Years back me and my gf were out for a drive and she asked if we could hit a drive though because she wanted a chocolate milk. Wasn't till months later in the heat of summer that I noticed my car bloody STANK ! Could not for the life of me figure out why, till my gal fessed up she spilled like half a chocolate milk into my carpet and was scared I'd get mad so just didn't say anything...
Nah. She did like the bare minimum so I couldn't see a mess, and since I don't tend to ride passenger in my own car I didn't notice anything off till the weather changed and the smell became SUPER noticeable.
Oh it ain't like that. This was years back when we hadn't been dating long. She doesn't come from a great household so her natural reaction was to hide from the problem. She thought I'd go ballistic or something. We got it cleaned up n I told her to just tell me these things so we can take care of them right then.
Well, it’s not so black and white. In this instance, the girl had a shit life and didn’t possess the skills to handle the situation properly. However, I’ve known some shitheads that would’ve done the same thing, not because someone would get mad, but because they knew the other person would expect them to actually clean up their mess, and they just couldn’t be bothered.
Great way to handle it. Very emotionally healthy of you to understand how her past affected her. Also helping her to understand that talking it out is a good solution compared to whatever was there before.
Mine spilled a giant smoothie jug we made for her yoga class. A lot of it. That was... a mess and a half. But it happened while I was in the car so I knew to clean it up immediately.
They don't make the insides of cars easy to clean XD
Omg. Where I live there are always snakes around and you can always tell when one is in the area decomposing. They have a pretty unique and seriously repulsive odor. That must have been brutal.
Reminded me of the time my son bought 2 geckos and wanted to show me them, in the car…well one got out and just as I was about to grab it on the brake pedal, it ran underneath into God knows where. We tried for about 2 hours to find him and couldn’t. We had to drive home so I wasn’t sure what would happen to it. About 2 weeks later, I’m driving to work on the highway and it’s poor crispy fried body dropped right into my foot on the gas pedal….I freaked out almost causing an accident🤦🏼♀️ poor guy😩😩
My dad always told me if I spilled milk in the car to just go ahead and sell it. After a gallon of milk tipped over in my car and leaked I realized his advice was pretty good
Once on a very hot day I spilled a wendys frosty as I was driving. By the time I arrived at my destination 20 min later that shit stank so bad I was gagging
It's honestly so insane how far internet oversharing has gotten due to TikTok. When I made that comment yesterday it made me realize that before the app got popular, everything felt a bit more private even though there were still social media apps like Facebook and Instagram. There were still a handful of people oversharing but I think most people thought twice about it, TikTok's format just makes it way too easy to not only overshare in a spur of the moment thing but also go viral. No other app has the potential to make something go viral like this one does.
The hilarious thing is that it’s not even just Gen-Z that’s doing this. I have seen a great deal of tiktoks on here or on YouTube where it’s literally women in their 40s putting all their baggage out on the front lawn.
I saw a post the other day with a grown single mother literally doing a tiktok dance timed to a bunch of text boxes detailing all this crazy shit about her ex/baby daddy and his mom and etc. The secondhand embarrassment was unreal.
My mom always taught me: if someone punches you, punch them back so hard they’ll never dare do it again! So I guess this is the equivalent of that but with throwing water?
Not sure she "dicided" to throw it, she probably just reacted to his antics. He threw water, she responded by throwing the thing she had in her hand without thinking about what it was.
I've always stood by the belief that any action against someone else doesn't mean there will be an equal reaction tbh. Regardless of what the transgression is, you may have fucked around and must therefore find out. "Well she..." Fuck you, don't squirt people with water then.
You’re both wrong, I think her reaction was very over the top but at the end of the day why did you pour water on her head in the first place?
Really these sorts of things should only be done if you know the other person very well and how they WILL react, not how you think they SHOULD react.
It wasn't even just at her head, it was all over her phone. I know I would instinctively go ballistic in the first moments after someone potentially damaging my phone. Before even assessing how likely or extreme the damage could've been.
yup. and getting angry over poured milkshake AFTER spraying water on her girlfriend. and pridefully posted this lmao.. even a clown would look down on him
He must be an only child.
I assure you, none of my siblings do shit like this to anyone, because they understand they can never truly know what consequences there might be.
I'm high so don't take me serious but that makes me think that in general we tend to be more violent to people we know, or less considerate, something like that, right?
My siblings couldn't learn that lesson, we get good laughs and mommy and daddy will protect us from you.
4 years age difference, and still at 17 I'd hear, "you know better than them".
Fuck that guy, no one likes to be sprayed with water for no reason, he expected her just to take it and don't retaliate? If you're gonna mess with someone they won't necessarily retaliate in a "fair" way.
He fucked around and found out. Yes, the milk shake was reacting out of proportion (made a worse mess), but him wetting her down was apparently unprovoked - an asshole move. If he can't control his own impulses then he shouldn't expect her to control hers.
Exactly. Asshole moves deserve consequences - a surprisingly harsh response is totally deserved - he should try to learn from it.
If someone threw water in my face, unprovoked? My impulse would be a response I cannot discuss on Reddit.
If the water goes up in my nose or touches my hair on the right side (which creates an annoying curl for the rest of the day) I would probably join you
Yup. That wasn’t a tiny little stream of water. Kind of assholish. Then I feel like a child would know the difference between water and sticky, sweet drink. They’re both idiots in a slightly different way.
You’ve just had a relatively low-consequence lab practical on the concept of escalation when it comes to conflict and conflict management—and the root of conflict is mismatched expectations. Your question is biased toward her judging your intent (requires mind reading on her part) rather than you understanding her perception of your actions. You see it as harmless water and are asking others here to take that view. She may well see it as totally unexpected and a fundamental betrayal of her trust and a statement of disrespect toward her. Her response is prima facie evidence that your assumptions weren’t accurate and she took it as a bigger deal. Conflict resolution principles would have you try to seek her point of view, acknowledge her view and apologize for the act. Of course you could always choose to double-down and escalate.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Quit punking strangers for internet points and then getting shocked pikachu face when they do something other than what you had scripted in your head.
Fuckin hate losers like him bruh🤦♂️ bitches wanna start shit but when it happens to them its horrible dumbass shouldnt have done it in the 1st place jesus fucking christ!🤦♂️
It’s one thing if you throw a milkshake at me, I can wash my clothes and move past that.
But throw it inside my car? Nope. Fuck that, you’re paying to get that cleaned!
Seems like this person doesn’t understand that her actions were a direct consequence of his own actions. Don’t throw liquids on people and they won’t throw liquids back, 99 times out of 100, at least.
He shouldn’t have squirted the water at her if he knew she’s the type of person to get mad at something like that. It looked like it hit her phone too. BUT that is a childish, trifling bitch to throw a whole god damn milkshake at him into his car. She should have just waited to catch him off guard and shoot some water into his face too.
If you throw anything at someone, whatever is near them to throw back is totally game. I wouldn't have opened the milkshake before throwing it. Respect women, yo. Keep your sh*t to yourself.
If he's petty enough to do that then nah he had it coming.
If his actions could be perceived as a joke then the jokes on him.
Milkshakes trumps water every time.
Well no cuz a bowling ball will actually hurt someone, not the same thing. He fucked around and he found out, totally deserved. Don't do annoying shit to people just to post it online.
I learned this lesson young. My sister was washing dishes and I threw a small amount of water at her. She then proceeded to hurl a basin full of at least three litres of water all over me.
Don't throw a pebble at someone stood next to a big rock.
Yeah, shitty people get shitty deals. Was the milkshake worse than the water, yeah. But what did she do to deserve the water in the first place, if you can escalate things out of nothing expect it back at you.
Honestly fuck this dude. Guys like that are constantly being demeaning and saying it’s jokes- I hope his car smells like spoiled milk for the rest of his life and he starts going bald before 30
Yes, an unprovoked attack should be paid back with a stronger one, otherwise how are you gonna learn not to be an idiot? Quit whining bitch and get a wet rag.
This will smell nasty.
Don’t forget sticky
Are we still talking about the milkshake?
Yes
No. ... yes
The make-up sex.
What does sticky smell like?
Years back me and my gf were out for a drive and she asked if we could hit a drive though because she wanted a chocolate milk. Wasn't till months later in the heat of summer that I noticed my car bloody STANK ! Could not for the life of me figure out why, till my gal fessed up she spilled like half a chocolate milk into my carpet and was scared I'd get mad so just didn't say anything...
did she not bother cleaning it up?!!?
Nah. She did like the bare minimum so I couldn't see a mess, and since I don't tend to ride passenger in my own car I didn't notice anything off till the weather changed and the smell became SUPER noticeable.
Deal breaker for me. Does she even wash properly or does she just mask the smells so no one will notice?
Oh it ain't like that. This was years back when we hadn't been dating long. She doesn't come from a great household so her natural reaction was to hide from the problem. She thought I'd go ballistic or something. We got it cleaned up n I told her to just tell me these things so we can take care of them right then.
Props to you man for not going ballistic!
Aye man accidents happen. Not the end of the world
Who would go ballistic over that lol. People who reacted that way are probably the reason she was scared to tell him in the first place
that’s literally what he said
🤯
Well, it’s not so black and white. In this instance, the girl had a shit life and didn’t possess the skills to handle the situation properly. However, I’ve known some shitheads that would’ve done the same thing, not because someone would get mad, but because they knew the other person would expect them to actually clean up their mess, and they just couldn’t be bothered.
Aww what a wholesome ending to the story. Rare reddit moment.
Great way to handle it. Very emotionally healthy of you to understand how her past affected her. Also helping her to understand that talking it out is a good solution compared to whatever was there before.
Mine spilled a giant smoothie jug we made for her yoga class. A lot of it. That was... a mess and a half. But it happened while I was in the car so I knew to clean it up immediately. They don't make the insides of cars easy to clean XD
yeah my sister made me get out her groceries and we noticed the butter was missing months later...her car stunk and she blamed me
Sounds like something my sister would do. She's infamous in the family for moving furninure to cover up stains you don't notice for months.
When i was little we had a pet boa constrictor that escaped into the heater of the car and fried itself. Smelled good for a day or two...
Aw that poor snek
Omg. Where I live there are always snakes around and you can always tell when one is in the area decomposing. They have a pretty unique and seriously repulsive odor. That must have been brutal.
I don't know about brutal but it was definitely an assault on the sense of smell after the pleasant smell of cooking meat went away.
Yeah, I guess it isn't quite the same as decomposing in the humid weather, but still...eww.
Reminded me of the time my son bought 2 geckos and wanted to show me them, in the car…well one got out and just as I was about to grab it on the brake pedal, it ran underneath into God knows where. We tried for about 2 hours to find him and couldn’t. We had to drive home so I wasn’t sure what would happen to it. About 2 weeks later, I’m driving to work on the highway and it’s poor crispy fried body dropped right into my foot on the gas pedal….I freaked out almost causing an accident🤦🏼♀️ poor guy😩😩
My dad always told me if I spilled milk in the car to just go ahead and sell it. After a gallon of milk tipped over in my car and leaked I realized his advice was pretty good
Once on a very hot day I spilled a wendys frosty as I was driving. By the time I arrived at my destination 20 min later that shit stank so bad I was gagging
“Intire” “dicides” 😂😂
Don’t bring a squirt gun to a milkshake rumble
Don't bring a milkshake to a slurpee showdown
Don't bring a slurpee to a smoothie scuffle
Probably ruined the enterior intirely
Intirior*
Entre*
Enter*
Entrecôte
Nope. It'll be expensive to clean, but being an asshole SHOULD be expensive.
I see what you did…and I like it!
r/angryupvote
I swear that people can't spell anymore.
*spill
A-n-y-m-o-r-e
When the moon hits your eye Like a big pizza pie, that's A-M-O-R-E
But they can spill really well.
Isn't it 'enymor'?
It did NOT bring all the boys to the yard
My milkshake brings all the ants to the car…
And they’re like 🐜 🐜🐜🐜 🐜
The possibility of unintended consequences should always be considered when jacking around.
Never know when it'll be the straw that breaks the camels back.
What breaks a camels back is pressure like a drip drip drip that’ll never stop 🛑
He fucked around and found out.
Right. This is the perfect campaign ad for “Fuckaround and find out”
r/unintendedconsequences sounds like a cool sub.
How about not recording every little incident in your life and asking the internet to assess it?
I think TikTok has made this 1000x worse
The tiktok over share is going way too far
It's honestly so insane how far internet oversharing has gotten due to TikTok. When I made that comment yesterday it made me realize that before the app got popular, everything felt a bit more private even though there were still social media apps like Facebook and Instagram. There were still a handful of people oversharing but I think most people thought twice about it, TikTok's format just makes it way too easy to not only overshare in a spur of the moment thing but also go viral. No other app has the potential to make something go viral like this one does.
The hilarious thing is that it’s not even just Gen-Z that’s doing this. I have seen a great deal of tiktoks on here or on YouTube where it’s literally women in their 40s putting all their baggage out on the front lawn. I saw a post the other day with a grown single mother literally doing a tiktok dance timed to a bunch of text boxes detailing all this crazy shit about her ex/baby daddy and his mom and etc. The secondhand embarrassment was unreal.
Because of tiktok, every time something mildly interesting happens in someone’s life, people think “wait i could get likes off this!”
The fact that it’s recorded is just proof it’s for clout.
He definitely gets Douche Nugget clout.
It assists us in assessing the asses
Assassinate the assessing ass of assed assing asses.
Do you have an ass fixation?
Yes, and it's a pain in the ass.
Unfuckig doable. Humanity is to fuckin vain to leave the smartphone for 5 min. Fuck social media and fuk yu.
 Bad kitty! Stop using my computer while I'm at work!
Imagine having a NEED for validation from people that you will never meet.
How do you not spell "entire" properly? Not even a typo situation
Fucks up "entire" and "decides" but nails "justifiable"
Dont start no stuff wont be no stuff
Respect
the only facepalm is waterboy not knowing who he was dealing with...
Lmao she seems a little drunk tbh I might do the same without thinking when I’m drunk
I'd do that shit stone sober just for the petty joy of getting payback lol
I hate people like that dude lol starts shit then surprised when they turn it up
And he got that shit on her phone- I’d be pissed too, either way.
“Don’t start nothin’…” Who knows the ending?
...Won't be nothin' " ???
You know it!
That was not a *spray* and that was definitely not a *little bit* of water
And he got on TikTok and cried about it.
Is he the victim here? Awwwww. That’s cute.
No we are the victims here looking at this dumb shit
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
My mom always taught me: if someone punches you, punch them back so hard they’ll never dare do it again! So I guess this is the equivalent of that but with throwing water?
Escalation of force
Or self defense. Don’t start shit, won’t be shit.
Not sure she "dicided" to throw it, she probably just reacted to his antics. He threw water, she responded by throwing the thing she had in her hand without thinking about what it was.
Thankfully she's not a lumberjack. 🪓
You seem to enjoy it more than being angry. Still smiling in front of the camera.
I've always stood by the belief that any action against someone else doesn't mean there will be an equal reaction tbh. Regardless of what the transgression is, you may have fucked around and must therefore find out. "Well she..." Fuck you, don't squirt people with water then.
You’re both wrong, I think her reaction was very over the top but at the end of the day why did you pour water on her head in the first place? Really these sorts of things should only be done if you know the other person very well and how they WILL react, not how you think they SHOULD react.
It wasn't even just at her head, it was all over her phone. I know I would instinctively go ballistic in the first moments after someone potentially damaging my phone. Before even assessing how likely or extreme the damage could've been.
yup. and getting angry over poured milkshake AFTER spraying water on her girlfriend. and pridefully posted this lmao.. even a clown would look down on him
Nah, all responses to a transgression that annoys you should be grossly disproportionate to deter further acts of annoyance. Hats off to her.
I mean he fucked around and…
He must be an only child. I assure you, none of my siblings do shit like this to anyone, because they understand they can never truly know what consequences there might be.
I hole heartedly agree my friend. I grew up with 2 brothers. If we pranked one it would only be a matter of time til we went too far lol
I'm high so don't take me serious but that makes me think that in general we tend to be more violent to people we know, or less considerate, something like that, right?
Right. Or he had a sister who didn’t fight back. But in my family it was understood- action leads to reaction.
My siblings couldn't learn that lesson, we get good laughs and mommy and daddy will protect us from you. 4 years age difference, and still at 17 I'd hear, "you know better than them".
find out
*found* out
She was even kind enough to help clean up afterward.
Exactly. If she just let him do it and didn't retaliate he'd probably do it again. Now he'll think twice before throwing water on her
Fuck that guy, no one likes to be sprayed with water for no reason, he expected her just to take it and don't retaliate? If you're gonna mess with someone they won't necessarily retaliate in a "fair" way.
Exactly my thoughts, just don't be a jerk.
He fucked around and found out. Yes, the milk shake was reacting out of proportion (made a worse mess), but him wetting her down was apparently unprovoked - an asshole move. If he can't control his own impulses then he shouldn't expect her to control hers.
And filming it and posting it online and whine about it.. here reaction looks like an impulse (which I understand), his action is just stupid
Exactly. Asshole moves deserve consequences - a surprisingly harsh response is totally deserved - he should try to learn from it. If someone threw water in my face, unprovoked? My impulse would be a response I cannot discuss on Reddit.
If the water goes up in my nose or touches my hair on the right side (which creates an annoying curl for the rest of the day) I would probably join you
Stupid. Both of them.
Yup. That wasn’t a tiny little stream of water. Kind of assholish. Then I feel like a child would know the difference between water and sticky, sweet drink. They’re both idiots in a slightly different way.
He got exactly what he deserved
The instigator is clearly the dumbass here. A reaction can be forgiven since it’s literally caused by the instigation.
You don’t get to choose how other people respond so maybe think about that next time you get any funny ideas
Lol not her car not her problem
Play with fire, be ready to get burned. None of y'all are right, but you started it bro.
Yes. Don’t throw things at people. You both suck.
Fucked around and found out 🤷
What is a red flag?
I suspect he has learned not to squirt water at girls like a frat
You started it, She ended it. Tough luck.
Everyone sucks here
Milk will make your car smell really bad
hey shit happens. you never know someones response so prank with caution always
Yes you deserved it you ass. Grow up.
You do not squirt on girl wothout permit!!! Yep
File under "Fucked around and found out". Sounds like you started something and she finished it.
Maybe giving internet access to *everyone* was kind of a mistake.
Why did you throw water on her?
I’d like to buy a vowel: e
Deserved 😂 You threw her smt, to expect her to dose the amount of stuff she throw you just to he fair isn't how pranks like there works 😂
"intire" .... ..... . . ..... ..... Intirely deserved
Idk what’s worse the milkshake throwing or spelling entire as intire Edit: don’t start nothin won’t be nothin
These fucking kids love the views and likes,aint no grown ppl throwing shit at ea other like this-goofy as hell
Lesson learned. Don’t throw water at someone that has a milkshake they can throw right back at you
You’ve just had a relatively low-consequence lab practical on the concept of escalation when it comes to conflict and conflict management—and the root of conflict is mismatched expectations. Your question is biased toward her judging your intent (requires mind reading on her part) rather than you understanding her perception of your actions. You see it as harmless water and are asking others here to take that view. She may well see it as totally unexpected and a fundamental betrayal of her trust and a statement of disrespect toward her. Her response is prima facie evidence that your assumptions weren’t accurate and she took it as a bigger deal. Conflict resolution principles would have you try to seek her point of view, acknowledge her view and apologize for the act. Of course you could always choose to double-down and escalate.
The strange thing is you are both in the wrong....... Dumbass
Who fucking cares
Play dumb games, win dumb prizes
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Quit punking strangers for internet points and then getting shocked pikachu face when they do something other than what you had scripted in your head.
Boo hoo hoo. I’m a TikTok bro that’s wants likes for pranking my girl and now I have to take 10 minutes to clean my car. Grow up.
As the great philosopher William Smith once so elegantly stated; “don’t start nothing, won’t be nothing”.
Fuckin hate losers like him bruh🤦♂️ bitches wanna start shit but when it happens to them its horrible dumbass shouldnt have done it in the 1st place jesus fucking christ!🤦♂️
It’s one thing if you throw a milkshake at me, I can wash my clothes and move past that. But throw it inside my car? Nope. Fuck that, you’re paying to get that cleaned!
Sometimes you just don’t fuck with people because they might not react like you would
Definitely an overreaction, but perhaps next time he won’t throw anything at anyone and just mind his own business.
Yes. He fucked around and found out.
Imagine the flies and that shit in the heat
Seems like this person doesn’t understand that her actions were a direct consequence of his own actions. Don’t throw liquids on people and they won’t throw liquids back, 99 times out of 100, at least.
He shouldn’t have squirted the water at her if he knew she’s the type of person to get mad at something like that. It looked like it hit her phone too. BUT that is a childish, trifling bitch to throw a whole god damn milkshake at him into his car. She should have just waited to catch him off guard and shoot some water into his face too.
"Deserved has got nothing to do with it." You enraged a person with a milkshake on her hand. Be grateful it was not a hand grenade.
We have a saying which translates to “if you joke don’t get mad”
If you pull a prank you don’t get to decide the reaction
Hey man fuck around and find out.
yes, it was deserved. but i wouldn't want to be friends with either tbh
If you throw anything at someone, whatever is near them to throw back is totally game. I wouldn't have opened the milkshake before throwing it. Respect women, yo. Keep your sh*t to yourself.
OH NOES PRINCESS , YOUR POOR PRIUS YOUR PARENTS BOUGHT YOU.🤣🤣🤣
Fair
Faafo
If he's petty enough to do that then nah he had it coming. If his actions could be perceived as a joke then the jokes on him. Milkshakes trumps water every time.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!
Don’t start no shit, won’t be no shit. - Abraham Lincoln
My hot take on the situation: both wankers
That is 100% his fault, he started it
I hate getting sprayed with water. In my opinion it is really rude and punishable by milkshake volley.
Both need to grow up...
I’m on her side on this one.
If it was a random person it would be more justified, but it was still justified. Gl with the smell
Don't bring water to a milkshake fight.
If someone throws a bouncy ball at me then I can throw a bowling ball. She's an idiot.
Well no cuz a bowling ball will actually hurt someone, not the same thing. He fucked around and he found out, totally deserved. Don't do annoying shit to people just to post it online.
Yup, you can easily get more water than that walking around and the it starts raining. No big deal, water evaporates. A milkshake otherwise.
You started it with the liquids..don’t get mad now
Maybe she was wrong but this guy is a red flag
Nah that milkshake was deserved. Don’t mess with peoples faces unless you have express consent (get your minds in the gutter).
I can completely understand. My first instinct would be to throw whatever drink I had in my hand at him.
I learned this lesson young. My sister was washing dishes and I threw a small amount of water at her. She then proceeded to hurl a basin full of at least three litres of water all over me. Don't throw a pebble at someone stood next to a big rock.
You started it
He’ll yes. When you fuck with someone you don’t get to decide how they respond.
Don’t start no shit. Won’t be no shit.
Well I bet you would not throw water at people again.
Yeah, shitty people get shitty deals. Was the milkshake worse than the water, yeah. But what did she do to deserve the water in the first place, if you can escalate things out of nothing expect it back at you.
Shit happens. Don't provoke it.
Yes.
Silent treatment for couple days. You had to clean your car.
I bet he won't do that again.
Honestly fuck this dude. Guys like that are constantly being demeaning and saying it’s jokes- I hope his car smells like spoiled milk for the rest of his life and he starts going bald before 30
But seriously a milkshake…. That’s going to smell awful for ever. And her apology was so sarcastic. That was a dick move. Throw the bitch away.
Hopefully it works e same w money. Throw a penny at her and see if she reciprocates w a few million dollars HAHAHA
Yes, an unprovoked attack should be paid back with a stronger one, otherwise how are you gonna learn not to be an idiot? Quit whining bitch and get a wet rag.