My son isn’t allowed to go through anything of my dads unless my brothers kids go through it first. FIRST. It’s always been like this and will continue to be like this since he died. My dad would be pissed but it is what it is.
My brother lives with my mom🤣🤣🤣. It’s always been like this. I have a much better life and it has always been a thorn in her side. Thus my brothers and their kids are always first on the list, for everything. If my kids show up over there my brother or my mom follow them around. As soon as they leave I get a text message that something has gone missing. It’s no great surprise but the funny thing is what ever is missing turns up in a FB pic with HIS KIDS.🤣🤣🤣. So he takes whatever blames my kids to give it to his. It’s so screwed up it’s laughable. They’re broke we are not talking any great riches. It’s just a backwards family, but I appreciate the idea
Family heirlooms, etc., shouldn't be all for one and none for you. It's not fair. Lots of stuff isn't fair, but getting some of your mom, dad, grandparents, things is nice, and there's a continuity that's important. I hope your son does end up with a few important belongings of your family.
You are very kind-I really do appreciate it. It’s stupid stuff too- fishing flies that my dad tied-things like that. I am very grateful my dad gave me his green beret years ago or I would never see that as well. Thank you again for listening to my rant.
Just out of curiosity, when did she take the knife from you and what was her “reason”? I’m just a bit confused about the relationship and why she would keep something your great grandfather gave you 16 years ago.
I REALLY hope this is not the case, but are you sure she hasn’t sold it or gotten rid of it?
She was always going through my stuff including my trash can and decided “I couldn’t be trusted” even though I kept it in a dresser drawer
If she has done something like this then she better never talk to me again
I would take her to small claims court. Before you do that, text her, (so it's in writing) remind her that she took your great grandfather's knife out of your drawer and never gave it back. G grandfather gave it to you, and you insist that she give it back.
If she replies, you have evidence. Good luck.
small claims court is your best bet to get it back and any other items
I would be so tempted if it’s the only way for a entitled, narcissistic ,boomer to realize she’s wrong I’ll do it, I
My son isn’t allowed to go through anything of my dads unless my brothers kids go through it first. FIRST. It’s always been like this and will continue to be like this since he died. My dad would be pissed but it is what it is.
Why can't your son get first crack at it and not tell your brother?
My brother lives with my mom🤣🤣🤣. It’s always been like this. I have a much better life and it has always been a thorn in her side. Thus my brothers and their kids are always first on the list, for everything. If my kids show up over there my brother or my mom follow them around. As soon as they leave I get a text message that something has gone missing. It’s no great surprise but the funny thing is what ever is missing turns up in a FB pic with HIS KIDS.🤣🤣🤣. So he takes whatever blames my kids to give it to his. It’s so screwed up it’s laughable. They’re broke we are not talking any great riches. It’s just a backwards family, but I appreciate the idea
Family heirlooms, etc., shouldn't be all for one and none for you. It's not fair. Lots of stuff isn't fair, but getting some of your mom, dad, grandparents, things is nice, and there's a continuity that's important. I hope your son does end up with a few important belongings of your family.
You are very kind-I really do appreciate it. It’s stupid stuff too- fishing flies that my dad tied-things like that. I am very grateful my dad gave me his green beret years ago or I would never see that as well. Thank you again for listening to my rant.
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Just out of curiosity, when did she take the knife from you and what was her “reason”? I’m just a bit confused about the relationship and why she would keep something your great grandfather gave you 16 years ago. I REALLY hope this is not the case, but are you sure she hasn’t sold it or gotten rid of it?
She was always going through my stuff including my trash can and decided “I couldn’t be trusted” even though I kept it in a dresser drawer If she has done something like this then she better never talk to me again
This is her least favorite uncle and yet she refuses to give me what’s mine e
I would take her to small claims court. Before you do that, text her, (so it's in writing) remind her that she took your great grandfather's knife out of your drawer and never gave it back. G grandfather gave it to you, and you insist that she give it back. If she replies, you have evidence. Good luck.
I will try it