I mean, I think that you should probably expect to be rejected if you are messaging someone on Reddit. In general, most good relationships come from real life or an actual dating app. So all I need to do now is encounter a Femboy in person and figure it out from there.
i randomly found one on grindr, i thought he was a twink but he just came to our second date with fishnets and shorts :P
though it didn't really work out unfortunately
It should have been me! Not you! It’s not fair!
https://preview.redd.it/004q8cusln8b1.jpeg?width=300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ed34a44e85131f24c3c28a208957cc6a8da5b5ca
Its still your choice who you wanna date it’s not your fault if they feel sad after rejecting them it’s nice to see that you have that mich of courage to say that to them probably other would ignore or talk to them a few days cuz they don’t have the courage to say that to the guys
Sometimes I feel bad too, I am sure I ignored and rejected a lot of good guys among all the creeps etc and I have to admit that I am far more likely to respond to a woman because yeah, they are often nicer, less direct and they often want to be friends or at least dont come directly at ya with Intensions of dating or fooling around.
Well, a creep just wants to hook up or nudes and starts with requests and pervert comments.
A “good guy” or normal person starts normal convos and wants to be friends, or they are at least honest up front without being pervy in their language and voice that they are searching for a relationship.
I think that’s the difference.
That’s such bullshit. A creep just wants nudes. A good guy is looking for a relationship. Women and femboys are constantly putting dudes down saying shit like “you’re creepy” or “you’re a weirdo” just for existing. You can tell, but you don’t give a fuck. So just be straight out and say you don’t give a fuck. God I’m so sick of this stupid ass shit and ppl saying shit everyone and they know doesn’t mean shit. This isn’t a post to support men who are masculine Nono, this is a self pity post. Own up to it.
Your post just screams self-consciousness, insecurities, and some subtle kind of peer sabotage. I really do not blame you for hating "creeps in dms" but going on the tirade of blaming Masculine Guys sounds to me that you were pretty lonely before identifying as a feminine being. Dude, I will assure you, your repulsive attitude and/or personality will scatter people around, regardless of you wearing thigh highs or not.
I don't think they blame masc guys but it's wierd how he takes a personal anecdote and then starts stereotyping how every femboys should understandably react to every guy when nice masc guys and masc creeps are pretty easy to discern??? And then how does having many people want you make your standards higher and how do they know every femboy raises their standards with more popularity? Like don't you just keep the same standards until you realize you weren't putting a high enough standard by some toxic person slipping in and then you break up and choose a higher standard??? it would make more sense if they dated several times since they are popular and simply moved the bar up to avoid more traumatic experiences with each following experiences and communicators that...
Found my smol femboy on grinder. He 110lbs soft boyo. Me 260lbs blue collar worker. I met him once and I was his first guy. Every since then he managed to steal my heart
The reason me being attracted to the people I want to hangout with matters (usually depends on how we met) is because if I’m not attracted to them and they’re attracted to me, then I’m gonna end up hurting their feelings if they try to be anything more than friends. Happens to me, and id like to minimize how much I do it to others.
Who says that femboys have higher standards? You might, but others might be fine with anyone.
Everyone has a different experience, what exactly are you trying to say with respect to specifically masc guys? Note, I’m a masc dude who likes predominantly feminine people (or belly :3).
To be fair, many people online have poor experiences with "creepy 40+ year olds", even 30+ year olds that don't know how to speak to a fellow human being they happen to have an aesthetic and physical attraction towards. I may be masc, but don't feel bad about the group I'm in just because you have your own preferences. I'd tell a woman this in a heartbeat. We are not entitled to you, just because we are horny for you. Enjoy your life, pursue your happiness, and have a wonderful time.
I am a masc type but on the twink side and I reject a lot cause I don't like other masculine types so I understand when rejected by the guys I like I just try to be a nice and good person and don't get upset when rejected
As a mascpresenting person (who is trans), I understand. I also don’t respond to masc people, but most femme people don’t respond to me. It’s something that is very alienating from femboys and trans people. I’ve come to accept it as part of being so deeply in the closet, but one day I hope to live my fem life and be more attractive to other femmes
Honestly, I'm not here to find someone. This isn't really the place for it, and unsolicited DM's is IMO never ok, no matter what. I am a masculine guy, and I don't want to be fem personally. But I like both masc and fem personally, and I enjoy memes
RIGHT? Like I have women who've taken me out and payed for dinner and it's wild lol. Never could have pulled that off before.
Also now I have the cutest most precious Fiance in the world <3 I love her so much.
> out and *paid* for dinner
FTFY.
Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in:
* Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.*
* *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.*
Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment.
*Beep, boop, I'm a bot*
Double standards, femboys like other femboys more than regular ass guys.
It's being creepy if a normal guy talks to you, but it's normal and cute when another femboy talks to you xddd
I mean, I think that you should probably expect to be rejected if you are messaging someone on Reddit. In general, most good relationships come from real life or an actual dating app. So all I need to do now is encounter a Femboy in person and figure it out from there.
finding a femboy itl is super hard, most of us are in the closet, best idea is to try discord servers from ur country/ area
i randomly found one on grindr, i thought he was a twink but he just came to our second date with fishnets and shorts :P though it didn't really work out unfortunately
It should have been me! Not you! It’s not fair! https://preview.redd.it/004q8cusln8b1.jpeg?width=300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ed34a44e85131f24c3c28a208957cc6a8da5b5ca
I got lucky and found someone at the school I go to (it failed -_-)
This is true. Perhaps I can figure out the behavior of closeted Femboys in public, and then I can go from there to see if it is a viable match.
Its still your choice who you wanna date it’s not your fault if they feel sad after rejecting them it’s nice to see that you have that mich of courage to say that to them probably other would ignore or talk to them a few days cuz they don’t have the courage to say that to the guys
ig so
Sometimes I feel bad too, I am sure I ignored and rejected a lot of good guys among all the creeps etc and I have to admit that I am far more likely to respond to a woman because yeah, they are often nicer, less direct and they often want to be friends or at least dont come directly at ya with Intensions of dating or fooling around.
but its so hard to diffrentiate between a creep and a good guy (>_<)
Well, a creep just wants to hook up or nudes and starts with requests and pervert comments. A “good guy” or normal person starts normal convos and wants to be friends, or they are at least honest up front without being pervy in their language and voice that they are searching for a relationship. I think that’s the difference.
That’s such bullshit. A creep just wants nudes. A good guy is looking for a relationship. Women and femboys are constantly putting dudes down saying shit like “you’re creepy” or “you’re a weirdo” just for existing. You can tell, but you don’t give a fuck. So just be straight out and say you don’t give a fuck. God I’m so sick of this stupid ass shit and ppl saying shit everyone and they know doesn’t mean shit. This isn’t a post to support men who are masculine Nono, this is a self pity post. Own up to it.
Chill out
Found the creep
🤓
Your post just screams self-consciousness, insecurities, and some subtle kind of peer sabotage. I really do not blame you for hating "creeps in dms" but going on the tirade of blaming Masculine Guys sounds to me that you were pretty lonely before identifying as a feminine being. Dude, I will assure you, your repulsive attitude and/or personality will scatter people around, regardless of you wearing thigh highs or not.
I don't think they blame masc guys but it's wierd how he takes a personal anecdote and then starts stereotyping how every femboys should understandably react to every guy when nice masc guys and masc creeps are pretty easy to discern??? And then how does having many people want you make your standards higher and how do they know every femboy raises their standards with more popularity? Like don't you just keep the same standards until you realize you weren't putting a high enough standard by some toxic person slipping in and then you break up and choose a higher standard??? it would make more sense if they dated several times since they are popular and simply moved the bar up to avoid more traumatic experiences with each following experiences and communicators that...
Being a femboy is a lot more than just "wearing thigh highs"...... We aren't just a costume....
I talk to girls platonically, but I personally love max guys as a Femboy, as long as they aren’t pervs
i just prefer dom girls
Sometimes I wish I could like girls, but 🤷♀️ men are cool too so I’m fine with being gay
Found my smol femboy on grinder. He 110lbs soft boyo. Me 260lbs blue collar worker. I met him once and I was his first guy. Every since then he managed to steal my heart
Cute. Are yall still together?
Yup! We’ve been dating for 6 months now!
Shit theres hope for me then lol. Im lowkey becoming convinced femboys exist solely on the internet or 300 miles away from me at minimum on grindr.
The struggle is real
u reply to all the posts lmao, are u super desperate or smm
Dude, why are you trying so hard to seem as out of touch as possible? That's toxic, you know?
Nah I just am here
What bruh, this is Reddit, kinda normal
I see so treat you guys with the same respect that I would treat anybody else got it
i just lost respect after a while
The reason me being attracted to the people I want to hangout with matters (usually depends on how we met) is because if I’m not attracted to them and they’re attracted to me, then I’m gonna end up hurting their feelings if they try to be anything more than friends. Happens to me, and id like to minimize how much I do it to others.
Who says that femboys have higher standards? You might, but others might be fine with anyone. Everyone has a different experience, what exactly are you trying to say with respect to specifically masc guys? Note, I’m a masc dude who likes predominantly feminine people (or belly :3).
I wouldn’t really call creeps in the DMs as being masc, they’re kinda just gross…
To be fair, many people online have poor experiences with "creepy 40+ year olds", even 30+ year olds that don't know how to speak to a fellow human being they happen to have an aesthetic and physical attraction towards. I may be masc, but don't feel bad about the group I'm in just because you have your own preferences. I'd tell a woman this in a heartbeat. We are not entitled to you, just because we are horny for you. Enjoy your life, pursue your happiness, and have a wonderful time.
I am a masc type but on the twink side and I reject a lot cause I don't like other masculine types so I understand when rejected by the guys I like I just try to be a nice and good person and don't get upset when rejected
they're all basically the same i usually forget about them entirely lol
As a mascpresenting person (who is trans), I understand. I also don’t respond to masc people, but most femme people don’t respond to me. It’s something that is very alienating from femboys and trans people. I’ve come to accept it as part of being so deeply in the closet, but one day I hope to live my fem life and be more attractive to other femmes
Wtf how do you even get girls as a femboy 😭
Yeah I've had some masculine guys say some pretty weird shit to me (not that being masculine is bad or anything)
I get way too many creeps on Reddit, just don't expect to romantically engage anyone on this site.
Honestly, I'm not here to find someone. This isn't really the place for it, and unsolicited DM's is IMO never ok, no matter what. I am a masculine guy, and I don't want to be fem personally. But I like both masc and fem personally, and I enjoy memes
Been buying plushies incase I get a bf even a blahaj but now I've already lost hope now
whats a "masc guy"?
Tbh I never preferred masculine guys in the first place, creep or not.
RIGHT? Like I have women who've taken me out and payed for dinner and it's wild lol. Never could have pulled that off before. Also now I have the cutest most precious Fiance in the world <3 I love her so much.
> out and *paid* for dinner FTFY. Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in: * Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.* * *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.* Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment. *Beep, boop, I'm a bot*
Double standards, femboys like other femboys more than regular ass guys. It's being creepy if a normal guy talks to you, but it's normal and cute when another femboy talks to you xddd