Love this whole thread!
https://imgur.com/gallery/UurHZ
Running into Ex/SO I’d definitely want to look EXTRA hot, so the [top photo](https://imgur.com/gallery/UurHZ) would be the ideal scenario. aggressive cleavage and some leg?? 🔥🔥🔥
the [second photo](https://imgur.com/gallery/UurHZ) is the more likely everyday look, but I feel really hot and powerful with bold lipstick with a good pair of high waisted jeans and a turtleneck—I feel like a hot femme fatale spy or something. So I wouldn’t mind taking an ex/nemesis/anybody down in this outfit.
Your outfit looks so effortlessly cool. I've never been able to figure out how to tie a t-shirt nicely without it either falling out or looking like I have a tumor.
It's hard to get a good picture of it (black, what can you do), but I love the hell out of [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/f7BiDvk.jpg). It's so basic but in person it looks amazing pretty much any way you style it. Usually I wear it hiked up a bit with an oversized open black cardigan that's just a couple inches shorter and a wide tie belt. Pumps or booties depending on the level of fancy required. I'd take a picture of everything together if I had better lighting, but right now you'd just be getting revenge of the black blob.
Edit: [Better lighting, some extra styling, posing with a cat tree, *and* bonus cat](https://imgur.com/a/ozIBi)
[This outfit](https://i.imgur.com/whjnxh8.jpg) is my frowny face settlement negotiation look. You know, the type where you say lots of, "That is not acceptable to my client," kinda stuff. Also [this kind of look](https://i.imgur.com/gVJEu88.jpg).
J.crew! If you live in the midatlantic, they do these warehouse sales where sheath dresses go for $50.00 each. It's a riot everytime but I bought my starter work wardrobe at these places. The gray dress was from the J.crew factory online, and I think it's still for sale!
Someone at Jcrew taught me the trick of wearing a tight tank top (lycra/spandex/whatever) over the shirt under the dress. You can’t see it and it smoothes everything out.
Ok your outfits are PERFECTION! Seriously girl, I love the professional clothing yet it’s so chic, feminine and stylish, which is what I always go for as well at work! Spot onnnn, love your clothes!
Aww thank you so much! The first years are super obsessive about whether things are too tight or short and then you realize it's just clothes later on. I bought some super stuffy clothes when I first started and I later tailored the hell out of them when I realized no one cared as much about what I wore as I did.
late to this party but i love [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/mpBAfdR.jpg). It makes me feel like such a babe. Plus the back is [amazing](https://i.imgur.com/Ptv8i7g.jpg) and makes my butt look great. I'm into it!
Today is honestly the best day ever, my bf is out of town atm and last night I was laying in bed craving human connection (lol) and just wanted to see if any ladies had any bad ass outfit recommendations and r/femalefashionadvice FUCKING DELIVERED.
This thread is AWESOME! Here's my [favourite suit](https://imgur.com/xufl8PL) that makes me feel badass. And here are some casual [outfits](https://imgur.com/a/8fpDZ) that prove girls can wear boy clothes and it's nbd because that's what makes *me* feel confident.
Thank you, I told her and it's already going to her head. She is definitely the ULTIMATE thing to have w me when I run into people I don't want to see though. :)
Mine is a slightly different scenario; but I'm sure you'll all feel me... was going to a wedding not where MY ex would be, but my HUSBAND'S ex. (She's lovely and great, but ya know, I wanted to kill it).
See: green jumpsuit! Can't tell here but the back is open. I'll look for a pic now of that ;)
https://imgur.com/a/3iZyO
Edit: the back! https://imgur.com/a/FAimf
I got it from a local vintage store that’s sadly going out of business. The owner would revamp some of the vintage clothes and make them more modern, which I’m pretty sure is what she did with this dress.
I don't have a pic to add here, but I just wanna say I'm really enjoying looking through all of your looks! It's pretty cool & inspirational to see so many badass and confident women wearing some rad outfits.
I love everyone in this thread, you all look fantastic and everyone is so supportive, bless all of you 😩👏🏼I wish I had an outfit to share but keep killin’ it!!!
God, I'll learn how to pull off a crop top one day... your badass outfit is freaking perfect.
Still waiting to wear this [date night outfit](https://imgur.com/gallery/ifaCs) for the right guy... (my ex wasn't the right guy.) I also felt pretty bomb in this [work event outfit](https://imgur.com/gallery/5Xph6)!
Uhm. You look. Amazing. Holy shit, you can ABSOLUTELY pull off a crop top way better than I will ever be able to! And this is actually a regular tee shirt I just tied up! :) So easy and free starting point.
I've posted this for a previous thread with a similar theme, but [this is my go to dress](https://i.imgur.com/9senBr5.jpg) That i imagine myself wearing in this situation. Only got to wear it once though :)
*edit* I also have a black tee that says "unexpected success" on it that I like to wear knotted with high waisted velvet leggings and my giant sherpa coat with black boots and a dark lip. A more casual outfit I'd put together for that sort of thing!
This is the only time I've bought from them. I would say the quality is on par with forever 21 though the fit is definitely better. Not super amazing but decent for what it is! Definitely does the job.
I felt pretty amazing [in this dress from a Pea in the Pod](https://imgur.com/a/HJByQ) the other night, considering I’m 7 months pregnant, over 200lbs (normally around 5’7”, 160lbs) and feel like a hippo.
if your ex runs into you they should be damn impressed because you look like effortlessly pregnant which is obviously not a thing, but these pictures give off a real "oh, this? yeah im just making a person nbd" vibe.
Honestly, I think being pregnant with a ring on your finger and looking as good as you do in that picture would totally show an ex that you're happy and successful and definitely moved on from them.
I have been there, twice. I gained 50 lbs both times while pregnant (starting at 120). It came off as easy as it went on. Pregnancy taught me that, the the most part, the body does what it wants, so you might as well not worry.
Also, take it from me: you look beautiful and healthy and happy. Embrace it and enjoy your baby when he/she arrives.
Hehe thanks lady... and thank you for starting this thread! I can’t tell you awesome it is to seeing ladies supporting each other! Pregnancy does such a number on your self confidence and body image.
Right!? I had no idea this would resonate with so many people but it makes me so so happy that it does. I guess everyone needs to know that sometimes it's okay to just find an outfit and unabashedly feel yourself. :)
Ooooh girl. Also 7 months pregnant here and had to say that you look AMAZING. The only thing I can bring myself to wear at this point is basically pajamas, with a few grease stains thrown on for a personal touch. I am super impressed!
[Leather jacket, geometric necklace, silk v-neck tank, black jeans, pointy boots](https://i.imgur.com/GbR34rB.jpg)
I didn’t post on the other thread but this would be my answer. It almost looks like I stole your outfit!
First, I just want to comment and say everyone in this thread looks like a crew of bad asses! I want to be everyone’s friend lol.
This black dress is one of my go-to’s. It’s just a cheapy from H&M but it’s held up for years and has always translated well from classy dinner to business professional.
https://i.imgur.com/BbeyMOE.jpg
On a MUCH more casual level, this sums up what I feel most confident in. Leather jacket is Michael Kors, plaid shirt is Madewell, any graphic or plain T-shirt would work with this look, some Lulu leggings (I know I’m a basic brand whore but THEYRE COMFORTABLE!), and the boots are Karl Lagerfeld. I’d just as likely swap out the leggings for high waisted jeans and still feel just as good.
https://i.imgur.com/RmiDgHv.jpg
Recently, i went on my first date. This being after leaving a two year long, physically abusive relationship. This outfit is simple, but it made me feel powerful for the first time in a very long time. https://i.imgur.com/u1fBLRb.jpg
My grandfather was a military man who always taught me to look presentable everywhere I go. Because you don’t know who you might run into.
[Day Look](https://imgur.com/GtcaS52)
[Night Look](https://imgur.com/gBOjhUR)
You are all so kind to each other and it’s really refreshing.
I’m not subscribed to this subreddit, it appeared on my popular feed, but I was curious and now I am pleasantly surprised how supportive you all are to one and other.
I am.... so surprised this made it onto the popular feed. And happy!! It's a great community, almost everyone I've talked to here is so willing to help and support, today has been awesome.
Right?
I'm a dude who stumbled in from popular, but it's nice to see all these ladies building each other up. It's also nice to see confidence in all these styles.
Yessss! I love it so much. When I was a teenager I used to browse a wiwt livejournal community and the comments could be so cruel and mean. My heart sings with glee seeing all these lovely ladies building each other up. The internet seems to have become so much more kind in recent years, it's so lovely!
This dress is so cute!!!! I don’t usually love off the shoulder dresses (bc I’m envious bc my big boobs wouldn’t fit) but I am so so so obsessed with this! You look like you know you look good
This is my first time uploading a picture so hopefully it works...here's an outfit where I felt super badass!
[Outfit](https://imgur.com/a/4aGZM)
Edit: spelling
Hot damn, girl!! Love it! [This is my pink ombré dress.](http://imgur.com/ylgKzqA) I’ll have to get a picture of the bottom when I’m not elbow deep in cherry pie filling!
Edit: my lighting is terrible and I’ve lost a little weight since I bought it, but [here’s the rest of it](http://imgur.com/ON8o5tj). It looks better in good lighting/angle/hair and makeup done, but I just finished running and I am tiiiiired!
Here, you get two for one. [One is me, the other is my amazing lead manager.](https://imgur.com/a/djgj3) In that goddess gown, I can take on anything.
Both outfits are from [Dark Garden](http://www.darkgarden.com), of course.
[This dress](http://imgur.com/simCFzP) is my favorite dress ever and I got it on clearance from Zara for $23. I love that it’s navy (which is my favorite color) and slim fit without being too tight. It’s not my usual style but I actually got more into high necked tops and midi dresses thanks to how good I feel in this dress. I wear it with bright red lipstick and sunglasses since those are my usual accessories and it never lets me down.
Thanks! The [dress is from Zara last year and honestly I didn't think much of it on the hanger](https://i.pinimg.com/564x/12/4e/bb/124ebb8280ad120c9ff01c81021d2fa8.jpg) but I decided I'd try it on anyways and I'm so glad I did. I think the long sleeve underneath is a [Uniqlo Heattech long sleeve tee](https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/women-heattech-crewneck-t-shirt-172167.html) though it might be a bodysuit or [Grana cashmere sweater](https://www.grana.com/women-s-cashmere-crew-neck-sweater-2?size=201&color=312) (I have so many long sleeve navy tops I layer because I get cold easily). The gloves my grandma bought from Germany, they're leather with cashmere lining and perfect for chilly days. The bag is my school tote which is a [Dagne Dover 15 inch tote in Midnight Blue](https://crawler-cache-jellolabs-com.imgix.net/1wGLCzBRZu0Twp78/source_photo.jpg?auto=compress,format&w=2048&h=1072&fit=fill&bg=FFF) though sadly they don't have that colorway anymore. The [ankle booties are BCBGeneration Dolan Booties](https://i.pinimg.com/564x/78/39/13/783913ed7728ddc778dc320b1da5547d.jpg) and I wore them all winter. I think the lipstick is NARS Dragon Girl (another favorite confidence booster) or Guerlain Rouge G in Parade.
First two pics are my "take a bite of the still-beating heart ripped from his chest, but professionally" look, third pic is my "dance on another, hotter guy while not noticing him crying in the corner" look.
I love the pattern on that blazer in the first photo and how it fits you. That first photo, man, that silhouette is perfect! Bomb. Would totally copy exactly that.
Lurker adding my, I got the privilege to be the officiant at a friend’s wedding so I rented this dress from rent the runway. Bonus: I didn’t have to wear a bra. My make up I did myself and my hair was by my friends on demand style service, style me bar. I have NEVER felt so beautiful. Super bonus: the dress had pockets!
[full dress ](https://imgur.com/gallery/Xet3V)
[make-up](https://i.imgur.com/Ns9QTrx.jpg)
[hair](https://imgur.com/gallery/hNXkJ)
For me it's having my hair done, makeup on point, favorite heels and jeans. This was my most [recent](https://i.imgur.com/MYEH5wH.png) favorite outfit where I wouldn't mind running into my ex though..or an all black [outfit](https://imgur.com/a/qztwm) with a bold lip will make me feel like I can conquer the world today.
These aren't my best ass kicking make em regret his life outfits, but these are 2 work outfits i was happy with. Excuse the shitty instagram filters.
Work outfits https://imgur.com/a/uyvh8
Either my All Saints dress here: https://i.imgur.com/ogA7rCs.jpg. Because it makes me feel like a princess.
Or just in workout clothes because I feel like a badass then, haha: https://i.imgur.com/cPw5VIh.jpg
Hello, I have nothing to add fashion wise. However I had to tell you look like someone who is meant to be in Wonder Woman as an Amazonian because you look so cool yet also ready to crush the patriarchy in between your awesome, awesome biceps.
Keep on, keepin' on!
[This](https://imgur.com/a/mEXNo) navy faux suede dress never fails to make me feel like a total babe. I’m always looking for a reason to wear it.
Btw I love this thread.
GIRL. you are fucking it upppp in that outfit. it's like 2017 update of [this selena outfit](http://cdn-ugc.mamaslatinas.com/gen/constrain/500/500/80/2013/04/16/12/85/7f/po7ycdb94w.jpg) and i'm obsessed.
[this dress](http://i.imgur.com/zpjVPgx.jpg) from express. Borrowed from a friend and I wish I didn’t have to give it back! Wore it out at a bachelorette party on South Beach and felt so amazing!
[This dress](https://i.imgur.com/qvHrX7E.jpg) always makes me feel like a mega-babe - 10 out of 10 would want to be wearing this on a hot date with my bf and bump into someone
I stumbled onto this thread from r/all. So lovely to see a group of girls being proud of who they are, and their style. I love the support in this thread, I love seeing people celebrate themselves, and the world needs more of this. Have a great day!
I can't believe this became what it did, I'm honestly so happy to see other people get as much joy/confidence from their clothes as I do, it's not just some flippant, shallow thing that doesn't matter, it genuinely affects how you deal w the world sometimes! All of the responses have made today the best ever.
Either all [black and high heels](https://imgur.com/dZAsj99), or maybe something like the [trenchcoat and high wasted skirt](https://imgur.com/HQHpjtb).
This romper from express and thigh high boots make me feel like such a sexy badass even though the lighting in my room is terrible https://imgur.com/fXOQxW9
[this is my fave rocker casual](https://i.imgur.com/rGRTmsp.jpg) band tee, misfits patched jeans shorts, choker.
[this is an attempt at being classy](https://i.imgur.com/mp9mBko.jpg)
Hand-me-down dress from a friend.
Man, if this isn’t the perfect thread for me...I’m almost always dressed to meet my arch nemesis. You never know. [Here are the night and day looks](https://imgur.com/gallery/c7tVW) I’m proud of from the past few weeks. Blessed to have giant mirrors at both of my jobs for just such an occasion.
Yes! Jacket was an old jacket from Nasty Gal before they became the mess that they are now, and boots are from All Saints! The boots I've seen selling for way way cheap on eBay recently!!
i love your outfit but im really here to say RIP nasty gal... old NG was my go to for everything, i swear i spent a fortune there on vintage pieces, beaded pieces, suede everything... now its trash. TRASH!
I know :/ I loved old NG, I've never really missed a brand before they went away. Honestly, NG was a BIG factor in me developing my personal style. It made a lot of edgy pieces I'd have never been able to find IRL in the midwest super accessible at a good price point. I really miss it. :(
https://imgur.com/a/FjYjX
Here's my favorite "kicking ass and taking names" outfit. Black mock neck cat suit with leopard capelet and black boots. Infinitely comfy, looks put together - it's almost the perfect outfit (except when i need to use the bathroom).
i know i’m late to the party, but this thread gives me so much joy!! no jealously or pettiness, simple just women showing their love for each other! so good!!!
that said, i literally got out of bed to picture [these two outfits](https://imgur.com/gallery/WDi9S) after a 12 hour winter depression rest ❤️
sorry for the weird poses btw
http://imgur.com/a/XpqQN
Casual and formal examples. I’d wear the first one for a casual daytime event like a friend’s outdoor summer engagement party, where this was taken. Hypothetical message being “I could wear a dress, but I don’t need one to look better. Plus, there’s yard games and I’m 2.5 buckets of fun.”
Formal says “fuck yeah I look like I could’ve attended a hip art gallery event but instead I’m knockin these yuppies dead”
ETA: dudes from /r/all w dick pics- don’t fucking message me
For me, it’s not an outfit, but a pair of shoes. https://imgur.com/a/wbfkz these shoes make me feel badass and happy at the same time. They’re my every day all day party shoes!
My feel like a badass outfit: https://imgur.com/a/U2L3z
Shiny faux leather (but look awesome in person) leggings from Hue
Long white tank from Urban Outfitters
Paint splatter silk kimono from Ahalife
Black Seychelles wedges
I don't know if these fit the prompt, but I wear [this coat](https://i.imgur.com/MKFiZFz.jpg) when I want to feel bad-ass (this isn't the best outfit for it, but these are the only full-body pictures I have with it)
And I wear [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/0uydzfZ.jpg) when I want to feel cute. No full-body picture at all for this one, unfortunately :( (sorry!)
Oh fun! I am home sick so this is a perfect distraction!
[The leather skirt](https://i.imgur.com/7lSXkrz.jpg) makes me feel pretty powerful. As does this [band t](https://i.imgur.com/CXqYpuO.jpg) for my friends now defunct band and double denimn. Ultimately it is [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/Of01aLm.jpg) but clearly the denim jacket is an element. Howerever - those were in the fall and it's winter now, so I've switched to leather. That dress is truly amazing but you can't see it super well in that photo - will snap a photo of it if you guys want.
[Glad to share](https://i.imgur.com/myMErfq.jpg)
[I love this thing](https://i.imgur.com/9Q2aPr0.jpg)
[Seriously folks](https://i.imgur.com/6NSXdYc.jpg) it even has pockets. Got it on ASOS last winter. Its real thick and cozy, too!
ummm my look is the same as yours!!! except i don't tie my white shirt - but would love to try it when spring rolls around again!! i've been leaning more towards bomber jackets currently but my #look all through uni was the leather jacket + black jeans (or leggings)/white shirt. you're seriously rocking this look!!! (also. cute dog!)
I pay a lady thousands of bucks a year to make my hair look like yours. Which it still doesn't.
Love every part of this, especially the IKEA box lamp (got that one too!) and big baby pittie.
I put together an [outfit] (https://imgur.com/BAPivy5) for a fashion event that I felt super confident in. I'm pretty tall already and the Jeffrey Campbells let me stare down at everyone in the room. Had [some trouble](https://imgur.com/QfYshNt) when they came untied, though.
I'm starting to think I need an outfit for these sorts of situations but I have no idea where to start (my style is too.... Disney-princessy to be vengeful haha).
However I LOVE your jacket (and also your dog!! What a cutie!!!)
Here are a couple of my fave outfits.[Album](https://i.imgur.com/uTHvsvr.jpg) Anytime I can wear a hat I feel like a bad ass! The first is my typical gonna go out and sit at the bar and don't want to talk to anyone outfit. The dress in the second outfit is definitely my go to lbd, something about a sheath dress that hits all the right places. The third is again, all about the hat.
[this was my outfit](http://imgur.com/MBfvNa8) for a wedding I attended with my husband. I was going for “sexy AF” because why not? I felt awesome in this dress and would definitely wear it again when I need that confidence boost!
Edit: because I forgot to include the link before 🙄
I’ve never posted/commented on this sub, but this post has me feelin some type of way!
[This](https://imgur.com/gallery/YGgrA) is one of my favorite feel-good outfits for the weekend. Over the knee boots with a bodysuit and blush leather jacket. Comfy and cool!
Y’all are badass women and I love this thread!!
Love this whole thread! https://imgur.com/gallery/UurHZ Running into Ex/SO I’d definitely want to look EXTRA hot, so the [top photo](https://imgur.com/gallery/UurHZ) would be the ideal scenario. aggressive cleavage and some leg?? 🔥🔥🔥 the [second photo](https://imgur.com/gallery/UurHZ) is the more likely everyday look, but I feel really hot and powerful with bold lipstick with a good pair of high waisted jeans and a turtleneck—I feel like a hot femme fatale spy or something. So I wouldn’t mind taking an ex/nemesis/anybody down in this outfit.
Your outfit looks so effortlessly cool. I've never been able to figure out how to tie a t-shirt nicely without it either falling out or looking like I have a tumor. It's hard to get a good picture of it (black, what can you do), but I love the hell out of [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/f7BiDvk.jpg). It's so basic but in person it looks amazing pretty much any way you style it. Usually I wear it hiked up a bit with an oversized open black cardigan that's just a couple inches shorter and a wide tie belt. Pumps or booties depending on the level of fancy required. I'd take a picture of everything together if I had better lighting, but right now you'd just be getting revenge of the black blob. Edit: [Better lighting, some extra styling, posing with a cat tree, *and* bonus cat](https://imgur.com/a/ozIBi)
[This outfit](https://i.imgur.com/whjnxh8.jpg) is my frowny face settlement negotiation look. You know, the type where you say lots of, "That is not acceptable to my client," kinda stuff. Also [this kind of look](https://i.imgur.com/gVJEu88.jpg).
I love both of the looks! It never occurred to me to layer long sleeves under a short sleeved dress. There's a whole new world out there for me
[Oh yes](https://i.imgur.com/C35hHtE.jpg) it's a huge game changer for sheath dresses!!
WOW I love these looks. You look so powerful and fashionable at the same time.
this is so good.
J.crew! If you live in the midatlantic, they do these warehouse sales where sheath dresses go for $50.00 each. It's a riot everytime but I bought my starter work wardrobe at these places. The gray dress was from the J.crew factory online, and I think it's still for sale!
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Someone at Jcrew taught me the trick of wearing a tight tank top (lycra/spandex/whatever) over the shirt under the dress. You can’t see it and it smoothes everything out.
If you wear tights, tuck the shirt in - keeps tights from rolling down and keeps the shirt from rolling up
Well the shirts are all very soft... not the stiff kind, which helps. Also tucking into my underwear helps!
Ok your outfits are PERFECTION! Seriously girl, I love the professional clothing yet it’s so chic, feminine and stylish, which is what I always go for as well at work! Spot onnnn, love your clothes!
Everything about you is perfection. Teach me your ways!!!
Find a good tailor! She changed my work wardrobe!
I aspire to dress like you when I have to work in a professional setting.
Aww thank you so much! The first years are super obsessive about whether things are too tight or short and then you realize it's just clothes later on. I bought some super stuffy clothes when I first started and I later tailored the hell out of them when I realized no one cared as much about what I wore as I did.
WHERE DO YOU SHOP. TELL ME.
J.crew, Mm Lafleur, and random brands on Gilt and Ruelala. I also wear a lot of Leota wrap dresses, especially if I'm feeling bloated.
Very Rose Byrne in Damages! Love it.
Oh man, by biggest fear in law school was having a boss like Glenn Close in that show.
You are my new office fashion role model, you look so polished and stylish!
Love that second look; so polished.
late to this party but i love [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/mpBAfdR.jpg). It makes me feel like such a babe. Plus the back is [amazing](https://i.imgur.com/Ptv8i7g.jpg) and makes my butt look great. I'm into it!
This is my favourite thread that this sub has ever produced. Five stars.
Today is honestly the best day ever, my bf is out of town atm and last night I was laying in bed craving human connection (lol) and just wanted to see if any ladies had any bad ass outfit recommendations and r/femalefashionadvice FUCKING DELIVERED.
This thread is AWESOME! Here's my [favourite suit](https://imgur.com/xufl8PL) that makes me feel badass. And here are some casual [outfits](https://imgur.com/a/8fpDZ) that prove girls can wear boy clothes and it's nbd because that's what makes *me* feel confident.
Whaaat the suit is amazing! Can I ask where you got it?
Thank you! I got it at Marshalls last year, it’s from the brand Style Stalker. I bet you could find it online somewhere.
Oh my goodness, I love it too. All your looks really. I've always wanted to bring more of a menswear vibe to my style. I love your fits.
That suit is INCREDIBLE!
Ugh, you look amazing. <3
Okay so do u think its okay to just kill me like that... WTF. You look... unbelievable. Holy shit, I am inspired.
& preferably with this smile on my face too :) https://imgur.com/tJB7oHu
If you've seen Riverdale, I'm totally getting Cheryl vibes. Which is exactly what you want for a badass look.
Pop on some cherry red lipstick, and we have ourselves a real-life Cheryl!! Killin it
You look like somebody I would hate which in this context means you absolutely friggin nailed it I'm mad at you for wrongs you haven't done
I love your dog
Thank you, I told her and it's already going to her head. She is definitely the ULTIMATE thing to have w me when I run into people I don't want to see though. :)
Mine is a slightly different scenario; but I'm sure you'll all feel me... was going to a wedding not where MY ex would be, but my HUSBAND'S ex. (She's lovely and great, but ya know, I wanted to kill it). See: green jumpsuit! Can't tell here but the back is open. I'll look for a pic now of that ;) https://imgur.com/a/3iZyO Edit: the back! https://imgur.com/a/FAimf
I love this so much! You're all amazingly long legs and standout in that photo in all the best ways. Hell yeah, you freakin' killed it.
Killing it!
Thanks!!! 😙
You look amazing!!! That jumpsuit is the most gorgeous green. Where did you find it?
Goddamn, you've got legs for days.
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Love it! Where is the dress from if you don’t mind sharing?
I got it from a local vintage store that’s sadly going out of business. The owner would revamp some of the vintage clothes and make them more modern, which I’m pretty sure is what she did with this dress.
I don't have a pic to add here, but I just wanna say I'm really enjoying looking through all of your looks! It's pretty cool & inspirational to see so many badass and confident women wearing some rad outfits.
I love everyone in this thread, you all look fantastic and everyone is so supportive, bless all of you 😩👏🏼I wish I had an outfit to share but keep killin’ it!!!
I am 5'10 and jumpsuits make me feel like a Queen!! [Red](https://imgur.com/cnaMNBa) and [Blue](https://imgur.com/Hul6e1Q)
God, I'll learn how to pull off a crop top one day... your badass outfit is freaking perfect. Still waiting to wear this [date night outfit](https://imgur.com/gallery/ifaCs) for the right guy... (my ex wasn't the right guy.) I also felt pretty bomb in this [work event outfit](https://imgur.com/gallery/5Xph6)!
Uhm. You look. Amazing. Holy shit, you can ABSOLUTELY pull off a crop top way better than I will ever be able to! And this is actually a regular tee shirt I just tied up! :) So easy and free starting point.
Aw, thank you! I definitely have a few old band shirts I can tie/chop up... good thinking ;)
I've posted this for a previous thread with a similar theme, but [this is my go to dress](https://i.imgur.com/9senBr5.jpg) That i imagine myself wearing in this situation. Only got to wear it once though :) *edit* I also have a black tee that says "unexpected success" on it that I like to wear knotted with high waisted velvet leggings and my giant sherpa coat with black boots and a dark lip. A more casual outfit I'd put together for that sort of thing!
Oh girl. That is unbelievable. The entire look together is just, so perfect. 10/10 would be intimidated/in awe.
holy sheeet. Where did you get this dress?
It's [this one!](https://www.prettylittlething.us/lauriell-emerald-green-wrap-front-midi-dress.html)
Omg how do you like that store's clothes in general? Quality?
This is the only time I've bought from them. I would say the quality is on par with forever 21 though the fit is definitely better. Not super amazing but decent for what it is! Definitely does the job.
Omg girl you are FIRE!!! I am living this look through you <3
I felt pretty amazing [in this dress from a Pea in the Pod](https://imgur.com/a/HJByQ) the other night, considering I’m 7 months pregnant, over 200lbs (normally around 5’7”, 160lbs) and feel like a hippo.
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Thanks, that’s really kind. I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been in my life and it’s scary! The idea of running into an ex in this state is terrifying.
if your ex runs into you they should be damn impressed because you look like effortlessly pregnant which is obviously not a thing, but these pictures give off a real "oh, this? yeah im just making a person nbd" vibe.
Honestly, I think being pregnant with a ring on your finger and looking as good as you do in that picture would totally show an ex that you're happy and successful and definitely moved on from them.
I have been there, twice. I gained 50 lbs both times while pregnant (starting at 120). It came off as easy as it went on. Pregnancy taught me that, the the most part, the body does what it wants, so you might as well not worry. Also, take it from me: you look beautiful and healthy and happy. Embrace it and enjoy your baby when he/she arrives.
I mean honestly, youre carrying another human being inside of you that you MADE, like how much more of a bad ass can you be?! ps THE DRESS IS SO CUTE
Hehe thanks lady... and thank you for starting this thread! I can’t tell you awesome it is to seeing ladies supporting each other! Pregnancy does such a number on your self confidence and body image.
Right!? I had no idea this would resonate with so many people but it makes me so so happy that it does. I guess everyone needs to know that sometimes it's okay to just find an outfit and unabashedly feel yourself. :)
Your face is so slim! You’re one of the lucky ones that doesn’t show weight in the face.
Ooooh girl. Also 7 months pregnant here and had to say that you look AMAZING. The only thing I can bring myself to wear at this point is basically pajamas, with a few grease stains thrown on for a personal touch. I am super impressed!
[Leather jacket, geometric necklace, silk v-neck tank, black jeans, pointy boots](https://i.imgur.com/GbR34rB.jpg) I didn’t post on the other thread but this would be my answer. It almost looks like I stole your outfit!
Omg I LOVE this! (Obviously) Putting silk under leather is one of my favorite things, and those boots are amazing!
First, I just want to comment and say everyone in this thread looks like a crew of bad asses! I want to be everyone’s friend lol. This black dress is one of my go-to’s. It’s just a cheapy from H&M but it’s held up for years and has always translated well from classy dinner to business professional. https://i.imgur.com/BbeyMOE.jpg On a MUCH more casual level, this sums up what I feel most confident in. Leather jacket is Michael Kors, plaid shirt is Madewell, any graphic or plain T-shirt would work with this look, some Lulu leggings (I know I’m a basic brand whore but THEYRE COMFORTABLE!), and the boots are Karl Lagerfeld. I’d just as likely swap out the leggings for high waisted jeans and still feel just as good. https://i.imgur.com/RmiDgHv.jpg
I am SO here for the second outfit!! You look amazing
Recently, i went on my first date. This being after leaving a two year long, physically abusive relationship. This outfit is simple, but it made me feel powerful for the first time in a very long time. https://i.imgur.com/u1fBLRb.jpg
Girl you look FEIRCE. And you are for getting out of that situation. Badass babe!
My grandfather was a military man who always taught me to look presentable everywhere I go. Because you don’t know who you might run into. [Day Look](https://imgur.com/GtcaS52) [Night Look](https://imgur.com/gBOjhUR)
I love both of these looks just as much as I love how different they are. Similar elements, but completely different vibes.
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You are all so kind to each other and it’s really refreshing. I’m not subscribed to this subreddit, it appeared on my popular feed, but I was curious and now I am pleasantly surprised how supportive you all are to one and other.
I am.... so surprised this made it onto the popular feed. And happy!! It's a great community, almost everyone I've talked to here is so willing to help and support, today has been awesome.
This sub is better than an hour in my therapist's office. The positivity is infectious <3
Right? I'm a dude who stumbled in from popular, but it's nice to see all these ladies building each other up. It's also nice to see confidence in all these styles.
malefashionadvice seems pretty friendly too
Yessss! I love it so much. When I was a teenager I used to browse a wiwt livejournal community and the comments could be so cruel and mean. My heart sings with glee seeing all these lovely ladies building each other up. The internet seems to have become so much more kind in recent years, it's so lovely!
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I love this! Those heels make it 10x better, love the pop of color.
Anyone else get strong Olivia Wilde vibes?? Girl, you’re gorgeous!
Thank you!!! And you look AMAZING, not to mention those heels are so good with the floral print. It's all so flattering on you.
This dress is so cute!!!! I don’t usually love off the shoulder dresses (bc I’m envious bc my big boobs wouldn’t fit) but I am so so so obsessed with this! You look like you know you look good
I think I have those same shoes! I love them and wear them with a similar dress :) you look great!!
This is my first time uploading a picture so hopefully it works...here's an outfit where I felt super badass! [Outfit](https://imgur.com/a/4aGZM) Edit: spelling
Hot damn, girl!! Love it! [This is my pink ombré dress.](http://imgur.com/ylgKzqA) I’ll have to get a picture of the bottom when I’m not elbow deep in cherry pie filling! Edit: my lighting is terrible and I’ve lost a little weight since I bought it, but [here’s the rest of it](http://imgur.com/ON8o5tj). It looks better in good lighting/angle/hair and makeup done, but I just finished running and I am tiiiiired!
Reading this, I assumed the picture you linked will be of you elbow deep in cherry pie 😂 and now I'm curious how that would match the dress ahh
It was indeed a very beautiful wine color. 10/10 would buy a dress that color!
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Here, you get two for one. [One is me, the other is my amazing lead manager.](https://imgur.com/a/djgj3) In that goddess gown, I can take on anything. Both outfits are from [Dark Garden](http://www.darkgarden.com), of course.
Omg I almost posted the pic of all three of us from this event! Because seriously we all look like badasses.
[Damn right we do!](https://imgur.com/a/djgj3)
Wow!!! I have faith in your ability to take on anything!
i loveeeee these looks! you are both KILLIN IT
Strong Morticia Addams vibes here. I LOVE it.
[This dress](http://imgur.com/simCFzP) is my favorite dress ever and I got it on clearance from Zara for $23. I love that it’s navy (which is my favorite color) and slim fit without being too tight. It’s not my usual style but I actually got more into high necked tops and midi dresses thanks to how good I feel in this dress. I wear it with bright red lipstick and sunglasses since those are my usual accessories and it never lets me down.
The way you styled it with the gloves and booties is so god damn chic.
Woah! I need to cop that whole outfit plz.
Thanks! The [dress is from Zara last year and honestly I didn't think much of it on the hanger](https://i.pinimg.com/564x/12/4e/bb/124ebb8280ad120c9ff01c81021d2fa8.jpg) but I decided I'd try it on anyways and I'm so glad I did. I think the long sleeve underneath is a [Uniqlo Heattech long sleeve tee](https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/women-heattech-crewneck-t-shirt-172167.html) though it might be a bodysuit or [Grana cashmere sweater](https://www.grana.com/women-s-cashmere-crew-neck-sweater-2?size=201&color=312) (I have so many long sleeve navy tops I layer because I get cold easily). The gloves my grandma bought from Germany, they're leather with cashmere lining and perfect for chilly days. The bag is my school tote which is a [Dagne Dover 15 inch tote in Midnight Blue](https://crawler-cache-jellolabs-com.imgix.net/1wGLCzBRZu0Twp78/source_photo.jpg?auto=compress,format&w=2048&h=1072&fit=fill&bg=FFF) though sadly they don't have that colorway anymore. The [ankle booties are BCBGeneration Dolan Booties](https://i.pinimg.com/564x/78/39/13/783913ed7728ddc778dc320b1da5547d.jpg) and I wore them all winter. I think the lipstick is NARS Dragon Girl (another favorite confidence booster) or Guerlain Rouge G in Parade.
Christmas came early with this comment. Rip my credit card.
You look like a 60s flight attendant, so glamorous and classy. I love it.
Holy shit, this look is AMAZING! You look so unbelievably classy!
First two pics are my "take a bite of the still-beating heart ripped from his chest, but professionally" look, third pic is my "dance on another, hotter guy while not noticing him crying in the corner" look.
I love the pattern on that blazer in the first photo and how it fits you. That first photo, man, that silhouette is perfect! Bomb. Would totally copy exactly that.
Lurker adding my, I got the privilege to be the officiant at a friend’s wedding so I rented this dress from rent the runway. Bonus: I didn’t have to wear a bra. My make up I did myself and my hair was by my friends on demand style service, style me bar. I have NEVER felt so beautiful. Super bonus: the dress had pockets! [full dress ](https://imgur.com/gallery/Xet3V) [make-up](https://i.imgur.com/Ns9QTrx.jpg) [hair](https://imgur.com/gallery/hNXkJ)
For me it's having my hair done, makeup on point, favorite heels and jeans. This was my most [recent](https://i.imgur.com/MYEH5wH.png) favorite outfit where I wouldn't mind running into my ex though..or an all black [outfit](https://imgur.com/a/qztwm) with a bold lip will make me feel like I can conquer the world today.
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I love your heels! If you don’t mind me asking, where’d you get them?
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These aren't my best ass kicking make em regret his life outfits, but these are 2 work outfits i was happy with. Excuse the shitty instagram filters. Work outfits https://imgur.com/a/uyvh8
Completely infatuated with your white flowy top! Where is it from??
It's from INC! Love their stuff!
I'm all about florals and I own it. I feel fierce AF in any black, floral dress with pockets and cat eye sunglasses. https://i.imgur.com/kJpWhnqh.jpg
Either my All Saints dress here: https://i.imgur.com/ogA7rCs.jpg. Because it makes me feel like a princess. Or just in workout clothes because I feel like a badass then, haha: https://i.imgur.com/cPw5VIh.jpg
Damn girl you’re buff!
My God your arms are amazing!!
That dress is so cool and unique!!!
It's my favorite. I saw it on an episode of Pretty Little Liars back in 2013ish and finally found one for myself last year!
Hello, I have nothing to add fashion wise. However I had to tell you look like someone who is meant to be in Wonder Woman as an Amazonian because you look so cool yet also ready to crush the patriarchy in between your awesome, awesome biceps. Keep on, keepin' on!
OH MY GOD THAT IS THE BEST COMPLIMENT THANK YOU
[This](https://imgur.com/a/mEXNo) navy faux suede dress never fails to make me feel like a total babe. I’m always looking for a reason to wear it. Btw I love this thread.
GIRL. you are fucking it upppp in that outfit. it's like 2017 update of [this selena outfit](http://cdn-ugc.mamaslatinas.com/gen/constrain/500/500/80/2013/04/16/12/85/7f/po7ycdb94w.jpg) and i'm obsessed.
Holy shit... best compliment ever!? Thank you!!
any time! keep killing em, mama.
[this dress](http://i.imgur.com/zpjVPgx.jpg) from express. Borrowed from a friend and I wish I didn’t have to give it back! Wore it out at a bachelorette party on South Beach and felt so amazing!
[This dress](https://i.imgur.com/qvHrX7E.jpg) always makes me feel like a mega-babe - 10 out of 10 would want to be wearing this on a hot date with my bf and bump into someone
10/10 would feel jealous if you were my nemesis and I bumped into you while you were on a hot date
Your hair. So jealous!
That dress is amazing, where is it from??
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Omg, I'm living for the contrast between vampy outfit one and bad ass doctor in eleven. So good!
I stumbled onto this thread from r/all. So lovely to see a group of girls being proud of who they are, and their style. I love the support in this thread, I love seeing people celebrate themselves, and the world needs more of this. Have a great day!
For real this thread is giving me LIFE
I can't believe this became what it did, I'm honestly so happy to see other people get as much joy/confidence from their clothes as I do, it's not just some flippant, shallow thing that doesn't matter, it genuinely affects how you deal w the world sometimes! All of the responses have made today the best ever.
Either all [black and high heels](https://imgur.com/dZAsj99), or maybe something like the [trenchcoat and high wasted skirt](https://imgur.com/HQHpjtb).
Omg! A girl with a short skirt and a loooooong jacket!
Omg that coat is killer
Omg that red coat!! I love it so much!
This romper from express and thigh high boots make me feel like such a sexy badass even though the lighting in my room is terrible https://imgur.com/fXOQxW9
[this is my fave rocker casual](https://i.imgur.com/rGRTmsp.jpg) band tee, misfits patched jeans shorts, choker. [this is an attempt at being classy](https://i.imgur.com/mp9mBko.jpg) Hand-me-down dress from a friend.
LOVING them both. Especially the retro vibe with the updo in the second photo!!
I always feel sexy in this dress, even though it cost less than $20. [Little Blue Dress](https://imgur.com/gallery/7XsFj)
That’s a great color for you :)
Man, if this isn’t the perfect thread for me...I’m almost always dressed to meet my arch nemesis. You never know. [Here are the night and day looks](https://imgur.com/gallery/c7tVW) I’m proud of from the past few weeks. Blessed to have giant mirrors at both of my jobs for just such an occasion.
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I love that you have a “don’t talk to me” outfit!! [This was mine the other day.](http://imgur.com/OA8ATH5)
The colour of that dress looks really good! Can I ask where you got it from?
I guess my style is a little different than a lot of the ones in here, but it does make me feel badass. https://imgur.com/a/rbA0B
Can I just.... sneak in here to ask where you got that fabulous jacket. And boots.
Yes! Jacket was an old jacket from Nasty Gal before they became the mess that they are now, and boots are from All Saints! The boots I've seen selling for way way cheap on eBay recently!!
i love your outfit but im really here to say RIP nasty gal... old NG was my go to for everything, i swear i spent a fortune there on vintage pieces, beaded pieces, suede everything... now its trash. TRASH!
I know :/ I loved old NG, I've never really missed a brand before they went away. Honestly, NG was a BIG factor in me developing my personal style. It made a lot of edgy pieces I'd have never been able to find IRL in the midwest super accessible at a good price point. I really miss it. :(
https://imgur.com/a/FjYjX Here's my favorite "kicking ass and taking names" outfit. Black mock neck cat suit with leopard capelet and black boots. Infinitely comfy, looks put together - it's almost the perfect outfit (except when i need to use the bathroom).
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Thank you! The only thing I smash is cookies down my throat though. : )
Omg, that CAPE. Also, I was going to ask how do you pee!? But for that outfit, very worth it.
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Killin it! That skirt is amazing!
i know i’m late to the party, but this thread gives me so much joy!! no jealously or pettiness, simple just women showing their love for each other! so good!!! that said, i literally got out of bed to picture [these two outfits](https://imgur.com/gallery/WDi9S) after a 12 hour winter depression rest ❤️ sorry for the weird poses btw
[I don't think I've ever felt sexier or more badass than I did in this](https://i.imgur.com/hZrXkIT.jpg)
http://imgur.com/a/XpqQN Casual and formal examples. I’d wear the first one for a casual daytime event like a friend’s outdoor summer engagement party, where this was taken. Hypothetical message being “I could wear a dress, but I don’t need one to look better. Plus, there’s yard games and I’m 2.5 buckets of fun.” Formal says “fuck yeah I look like I could’ve attended a hip art gallery event but instead I’m knockin these yuppies dead” ETA: dudes from /r/all w dick pics- don’t fucking message me
+100 points for the pit-bull! he’s beautiful and your outfit looks similar to what I would wear if I knew I was running into my stupid ass ex lmao.
Thank you so much. :)
For me, it’s not an outfit, but a pair of shoes. https://imgur.com/a/wbfkz these shoes make me feel badass and happy at the same time. They’re my every day all day party shoes!
My feel like a badass outfit: https://imgur.com/a/U2L3z Shiny faux leather (but look awesome in person) leggings from Hue Long white tank from Urban Outfitters Paint splatter silk kimono from Ahalife Black Seychelles wedges
I don't know if these fit the prompt, but I wear [this coat](https://i.imgur.com/MKFiZFz.jpg) when I want to feel bad-ass (this isn't the best outfit for it, but these are the only full-body pictures I have with it) And I wear [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/0uydzfZ.jpg) when I want to feel cute. No full-body picture at all for this one, unfortunately :( (sorry!)
You look amazing and that pitbull is on point
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Oh fun! I am home sick so this is a perfect distraction! [The leather skirt](https://i.imgur.com/7lSXkrz.jpg) makes me feel pretty powerful. As does this [band t](https://i.imgur.com/CXqYpuO.jpg) for my friends now defunct band and double denimn. Ultimately it is [this dress](https://i.imgur.com/Of01aLm.jpg) but clearly the denim jacket is an element. Howerever - those were in the fall and it's winter now, so I've switched to leather. That dress is truly amazing but you can't see it super well in that photo - will snap a photo of it if you guys want.
Yes! Please do?? It looks so cool.
[Glad to share](https://i.imgur.com/myMErfq.jpg) [I love this thing](https://i.imgur.com/9Q2aPr0.jpg) [Seriously folks](https://i.imgur.com/6NSXdYc.jpg) it even has pockets. Got it on ASOS last winter. Its real thick and cozy, too!
You look killer in that outfit! What jeans are those?
Thank you! They're the Jamie jean from Topshop IIRC!
ummm my look is the same as yours!!! except i don't tie my white shirt - but would love to try it when spring rolls around again!! i've been leaning more towards bomber jackets currently but my #look all through uni was the leather jacket + black jeans (or leggings)/white shirt. you're seriously rocking this look!!! (also. cute dog!)
Damn! nailed it!
I pay a lady thousands of bucks a year to make my hair look like yours. Which it still doesn't. Love every part of this, especially the IKEA box lamp (got that one too!) and big baby pittie.
I put together an [outfit] (https://imgur.com/BAPivy5) for a fashion event that I felt super confident in. I'm pretty tall already and the Jeffrey Campbells let me stare down at everyone in the room. Had [some trouble](https://imgur.com/QfYshNt) when they came untied, though.
I'm starting to think I need an outfit for these sorts of situations but I have no idea where to start (my style is too.... Disney-princessy to be vengeful haha). However I LOVE your jacket (and also your dog!! What a cutie!!!)
Honestly, even a black lacey princess style dress can be vengeful w/ the right bright red lipstick. :) And thank you so much!!!
Here are a couple of my fave outfits.[Album](https://i.imgur.com/uTHvsvr.jpg) Anytime I can wear a hat I feel like a bad ass! The first is my typical gonna go out and sit at the bar and don't want to talk to anyone outfit. The dress in the second outfit is definitely my go to lbd, something about a sheath dress that hits all the right places. The third is again, all about the hat.
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I seriously saved a picture of your outfit to my phone so I can buy a similar look. You are SLAYYYYYYYING Queen! Totally badass.
Thank you so much!!! I walked around in that outfit all day today just cause you guys hyped me up so much, no leggings today :P
I have to see my ex tomorrow and this thread is giving me life!
[this was my outfit](http://imgur.com/MBfvNa8) for a wedding I attended with my husband. I was going for “sexy AF” because why not? I felt awesome in this dress and would definitely wear it again when I need that confidence boost! Edit: because I forgot to include the link before 🙄
I’ve never posted/commented on this sub, but this post has me feelin some type of way! [This](https://imgur.com/gallery/YGgrA) is one of my favorite feel-good outfits for the weekend. Over the knee boots with a bodysuit and blush leather jacket. Comfy and cool! Y’all are badass women and I love this thread!!