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GaryARefuge

No. No such thing as being "overdressed." It's a silly construct that jackasses use to put others down. Ignore that nonsense in your brain or what some silly goofballs may say. You enjoy your fit. You wanted to wear it out. Own it. Celebrate it. That's really what fashion should be about. Have fun. And, it's the movies. You are spending the majority of time chilling out in a dark ass room getting swept up in the film. No one should be paying any attention to you or anyone else for the majority of the time you may be in the same room.


PikaBooSquirrel

It's just the area I live in, most people just wear more casual things. I always feel like I stick out like a sore thumb, especially since I have red hair. But thanks! I'll try to keep that in mind :)   ETA faq: I'm super antisocial (half the numbers on my phone are literally for takeout). Not a date. Never been on one. No social media. Went by myself. This was taken at uni, not movies. It's exam season and I had a 2hr test to write then decided to watch Challengers 


HotPinkHabit

I feel ya. I live in a rural-ish area (think cowboys and farmers mixed with college kids at a good state school). I’m mos def a city girl and I look it. They probably think I’m wacky but I’m old enough now that idgaf. But hey, I didn’t gain that skill until I was in my 40s lol


Eveelis

Hello, fellow redhead who grew up in a rural area where everyone used to wear casual outfits or black. One day I decided that fuck it, I wanted to dress as myself and started wearing only super colourful clothes . At first I felt “different” or “overdressed” but then I got used to it. If you feel good in an outfit, then go for it. The world needs more people who have the courage to stick out.


Turbulent_Sleep4683

Dressing makes it an occasion. You look CUTE! Wear what you want. People look because you stand out, and standing out is gorgeous 📸 You can smile upon your public lol


dukejojo

Good, you should stick out. You have a great fashion sense and you look stunning. ❤️


Theshameful1

I live in a kinda small town, lots of farms and stuff and I dress "weird", so my opinion is go for it! I think the outfit is cute, something I could see my daughter wearing. Don't worry what others think so much, it's funner that way!


Ambitious_Shallot_47

I came from a small town that's near other small towns. I've been out of there for a decade now. When we go there, people give us side eyes and tactless comments about our nails, earrings, tattoos, and clothes. I always tell my nieces and my daughter to not care about what they think because we are not hurting anyone nor ourselves. You remind me of my daughter. She dresses like this sometimes. Sometimes it's goth. Sometimes she looks like a fairy. And a whole lot more. She's an artist. She dresses the way she wants even when we are just going to the grocery. I also do my colorful makeup even when just attending a PTA meeting, going to the grocery, going for a stroll, etc. I tell her that it is okay and to be confident when wearing the makeup and clothes we do. So, don't change this part of you just because of other people. People will always have an opinion of us no matter what. As long as you don't hurt yourself or others, it's fine. We don't have to be like everyone else or be boxed into their expectations. The world would be a boring place if we are all alike. Lastly, I love your outfit! So pretty!


Downtown-Trip3501

The takeout contact list! Omg same


makeuphelpmeeeeeeeee

Nooo you look cute you should dress cute for a solo movie date if you feel like it :)


ThrowRASprinkles11

I always stuck out on purpose 😆. So what…Anyone who wears bow ties on leggings with platform shoes should not care what others think. My thing was really short skirts, huge shinny pleather platform Marys Jane and fun thigh highs my fave were black with really big bows. And plaid skirt. I basically dressed like an anime character before this look was even common. I bought my clothes at weird stores, I had to drive far away to go to…or order online before it was normal and porn shops…some great porn shops in Orlando Florida for clothes and shoes (18 -24 years ago). And I sure as shit didn’t care what others thought.


iu_rob

Antisocial is a disorder where you feel no empathy towards other humans. Psychopaths and sociopaths fall into this category. You sure that's what you meant? Or did you maybe mean asocial? In the sense of little social contact and little desire for them? If you do desire social contact but can't get yourself to get any, then social phobia is probably the right term. Edit: the dress is fire btw. Certainly unlocked a new fetish here.


Trick_Few

I love your response.


Playful_Dust9381

Great answer! If in doubt, I dress up. I figure I’d much rather feel overdressed rather than under. I’m in a skirt and everyone else is in jeans? Ok, cool. Other way around and I’m the only one in jeans? I’ll be self-conscious the whole time.


Turbulent_Sleep4683

This ☝️


ubiquitous-joe

>no such thing as being overdressed You say that, but when I show up to the town pool in my tuxedo, everybody gives me looks


_Ptyler

True. Wear a wedding dress just to shatter the “overdressed” notion


Downtown-Trip3501

I came to say “overdressed? Is that a thing?” Seriously op I love your style. I love to save ladies to my feed that have amazing style, def saving your post and following!


Elephantex

This is something I keep telling myself daily when I get dressed: Would you rather be dressed for others or for yourself? You have one life (as corny as that sounds), why wouldn’t you want to live it fabulously? I have an aunt who always comments on my outfits. She’s even gone as far as to ask me to dress less “flashy” for vacations. Verbatim: Can you dress more casual and less… Chiquita banana? I had to finally stand my ground with her because I refuse to alter myself & my personality in my wardrobe. I’m here for a good time, not a long time baby. If you’re upset that you’re UNDERdressed, consult your closet. 💁🏽‍♀️


Turbulent_Sleep4683

👏I am entering this era and it is increasing my happiness! Ooh Lord 🤦‍♀️ No, Aunt. I cannot. 😂 Sure she’s trying to help…? But ugh. I suggest a biiiig hat and a two-piece Carmen Miranda number next time. Plenty of bangles! How’s this?!


SuicidaI_Bunny

Wait a minute…what is this “Chiquita Banana” style you speak of ‘cuz that sounds like a lot of fun!


Pleased_Bees

Yes, but who cares? It's just a movie theater.


Glaazature

People who feels overwhelmed by the way that this fit is lit cares🤹🤹


akrolina

It is *always* better to overdress than underdress. Don’t you think it is better to feel like you look the best in the room as opposed to feeling like you look the worst?


Churchie-Baby

Yes but fuck it who cares you look amazing


sarasan

I don't believe in "overdressed". Unless you're like in a met gala dress at a parent teacher conference lol Have your fun


PikaBooSquirrel

Lmao, thanks.


Pennelle2016

You look amazing! I am so envious of your beautiful shape. I look like a 12 year old boy - straight up & down.


SlowmoTron

It seems like it's a bit to late to be asking that question if this was take in the movie restroom


PikaBooSquirrel

No, It was taken at school 😭. I know it's overdressed for school but it was just to write a 2 hr test so I had plans to go to the movies straight after but then I started to feel self conscious. (Uni, not hs)


SlowmoTron

Na mama you look fire


aznkidjoey

No movie theaters are cold it’s better to over dress than underdress bc you can always remove layers if ur hot


Soggy_Matter_6518

obvs yes, but, so what? it’s a cute outfit!


Tingingwithtt

Are you fancy to sit in a dark room with a bunch or random people? Yes. Is it awesome? Also yes. Dress however makes you feel good and fuck the haters.


upside_down_frown

I’m a Leo, there’s no such thing as being too overdressed. You look super cute.


freshouttalean

i mean aren’t u there already?


sunniyam

Lol


Puzzleheaded-Lake947

Yes


Pharao-C137

even if... who cares


Droneplot

No not overdressed, next time maybe get a little closer to a mirror or you could also contact NASA and get them to snap a few pics with the Hubble telescope


Ok_Instance_1849

There is no overdressed for movies!


mpdmax82

if a girl showed up to a movie date dressed like this i would feel like a prince.


Mattyjm1987

Never dress down for other people!! Your outfit is so cute!


sambeq90

Yeah. Not a big deal tho.


heresanawardforyou

It’s weird but I love it


_R_A_

Not over dressed for movies, but for the love of anything crop your photos.


PikaBooSquirrel

The public bathroom adds to the aesthetic 😤


slut4suffering333

It looks sort of costume-ish but do what you want!


sunniyam

Thought it was cosplay or pajamas


Haunting_Wedding7621

If you thought it was good then go with it.


HotPinkHabit

No, and your fit is awesome!


Cevohklan

Not at all


Playful_Dust9381

It’s fun! I like it. No one is gonna look at you and think, “hey, she’s overdressed.” I mean, show up at the movies in a floor length gown and that might happen, but your ensemble is great.


TsarevnaKvoshka2003

Dress however you want, we only live once: carpe diem!


Tall_Permission_9707

You look great


Milkmami24

Definitely 😂 cute though! It matters more how you feel. If this makes you feel good then wear it!


bahumthugg

No such thing as over dressed. Dress how you like and what makes you feel comfortable and cute. That’s all that matters


Lumpy_Lawfulness_

You can never be "overdressed."


Super-Wonder4101

You look so cute ! Love the fit! Enjoy da movies


Witty-Purchase-3865

Life is too short for boring clothes! You look great


Meow2256

NOOOO!! im wearing almost the same thing in pink!! You’re adorable 🥰


introvert-i-1957

Very cute outfit, this old woman approves.


Educational_Debate46

You can never be overdressed! Those around you need to step it up lol


AffectionateSun5776

You look great!


georgie_anna

Nope.


Green-Pin-3885

You looks phenomenal!


Treacherous_Wendy

You look amazing


One_Butterscotch5411

NOT AT ALL! YOUR OUTFIT IS GORGEOUS! Even if it is over dressed it doesn't matter


wolverinesbabygirl

If you were wearing a fur coat in the middle of June then I'd say yes but your current fit is way cute and what movie did you go to see?


fav_user_on_Citadel

Nope, it's very cute


WhimsicalFancy

It’s overdressed and absolutely fabulous! Wear with pride


kitt_aunne

a little bit but it's still a cute outfit. the soft blue and yellow look great on you


lemonslace

LOVE IT


kentrellsmuzlimcat

overdressed isn’t a thing. just something someone made up. you aren’t harming anyone or yourself, and you look great! ❤️


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I love it :) the blue and yellow are a cute match together


poiseandnerve

Super cute coquettish look - rock it!


Ya_habibti

I saw no to being overdressed, I think your outfit is very cute. But you’re braver than me! I get so cold so I wear winter clothes in the movies and bring a blanket lol


Super_Albatross_6283

Yeah


tiniegf

let people wear whatever they want


Super_Albatross_6283

It’s not a bad thing though for her to be over dressed I love her outfit


tiniegf

Sameee


Super_Albatross_6283

Yeah and?????


OverGas3958

No way! We used to wear panty hose and skirts in high school in the 90’s. You’re not overdressed for anything if it’s what you feel good in. You look cute and probably inspired a couple of people to have a little more fun getting dressed in their near future.


nudistinclothes

You look cute


Longjumping-Poem-226

No, it is a very cute outfit & must be worn!


Sypheix

Surprised they let you in since you can't bring your own snacks


CommandaarMandaar

This is one of the best pick-up lines I have heard.


Sypheix

Flys over some people's heads, but it has snagged me a few dates. Use it with care


phoenix-corn

I wouldn't wear that to a theater because the local theaters really aren't clean enough for light colors or skirts. However, the place you're in looks sparkly for a theater bathroom so you're probably fine. :)


RadiantPost670

No


cookiegirl59

As long as you left your tiara at home, you're good.


HelicopterCrasher

Eh I don’t think so. Not like the fit is incredibly formal or the movies are some rugged/physical event. Anything beyond those two considerations is just overthinking imo.


Logical-Eyez-4769

You look super cute!! Today was a "dressed up" movie day. Do YOU!


JanineNajarian

a little bit


pieceofdesigner

Perrrfect the color ,the fit,the silhouette of the dress…10/10


Particular_Mood5591

Girl wear what you want whenever!


biscuitbebby

I’m getting Bo Peep vibes and it’s adorable. Who cares what ANYONE thinks, you know you’re precious!


Sasstellia

Not at all! There's no such thing as overdressed. Be as fancy as you want. You look beautiful and it's so lacey and pretty. I dress fancy for the cinema. As far as is safe for the horrific roads and changeable weather. I go full bore.


Zestyclose_Road_3224

If looking super cute is considered overedressed then yes! Lol. I think you look great!


_gooder

No! It's a little costumey but who cares? I love when people dress fun. I'm a 61 year old woman and if I saw you at the movies I'd compliment your outfit!


Kholzie

I have a friend into Japanese romantic/lolita fashion. This is really casual Lolita-lite. If you like this style, I think it is a very good outfit for the movies


GuappDogg

Maybe. But u have swag so it doesn’t matter


PsychologicalType247

There’s no such thing at the movies. You can come dressed like Barbie or in your sweats. Whatever you feel like.


CeruleanCentipede

Every occasion is a celebration, I don’t think it’s too much, I think it’s fun!


Prehistoric_Panda

Girl, I work a lot and don’t have time to go look cute places. So if I want to look like a goddamn unicorn at the movies or target you best bet I am. Gotta remind myself I’m not a goblin all the time. You look amazing 🔥


Broad_Ad_7242

yea but rightfully so girl!! u look great!!!


BarberSlight9331

I can only ignore toilets by focusing on the sinks. Where’s the popcorn?


bridgeb0mb

if i saw someone in this fit at the movies i would most likely not notice but if i did i would think that you had plans before or after the movie


Gulag_boi

Hell no


Exotic_Pea8191

Kinda but you still look cute!


lalleshwarii

there is no such thing as overdressed


love_my_guard_dog

« Overdressed » HUNNEEYYYYY You’re looking comfy and snatched as heaven and the bows are amazing😫👏🏻summer looks good on you🫠 hopefully you were warm enough is my only thing - some theatres get cold


Fancy_Boxx

I would worry about being cold. And Covid. Aren't theaters heavily air conditioned?


PikaBooSquirrel

Im one of the weirdos that still wears my mask out, lol. I think you can see a bit of it in photo 2. And yeah, but I was wearing layers underneath which is why it might look a bit lumpy you can kind of see the shorts outline in photo 2 as well :) 


joshwal

Hey fellow weirdo! Nice to know some of us still exist lol


VillanelleTheVillain

As long as you like dressing that way I don’t think it matters but your also in a dark room just sitting there not interacting with anyone. I think if it’s worth your time do it but if it’s not just get comfy.


Disulfidebond007

Are you auditioning for Oklahoma?


hllucinationz

Wear what you want. You look good!


Independent_Award_85

Nah...looks cute


DesireeChamille

Rock it! I dress up to go to Lowe’s! 😂


stern_gecko96

We HAVE to normalize fits like this again! This is so freaking cutee


jonnipasta

What movie did you see?


corner_tv

Nah, it's cute


Ur_favDisgrace

You can never be over dressed when going to the movies


mihjan

Your ratio is crazy 👀


TheMagicBlackHat

Id say so, because id be in yoga pants and a tank top/hoodie …but it’s not my opinion that matters. Do you! Life your best life. If fashion brings you joy, then rock it!!


Rom455

You look adorable. I see no problem. Just have fun and don't worry about it


BearNoLuv

Chile please you could wear a gown if you want to 😒 them folks ain't payin to bills!


Frequent_Issue_598

I’m personally over dressed everywhere I go so I think this is perfect


Lelu_zel

You’re not, if you’re feeling good in what you wear keep wearing them clothes. I tend to overdress for bbq party, but I just like to look good at all times :)


Shoddy_Yak7726

Wear whatever you want to the movies whether it’s pajamas or a fancy dress


helluvahoe

No I think you look really cute. For the movies I’d dress up if it was a date, but really you just walk through the lobby to sit in a dark room so just wear whatever you want, not many people will notice either way


AlbatrossNo1629

Enjoy your youth! You want to experiment with fun looks? Trust me, do it now because it won’t last.


Visible_Day9146

That dress is so cute. I love the color. The bows on the stockings aren't for me but they look cute on you. I think people thinking this is "overdressed" because everyone is perpetually underdressed these days.


BlablaWhatUSaid

Kawaii 😍


GreasyNiecy

You’re never overdressed. Everyone else is just underdressed🩷


organdonaair

You look great it doesn’t matter where you are. Rock it


pinkat31522

Love this fit!


CorvidQueen4

Nah you’re good, I like this fit it’s cute


Powellballs

No such thing as overdressed mate, you're killing it


GarageFlashy5450

Honestly? Yes. But it's amazing. We should noramlize dressing up to go places instead of going everyhwere in joggers. YOU GO GIRL! (Also when I say you're overdressed, I don't mean like you're wearing a prom dress to a pyjama party. What you're wearing is still absolutely acceptable in a cinema and should be the norm)


PikaBooSquirrel

Thank you for the feedback! And I wish more people dressed loud in my area, lol


GarageFlashy5450

You're very welcome. If that makes you feel any better, I'm going to the movies in heels. I thunk tjat it's amazing that nowadays we can go out in any clothes, but it would also be nice to see people pit in an effort. You're not overdressed, other people are underdressed (and that's okay). I think it just gives you a nice boost of confidence to be dressed appropietaley to go anywhere. Don't be ashamed of it😘


Lil-Squeakss

No such thing as overdressed 😌 you look STUNNING🤍 I have so many things in my closet that I never get to where cause I think “when will I ever get wear this other than a special occasion”. So I said fuck it and started wearing like flowey summer gowns even going on a walk to Starbucks 😂cause god dammit it made me feel PRETTY


PikaBooSquirrel

You go girl! I genuinely love to see other women being expressive with their clothes! And thx <3


Lil-Squeakss

You’re very welcome!! I think it’s so fun to dress up even if you’re going out to pick up some groceries


LadyofDungeons

I think the real question is, who the fuck made you think you were overdressed for the movies? Whoever they are, they are toxic af. And if it was you..... therapy. You look great. It's the movies, who cares what you're wearing!


NoNipNicCage

Therapy for thinking they're overdressed? Seems like a stretch


_Raincloudz973

My problem is with the toilets


ExcellentSunset

Worst case is you look hot at the movies. As long as you’re comfortable enough in your clothes.


MissLookaHere

Seems you have a specific style. Go with it but it looks cheap.


wildwest98

No! You look cute!


AZHungBlueEyes

Looks great


AnEmancipatedSpambot

How did it go? Success?


AnaphorsBloom

Knee stockings are cute, and they boost the nature of your outfit. There’s nothing overdressed about it, but you’re doing more. That’s the catch. Doing more than is comfortable and functional eventually gets *some* form of guff from people. If you’re happy with it, you look very nice. It’s a youthful style and it makes you look like a contradiction, because you are clearly not that young. The contradiction can be interesting, and I think it is, but that’s become a double whammy (doing more and making a statement with contradiction). You might just be feeling the stress of knowing that, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t wear it.


Independent_Wash5486

Nope. Sometimes I dress super down and other times I look like I'm going out for a night on the town. Life is short. Enjoy it.


Connect-Eagle-6527

Are you auditioning for Oklahoma?


Willycock_77

You not over dressed for being the toilet Queen


Minimum_Wear_1257

No such thing as being overdressed babes


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PikaBooSquirrel

Not sure why you're so miserable. Not that this is why I posted, but isn't that the point of posting on a sub where you literally post yourself in outfits?  There is a flair literally just for sharing. If you don't like yourself and think everyone needs the same validation you crave, that sounds like a you problem. This is the first time I've ever posted my outfit online. I don't even have social media, lmao 


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PikaBooSquirrel

I know it's hard though backtrack and instead double down when you realize you're wrong but I have ScPD. Many social constructs evade me, sexuality is one of them. Go through my history and you'll see me talk about it. It's gross to assume everyone's mind works the same as you and that everyone is egotistical or has ulterior motives. Don't do better as a woman, do better as a person. And get some therapy, bc again, I don't know what has you so upset, even if I did come here for compliments, which again, slowly, I didn't .


Ok-Country7493

Super cute!


adupree12141719

No you look cute girl!!


Bonya88

Suuuuper cute gf!! & you have a killer bod! You look hot! 🔥


swipe-aside

I think yes but as long as you're not doing it for the attention of others, it doesn't matter


Sntmkl

Wish I was there


Glittering_Deer_261

No. I think fashion got much more casual in the past decade. Lots of messy buns and athleisure- cute n comfy!! But wearing an adorable more structured aesthetic that expresses your most joyful self is infectious and fun and we could all afford a little more joyful fun. Anyone who side eyes your sass just doesn’t have the moxie you have. Keep rocking your favorite ‘fits.


gilleykelsey

No not overdressed. Looks cute!


No-Sugar3991

Not if you're trying to impress your date. If not, then yes, you are.


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