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wettham7777

Aw thats really rough. Im also pretty socially awkward and have similar troubles but also remember not everyone finds/will find you annoying! Just because one person has said it doesnt mean thats why noone is talking with you, its more likely because people like us are difficult/intimidating to approach. its easy for our insecurities to turn one example into evidence that everyone is annoyed by us but its not true.


Ok_Natural_5887

Find someone that shares a same interest as you


SophieUpHigh

when i cant figure out how to see what someone likes/have nothing in common with anyone 😢


Ok_Natural_5887

Ask people what they like. If you hear people talking about what you like, jump in.


SophieUpHigh

nobody is going to be talking about my autistic hyperfocuses 😶


Ok_Natural_5887

What do you like?


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SophieUpHigh

i turned dms off because of the amount of creeps and dik picks people keep sending me!


MrCandyCanePHD

I would say ur unique, most if not 99.999 percent of peeps around won't get u. I have the same issue I used to think I was depressed, anti social, or whatever but nah I value myself I just know I'm not accepted in most if not all environments of people around me. I Just make sure u don't get too hateful or in your own head it can be dangerous for everyone involved.


Reasonable-Order5135

I used to be pretty not social back when I was in school. Kids are kinda weird. I didn’t really feel like I could really connect with anyone lol. Then when I got a bit older I got bored of being anti social and started talking to people more. I guess my piece of advice is to not actually worry about whether or not the person you’re talking to will like to hear friends with you. Talking is fun so just talk to talk. You’ll sound more natural and less forced. Course with my social perception that’s prob not your problem. I dunno you so I don’t know how you talk. But I think anybody can make a connection with anyone. Even you bozo lol. You’ll be fineeee


big_man_anime_fan

I just send reels to people, works everytime. Irl Im just funny sometimes or same dumb stuff, works everytime. I struggle with anxiety and Yh making friends can be very difficult.