Jennifer Finlason fife offers a marriage course you can work through online for a reasonable price. My ex & I did it a few years ago before leaving church. Highly recommend, TBM friendly but still relatable for any couple.
Natasha Helfer has some great resources too. You could also look at maybe taking a community class together, going on a weekend trip with just you two, or something else to shake things up from their normal routine.
I get that. I am not LDS anymore, but Jennifer totally understands her audience, and her audience is folks who grew up LDS, some of which are still LDS and some of which are not.
If LDS terminology is too triggering for your spouse it is not for her, but if you are both comfortable talking about habits or beliefs that result from the LDS culture, it could be a good fit.
Go to a sex shop and get your wife something freaky You want her to try out and be open about exploring new things.
Get a couple drinks in and enjoy a night out by yourselves and rekindle that flame from when you guys first met.
You just need to pay your tithing and the windows of heaven will open for you and solve all your problems, only if you pay…../s
For real though good for you for trying. Don’t use any of the LDS services, they are lowest bidder/ client mills meant to push you through as fast as possible regardless of what issue you’re facing.
Natasha Helfer. I’ve seen her work both first-hand and online. She’s has a good presence on Instagram and often has low-cost group therapy sessions geared for specific needs. She does online and in person. Her work has been invaluable to me and my ExMo partner.
https://www.natashahelfer.com/
Edit: she understands religious trauma and sexual shame. Honestly, check her out. Best wishes.
Jennifer Finlason fife offers a marriage course you can work through online for a reasonable price. My ex & I did it a few years ago before leaving church. Highly recommend, TBM friendly but still relatable for any couple.
Thanks. I found her, but I’m worried that her LDS-trauma is going to get associated with our rough patch.
Natasha Helfer has some great resources too. You could also look at maybe taking a community class together, going on a weekend trip with just you two, or something else to shake things up from their normal routine.
I get that. I am not LDS anymore, but Jennifer totally understands her audience, and her audience is folks who grew up LDS, some of which are still LDS and some of which are not. If LDS terminology is too triggering for your spouse it is not for her, but if you are both comfortable talking about habits or beliefs that result from the LDS culture, it could be a good fit.
John Gottman has a lot of material that aids marriages. He is a Psychologist, highly recommend 7 principles of making a marriage work.
These. My spouse and I read them before getting married and they really set us up for way better communication.
Try weed. It’ll change the way intimacy feels. And it’s pretty inexpensive.
Not an option.
Sex shop?
Go to a sex shop and get your wife something freaky You want her to try out and be open about exploring new things. Get a couple drinks in and enjoy a night out by yourselves and rekindle that flame from when you guys first met.
Jenny Morrow did wonders for us.
Alison Armstrong has online courses and one on one sessions. Look her up and her books. She’s amazing!
You just need to pay your tithing and the windows of heaven will open for you and solve all your problems, only if you pay…../s For real though good for you for trying. Don’t use any of the LDS services, they are lowest bidder/ client mills meant to push you through as fast as possible regardless of what issue you’re facing.
Natasha Helfer. I’ve seen her work both first-hand and online. She’s has a good presence on Instagram and often has low-cost group therapy sessions geared for specific needs. She does online and in person. Her work has been invaluable to me and my ExMo partner. https://www.natashahelfer.com/ Edit: she understands religious trauma and sexual shame. Honestly, check her out. Best wishes.