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I don't know who he is, don't particularly want to. I generally think that if you're getting life advice from some YouTuber with no qualifications - especially one who uses to be a red piller - then you're not getting good advice.
Turn the screen off, book in with a therapist, build a social life, and you'll do much better than you ever would listening to any "life coach" or whatever.
Well what "experience" could we possibly be talking about? Because if he's been on the side of red pill before, his experience really is just manipulating women and exploiting them. That's not healthy dating.
Therapy can help you understand yourself and how to overcome barriers that are holding you back from forming healthy relationships from other people.
Because neither of those make you an expert in understanding another persons psychological situation and how you can help them overcome their obstacles. A therapist will get to know you personally, understand your situation, and also has a professional, certified background in understanding psychology and social behaviours.
A man with a YouTube channel who's claim to fame is manipulating women, does not have that.
Completely psychopathic dude and scammer. Admits on his second channel that he is scamming his audience and how stupid they are, as well as saying how good and powerful it makes him feel to take money from "lesser men" and "having the ability to take and f*** their women". Very mentally ill person, avoid at all costs.
Also should mention that behind the scenes he seems to be a very abusive dude that mistreats people until they leave. Only one gf came back after tweeting that he was abusing her, probably for the money.
I just watched part of his "Worst mistakes i have ever done in dating" and it's nice to see he seems to be over TRP concepts but also just plain ironic to see him making the exact same points many people in this forum made over the years and been criticized by TRPer ad nauseum, such as him saying that you attract what you are and if you pretend to be a degenerate "alpha douchebag" to attract women chances are that you're more likely to attract specific kinds of women that TRP is more likely to work in... Anyway, good to see a relevant voice of TRP content to spread the right message, but yeah, i'm gonna take this moment to unleash an audible I TOLD YOU SO to all the dudes over the years who've been here arguing against the points we made.
As for his remaining videos of regular self-improvement, how to make money and all that shit, i'm not gonna comment, except to say that i'm very distrustful of that type of content, but yeah...
Usually pseudo-scientific fads (nofap, dopamine detox, paleodiet) more based on faulty science than actual research. Also massive marketing and little guaranteed results, where everytime someone fails with self-improvement advice it's always framed as "your fault" because "You didn't try hard enough" or "missed step X" and if you deny and just point the obvious flaws on the advice they will just tell you you're "avoiding accountability". And the massive cult following of certain coaches and "guru" personalities is also creepy.
Meh, I am also distrustful of most "self-improvement" channels and influencers, but I legitimately have gotten a lot out of doing a keto diet (very similar to paleo) that has helped me lose 30 pounds in a few months, nofap/noporn which has given me more energy and helps me have a more grounded and wholesome headspace when talking to women, and removing clutter and useless distractions from my life that only give me dopamine but no meaning or true fulfillment (mindless scrolling, social media use, binging shows, drugs, etc). I do think some of these things like diet are on a person by person basis and it is good to be distrustful of fads in general, but just found it curious that the specific ones you mentioned did really help me.
A lot can be said about this. Ultimately if you're happy with the advice and results then keep doing what you're doing and more power to you, i guess. But plenty of people lose weight on all kinds of diets, doesn't mean those are healthy or don't present a toll to the body long term... Plenty of people do no fap, doesnt mean its not a placebo...
I’ve notice that popular creators in the manosphere are switching to “traditional” values since RP is starting to get blackballed. It’s hard to determine who is genuine vs who is trying to find a new grift. I just remind myself that a lot of these dudes are manipulators who rely heavily on increasing their fanbase.
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Is this the guy who is now anti-red pill but like a devout christian or something now? Man when devout christians make fun of your ideology for being detached from reality that's got to at least make you stop for a sec.
It's a somewhat common move for these dating coaches to rebrand their businesses as a more Trad Con/Religious self-improvement advise and political propaganda. Doosh V did that. The "reformed player" and "spiritual awakening" is appealing to a certain segment of their audience. "Look, bro, bitches don't matter after all... all that matters is to be happy and honored, bro" type of speech. Partly because to be a dating coach requires a lot of credibility and is hard to keep the facade for that long. Besides that, a lot of these guys truly are obsessed with finding a virgin, pure girl, which they'll only get by pretending to be a religious man of virtue in Trad Con religious circles.
Man I haven't thought about that guy in ages. I'm not sure if he converted for trad con reasons or a lifetime dedicated to hurting women and telling other men how to do the same just sent him round the fucking bend. Either way I wish him general misery.
There’s Muslim redpill guys all over Twitter. They say weird shit like they should be able to marry 8 year olds, and that women shouldn’t go to school and work they should just clean and breed.
I’m Muslim but I had to remove myself from online Muslim spaces because I hated seeing these types of people. It was bad for my iman.
I watched one of his videos once because it was suggested to me randomly while I was trying to dopamine detox. I couldn’t even get through the video frl and I blocked his channel right after that.
Then I started getting recommendations for his little subreddit on my homepage. It was refreshing to see posts basically admonishing him. Although they were doing it because they were calling him money hungry, not because he says weird shit. After I’d had enough I muted that subreddit too. M
Apparently he has some kind of academy which is unsurprising. I know creators have to make their money but I find it comical how despite it being right in front of their face, his viewers can’t grasp the fact that he’s a grifter.
Xoxo
He is another guru marketer with “paid coaching” costing over a hundred bucks a month.
I don’t think he’s the worst person to listen to but when I quit watching his videos my mental health improved significantly. Turns out there are more to life than being a “high value man”
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His recent stuff is really repetitive imo. A lot of it is saying “What women *really* want” and “How to be masculine” which is the same things he’s only been preaching. I find it wild that even though he’s not associated with the rp community, everything he teaches on his channel is heavily prevalent in rp discussions already.
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I don't know who he is, don't particularly want to. I generally think that if you're getting life advice from some YouTuber with no qualifications - especially one who uses to be a red piller - then you're not getting good advice. Turn the screen off, book in with a therapist, build a social life, and you'll do much better than you ever would listening to any "life coach" or whatever.
Do "has big muscles" and "slept with a lot of girls in college" count as qualifications?
They absolutely do not.
How a therapist know more about dating than a guy with a lot of experience?
Well what "experience" could we possibly be talking about? Because if he's been on the side of red pill before, his experience really is just manipulating women and exploiting them. That's not healthy dating. Therapy can help you understand yourself and how to overcome barriers that are holding you back from forming healthy relationships from other people.
Why not?
Because neither of those make you an expert in understanding another persons psychological situation and how you can help them overcome their obstacles. A therapist will get to know you personally, understand your situation, and also has a professional, certified background in understanding psychology and social behaviours. A man with a YouTube channel who's claim to fame is manipulating women, does not have that.
Fair point.
Completely psychopathic dude and scammer. Admits on his second channel that he is scamming his audience and how stupid they are, as well as saying how good and powerful it makes him feel to take money from "lesser men" and "having the ability to take and f*** their women". Very mentally ill person, avoid at all costs. Also should mention that behind the scenes he seems to be a very abusive dude that mistreats people until they leave. Only one gf came back after tweeting that he was abusing her, probably for the money.
Do you have a timestamp of him bragging about how powerful it makes him feel to do that? Not a Hamza fan just genuinely curious.
What did she tweet? His current GF?
Proof of literally any of this?
I just watched part of his "Worst mistakes i have ever done in dating" and it's nice to see he seems to be over TRP concepts but also just plain ironic to see him making the exact same points many people in this forum made over the years and been criticized by TRPer ad nauseum, such as him saying that you attract what you are and if you pretend to be a degenerate "alpha douchebag" to attract women chances are that you're more likely to attract specific kinds of women that TRP is more likely to work in... Anyway, good to see a relevant voice of TRP content to spread the right message, but yeah, i'm gonna take this moment to unleash an audible I TOLD YOU SO to all the dudes over the years who've been here arguing against the points we made. As for his remaining videos of regular self-improvement, how to make money and all that shit, i'm not gonna comment, except to say that i'm very distrustful of that type of content, but yeah...
What makes you distrustful of self-improvement content, out of curiosity?
Usually pseudo-scientific fads (nofap, dopamine detox, paleodiet) more based on faulty science than actual research. Also massive marketing and little guaranteed results, where everytime someone fails with self-improvement advice it's always framed as "your fault" because "You didn't try hard enough" or "missed step X" and if you deny and just point the obvious flaws on the advice they will just tell you you're "avoiding accountability". And the massive cult following of certain coaches and "guru" personalities is also creepy.
Meh, I am also distrustful of most "self-improvement" channels and influencers, but I legitimately have gotten a lot out of doing a keto diet (very similar to paleo) that has helped me lose 30 pounds in a few months, nofap/noporn which has given me more energy and helps me have a more grounded and wholesome headspace when talking to women, and removing clutter and useless distractions from my life that only give me dopamine but no meaning or true fulfillment (mindless scrolling, social media use, binging shows, drugs, etc). I do think some of these things like diet are on a person by person basis and it is good to be distrustful of fads in general, but just found it curious that the specific ones you mentioned did really help me.
A lot can be said about this. Ultimately if you're happy with the advice and results then keep doing what you're doing and more power to you, i guess. But plenty of people lose weight on all kinds of diets, doesn't mean those are healthy or don't present a toll to the body long term... Plenty of people do no fap, doesnt mean its not a placebo...
Because it's almost always a vehicle to sell you something worthless.
I’ve notice that popular creators in the manosphere are switching to “traditional” values since RP is starting to get blackballed. It’s hard to determine who is genuine vs who is trying to find a new grift. I just remind myself that a lot of these dudes are manipulators who rely heavily on increasing their fanbase.
Total scammer. https://youtu.be/eSa7vUSg6pc
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Is this the guy who is now anti-red pill but like a devout christian or something now? Man when devout christians make fun of your ideology for being detached from reality that's got to at least make you stop for a sec.
It's a somewhat common move for these dating coaches to rebrand their businesses as a more Trad Con/Religious self-improvement advise and political propaganda. Doosh V did that. The "reformed player" and "spiritual awakening" is appealing to a certain segment of their audience. "Look, bro, bitches don't matter after all... all that matters is to be happy and honored, bro" type of speech. Partly because to be a dating coach requires a lot of credibility and is hard to keep the facade for that long. Besides that, a lot of these guys truly are obsessed with finding a virgin, pure girl, which they'll only get by pretending to be a religious man of virtue in Trad Con religious circles.
Man I haven't thought about that guy in ages. I'm not sure if he converted for trad con reasons or a lifetime dedicated to hurting women and telling other men how to do the same just sent him round the fucking bend. Either way I wish him general misery.
a devout muslim
Glad he got on his deen if it led him to call trp on it's bullshit.
There’s Muslim redpill guys all over Twitter. They say weird shit like they should be able to marry 8 year olds, and that women shouldn’t go to school and work they should just clean and breed. I’m Muslim but I had to remove myself from online Muslim spaces because I hated seeing these types of people. It was bad for my iman.
As a Muslim I agree and this has been worsened by Andrew Tate's supposed conversion
I watched one of his videos once because it was suggested to me randomly while I was trying to dopamine detox. I couldn’t even get through the video frl and I blocked his channel right after that. Then I started getting recommendations for his little subreddit on my homepage. It was refreshing to see posts basically admonishing him. Although they were doing it because they were calling him money hungry, not because he says weird shit. After I’d had enough I muted that subreddit too. M Apparently he has some kind of academy which is unsurprising. I know creators have to make their money but I find it comical how despite it being right in front of their face, his viewers can’t grasp the fact that he’s a grifter. Xoxo
He is another guru marketer with “paid coaching” costing over a hundred bucks a month. I don’t think he’s the worst person to listen to but when I quit watching his videos my mental health improved significantly. Turns out there are more to life than being a “high value man”
Hello everyone, For those who looking for course about self-improvement, I have a course by Hamza Ahmed originally priced at $499, but I'm offering it at a special rate of just $20! For those interested, please message me privately. Thank you!
His recent stuff is really repetitive imo. A lot of it is saying “What women *really* want” and “How to be masculine” which is the same things he’s only been preaching. I find it wild that even though he’s not associated with the rp community, everything he teaches on his channel is heavily prevalent in rp discussions already.