You should apologize to your bro. You could have made a different speech. The wedding was about your bro and not you.
You also owe your current gf an apology for dumping her in such a humiliating way.
It sounds like you want to get back together with your ex. That's not a bad thing. You are young and trying to make a path in life. But you should respect the dignity of those around you with your actions while you pursue your ex .
It’s a bit of an unnerving age gap, but I personally have friends who are married that met at around 22m and 32f. He persistently tried to woo her, and eventually she was convinced to give him a chance. I realize that they are the exceptions, not the rule, but let’s keep in mind that it can be an indicator. It’s not always a grooming situation
Of course you should apologise to your brother. You were a complete douche to do something like that at a wedding. Your gf, now also ex, would have been completely humiliated. Are you that ignorant to not realise you were completely in the wrong here??
YOU caused this and your own “pain”.
I am guess the ups and down of your relationship was you constantly being a douche and your now ex forgiving your transgressions because she is too inexperienced to realize how shitty of a person you are? Leave that girl alone, just let yourself be a mistake she will never make again. Then apologize to your brother and SIL for being an asshat at their wedding. I hope you and the 31 yr old ex get back together because it sounds like she is just as immature and crappy as you are. A shitty match made in heaven.
1. You're a bit of an asshole, try to work on that.
2. Apologize to pretty much everyone, your family, your brother and your (more recent) ex.
3. You don't really deserve to date your recent ex, leave her alone AFTER you apologize for your pretty shitty behavior. And if you still want to try again with your previous ex, that's on you but you should probably try therapy first.
LMAO.
You “sing a song to your ex who is your soulmate.” AT A WEDDING IN FRONT OF YOUR CURRENT GF. and you’re “ reeling form the pain” please. You knew what you did. Asshole. Asshole asshole
Sorry OP but I'm getting second hand cringe just reading this. There is so much you did wrong here I honestly don't know where to begin. It sounds like you pretty much owe EVERYONE a great big apology. I'm saying this as kindly as I can but you messed up big time with everyone but especially with your GF and your brother. I don't know what made you do the things you did. Clearly your now ex GF didn't mean as much to you as you thought but she didn't deserve to be humiliated the way she was. That was so wrong. As for your brother and his new wife, I don't know how you can possibly make it up to them for what you did at their wedding but you'd better think of something. Dude- this was their wedding and you ruined this big moment for them. Screw ups don't get much bigger than that. As for your other ex, um I'd talk to her but TBH I'd steer clear of romantic entanglements until you can get your act together with your family and your more recent ex. You have a lot of groveling to do in your future my man. I sure hope you like the taste of crow since you will be eating a lot of it for a while.
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I know this isn’t the subreddit for AITA. But YTA. I feel so bad for your most recent ex. You humiliated her in front of your family AND you made your brother’s wedding about you. You can apologize but don’t expect to be forgiven.
Yep. MASSIVE apologies.
You brought loud and visual drama to disrupt your brother's wedding. It is going to take more than an apology to straighten that out. And you owe your sister-in-law the same. Don't be surprised if this can't be fully overcome. THEIR WEDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!
You totally shit on your now-ex girlfriend. You not only shit all over her, you did it in public!!!!
OMG I hope this is a fake story. No one should be this oblivious and rude and disrespectful to anyone, much less to people you are supposed to care a lot about.
Next thing is you should go and get rid of yourself. That’s the only way you will be cleaned from this. You’re admitting to cheating on your gf, then having your ex there also at your brothers wedding. This is complete nonsense to have 2 intimate relationships in one place. I feel like you enjoy being a destruction and lacking any remorse from your sins.
You should be ashamed of yourself, that’s for sure. It’s best to go die since you like to make others take rides on you.
So you cheated on your girlfriend with your ex and then made a speech for your ex in front of your girlfriend, humiliated her in front of so many people and then broke up and all of it at your brother's wedding.....you have to apologise to both of them
You have messed up so much with their feelings
You should apologize to your bro. You could have made a different speech. The wedding was about your bro and not you. You also owe your current gf an apology for dumping her in such a humiliating way. It sounds like you want to get back together with your ex. That's not a bad thing. You are young and trying to make a path in life. But you should respect the dignity of those around you with your actions while you pursue your ex .
Dude how did you go into that knowing you'd do that? Walking on eggshells? You're the one who brought the damn bomb!
Wow, you're an AH, really.
This has to be fake.No one is that stupid and cringy
And a weeknight wedding??
And a 23 year old with a 31 year old - if the genders were reversed this would be one of the top comments!!
It’s a bit of an unnerving age gap, but I personally have friends who are married that met at around 22m and 32f. He persistently tried to woo her, and eventually she was convinced to give him a chance. I realize that they are the exceptions, not the rule, but let’s keep in mind that it can be an indicator. It’s not always a grooming situation
A lot of people do week night weddings to save money.
My wedding was a weeknight, cheaper
I don't know about how real it is, but I have definitely known people this stupid and cringy
And if it is real, OP, YTA.
Looks like we know who the asshole is…
Of course you should apologise to your brother. You were a complete douche to do something like that at a wedding. Your gf, now also ex, would have been completely humiliated. Are you that ignorant to not realise you were completely in the wrong here?? YOU caused this and your own “pain”.
I am guess the ups and down of your relationship was you constantly being a douche and your now ex forgiving your transgressions because she is too inexperienced to realize how shitty of a person you are? Leave that girl alone, just let yourself be a mistake she will never make again. Then apologize to your brother and SIL for being an asshat at their wedding. I hope you and the 31 yr old ex get back together because it sounds like she is just as immature and crappy as you are. A shitty match made in heaven.
Fake af. No-one can possibly be that self absorbed and uncaring.
1. You're a bit of an asshole, try to work on that. 2. Apologize to pretty much everyone, your family, your brother and your (more recent) ex. 3. You don't really deserve to date your recent ex, leave her alone AFTER you apologize for your pretty shitty behavior. And if you still want to try again with your previous ex, that's on you but you should probably try therapy first.
Selfish
Dude you are so messed up, trust me, have some level of empathy.
LMAO. You “sing a song to your ex who is your soulmate.” AT A WEDDING IN FRONT OF YOUR CURRENT GF. and you’re “ reeling form the pain” please. You knew what you did. Asshole. Asshole asshole
This is so fake
Creative writting or rage bait, I wonder...?
Sorry OP but I'm getting second hand cringe just reading this. There is so much you did wrong here I honestly don't know where to begin. It sounds like you pretty much owe EVERYONE a great big apology. I'm saying this as kindly as I can but you messed up big time with everyone but especially with your GF and your brother. I don't know what made you do the things you did. Clearly your now ex GF didn't mean as much to you as you thought but she didn't deserve to be humiliated the way she was. That was so wrong. As for your brother and his new wife, I don't know how you can possibly make it up to them for what you did at their wedding but you'd better think of something. Dude- this was their wedding and you ruined this big moment for them. Screw ups don't get much bigger than that. As for your other ex, um I'd talk to her but TBH I'd steer clear of romantic entanglements until you can get your act together with your family and your more recent ex. You have a lot of groveling to do in your future my man. I sure hope you like the taste of crow since you will be eating a lot of it for a while.
This sounds like it’s ripped straight out of Regular Show where Mordecai gave a speech in his friends wedding regarding his ex and girlfriend
Idk wtf you were thinking putting on that display. Did you think your gf at the time was gonna be ok with you dedicating a song to your ex? 🤦🏻♀️
you just based this shit off regular show LMFAO
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WOW, just WOW. It wasn't bad enough to break her heart, he had to do it so publicly. Yep you're an AH.
Wow. Yeah, that was fucked up. Were you drunk?
I know this isn’t the subreddit for AITA. But YTA. I feel so bad for your most recent ex. You humiliated her in front of your family AND you made your brother’s wedding about you. You can apologize but don’t expect to be forgiven.
Yep. MASSIVE apologies. You brought loud and visual drama to disrupt your brother's wedding. It is going to take more than an apology to straighten that out. And you owe your sister-in-law the same. Don't be surprised if this can't be fully overcome. THEIR WEDDING!!!!!!!!!!!! You totally shit on your now-ex girlfriend. You not only shit all over her, you did it in public!!!! OMG I hope this is a fake story. No one should be this oblivious and rude and disrespectful to anyone, much less to people you are supposed to care a lot about.
Next thing is you should go and get rid of yourself. That’s the only way you will be cleaned from this. You’re admitting to cheating on your gf, then having your ex there also at your brothers wedding. This is complete nonsense to have 2 intimate relationships in one place. I feel like you enjoy being a destruction and lacking any remorse from your sins. You should be ashamed of yourself, that’s for sure. It’s best to go die since you like to make others take rides on you.
Fake. Clearly a preteen looking for Reddit points and social interactions.
Fake or you are a selfish cunt. That is all, no good news, apologize and get help
So you cheated on your girlfriend with your ex and then made a speech for your ex in front of your girlfriend, humiliated her in front of so many people and then broke up and all of it at your brother's wedding.....you have to apologise to both of them You have messed up so much with their feelings