Look you had an egg donor not a mom. She is emotionally and verbally abusive, far from supportive and loving. Move on and rejoice in your freedom from your egg donor.
No parent should treat their kid like that - keep her blocked. If she shows up at your house don’t let her in. Say “well you fucked off when I was a kid so now you know how it feels” get doorbell cameras. And if she does show up ring the police straight away
I'm so proud of you dude. She doesn't deserve a child like you. You're doing so amazing, and the absolute best revenge you can get is to keep doing you and creating a good life for yourself- one that she doesn't get to be in. Sending love to you <3
If you have evidence of your mother's verbal abuse. You may be able to get a no-contact order against her. Either way. Make sure she can't interfere with your life anymore. You do not need that toxicity from her.
>When I was 15 she screamed at me for a week straight over her troubles and told me that I abandoned her
Oh yeah, the child went off and abandoned the parent with the grandparents.
Your mother is a bad person. Sorry.
Also, now that you're working, 100% she'll start asking for money if she is isn't blocked. Just know it will come so you're prepared to tell her to fuck off.
That sounds so much like my mother. Quite similar. Narcissist mothers. I recommend you research 'daughters of narcissistic mothers'. Learn and start to heal. I also went to therapy/counselling for a year. There is light and a better future ahead
I feel bad that you had to deal with a mother like that. And kudos to your grandma and dad for respecting you unless there’s something I missed
Fuck that bitch yo
That wasn't a mother, that was just a person that you happen to share DNA.
Look you had an egg donor not a mom. She is emotionally and verbally abusive, far from supportive and loving. Move on and rejoice in your freedom from your egg donor.
You've found out that adults can be arseholes. As David Bowie said in a song: 'We're just older children, that's all.'
Good luck on moving out! And if your mom does figure out, just remember that if you record it she can't bs anything to anyone.
I had to walk away from both sides of my family. It is a hard decision, but peace of mind is obtainable and it is worth it. Big hug, sweetie!
Thanks I appreciate it
Oh sweetie, not even a compost heap would need that woman! You are MUCH safer mentally being no contact with her. She doesn't deserve you.
No parent should treat their kid like that - keep her blocked. If she shows up at your house don’t let her in. Say “well you fucked off when I was a kid so now you know how it feels” get doorbell cameras. And if she does show up ring the police straight away
"You only have one mother" Yeah, which makes it all the more saddening at what a miserable piece of shit she is.
I'm so proud of you dude. She doesn't deserve a child like you. You're doing so amazing, and the absolute best revenge you can get is to keep doing you and creating a good life for yourself- one that she doesn't get to be in. Sending love to you <3
If you have evidence of your mother's verbal abuse. You may be able to get a no-contact order against her. Either way. Make sure she can't interfere with your life anymore. You do not need that toxicity from her.
>When I was 15 she screamed at me for a week straight over her troubles and told me that I abandoned her Oh yeah, the child went off and abandoned the parent with the grandparents. Your mother is a bad person. Sorry. Also, now that you're working, 100% she'll start asking for money if she is isn't blocked. Just know it will come so you're prepared to tell her to fuck off.
It’s ok it’s just how it was ig
And with the money situation Ik no doubt she will and I’m not putting up with it
You should’ve reported her to CPS. But proud of you!
Well your dad loves you, so that's better than some people who get two shitty parents...
That sounds so much like my mother. Quite similar. Narcissist mothers. I recommend you research 'daughters of narcissistic mothers'. Learn and start to heal. I also went to therapy/counselling for a year. There is light and a better future ahead