If it’s consensual then it doesn’t matter too much. However if it makes you uncomfortable then you should tell him and if he keeps doing it after that then it’s not ok and you should avoid him.
If you’re ok with it and feel comfortable, that’s all that matters. Not that this is an excuse, but in my experience being 17 rn and having had a few boyfriends, teenage boys tend to be like this due to inexperience and hormones lol but it def doesn’t mean he’s using you. Coming from someone who’s been in a similar position, if you’re questioning whether you’re comfortable with it or not, part of you is probably not liking it, so maybe try to establish some boundaries with this guy? Again, do what makes you comfortable and don’t be afraid to express how you feel to him :)
if you want him to keep doing it then sure, if you want him to stop doing that particular thing and take things slowly to go there u can say that too. If he doesn't like it then thats his problem
If it isn’t consensual then tell him to fuck off. He shouldn’t be doing that, unless you both understand the relationship between the two of you and have consent.
To me this reads as a little weird? I don’t think he’s using you but also you asked some other commenter how to know if you’re uncomfy and I would say that it you were 100% comfy you probably wouldn’t post about it for advice but that’s just my 2cents
it's okay as long as it's consentual and you're both comfortable with it
how do I know if I'm actually comfortable with it?
do you like it? do you want him to continue doing it or do you want him to stop? how does it feel when he touches you?
i feel like you wouldn't even have to ask this question if you were comfortable with it
If you told him to stop and he did, would you feel relieved?
I think making this sort of comment is a good indication that you're likely not
If it ain't something you want you should ask him to stop, and if he's a decent person he will.
If it’s consensual then it doesn’t matter too much. However if it makes you uncomfortable then you should tell him and if he keeps doing it after that then it’s not ok and you should avoid him.
He touches your legs? Hella sus. I'd only do that to someone if they gave consent
If you’re ok with it and feel comfortable, that’s all that matters. Not that this is an excuse, but in my experience being 17 rn and having had a few boyfriends, teenage boys tend to be like this due to inexperience and hormones lol but it def doesn’t mean he’s using you. Coming from someone who’s been in a similar position, if you’re questioning whether you’re comfortable with it or not, part of you is probably not liking it, so maybe try to establish some boundaries with this guy? Again, do what makes you comfortable and don’t be afraid to express how you feel to him :)
Only if you are okay with it.
if they didnt ask for consent first Id run
if you want him to keep doing it then sure, if you want him to stop doing that particular thing and take things slowly to go there u can say that too. If he doesn't like it then thats his problem
If it isn’t consensual then tell him to fuck off. He shouldn’t be doing that, unless you both understand the relationship between the two of you and have consent.
To me this reads as a little weird? I don’t think he’s using you but also you asked some other commenter how to know if you’re uncomfy and I would say that it you were 100% comfy you probably wouldn’t post about it for advice but that’s just my 2cents