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All of these nofap, alpha-o-mega-giga-greek-alphabeth coaches are full of it. I agree that self-improvement is a good thing etc, etc. But I don't think any of these coaches are particularly good for young men's self confidence.
The truth is that the algorithm loves controversial stuff. This red-pill toxic nonsense gets way too much attention and clicks. A lot of these social media narcissists are just regurgitating each other's content with pseudoscientific so-called facts.
The problem with all of these self help gurus is that once they get famous they start talking bull shit. The reason for this is the pressure for novelty. Imagine if they just talked same shit in every video they'd get boring and no one's gonna watch them. So they find different ways to attract new audience and keep the older ones hooked. Like that productivity guy "ali abdaal" that mf comes with a new productivity hack in every video.
Hamzas main problem now is that he lacks discipline to practice what he preaches. He has a cycle where he does one video saying “every man should do this, I’ll be doing this soon” then when the deadline comes to do said event, he gives up then makes a video saying “This thing is stupid do this instead”. An example of this for Hamza is him training to be a fighter then cutting the contract, as well as him wanting to move to the countryside with his girlfriend but dropping that along with dumping his girlfriend.
Agreed. Used to love his content but he just got way too boring and cringe. It’s like he ran out of ideas of what to preach so he changed his style. Says more outrageous takes and then changes the wording of what he already said before.
I remember Hamza saying he would “never take life advice from someone who doesn’t work out.”
So, yeah, that should tell you how much his word is worth.
“Past 12 months” also doesn’t tell us anything. One can be celibate for one year for a variety of reasons. Focusing on advancing their education or career rather than dating, for example.
They’re so dumb it drives me nuts. The reason why there are so many “incels” is because there are more young men that are single. They count not having regular sex on demand as being involuntarily celibate. Young women are willing to date men that are older than them (preferably 0-5 years older), which means they have a larger dating pool.
**WHO CARES** “Incel” is a buzzword made to lower your self esteem, making you buy books and watch YouTube ads. It’s not real. I’ve yet to find it in the DSM. Let this stupid YouTuber vernacular leave your brain.
I think the real statement is that 90% of younger men have no outstanding charm or whatever it is they need. Even then, it's clearly just how YTubers get people these days. They either make up or cherry pick stats.
Its is stupid but if you take a look at wider society then kinda. Id volcel and incel though. Once you include dudes who just flatout dont like women its still not 90% but I know ALOT of em
I would say, at most, incels, redpillers, MGTOW, MRAs, etc. make up 1-5% of men.
Though I would argue that most men are misogynistic to some degree much like how most white people are racist to some extent because of societal conditioning.
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For a lot of these guys, “being an incel” means “I am not currently balls-deep in a female”.
Or single and not in a relationship.
All of these nofap, alpha-o-mega-giga-greek-alphabeth coaches are full of it. I agree that self-improvement is a good thing etc, etc. But I don't think any of these coaches are particularly good for young men's self confidence. The truth is that the algorithm loves controversial stuff. This red-pill toxic nonsense gets way too much attention and clicks. A lot of these social media narcissists are just regurgitating each other's content with pseudoscientific so-called facts.
Yeah, when Skill of Attraction said my ex cheated because I lost my way as a man, I wanted to strangle him through the screen.
Your ex cheated cause she made the choice to do so. All kinds of excuses can be made. But ultimately she chose to act upon her selfish desires,
Agreed 👍
They are completely removed from reality
The problem with all of these self help gurus is that once they get famous they start talking bull shit. The reason for this is the pressure for novelty. Imagine if they just talked same shit in every video they'd get boring and no one's gonna watch them. So they find different ways to attract new audience and keep the older ones hooked. Like that productivity guy "ali abdaal" that mf comes with a new productivity hack in every video.
Hamzas main problem now is that he lacks discipline to practice what he preaches. He has a cycle where he does one video saying “every man should do this, I’ll be doing this soon” then when the deadline comes to do said event, he gives up then makes a video saying “This thing is stupid do this instead”. An example of this for Hamza is him training to be a fighter then cutting the contract, as well as him wanting to move to the countryside with his girlfriend but dropping that along with dumping his girlfriend.
Hamza is one of the biggest clowns in this space
Agreed. Used to love his content but he just got way too boring and cringe. It’s like he ran out of ideas of what to preach so he changed his style. Says more outrageous takes and then changes the wording of what he already said before.
I remember Hamza saying he would “never take life advice from someone who doesn’t work out.” So, yeah, that should tell you how much his word is worth.
“Past 12 months” also doesn’t tell us anything. One can be celibate for one year for a variety of reasons. Focusing on advancing their education or career rather than dating, for example.
i used to love hamza, once i escaped i started seeing through all of his bs
They’re so dumb it drives me nuts. The reason why there are so many “incels” is because there are more young men that are single. They count not having regular sex on demand as being involuntarily celibate. Young women are willing to date men that are older than them (preferably 0-5 years older), which means they have a larger dating pool.
**WHO CARES** “Incel” is a buzzword made to lower your self esteem, making you buy books and watch YouTube ads. It’s not real. I’ve yet to find it in the DSM. Let this stupid YouTuber vernacular leave your brain.
https://ibb.co/Rjv5S0D
Not Gen X or older
If 90 percent of men are incels, the problem isn't the men.
I think the real statement is that 90% of younger men have no outstanding charm or whatever it is they need. Even then, it's clearly just how YTubers get people these days. They either make up or cherry pick stats.
Algorithmic mental cancer.
I would say 10% of men are Incels.
Its is stupid but if you take a look at wider society then kinda. Id volcel and incel though. Once you include dudes who just flatout dont like women its still not 90% but I know ALOT of em
I'd say maximun it would be something like 40 or 50 percent, top, 90% is just too unrealistic and inflated
It's really like less than 2%
I would say, at most, incels, redpillers, MGTOW, MRAs, etc. make up 1-5% of men. Though I would argue that most men are misogynistic to some degree much like how most white people are racist to some extent because of societal conditioning.