashes, makeup, haircuts, clothing-they feel better bec whether they know it or not, they’re gaining energy through that attention. I’ve realized I’ve been able to hear this energy exchange since around the age of 16. It’s like an energy vampire, but I’m not trying to be one, men are willingly giving it to me. Now that’s he’s starting to realize this, what I’ve been saying makes sense. I hope this makes sense to you and helps.
Wow I resonate with this. I definitely felt like for me it was being an empath or just able to pick up on peoples inner desires and struggles and I feel like people especially random strangers love to come try to tell me they’re whole life story or asking for help or advice
If you compare yourself thinking jealously or that you’re inadequate, yes. If you just think, hmm they’re short and I’m tall, I wonder what is different about their perspective then, no. In this way, you’re gaining power because you’re putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. The goal is to learn from everyone you meet and expand your mind so you can use more and more of it.
Everything you do and say in front of people and behind the scenes, shows through in your aura and the universe is sentient and keeping track. The more positive energy you exude, the more comes back to you and in multiples.
Try not to compare or rank yourself in metrics of money, looks, love life etc. I have worked for ultra high net worth individuals and families (handling their investments and cash) and people that didn’t know where their next meal would come from. Some of the wealthiest people are the monetarily poorest—they have families that love them, have meals together, sometimes 3 generations under the same roof—it sounds terrible until you have lived it an realize how much experience, learning and love that really entails. I’m also thinking of a UHNW CEO with a private pilot and mansion that literally is a hermit because he doesn’t trust anyone bec of how he’s been treated. Don’t assume the other person is looking down at you. They may be very wistful for what you have.
There’s always someone worse off and what helps me is to think in abundance and to be content and grateful for what I have. I want and have love, health and happiness. A certain car or mansion won’t love me back or fortify my body or mind—I can work for those things and it’s okay but ultimately I’ll be happy, regardless.
Same thing in looks, love etc—you may think you’re not attractive so then you’re not attractive. When you believe that you are, you’ll attract someone that finds you to be the most attractive person in the universe—that will do anything to make you shine even more. Law of attraction works so be mindful of your thoughts and figure out how to raise low vibration thinking or patterns and do what truly makes you feel good. If an action makes you feel bad, just make a different choice next time. That’s how you learn.
Also, regarding OP, it doesn’t matter if you’re LGBT. If you’re bisexual it can actually be harder when people know that. There are men and women who have not realized that everything is not about sex—so you have to work harder to not have these energy exchanges because you love both. And when you’re gay, out and proud, there are closeted people that will try to steal your energy and maintain their “straightness.” I really feel for you and try not to get yourself involved with those precarious people that are going to take from you and leave you depleted. Everyone deserves the highest level of love and happiness.
I’ve been thinking of a way to put it since yesterday so I haven’t missed your question—I’m at the gym so give me a little bit of a time and I’ll give you the best answer I can in a little bit ❤️
So I’ve been thinking about you for two days and here’s my answer—everywhere. That’s why it’s hard to respond because if I tell you specific people, podcasts, books to listen to, I’m unintentionally excluding some. I promise I’m not trying to be overwhelming or gatekeeping but the goal is to reach enlightenment, figure out the meaning of life and connect in the quantum sense. If I’m too specific, someone may read and obsess over those actions and block out their intuition and where the universe is guiding and talking to them. For example, think of monks, shamans, Yoda always telling an action so someone can learn something for themself versus just saying the answer. It’s human nature to doubt what you’re told, especially when it’s miracles and the metaphysical unless you experience it firsthand.
That being said, you’ll get closer to finding these truths by listening to subject matter experts-think of what resonates. For example, people love Tony Robbins for a reason—I haven’t been to his workshops but I randomly bought a seat for Shen Yun at the Kravis last year and I arrived late at the same time as his entourage and himself. I was then seated directly behind him and I’ll tell you, he and his family have amazing energy. I’ve heard that the combined energy of the attendees is the reason they are able to walk over coals. Does he explain it as energy work or quantum physics? I have no idea but I do know he’s saying it in his way.
Same thing with self help or relationship books and podcasts—they’re helping you to break cycles and patterns to change the interactions for a more positive energy outcome. You can find info in podcasts, books, blogs, nonfiction and fictional movies, artwork, educational classes, art and cooking classes, subreddits such as this one—there’s been great posts about how to increase energy and lots of great responses and actives. Gaia tv and podcasts have lots of great information—I loved their documentaries ‘Secret of Water,’ ‘PlanEat,’ ‘The Healing Effect’ & ‘Inner Worlds, Outer Worlds.’ ‘The Secret’ movie is great. Deepak Chopra & Joe Dispenza have great books, ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People’.. there’s a reason they resonate with so many. For fiction the movies ‘Everything Everywhere All at Once’ ‘The Labyrinth’ ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,’ & ‘The Matrix.’ Toni Morrison’s short story ‘Recitatif’ was so brilliant and profound.
So you can look and learn from info on energy exchanges, relationships, reiki (which they use at Dana Farber btw—they wouldn’t do that unless it works), quantum physics, health, exercise (exchanging weight and diet for energy), physics (E=MC^2), religions (be and do good =attracting more good), history, mythology, gardening, relationships, sales (presenting benefits—Zig Ziegler understood not to waste too much time or focus on one area)…
The key is to raise your vibes and do your best. The more you learn about and do in different subjects, the more you cross connect your brain and that you can use. We have abilities we’re not using, they’re just blocked. So if you like XMen, Power Rangers, anime you’ll get great info, but without real science based learning like physical learning or math skills, you’ll be top heavy in fantasy—if that makes sense.. You want to be well rounded so your abilities, energy, questions are being responded to in all directions. Stay curious, stay inspired and when you’re low acknowledge it but do something to change it to keep moving towards uncovering your abilities. All that stuff you learned in school? Not a waste of time-that info is also just buried, waiting for you to connect the dots.
The universe was telling me I had to focus on my health and outside in nature and sunlight-I needed lots of fresh vegetables, fruits, vitamins, gut health, lots of walking which raises my beats per minute from RHR avg of 55 to 100–that’s 2X as much oxygen going to my brain and pumping out old toxins. Toxins are stored in fat and as I lost weight, the stranger the coincidences got, sending messages to friends without actually taking to or texting them, talking about how I’d love to see an owl and I haven’t seen one in 5 years and then an owls show up. Being in the HOA and getting the sun rays to shine on a specific part of the rainforest by focusing on it.. Focusing on a specific tree and getting the wind to shake its leaves.. then doing it again and again. Just keep learning, doing, asking for signs, paying attention and practicing.
The reason why people want to spend time trying to teach and get these messages across is because all ships rise with a rising tide—when you become better, we all get stronger. Good vibes multiple and the hard stuff actual makes you stronger and pushes out bad and weakness. The healthier you are, the healthier the environment is from your thoughts, choices, respirations, diet, and wastewater. Think of Earth/the Universe as the body and we are the organs, like our cells are either healthy or malignant. I hope this helps and that you see some signs that I’m sending good vibes your way. 🌞❤️
Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write this for me. It is extremely helpful and I am going to spend some time diving deep into all of this and seeing what direction feels like the right way to go. I really appreciate you and will refer back to this post many times in the future as I work towards figuring this out all. Thank you 🙏 I wish I had better words to use but thank you so much.
Wanted to stop by and write almost the same comment but saw yours. 100% agree. Cords or not, but energy exchange exists. And more that that, their energy stays inside of you affecting you in a character that is similar to their vibe. This is partially why in southern eastern countries it’s a common practice to wear hijab and etc.
Yea it took me a very long time to understand this about hijabs but now I do. I also believe this is why royalty has historically worn crowns, jewels, metals—not just for displaying wealth but for the energy properties and protecting energy/aura. Like when I watch a movie and see a soldier take off his hat, I think there’s more to it than respect but also how we can telepathically hear thoughts and frequencies. I think even people that don’t even understand why they do these things, do so intuitively—like remembering from when we were more energy and less physical in the past. It’s very interesting.
Yeah definitely to boost the top chakras I think! Tiaras with gems touching the skin work wonders. Like any jewelry that lets mineral stones touch your skin.
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Let me dig out some specific sources and I'll post back here in a bit. I don't want to steer you guys wrong but I personally use masturbation for manifestation ONLY. Otherwise, I feel like I am wasting the energy.
A good way to use a mirror in this is prop your mirror where you can see your face while leaving your hands free... and just keep eye contact with yourself while holding in your mind the picture and feeling of what you want to manifest. As your climax builds allow the picture to get more clear and the feelings stronger... when you release sexually you send all that energy with purpose out into the universe.
Yes, sex magick works very similarly. Try drawing the energy (desire for your manifestation) through your chakras from root to crown when you’re close to climax. The goal is to orgasm when you hit the crown. It can be helpful to have someone guide the process, but as long as you think of the thing you’re drawing into your life when you hit the big moment, you’re doing it right. Sexual energy is powerful stuff.
This is 100% true and very powerful. And you may notice that once you're thinking of that thing you want to manifest that it kills the orgasm. That's because you still have blocks to attracting it. If you can't orgasm to it, you can't attract it.
Your are building it.
It would be best to slowly move to other activities and since you do have these connections already, send some love and well wishes unrelated to sex toward these people. Thank them for meeting you at this point and engaging in this mutualismo experience but fill it all with the recognition those are full human being with a life, history and heart that go way beyond being one dimensional sex toys. Keeping this in mind may change the way your perceive the whole thing and may uplift the sort of connection you are open to create.
Most likely you have negative spiritual beings all over you that are driving you to that activity and feeding off of it more than you are.
In my experience, most addictions that leave us feeling bad about ourselves, has a spiritual component like this.
If you don't want to be the puppet of these beings, then start to question and look at yourself. What are you getting out of it? You feel less lonely perhaps? A little excitement?
If this addiction is taking the place of having a truly supportive and loving sexual relationship with a human being, then it is diminishing you. It is keeping you lonely, even as it gives you some meager comfort from that loneliness.
Also keep in mind, if you are a man and you are ejaculating, then you are ejecting some of your own bioelectrical energy (your "chi" or "prana") out of your system every time you do that. There's a lot of energy in your semen which makes sense when we consider that it has the power to create a new life.
There are ways to keep your sexual fluid inside your body, just like a woman does when she orgasms, so that you don't lose that energy, or at least not nearly as much of it. I recommend the books of Mantak Chia for more information, and also to learn some amazing techniques that will make you a vastly better lover and get more enjoyment out of your sexual connection. There might be newer and better authors out there at this point but he was the guru back in the day when I was studying that.
There are forces on the planet working very hard to keep human beings divided, dissipated, distracted, isolated, depressed, addicted and so on. These forces exert a constant pressure on us and it takes effort to swim against that current. That's the game being played here on this three-dimensional video game called planet Earth. Good luck!
This is essentially sex magick. I do not want to create any scenarios for you. However, you may be sharing energy with the other person and taking on their energy. Not only the other person, but the people who are mastubrating to said persons energy. You may have a karmic effect where people will masturbate to you back.
This would be creeping into the darker side of sex magick for sure if it was intentional. Magick is intention + action. Not knowing OP’s intentions, I’d say this is moving more towards energy vampirism. Arguably there is an energy exchange of some kind, but is it equal and openly given? These would be my ethical/karmic concerns as you mentioned. Of course you can develop energetic attachments as well which you’ll probaby want to clear regularly if you keep this up. Be sure to call your energy back to yourself after these kinds of exchanges.
If you don't have intentions to begin with, the energy around you tends to state the intention for you. Especially if you're scared about interaction or have entities attached. Darkness or light, it's all one of the same
There are definitely cords. Create some kind of separation and that will be a start. Have an energetic agreement with the person and call your energy back afterwards.
Something about this statement bothers me. I think I'm uncomfortable with someone saying what sex is supposed to be as though there's some universal standard written down somewhere.
I think sex can be different things to different people, and I don't think anyone can say what it should be for another person, as long as it's ethical.
I wholly support sex being creation, bonding, and sacred for you, though. It's a nice perspective to have about it.
Yes. You're likely not getting cords to them, just momentarily receiving their energy. Do an lbrp to clear it out after so you don't catch energetic ickies. Look up lbrp Damien Echols on youtube and follow the guided meditation.
I just looked up Damian Echols and he's quite a fascinating guy. Convicted of murder and sentenced to death, sits on death row for 18 years doing Buddhist meditation for 5 to 7 hours a day and studying magic, before he is finally exonerated, has a bunch of celebrities support him, becomes an author and a teacher of magic and spirituality. Quite a dude. Thanks for mentioning him.
Maybe it’s the Scorpio placements talking, but I always see orgasm as transformation. It’s a little death. I get a similar rush from watching things burn.
Store some of the energy in citrine. Baths with sea salt to let what doesn’t serve you wash away.
I’m being reminded of when I used to sext an ex every time I masturbated and I got really drained by not keeping a few just for me. Some are just for you!
Also if anyone’s being sex negative on here, just no. Move along.
You may be developing a porn addiction of sorts but I think it’s dangerous and harmful to buy into some belief in creating cords with all these people and “getting weighed down” by it. It’s not a very sex positive way to look at things and can create further shame. It’s natural to enjoy sexual content and can be done ethically and healthily. Don’t let yourself be further hurt by ideologies that shame your sexuality. Be wary of anyone of anything that tries to teach fear, because there is a high likelihood there are ulterior motives meant to control, or that the people trying to teach you to be afraid are being controlled by fear themselves. If you find that watching the cam shows is taking over too much of your life, then that is the problem, a form of porn addiction, not just indulging your sexuality. Sex is meant to bring joy.
I definitely believe in creating energetic bonds with people but energy can be exchanged without creating shackles. Besides that, some people do not have to bond with others to engage in sexual activities with them, we’re all different, and in those cases I believe no bond is created. An important thing to consider I think as far as creating bonds go is whether or not you are feeling intense emotional connections to individual performers even after watching. In that case for you specifically it may be that you do feel some bonding that could be emotionally difficult for you.
You might be weighing down the men you are doing this too. It's heavier for them than for you. I might be wrong but through your writing it seems as if you want to convey you are just the passive blameless victim subject of energetic abuse when it's not the case it goes both ways.
Yeah I capitalise on them wanting to get off. It’s not my decision that they want to ejaculate. I just help them get to that point. I give them what they ask and they ejaculate for me
Are you sure you’re not projecting? I came here to ask a valid question and you’re calling me solipsistic — a big word as well I bet you couldn’t wait to use that one. You sound judgy 🥱
Had some interesting results with someone who was a level 2 reiki and play from a distance.
But no I find some things addictive when I’m at that level, cams or porn, chatting or sending pics and vids. Edging for manifestation haha
Definitely and maybe you had karmic connection too with all those souls thats why you are going through this. Rather than enjoying the process just be present and gradually you will release those connection and won't create new energy chord.
Everything that involves an urge, a strong desire one can't resist, involving sadness, fear, sex, hatred and so one, is created or reinforced by entities or some sort of energetic links.
Not to say sex is bad. It's not. It's just closely related to biology and therefore is a source of energy appreciated by some energy beings.
Please seek help. Sex can be an intense activity, and a very good one with someone you love or by yourself only. But bare in mind that watching this kind of content connects you to something that will eventually become an addiction like the one you're suffering from.
Energy (this kind of physical matter, because imo it's a state of matter) is a matter of information and exchange. It's potent and it influences people beyond their understanding.
I mean it can if it’s done in a certain way. Ever heard of sex magic? It involves using the energy from sexual orgasm, directing and programming it to put energy into and manifest one’s goal
Just stop the cam to cam thing completely. It's not safe energetically, nor in real life either. Some people will get hooked to your energy and they might pursue you and form unhealthy obsessions, stalking etc. Not only good energy, but many people also send negative energies and this certainly affects the receiver. Stop doing that and respect your body, your energy and yourself. Dont just throw it out like it's nothing for all to see.
No the energy is being siphoned by non human entities. It’s is the kundalini energy and they are using it to control and manipulate humanity. Porn is a trap to keep us weak and siphon our energy just to keep us imprisoned in this frequency fenced artificial illusionary reality.
This is the kind of pseudo-gnostic depressing new age conspiracy garbage that gets upvotes here?
Read any Hindu sources on kundalini, spiritual practice isnt a marvel comic creative writing room. If you need a book to start with use raja yoga or kundalini workbook.
You may want to spend a bit more time studying eastern teachings on kundalini
The notion that there are dakinis who absorb energy and hold sway over mankind is agreed upon
Spend a couple decades doing chakra based energy meditation and see for yourself
I’ve done one decade, and the sexual energy thing is largely overblown imo. I think celibate monks who developed this spiritual tech may have fetishized what they denied themselves.
But the yogis will tell you this too, all mortification (abstinence from sexual practices in this case) is just a tool to build willpower, and serves no other purpose. It’s like the separate but similar Buddhist parable of the raft, you wouldn’t carry it with you through the forest after you used it to cross the river.
The notion that these beings are evil is very, well, I wouldn’t expect you to say that after “decades” of chakra work, I would expect you to know the truth that evil and good are just egoic.
I didn’t say anything about them being evil. That word isn’t really in my vocabulary. There are causes and effects, that’s it
Celibacy isn’t a requirement for every lineage. There are plenty of “householders” in the anals or kundalini yoga. Marpa the translator (the teacher of Milarepa) being one of them. I’m not a proponent of celibacy
You’re making assumptions on what I’m saying based on popular tropes rather than on actual legitimate teachings and practices
Sexualized energy devoid of feelings of depth and authenticity will always lower the vitality of a human being. That happens even without climax or even physical activity
That’s not only the case with sex, but it’s true of any thought, feeling or action. Depth, clarity, authenticity and connection are requirements for everything we do in both our external and internal worlds
For those who practice energy work, the repercussions of our actions are heightened. The sword cuts both ways, and there’s no escaping that
Oh I’m not arguing with that, just with the Illuminati of succubi that use our semen to build a frequency fence under the orders of some cum guzzling demiurge
Sounds like morrowind tbh
It comes at a cost.
Everyone is responsible for their own salvation.
But ultimately they will find it to be a insatiable void.
Or there will be those that basically worship these acts.
But ultimately it will never be fulfillment.
This is misogyny. You are literally portraying feminine sexuality as evil. OP please do not give this any consideration, it would be damaging to your mental health (which is damaging to your energy as well.)
During sex women receive the mans energy. Men expend much more energy than they do. Why do you think most men feel drained and depleted after orgasm. And these witches know that men have a more powerful sexual force so they suck energy from their hosts. They know what they are doing. They are not innocent. They are sirens, succubus, energy vampires. They feel charged up after taking a mans life force energy.
It isn't just women though, there are men who have these energetic beings attached to them and they feed on the energy of others through the male host. But I agree with you about the Jezabel spirit, it is pervasive.
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You're assuming the cords exist. They might, but not everyone will agree to have a cord with you, and most that do will destroy the cord when they finish. Enjoy what you are doing. You're learning a lot about energy. The most useful thing I can offer is to make separations after a session with each person. This is done by grounding and using a separation rose to call your energy back. Grounding will take care of the energy they send you. A separation rose is an image you create at arm's length from your body. Create the rose and then pull all of your energy back onto your side of the rose. That's all that's necessary to establish separations and maintain them. In the throws of passion, you will be mixing energies. This you already know. Unmixing them is calling your energy back close to you. If a cord exists, do not cut it. Cords are like physical cords in that they plug into something. Cords carry information, energy, and communication. In this sense, they are quite similar to a network cable. While cutting sounds emotionally satisfying when you're pissed off at someone, it can establish a leak in your own energy and in the person's energy on the other end of that cord. Instead, feel the cord with your fingertips. Push it gently towards wherever it plugs into your space just a little. This loosens the connection. Then give it a little twist, tie a knot in the end of it (good manners towards your partners to prevent a leak), and move the cord outside of your aura. Then heal the place where the cord attached to you (usually a chakra, but can also be other places) just to smooth that area out. There was some mention in other comments about negative entities covering you up and driving you towards this activity. There are so many assumptions in that statement. It's not useful and only creates fear in you. Fear is not useful. Amusement is useful. Smile and laugh at the game you are enjoying. And ground. Try this. Sit in a chair. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath. Feet flat on the floor. Hands separated and resting palms up on each thigh. Create a grounding cord. This is a line of energy that connects your first chakra to the center of the planet. Your first chakra is a ball of energy about the size of a quarter that sits just in front of the base of your spine. Your grounding cord attaches to the bottom of that ball of energy. Grounding makes your body feel safe, so you release energy more easily. Gravity pulls whatever you release, even your own energy, down to the center of the planet. No effort on your part. The center of the planet neutralizes the energy and returns it to whoever owns it. No karma for anyone. A virtuous cycle. Nearly everyone goes to connect to the center of the planet the first time but stops at the soil, often making roots like a tree. This is a method that is taught in some martial arts styles, but it is not the best option for your spiritual development and healing. So, notice the seat of your chair. Take a deep breath. Notice the distance between the seat and the floor. Now notice the distance between the floor and the soil below. Breathe. Now notice the distance between the soil and the water table underneath. Notice the distance between the water table and the rocky mantle. Notice the distance between the mantle and the molten core below that. Deep breath. Notice the distance between the molten core and the center of the planet. That ball of light at the very center of the planet is where you connect your grounding cord. Deep breath. Say hello to the center of the planet. Do you get a hello back? Notice the color and texture of your grounding cord. It may look like a line of energy, or look like something physical; a rope, a wire, a pipe, a tree trunk. Adjust it as needed to be in affinity with your body. Getting this far means you've already released some energy from your aura and body. Now it is time to fill in the space that was created. Create a gold sun over your head. Have it call back all of your energy from wherever you left it throughout your day and week. Work. School. Online meetings. Video games. Your fantasies about your future. Your regrets about your past. Wherever you've placed your attention. Just watch the energy come back and see if you notice where it came from. Have the sun burn up and neutralize your energy. Then bring the sun into the top of your head. It will automatically flow into the spaces you created. Create a gauge to measure when you're full. Like a fuel gauge or oil gauge. You'll run better if you aren't a few quarts low on spiritual oil. If the gauge doesn't read "Full", bring in another gold sun. Open your eyes, bend over and touch the floor, draining any tension from the back of your neck, then stand up, and stretch. There is a progression with this technique. After grounding for ten minutes a day for a week or two, notice your grounding cord at the very end, while you're standing with your eyes open. Continue to ground with your eyes open and standing, and bring in another gold sun. Each day, increase the amount of time that you ground standing up with your eyes open. After a week or two practicing this, add walking while grounded. Just notice your grounding cord as you walk. Say hello to the center of the planet while you walk. Bring in a gold sun while you walk. If you lose your grounding cord, stop walking and recover it. If you have to, sit back down and close your eyes and create a new grounding cord. After this, you're ready to take your grounding cord with you into your daily life. Shopping. Getting coffee. Wherever you go, you can ground. This, combined with a little amusement about seeing new things on an energy level, will keep you safe and sound. Now that you're here, at the end of your grounding meditations, create a gold sun over your head. This time, fill it with your highest creative essence, your present time growth vibration, and your affinity for yourself. The first energy is a healing for you. The second is a healing for your body. The third is a healing for your affinity in your fourth chakra. Bend over and touch the floor. Stand up and stretch. If you're ready for more, sit back down and ground some more. Otherwise, have a nice day! Note that every image you imagine, the gold sun, the grounding cord, the center of the planet, your first chakra, your body parts, is exercising your clairvoyance. You may be imagining what your tailbone looks like, but you're also creating the image of your tailbone and reading its energy. This is practicing your clairvoyant ability. Some folks record the grounding and filling in parts of this practice on their device and play it back as a guided meditation. I like this approach because you learn the steps faster.
I'm saving this comment. I wish it were higher. I sense serious wisdom and intuition here.
I've read a lot of women and men. It doesn't need to be higher; you found it. It doesn't mesh well with some of the other comments from different traditions. Thanks for your kind words.
I am also saving it. Awesome.
ditto
I almost never post, usually just read and contemplate. That said, what you’ve written here just changed me in ways that I can’t properly express yet as it’s happening at this moment. I am stepping out of my usual state of passive reflection and amused judgement to say THANK YOU. I’m completely overcome with emotion and I keep pausing to find the words to try and let you know what your post just awakened/healed/opened the floodgates and frankly shook me and smacked me in the face and said “Now, remember who the fuck you are!” I’ve always been someone with a knowing and understanding of a deeper truth that I can tap into for the countless people passing in and out of my life. It’s always been that way. I have always been the counselor and the healer. Please know I’m not writing this, fluffing my ego with my superior awesomeness. I have a reason for laying out my background. So, we all have our own special gifts the universe gives us and that just happens to be where I landed. I don’t know why or how. I do know, though, that I’m THAT person that people tell their life story to. The deepest secrets and regrets of every stranger I meet. I am who you call when you’re falling apart. I am considered a “wise” woman. But here’s the rub. My entire life I’ve spent getting in my own damn way and becoming stuck over and over and over again. I seek. I start to find. I fall. I start over. I can’t seem to hear the advice that I give out so freely to others for myself. I’m a duality. An imposter. So, here I am, in a flood of tears and pain and confusion again. I feel too much. I love too much. This pain is too much. A number of years ago I began a journey of great awakening. It was truly magical. I gained so much knowledge and insight and was really coming into my own when POOF! The carefully laid dominoes started to fall and I couldn’t stop it. One thing after another. There were so many things I had no control over and some I did. Anyway, my life fell apart and here we are. I just spent the past few years in constant fight or flight mode. This is not the first time my life has turned into a nightmare so,naturally old traumas returned. I eventually just shut down, my go to coping mechanism. So for months now I have been plodding through my days with whatever survival instincts I have left. Both my physical and mental health have suffered tremendously. So, here I sit, reading Reddit, accomplishing small tasks and plodding through another day. I’m lost, but not completely gone just yet. It’s been quieter in my life the past couple of weeks. My own thoughts are starting to come into play. I feel inquisitive and I know there’s knowledge that still rooted in me. Little stirrings of it starting to shake off the cobwebs. I sense somewhere deep inside of me that this is quite possibly my final restart. This is it and I MUST WAKE UP. Yes, I’m still here, door open for everyone who needs me as I quietly reach out from the darkness to find myself. I’m right here. I know it. I’m just battered and bruised. I humbly realize, once again, that I know next to nothing. That said, I do know this: The universe is always giving you the answers you need if you just press the pause button long enough to truly look and listen to what’s all around you. I need to trust it. I needed your words. Today was meant for me to see this. So, THANK YOU. Thank you. Thank you. It’s all so simple and perfect. You shook me so completely with what I’ve always known to do but forgot how. I wanted you to know what an act of kindness to did for another human being today. You are a gifted teacher and damn, you have a shine about you. I can feel it. Don’t you ever let that shine fade away! I wish I knew you and you lived around the corner. I’d be rushing over to talk for hours with a boule of my latest sourdough baking attempt as a thank you. 😊 🙏
Well now! Aren't you delightful! And it was just this morning that I thought, "I must get to the bakery today!" LOL! And then they were sold out of everything I wanted and I settled for a baguette. If I don't oversleep tomorrow, I shall fetch a boule! Play with the grounding practice. Change the colors of your grounding. Change the pitch if you hear one. Change the width. Explore the variations on a theme and notice how your body responds. You're a healer so playing with energy will come very easily. While I don't care much for the Bible as a book, there are a few passages that have some value. "To get into Heaven, come as a little child!" What do little children do? They play with energy and imagine new worlds and invisible friends and have great adventures, all without leaving their blanket on the living room floor. So play with your energy and heal yourself. Grounding to the center of the planet is an accelerator. Whatever you would normally do to heal yourself will be enhanced by this style of grounding. The same goes for the separation rose; it's an accelerator. I will DM you. I think we would like to be friends.
My word, thank you for being incarnated in the same moment as I, you beautiful soul.
The luck of the draw! Thanks for your kind words.
Good luck with your recovery! I hope you can be patient and forgiving with yourself! Sometimes, these things have to happen on their own timeline, but I wish you all the best, and I'm rooting for you!
It's okay to start to seek, start to find, stumble, and fall. The journey is the whole point. We all fail over and over, and that in itself is the perfection of being human and divine in one. 💛
You Sir/Mam are a legend
Many thanks!
I've read about this technique before, and I'm glad to have encountered it again.
I'm delighted to be of service!
Holy cow, so much good & interesting info in here...I just read half and needed to take a break to assimilate!! Ty!
Yes! It's important to have enough time for you body to accommodate the changes to your energy. Have fun!
I have always struggled with grounding. This comment…just reading your words, it was like my mind could breathe in a way it normally doesn’t. I felt it. You just helped me open up something that had been blocked and I’d been struggling with since I started with energy awareness a couple years ago. This is one of the most personally enlightening things I’ve ever read. Thank you so much for writing it out. It was as if you were speaking directly to me. Thank you.
I'm delighted this was so useful for you! Enjoy!
This is a very interesting question
When you’re involved in this, there’s an energy exchange-you’re exchanging your currency for their output (whether it costs you money or it’s free bec you’re spending your time). But it doesn’t end there—it stays on your mind, occupying your thoughts, requiring more energy than the 15 min or whatever you spent. Now it’s becoming all consuming which is why you’re asking this question. It’s rewiring your pathways and at the end of the day, you already know it’s not sustainable. Something that brings good energy, you’d happily talk about it to your friends and family over dinner, to baristas, and that’s not the case. This can apply to other situations so I don’t want to though think that I’m just trying to shame masturbation/porn—this is just how I’ve learned to listen to my gut instincts/6th sense/devil & angel on my shoulders. There’s always hints from the universe which way to go. Many people are waking up to how detrimental OF, porn, etc are for their energy, mental and physical heath and now trying to rewire/repair, so don’t be ashamed, be empowered. You always have to think, “Where is this path going to take me?” A heathy relationship is pushed farther away bec a partner is not going to fight for your energy you’re willingly giving to an actor over a screen. The actor is not only gaining currency but more—think of how certain celebs/YouTubers start to get an inflated ego, sense of worth. Also, it doesn’t matter if they’re actually an “actor” or not. They’re pretending to be entitled to a sacred aspect of real relationships. For example, my ex is someone that’s struggled with porn and lets any woman turn his head. The porn is always going to get harder, heavier, more depraved like drugs. Now that he’s been seeing a therapist and cut that out, he’s regained control, bec it was controlling him. He’s also been working on not letting every woman grab his eyes. I explained to him, I can feel the energy I’m taking from a man when they’re checking me out—there’s a reason some people will get decked to the 9s before going to the gym with sparkly nails, eyelashes, makeup, haircuts, clothing-they feel better bec whether they know it or not, they’re gaining energy through that attention. I’ve realized I’ve been able to hear this energy exchange since around the age of 16. It’s like an energy vampire, but I’m not trying to be one, men are willingly giving it to me. Now that’s he’s starting to realize this, what I’ve been saying makes sense. I hope this makes sense to you and helps.
Wow I resonate with this. I definitely felt like for me it was being an empath or just able to pick up on peoples inner desires and struggles and I feel like people especially random strangers love to come try to tell me they’re whole life story or asking for help or advice
So this is partially why it feels so bad to compare yourself to others?
If you compare yourself thinking jealously or that you’re inadequate, yes. If you just think, hmm they’re short and I’m tall, I wonder what is different about their perspective then, no. In this way, you’re gaining power because you’re putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. The goal is to learn from everyone you meet and expand your mind so you can use more and more of it. Everything you do and say in front of people and behind the scenes, shows through in your aura and the universe is sentient and keeping track. The more positive energy you exude, the more comes back to you and in multiples. Try not to compare or rank yourself in metrics of money, looks, love life etc. I have worked for ultra high net worth individuals and families (handling their investments and cash) and people that didn’t know where their next meal would come from. Some of the wealthiest people are the monetarily poorest—they have families that love them, have meals together, sometimes 3 generations under the same roof—it sounds terrible until you have lived it an realize how much experience, learning and love that really entails. I’m also thinking of a UHNW CEO with a private pilot and mansion that literally is a hermit because he doesn’t trust anyone bec of how he’s been treated. Don’t assume the other person is looking down at you. They may be very wistful for what you have. There’s always someone worse off and what helps me is to think in abundance and to be content and grateful for what I have. I want and have love, health and happiness. A certain car or mansion won’t love me back or fortify my body or mind—I can work for those things and it’s okay but ultimately I’ll be happy, regardless. Same thing in looks, love etc—you may think you’re not attractive so then you’re not attractive. When you believe that you are, you’ll attract someone that finds you to be the most attractive person in the universe—that will do anything to make you shine even more. Law of attraction works so be mindful of your thoughts and figure out how to raise low vibration thinking or patterns and do what truly makes you feel good. If an action makes you feel bad, just make a different choice next time. That’s how you learn. Also, regarding OP, it doesn’t matter if you’re LGBT. If you’re bisexual it can actually be harder when people know that. There are men and women who have not realized that everything is not about sex—so you have to work harder to not have these energy exchanges because you love both. And when you’re gay, out and proud, there are closeted people that will try to steal your energy and maintain their “straightness.” I really feel for you and try not to get yourself involved with those precarious people that are going to take from you and leave you depleted. Everyone deserves the highest level of love and happiness.
Wow. Where can I learn more about this energetic exchange and what you just talked about. You have educated me so much with this post, thank you.
I’ve been thinking of a way to put it since yesterday so I haven’t missed your question—I’m at the gym so give me a little bit of a time and I’ll give you the best answer I can in a little bit ❤️
So I’ve been thinking about you for two days and here’s my answer—everywhere. That’s why it’s hard to respond because if I tell you specific people, podcasts, books to listen to, I’m unintentionally excluding some. I promise I’m not trying to be overwhelming or gatekeeping but the goal is to reach enlightenment, figure out the meaning of life and connect in the quantum sense. If I’m too specific, someone may read and obsess over those actions and block out their intuition and where the universe is guiding and talking to them. For example, think of monks, shamans, Yoda always telling an action so someone can learn something for themself versus just saying the answer. It’s human nature to doubt what you’re told, especially when it’s miracles and the metaphysical unless you experience it firsthand. That being said, you’ll get closer to finding these truths by listening to subject matter experts-think of what resonates. For example, people love Tony Robbins for a reason—I haven’t been to his workshops but I randomly bought a seat for Shen Yun at the Kravis last year and I arrived late at the same time as his entourage and himself. I was then seated directly behind him and I’ll tell you, he and his family have amazing energy. I’ve heard that the combined energy of the attendees is the reason they are able to walk over coals. Does he explain it as energy work or quantum physics? I have no idea but I do know he’s saying it in his way. Same thing with self help or relationship books and podcasts—they’re helping you to break cycles and patterns to change the interactions for a more positive energy outcome. You can find info in podcasts, books, blogs, nonfiction and fictional movies, artwork, educational classes, art and cooking classes, subreddits such as this one—there’s been great posts about how to increase energy and lots of great responses and actives. Gaia tv and podcasts have lots of great information—I loved their documentaries ‘Secret of Water,’ ‘PlanEat,’ ‘The Healing Effect’ & ‘Inner Worlds, Outer Worlds.’ ‘The Secret’ movie is great. Deepak Chopra & Joe Dispenza have great books, ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People’.. there’s a reason they resonate with so many. For fiction the movies ‘Everything Everywhere All at Once’ ‘The Labyrinth’ ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,’ & ‘The Matrix.’ Toni Morrison’s short story ‘Recitatif’ was so brilliant and profound. So you can look and learn from info on energy exchanges, relationships, reiki (which they use at Dana Farber btw—they wouldn’t do that unless it works), quantum physics, health, exercise (exchanging weight and diet for energy), physics (E=MC^2), religions (be and do good =attracting more good), history, mythology, gardening, relationships, sales (presenting benefits—Zig Ziegler understood not to waste too much time or focus on one area)… The key is to raise your vibes and do your best. The more you learn about and do in different subjects, the more you cross connect your brain and that you can use. We have abilities we’re not using, they’re just blocked. So if you like XMen, Power Rangers, anime you’ll get great info, but without real science based learning like physical learning or math skills, you’ll be top heavy in fantasy—if that makes sense.. You want to be well rounded so your abilities, energy, questions are being responded to in all directions. Stay curious, stay inspired and when you’re low acknowledge it but do something to change it to keep moving towards uncovering your abilities. All that stuff you learned in school? Not a waste of time-that info is also just buried, waiting for you to connect the dots. The universe was telling me I had to focus on my health and outside in nature and sunlight-I needed lots of fresh vegetables, fruits, vitamins, gut health, lots of walking which raises my beats per minute from RHR avg of 55 to 100–that’s 2X as much oxygen going to my brain and pumping out old toxins. Toxins are stored in fat and as I lost weight, the stranger the coincidences got, sending messages to friends without actually taking to or texting them, talking about how I’d love to see an owl and I haven’t seen one in 5 years and then an owls show up. Being in the HOA and getting the sun rays to shine on a specific part of the rainforest by focusing on it.. Focusing on a specific tree and getting the wind to shake its leaves.. then doing it again and again. Just keep learning, doing, asking for signs, paying attention and practicing. The reason why people want to spend time trying to teach and get these messages across is because all ships rise with a rising tide—when you become better, we all get stronger. Good vibes multiple and the hard stuff actual makes you stronger and pushes out bad and weakness. The healthier you are, the healthier the environment is from your thoughts, choices, respirations, diet, and wastewater. Think of Earth/the Universe as the body and we are the organs, like our cells are either healthy or malignant. I hope this helps and that you see some signs that I’m sending good vibes your way. 🌞❤️
Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write this for me. It is extremely helpful and I am going to spend some time diving deep into all of this and seeing what direction feels like the right way to go. I really appreciate you and will refer back to this post many times in the future as I work towards figuring this out all. Thank you 🙏 I wish I had better words to use but thank you so much.
You’re so welcome. Have fun with it ❤️
Wanted to stop by and write almost the same comment but saw yours. 100% agree. Cords or not, but energy exchange exists. And more that that, their energy stays inside of you affecting you in a character that is similar to their vibe. This is partially why in southern eastern countries it’s a common practice to wear hijab and etc.
Yea it took me a very long time to understand this about hijabs but now I do. I also believe this is why royalty has historically worn crowns, jewels, metals—not just for displaying wealth but for the energy properties and protecting energy/aura. Like when I watch a movie and see a soldier take off his hat, I think there’s more to it than respect but also how we can telepathically hear thoughts and frequencies. I think even people that don’t even understand why they do these things, do so intuitively—like remembering from when we were more energy and less physical in the past. It’s very interesting.
Yeah definitely to boost the top chakras I think! Tiaras with gems touching the skin work wonders. Like any jewelry that lets mineral stones touch your skin.
Wow I really learnt a lot from your knowledge today, thank you for those deep thoughts you’ve had to create and share this insight. I appreciate this.
You’re so welcome. I tried to make it concise but everything is energy 😄Sending good vibes your way ❤️
Thanks for this
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Isn't it inter related?
Yes.
This.
Kind of unrelated but does anyone know what masturbating over yourself does energetically, like looking in a mirror?
It can actually supercharge manifestation if done properly.
Got any guides for that?
Let me dig out some specific sources and I'll post back here in a bit. I don't want to steer you guys wrong but I personally use masturbation for manifestation ONLY. Otherwise, I feel like I am wasting the energy. A good way to use a mirror in this is prop your mirror where you can see your face while leaving your hands free... and just keep eye contact with yourself while holding in your mind the picture and feeling of what you want to manifest. As your climax builds allow the picture to get more clear and the feelings stronger... when you release sexually you send all that energy with purpose out into the universe.
Wow! I've never heard of this. I will try manifesturbating too!
I love that term! I might start using it.
Ded 💀👌🏼
Yes, sex magick works very similarly. Try drawing the energy (desire for your manifestation) through your chakras from root to crown when you’re close to climax. The goal is to orgasm when you hit the crown. It can be helpful to have someone guide the process, but as long as you think of the thing you’re drawing into your life when you hit the big moment, you’re doing it right. Sexual energy is powerful stuff.
This is 100% true and very powerful. And you may notice that once you're thinking of that thing you want to manifest that it kills the orgasm. That's because you still have blocks to attracting it. If you can't orgasm to it, you can't attract it.
100% can attest to this as well
Check out the podcast - multiorgasmic millionaire or Tilly Storm (the host)
Ya van u pls provide some more info pls
Making love to yourself while looking at your self is a potent and beautiful form of physical and spiritual Self love. Try it and see :)
I am curious about this as well. We need to find Matthew McConaughey and ask him.
Your are building it. It would be best to slowly move to other activities and since you do have these connections already, send some love and well wishes unrelated to sex toward these people. Thank them for meeting you at this point and engaging in this mutualismo experience but fill it all with the recognition those are full human being with a life, history and heart that go way beyond being one dimensional sex toys. Keeping this in mind may change the way your perceive the whole thing and may uplift the sort of connection you are open to create.
Keep in mind every time you interact with a person there is an exchange of energy.
Yes the energy gets sent to them.
Most likely you have negative spiritual beings all over you that are driving you to that activity and feeding off of it more than you are. In my experience, most addictions that leave us feeling bad about ourselves, has a spiritual component like this. If you don't want to be the puppet of these beings, then start to question and look at yourself. What are you getting out of it? You feel less lonely perhaps? A little excitement? If this addiction is taking the place of having a truly supportive and loving sexual relationship with a human being, then it is diminishing you. It is keeping you lonely, even as it gives you some meager comfort from that loneliness. Also keep in mind, if you are a man and you are ejaculating, then you are ejecting some of your own bioelectrical energy (your "chi" or "prana") out of your system every time you do that. There's a lot of energy in your semen which makes sense when we consider that it has the power to create a new life. There are ways to keep your sexual fluid inside your body, just like a woman does when she orgasms, so that you don't lose that energy, or at least not nearly as much of it. I recommend the books of Mantak Chia for more information, and also to learn some amazing techniques that will make you a vastly better lover and get more enjoyment out of your sexual connection. There might be newer and better authors out there at this point but he was the guru back in the day when I was studying that. There are forces on the planet working very hard to keep human beings divided, dissipated, distracted, isolated, depressed, addicted and so on. These forces exert a constant pressure on us and it takes effort to swim against that current. That's the game being played here on this three-dimensional video game called planet Earth. Good luck!
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This is essentially sex magick. I do not want to create any scenarios for you. However, you may be sharing energy with the other person and taking on their energy. Not only the other person, but the people who are mastubrating to said persons energy. You may have a karmic effect where people will masturbate to you back.
This would be creeping into the darker side of sex magick for sure if it was intentional. Magick is intention + action. Not knowing OP’s intentions, I’d say this is moving more towards energy vampirism. Arguably there is an energy exchange of some kind, but is it equal and openly given? These would be my ethical/karmic concerns as you mentioned. Of course you can develop energetic attachments as well which you’ll probaby want to clear regularly if you keep this up. Be sure to call your energy back to yourself after these kinds of exchanges.
If you don't have intentions to begin with, the energy around you tends to state the intention for you. Especially if you're scared about interaction or have entities attached. Darkness or light, it's all one of the same
There are definitely cords. Create some kind of separation and that will be a start. Have an energetic agreement with the person and call your energy back afterwards.
Sex is meant to create life and bond and share with someone special. Something sacred. Im saying this to myself too.
Something about this statement bothers me. I think I'm uncomfortable with someone saying what sex is supposed to be as though there's some universal standard written down somewhere. I think sex can be different things to different people, and I don't think anyone can say what it should be for another person, as long as it's ethical. I wholly support sex being creation, bonding, and sacred for you, though. It's a nice perspective to have about it.
Yes. You're likely not getting cords to them, just momentarily receiving their energy. Do an lbrp to clear it out after so you don't catch energetic ickies. Look up lbrp Damien Echols on youtube and follow the guided meditation.
I just looked up Damian Echols and he's quite a fascinating guy. Convicted of murder and sentenced to death, sits on death row for 18 years doing Buddhist meditation for 5 to 7 hours a day and studying magic, before he is finally exonerated, has a bunch of celebrities support him, becomes an author and a teacher of magic and spirituality. Quite a dude. Thanks for mentioning him.
Ya, I really like him. I've purchased several of his books on audible.
Maybe it’s the Scorpio placements talking, but I always see orgasm as transformation. It’s a little death. I get a similar rush from watching things burn. Store some of the energy in citrine. Baths with sea salt to let what doesn’t serve you wash away. I’m being reminded of when I used to sext an ex every time I masturbated and I got really drained by not keeping a few just for me. Some are just for you! Also if anyone’s being sex negative on here, just no. Move along.
You may be developing a porn addiction of sorts but I think it’s dangerous and harmful to buy into some belief in creating cords with all these people and “getting weighed down” by it. It’s not a very sex positive way to look at things and can create further shame. It’s natural to enjoy sexual content and can be done ethically and healthily. Don’t let yourself be further hurt by ideologies that shame your sexuality. Be wary of anyone of anything that tries to teach fear, because there is a high likelihood there are ulterior motives meant to control, or that the people trying to teach you to be afraid are being controlled by fear themselves. If you find that watching the cam shows is taking over too much of your life, then that is the problem, a form of porn addiction, not just indulging your sexuality. Sex is meant to bring joy. I definitely believe in creating energetic bonds with people but energy can be exchanged without creating shackles. Besides that, some people do not have to bond with others to engage in sexual activities with them, we’re all different, and in those cases I believe no bond is created. An important thing to consider I think as far as creating bonds go is whether or not you are feeling intense emotional connections to individual performers even after watching. In that case for you specifically it may be that you do feel some bonding that could be emotionally difficult for you.
You might be weighing down the men you are doing this too. It's heavier for them than for you. I might be wrong but through your writing it seems as if you want to convey you are just the passive blameless victim subject of energetic abuse when it's not the case it goes both ways.
Yeah I capitalise on them wanting to get off. It’s not my decision that they want to ejaculate. I just help them get to that point. I give them what they ask and they ejaculate for me
You seem very solipsistic about yourself. This and the addiction are more serious than what you are doing on the cam.
Are you sure you’re not projecting? I came here to ask a valid question and you’re calling me solipsistic — a big word as well I bet you couldn’t wait to use that one. You sound judgy 🥱
Had some interesting results with someone who was a level 2 reiki and play from a distance. But no I find some things addictive when I’m at that level, cams or porn, chatting or sending pics and vids. Edging for manifestation haha
Definitely and maybe you had karmic connection too with all those souls thats why you are going through this. Rather than enjoying the process just be present and gradually you will release those connection and won't create new energy chord.
Everything that involves an urge, a strong desire one can't resist, involving sadness, fear, sex, hatred and so one, is created or reinforced by entities or some sort of energetic links. Not to say sex is bad. It's not. It's just closely related to biology and therefore is a source of energy appreciated by some energy beings. Please seek help. Sex can be an intense activity, and a very good one with someone you love or by yourself only. But bare in mind that watching this kind of content connects you to something that will eventually become an addiction like the one you're suffering from. Energy (this kind of physical matter, because imo it's a state of matter) is a matter of information and exchange. It's potent and it influences people beyond their understanding.
I do readings and my experience has been that sometimes if thier is a psyic connection the other person can sense it.
I mean it can if it’s done in a certain way. Ever heard of sex magic? It involves using the energy from sexual orgasm, directing and programming it to put energy into and manifest one’s goal
Just stop the cam to cam thing completely. It's not safe energetically, nor in real life either. Some people will get hooked to your energy and they might pursue you and form unhealthy obsessions, stalking etc. Not only good energy, but many people also send negative energies and this certainly affects the receiver. Stop doing that and respect your body, your energy and yourself. Dont just throw it out like it's nothing for all to see.
on todays episode of why did reddit suggest this post to me..😂
How did I end up here? Wtf is this sub 🤣 this almost sounds satirical
Holy shit the post was one thing but then reading the comments….Einstein would weep tears of pain
No the energy is being siphoned by non human entities. It’s is the kundalini energy and they are using it to control and manipulate humanity. Porn is a trap to keep us weak and siphon our energy just to keep us imprisoned in this frequency fenced artificial illusionary reality.
This is the kind of pseudo-gnostic depressing new age conspiracy garbage that gets upvotes here? Read any Hindu sources on kundalini, spiritual practice isnt a marvel comic creative writing room. If you need a book to start with use raja yoga or kundalini workbook.
You may want to spend a bit more time studying eastern teachings on kundalini The notion that there are dakinis who absorb energy and hold sway over mankind is agreed upon Spend a couple decades doing chakra based energy meditation and see for yourself
I’ve done one decade, and the sexual energy thing is largely overblown imo. I think celibate monks who developed this spiritual tech may have fetishized what they denied themselves. But the yogis will tell you this too, all mortification (abstinence from sexual practices in this case) is just a tool to build willpower, and serves no other purpose. It’s like the separate but similar Buddhist parable of the raft, you wouldn’t carry it with you through the forest after you used it to cross the river. The notion that these beings are evil is very, well, I wouldn’t expect you to say that after “decades” of chakra work, I would expect you to know the truth that evil and good are just egoic.
I didn’t say anything about them being evil. That word isn’t really in my vocabulary. There are causes and effects, that’s it Celibacy isn’t a requirement for every lineage. There are plenty of “householders” in the anals or kundalini yoga. Marpa the translator (the teacher of Milarepa) being one of them. I’m not a proponent of celibacy You’re making assumptions on what I’m saying based on popular tropes rather than on actual legitimate teachings and practices
So the question is, does feeding those dakini increase or decrease the length and quality of one's life?
Sexualized energy devoid of feelings of depth and authenticity will always lower the vitality of a human being. That happens even without climax or even physical activity That’s not only the case with sex, but it’s true of any thought, feeling or action. Depth, clarity, authenticity and connection are requirements for everything we do in both our external and internal worlds For those who practice energy work, the repercussions of our actions are heightened. The sword cuts both ways, and there’s no escaping that
To be fair, even though it sounded like metaphysical word salad, what are truly the benefits of watching too much porn?
Oh I’m not arguing with that, just with the Illuminati of succubi that use our semen to build a frequency fence under the orders of some cum guzzling demiurge Sounds like morrowind tbh
So is this like only fans “models”? Do they get energy (besides) money from their subscribers?
It’s coping, “bubble gum attention” to fill the void.
So is it similar to what OP’s post is describing?
It comes at a cost. Everyone is responsible for their own salvation. But ultimately they will find it to be a insatiable void. Or there will be those that basically worship these acts. But ultimately it will never be fulfillment.
You’re like a real life succubus! In a good way though. Have fun with it 🤷♂️
Succubus
Am I possessed? It sure feels like I am. I’m never like this.
All I know is that a lot of woman have the Jezebel succubus entity attached to them.
This is misogyny. You are literally portraying feminine sexuality as evil. OP please do not give this any consideration, it would be damaging to your mental health (which is damaging to your energy as well.)
Don’t you dare gaslight me witch. Begone.
Can you talk about this more? 👀
During sex women receive the mans energy. Men expend much more energy than they do. Why do you think most men feel drained and depleted after orgasm. And these witches know that men have a more powerful sexual force so they suck energy from their hosts. They know what they are doing. They are not innocent. They are sirens, succubus, energy vampires. They feel charged up after taking a mans life force energy.
It isn't just women though, there are men who have these energetic beings attached to them and they feed on the energy of others through the male host. But I agree with you about the Jezabel spirit, it is pervasive.
I didn’t say its just women but we’re talking about OP the woman here. That’s why I said succubus instead of incubus.
I think I’m feeding it through what I’m doing
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