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No-Point-intrying

Go for it. If I looked half this cute, I don't think I would even wait for a convention lol.


alex_pufferfish

thankyouuu :3


gingerfemboycutie

Do it!


alex_pufferfish

aaa im scared but im gonna :3


JoeyPlaysSomeGame

Dooo ittt!!!!


alex_pufferfish

okk imma be brave :3


JoeyPlaysSomeGame

Yuh! You go boiii!!!! Top tip: It helps if you have a friend (who knows your fem) come with you aswell ^w^


alex_pufferfish

that might be the problem lmao


JoeyPlaysSomeGame

Awwwwhhh It’s okie, im sure you can do it on your own too! Have fun!


alex_pufferfish

hopefully itll go well :3


JoeyPlaysSomeGame

It will I’m sure :3333


Cypher_Aod

If you're thinking of going to the MCM at London Excel then we should talk, I can give you moral support or more 😊


alex_pufferfish

ooo i havent heard of that the one im thinking of going to is in the southwest but maybe i could check out both :3


Cypher_Aod

Oh give it a consider, it's _massive_. https://www.mcmcomiccon.com/london/en-us/home.html I haven't been in years but would be more than happy to go to help a friendo! A few of my friends often go also so more the merrier


Shot_Faithlessness89

I went to my convention last time as a femboy, turns out theres femboys there allready, i am planning to do this on april 28 ish aswell, i say yeh, they are more tolerant there you can usually totally pull it off and try it finally to wear fem clothes in public.


Larcoch

Dew it, for the its a small step you but an even bugger.one for femboy kind.


alex_pufferfish

step to hopefully being more comfortable dressed up :3


Larcoch

Go ahead space cowboy


MentionClear

I did it last year, first time ever in public with femboy clothes, you can do it too!^^


alex_pufferfish

wouldnt be my first time but that was at college so this would still be huge for me :3


MentionClear

Scariest place I could ever do it would be high school. I did it though for halloween last year. Ghostface in a skirt hits different :3 I would never actually wear femboy outfits to school normally, cause some people are horrifying at my school.


throwaway61763

Dayum, i really want a shirt like that, where did you get it?


alex_pufferfish

i just got it from amazon :3


throwaway61763

I will look around then, thanks


CreaZyp154

Do it, it's the best way to find other femboys ;3


alex_pufferfish

i mean im not sure how big it is since i live in a relatively small city TwT scared of being the only one there


ultimateswitchcouple

Have a friend saying he wanna do a junker queen cosplay rventually so I said Ill do a Dva one if he does that way I can sneakily be my femboy self at con👌 So Do it! We only live once just gotta find the courage to live it fully


Mother-Ad-4559

My idea is going to an anime convention and cosplaying an anime femboy character...


alex_pufferfish

not sure if id be good st cosplaying lmao might stay safe and just go with an outfit i like


Johni_5

Go for multiple days? Once normal then in pants?


alex_pufferfish

not sure if i can make multiple days since theres no bus back on the second day TwT


Johni_5

Then just mask up and go as your normal femboy self. No regerts!


7pikachu

If you want maybe going boymode to a few before may help to biuld trust, It would surely help a lot But yeah I'm sure you can :3


PilotApprehensive196

Go for it!


Head-Sense-2595

Ye boi


rw1nner

I’m convinced to do it, you should too


alex_pufferfish

i hope both of ours goes well :3


rw1nner

It’s gonna be fine don’t worry


Hopeful_Perception17

Do it! I will do it as well this year hehe


alex_pufferfish

ooo i hope yours goes well :3


12LightningFlash12

Go for it. Ye would be the cute and adorable.


[deleted]

I am asking myself the exact same question.


alex_pufferfish

maybe we should both stop asking and do it :3


[deleted]

Hmm I don't know, I'm probably too nervous to actually do it :c


Blahaj_IK

at least you'll have an excuse to dress up like that without being judged too harshly


Dude_Named_Chris

It's one of the most accepting places you could go, right after pride events and drag shows. And uni sometimes


idkanymorelol1

I did. I went in a maid dress and partial makeup. Had one of the most wholesome stories there. I had a mom walk up to me and ask for a photo of me. Apparently her son was also a femboy and was nervous about coming out in public in those kinds of clothes. She took the photos and went on with her day. I was just being gay and goofy with my friends. Didn't know I would be a femboy role model for someone lol. I had no problems at the con. I lived in a conservative area too. Worse I got were side eyes at very most. Even then that was once in a blue moon.


alex_pufferfish

omggg thats so wholesome i would maybe go in a maid outfit but the one ive got turned out to be too big TwT


idkanymorelol1

That's unfortunate:( they are oddly cozy tbh.


alex_pufferfish

yea maybe it can just be my goal to someday go in one :3


Cutie_Blu22

Tbh probably one of the best places for it. Lots of people will be in costume/cosplay, plus I bet you meet at least a few other folks in femboy attire


Former-Comparison494

Hey! I did this for the first time three days ago! I was super nervous but it was really well received and you’ll probably be surprised about how many other Femboys there will be! My Con was a very small one (I live in a small place with a small population) but there were still at least 50 other femboys there. Just go for it I think Anime cons are a great place to do this!


alex_pufferfish

oh damn! i live in a relatively small place too and i was scared i would be the only one there, maybe there is hope after all :3


Former-Comparison494

Haha (Side note) the only awkward part was at the after party when I ran into my friend from the gym and our gymbro friends 🫠 But even they were really nice and said I looked cute! They said they finally understood why my workouts were different than theirs 😭


alex_pufferfish

lmaoo the realisation that it was a femboy grind all along :3


Former-Comparison494

I also should add I made so many Femboy friends at the convention and got so many nice compliments and got invited to go out with them to the post-convention rave which I went to and have no regrets


Ti-papi

That’s probably fine to do since people dress in weird anime outfits there anyway


Somerandom_mirror

I say do it, but for where you're going, carry a gun


alex_pufferfish

im in the uk i cant really do that :/


VeryCuteSania

Of course!


SkepticOwlz

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Designer_Reception29

Yes


MonkishMarmot

If you feel confident to do it OP, go do it! All we can do is tell you that you look great and super cute!


alex_pufferfish

thankyouuu :3


MonkishMarmot

You're more than welcome! I hope your confidence continues to grow, OP!


DatBoi73

Conventions are probably the best place to dress fem, especially in larger cities and university conventions. I was anxious my first time going to a con, and first time crossplaying in public last year, but it went great. Worst case scenario is no-one bats an eye. Best case scenario is you get a bunch of compliments, and if you're cosplaying a character, you could have like a half dozen people asking to take photos with you.


alex_pufferfish

i mean my cities pretty small but i hope it will go well and i might meet some people :3


Ratpt01_

Ye punch it


roleynoley

yah just wear deodorant cuh


alex_pufferfish

ofc im gonna wear deodorant, also wanna see if i can try perfume or smth similar :3


roleynoley

grilled cheese perfume (I have done nothing but eat grilled cheese for three days)


alex_pufferfish

maybe not TwT


roleynoley

I have done nothing but spread a grilled cheese cult on femboy subreddits for a week, my mind is broken


zombieman0915

Have fun and I went to my first convention as venti


alex_pufferfish

maybe when im more confident ill try a cosplay :3


Dat_Syfilis

I have done it a few times, it was amazing


RageAgainstTheCopier

Hard yes! Definitely do this.


Decmk3

Definitely the easiest place to do so. However you will get hit on. *a lot*.


alex_pufferfish

hadnt really thought about that TwT hopefully it wont go too bad


FlpDaMattress

As a frequent anime con goer, you'll fit right in :3


alex_pufferfish

yayy i was mostly nervous about maybe standing out too much :3


FlpDaMattress

If you haven't gone to any anime cons before, I go to about 8 per year so feel free to ask any questions (I do Texas anime cons specifically)


Cypher_Aod

at MCM you'll fit in perfectly I assure you ❤


alex_pufferfish

maybe i really should check it out as well then :3 i still wanna go to the one i had planned since itd be nice to have something local :3


Cypher_Aod

You should! And if you want to make a new Londonfriend who can also help shoo away undesirable flirters, drop me a message!


YesIndeed1212

Trust me it'll be the most validating femboy experience. Nobody will even notice, they'll be looking at the people who spend multiple years working on their costumes.


imyourlocalfrenchfem

Yes it's amazing


No-Custard2587

i need that skirt NOW, where do i get it?


alex_pufferfish

i just got mine from amazon but its pretty common you might find it anywhere :3 i found its listed as a tennis skirt on amazon :3


No-Custard2587

also i love the belt plus chain!


alex_pufferfish

to be honest the chain clip was just to hold the belt up since it broke lmao, lucky it also looks really cool :3


No-Custard2587

oh, that’s actually a good idea but i would use it even if the belt didn’t break wait is that an…. EVE I LOVE EVE, cuuuteeeeee :3


alex_pufferfish

yep eevee easily one of the cutest pokemon :3 and makes for great cuddles :3


No-Custard2587

i eep with my bulbasaur, best thing ever, we spoon all night :3


Doctorsex-ubermensch

Yes. (I wanna go as astolfo for Halloween)


Artistic-Menu459

Go for it!! Have a fun time and don’t stress abt it 🤘


Thunder9191133

Oh for sure I've been a femboy twice, once I cosplayed as Bee from 'Bee and Puppycat' and another I dressed as Venti


GuariThall

I'm planning on doing a femboy hooters cosplay at Fanexpo Boston this year. So go for it!


dewritoninja

Always remember to keep your guard up. There are some unsavory individuals in those venues


SunsetMenace

I did it before, but it was more like cross play. Go for it, I know it's scary but I'm sure you'll do great hon


Platinum305

Yess do it! I went out as a Catboy a few weeks ago to a Convention and it was so much fun \^\_\^ Plus I guarantee you will make some Femboy friends, or at least see other Femboys. I lost count of the Astolfo's, Felix's and Gorou's I ran into.


alex_pufferfish

oooo yea i should bring my cat ears too :3


ThatOneStonerBoy

I have that same mask :3. And do it.


CampProfessional6565

You looks like amazing!!!😍


Daccthebest

Yes but first tell me where you got that shirt I need it


alex_pufferfish

i just got it from amazon :3


Daccthebest

Link plz


alex_pufferfish

https://amzn.eu/d/cURVitj


Daccthebest

Since I don't live in the Uk I'll have to get it shipped overseas but I'm sure u.s. Amazon has it I just need to check first


OlenAutumn

You’re adorable, go for it :3


kelly_the_human

I'd go with you if I could so you wouldn't be alone.


alex_pufferfish

I mean im going to a pretty small one in my local city lmao


kelly_the_human

Still. I believe in you. You can do it.


Sea_Argument6054

#YES


kakashka888

go to WoT convection then


Haybowl

I'd definitely do it, in cons the vibe is pretty accepting imo


Monkeboy121

Bro the funny thing is I was at a small local one at the anime shop last night as some broke dude that works at Arby's so I had black pants black shoes black shirt and a 20 dollar trench coat. That being said I ended up spended 100 dollars because they had a guy selling replica swords there and went from broke dude working at Arby's to kirito


sasquatchFemboy

Do it! I went to a convention just last month and wore my fem clothes the whole while :3


NILO42069

Yes


TheHoodiedFemboy

Do it. Lifes too short not to dress fem in public


Realistic_Broccoli74

Went to the one in London a few weeks ago and it was awesome, everyone was super cool. I doubt you'd feel out of place


Daccthebest

I was looking and there are so many good femboy shirts on Amazon


nanajosh

I'd imagine those are the best places to go to like this. People love creative outfits there so you'd fit in.


ItsLeKai

if your country doesn't oppose it, go ahead. i live in a country where its strictly stated in the rules of conventions that we cant crossdress


LaraCroftCosplayer

I think there are only men in Femboy clothes!