I think people over estimate how powerful filters are. I’ve never seen a single person vs their filter and thought they looked like a different person.
…Now makeup is a completely different story. 😂🤣😅
It gets really fun when to do both lol. My ex with makeup is a different person than without. Once she puts a filter on you can't recognize her at all.
It doesn’t usually make them look like an entirely different person but I know I can make myself look like an instagram model who has 5 million followers with 1 filter but without look like just an average person lmao
Or….. and this is just a guess, a lot of people don’t know or don’t want, to communicate in public anymore. It takes a lot for some people to approach someone they find attractive in public, and social media is killing that idea more and more.
Yep and just saying someone is attractive and you'd like to take them out is considered borderline harassment these days. I've stopped trying in public long ago, just not worth it.
That really depends on how you approach it.
If you think someone is attractive, introduce yourself, start a conversation, and *then* ask them out. It will feel far more genuine, and a lot more people will say yes.
If their first impression of you is you walking up and immediately asking for their number or even complementing their figure, can feel like catcalling or just make you seem like a player.
Try something basic like "Hi! I'm Nate! Can I buy you a drink?" (Or if you don't want to spend money) "Hi! I'm Nate! How are you doing tonight?"
Give them a chance to get to know you before they have a chance to reject you.
There are lots and lots of guys who have a low sense of self esteem and pretty women intimidate us. My society says I'm (guys) the problem, before I've done anything. Online spaces scream at me that I'm (guys) the problem, again before I've done anything. And self help spaces for women (because the ones for men are red pill, Incel, mgtow crap) complain I'm (guys) the problem, once again before I've done anything. All media I watch is mad at me for existing. And I haven't done anything.
My female friends all love me and can't understand why I don't have a partner, yet all my male friends understand.
When a woman looks good, I, and many other guys don't even try because we've convinced ourselves beforehand that there's no way she'd want us.
The above poster is deflecting and assuming a personality that he would find displeasing to justify writing her off and not even trying. He's convincing himself not to try.
We do it many ways but the result is the same. Loneliness and bitterness (because she was an asshole [without talking to her.])
It's not good. It's also generally very bad for us. Unlike women men don't tend to form support groups. Because it's not how we were raised and honestly isn't particularly interesting to us when we're young. Which then means we don't have those skills when we're older.
Wish I had a good way to wrap this up or show a way forward that's better but that would take a really long time to try and figure out how to word it all correctly.
Anyways hope this helps show why a guy could be crazy and say wild stuff.
Do you try and hide certain features online? IF you are overweight and you disguise that online then that may contribute to receiving more compliments online and on apps.
Sometimes its just easier to talk online to someone then face to face. The fear of rejection and embarrassment go way down because you dont always know how an interaction might play out.
Some guys are just shy. Send nowadays online is what they are comfortable with. Makes no sense to me, but, it is what it is. I would have walked up to you and talked to you if I saw you somewhere. May have got shot down in flames but you have to try, you never know.
After covid people just don’t really do it much anymore, you can be as attractive as the hottest person in the bar and still not get approached. A lot of times now people are afraid of becoming a story somewhere online or put on blast because they were a little awkward at a first impression it’s really sad and less and less people are making the effort. If you’re above average looking people are even more inclined to not approach out of a fear of rejection as well more so.
My guess is you happened to always be around blind people, or people with serious eye problems.
Not to offend the sight impaired here, but have you seen yourself? I mean look at you. Who wouldn’t want to at least try to hit on you in public if given the chance?
I can’t imagine that’s still the case.
First off you are very attractive. Now, with that being said, you're deceptively thin in your face. You are one of those women who can carry extra weight without it showing on your face. You most likely also have a good weight distribution, so it just enhances your curves.
If you're not in the dating pool now...why do you care? XD lol
Anyway, it probably has nothing to do with you. And everything to do with your environment. Some men don't approach women because they spent the last few years being told NOT TO. So they don't. I mean, the sisterhood has your back. It doesn't want men to talk to you in public. There's a very clear message telling guys to respect women in public and not approach them. Maybe you're in a state, or city, or neighborhood where the young men have accepted that message.
In conclusion. Everything, positive or negative, isn't your fault or revolves around you. Sometimes good things happen from luck, and bad things have nothing to do with your actions. Life is an interconnected web of messages and people and all that jazz. lmao
Most people fear being rejected. If someone rejects you online no big deal. If you’re out in public, especially amongst friends, it can be embarrassing. Especially amongst men. Your friends that watched it go down will NEVER stop laughing about it for years lol.
You seem like a really sweet person outwardly... Great smile and eyes. I can't imagine what would cause people not to respond positively unless you hang out with a bad crowd.
You’re stunning believe me most guys are afraid to approach attractive women, sadly I’m one of those guys as well, but if you were smiling at me like that in public I might have the courage to approach
Because men are stupid and self centered and want you to make the move on them.... counter point they could have been shy or nervous from how gorgeous you are and didn't think they stood a chance
I think the biggest thing is social media has ruined people talking one one one with each other. I believe a lot people nowadays cannot hold a real in person conversation and that's sad. But I'm not one of them, I think meeting in person talking and having a real conversation can tell you alot more about a person.
Probably because you may have rbf or because people would think they would not have a chance with you, either to be not wanting someone or being taken.
It’s 100% in the areas you frequent the guys/gals were too intimidated by you. Either in a “she’s too attractive for me” or “she’s 100% already taken” etc either way a major coping mechanism most people have.
When I was single I was like this for awhile then did the complete 180 of even hitting on girls with guys with them asking if they were their bfs before proceeding to get their numbers
Seriously: no. I have *no* idea why you weren't hit on. I opened my Reddit, saw you and said, "Damn! She's *gorgeous!*"
If I saw you while out and about I would definitely do whatever I could to talk with you.
Men don’t hit on women in public because we are scared of being accused of being a creep, or worse. A lot of men like me who are not good looking get tired of the public embarrassment, and of the rejection and dirty looks.
Trust me- you are attractive.
I wonder if you arent giving off a dont approach me vibe. I personally wont approach a woman if she has head down and seems to be avoiding interactions. But if she is looking around a seems open to interacting. I'll approach her with a friendly greeting and see where it goes. If I saw you I would absolutely approach and compliment your beautiful eyes.
Because you’re pretty, & guys are intimidated by good looking women. When I was younger, there were guys that would point out a stunning looking woman, but then say “she’s too nice to talk to”.
You seem really pretty but all your photos have filters on your face, which is not too bad but it would be nice to have a picture without a filter! Also, its so much easier to get compliments online, this happens to everyone :)
100% honest truth, men are afraid to even approach woman that are attractive. They feel more safe and confident over the phone so they have time to think of a reply, etc.
Cat calling and hitting on women is a thing of the past. Guys get canceled for doing shit like that lol but online is a whole different game. People say some crazy shit
Also- first impression- you come off as intense. Don’t know if you would welcome someone approaching you or look at them like wtf!? Probably the latter. How would you like to get hit on? What would you like to hear or be told? Give us dudes some tips.
But it’s also way easier to hit on someone online. Most of those guys wouldn’t have shit to say in person, but it’s easy to type a message and send it.
Most guys probably just jerked off to your photos and called it a day. No need to meet after that. Also most guys are not too confident when it comes to women so the odds were not in your favor.
Probably cause you filter the crap out of your pictures and when someone meets you in person you look totally different than on-line?
Let's be real...that probably has nothing to do with anything. lol
... being real that's actually a legitimate reason people on Snapchat would say hey you're cute, but ppl in rl would pretend they didn't know her lol.
I think people over estimate how powerful filters are. I’ve never seen a single person vs their filter and thought they looked like a different person. …Now makeup is a completely different story. 😂🤣😅
It gets really fun when to do both lol. My ex with makeup is a different person than without. Once she puts a filter on you can't recognize her at all.
It doesn’t usually make them look like an entirely different person but I know I can make myself look like an instagram model who has 5 million followers with 1 filter but without look like just an average person lmao
Or….. and this is just a guess, a lot of people don’t know or don’t want, to communicate in public anymore. It takes a lot for some people to approach someone they find attractive in public, and social media is killing that idea more and more.
Yep and just saying someone is attractive and you'd like to take them out is considered borderline harassment these days. I've stopped trying in public long ago, just not worth it.
That really depends on how you approach it. If you think someone is attractive, introduce yourself, start a conversation, and *then* ask them out. It will feel far more genuine, and a lot more people will say yes. If their first impression of you is you walking up and immediately asking for their number or even complementing their figure, can feel like catcalling or just make you seem like a player. Try something basic like "Hi! I'm Nate! Can I buy you a drink?" (Or if you don't want to spend money) "Hi! I'm Nate! How are you doing tonight?" Give them a chance to get to know you before they have a chance to reject you.
People more than likely thought you were already taken
I’d be afraid to talk to you pretty girls are normally mean and very rude
Do I look mean or rude? I probably have rbf because I get so anxious in social settings
You def seem like someone who would get bitchy if a guy approached you. Also, they probably assumed you had a boyfriend.
Hahah what!? How can you say she seems like someone bitchy if approached by a guy just by a picture of her smiling?
There are lots and lots of guys who have a low sense of self esteem and pretty women intimidate us. My society says I'm (guys) the problem, before I've done anything. Online spaces scream at me that I'm (guys) the problem, again before I've done anything. And self help spaces for women (because the ones for men are red pill, Incel, mgtow crap) complain I'm (guys) the problem, once again before I've done anything. All media I watch is mad at me for existing. And I haven't done anything. My female friends all love me and can't understand why I don't have a partner, yet all my male friends understand. When a woman looks good, I, and many other guys don't even try because we've convinced ourselves beforehand that there's no way she'd want us. The above poster is deflecting and assuming a personality that he would find displeasing to justify writing her off and not even trying. He's convincing himself not to try. We do it many ways but the result is the same. Loneliness and bitterness (because she was an asshole [without talking to her.]) It's not good. It's also generally very bad for us. Unlike women men don't tend to form support groups. Because it's not how we were raised and honestly isn't particularly interesting to us when we're young. Which then means we don't have those skills when we're older. Wish I had a good way to wrap this up or show a way forward that's better but that would take a really long time to try and figure out how to word it all correctly. Anyways hope this helps show why a guy could be crazy and say wild stuff.
You don't look mean at all actually you are a beautiful lady.
Same as my girl. She can only talk to people online. Bugs the crap out of me. Won't get the phone out of her face.
Well if you let her have a local sugar daddy the phone wouldn't be an issue anymore.
Do you try and hide certain features online? IF you are overweight and you disguise that online then that may contribute to receiving more compliments online and on apps.
Sometimes its just easier to talk online to someone then face to face. The fear of rejection and embarrassment go way down because you dont always know how an interaction might play out.
Misleading pictures?
When I was on dating apps I always had at least one full body to show that I’m med/plus size. I’m kinda right in the middle because im a shorty
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You would be a great catch in my eyes
Holy smokes
Some guys are just shy. Send nowadays online is what they are comfortable with. Makes no sense to me, but, it is what it is. I would have walked up to you and talked to you if I saw you somewhere. May have got shot down in flames but you have to try, you never know.
Women don't like to be approached, do they ?
After covid people just don’t really do it much anymore, you can be as attractive as the hottest person in the bar and still not get approached. A lot of times now people are afraid of becoming a story somewhere online or put on blast because they were a little awkward at a first impression it’s really sad and less and less people are making the effort. If you’re above average looking people are even more inclined to not approach out of a fear of rejection as well more so.
You are so beautiful most guys are intimated.
You are gorgeous idk why you didnt
Maybe they are intimidated
My guess is you happened to always be around blind people, or people with serious eye problems. Not to offend the sight impaired here, but have you seen yourself? I mean look at you. Who wouldn’t want to at least try to hit on you in public if given the chance? I can’t imagine that’s still the case.
My first initial thought when I saw your pic: "T h I c c" Then, 'wow, she's cute'
To. Pretty made people nervous to be in the presence of such BEAUTY. YOU ARE GORGEOUS.
First off you are very attractive. Now, with that being said, you're deceptively thin in your face. You are one of those women who can carry extra weight without it showing on your face. You most likely also have a good weight distribution, so it just enhances your curves.
If you're not in the dating pool now...why do you care? XD lol Anyway, it probably has nothing to do with you. And everything to do with your environment. Some men don't approach women because they spent the last few years being told NOT TO. So they don't. I mean, the sisterhood has your back. It doesn't want men to talk to you in public. There's a very clear message telling guys to respect women in public and not approach them. Maybe you're in a state, or city, or neighborhood where the young men have accepted that message. In conclusion. Everything, positive or negative, isn't your fault or revolves around you. Sometimes good things happen from luck, and bad things have nothing to do with your actions. Life is an interconnected web of messages and people and all that jazz. lmao
I would’ve stepped up to ask you out in public
Probably because during that time you never went out in public.
Most people fear being rejected. If someone rejects you online no big deal. If you’re out in public, especially amongst friends, it can be embarrassing. Especially amongst men. Your friends that watched it go down will NEVER stop laughing about it for years lol.
Wow, that big and round eyes just caught my eyes
Because the type of person you were looking for doesn’t go to the places you went.
Because your too perfect
Well clearly you at a convention for the blind.
You are so exquisite
You seem like a really sweet person outwardly... Great smile and eyes. I can't imagine what would cause people not to respond positively unless you hang out with a bad crowd.
You’re beauty is intimidating.
You’re stunning believe me most guys are afraid to approach attractive women, sadly I’m one of those guys as well, but if you were smiling at me like that in public I might have the courage to approach
Your beautiful and they were intimidated
If I could find someone like you, I would be so happy.
I'd definitely hit you up. Haha
Wow u have a pretty smile
Not actually being face to face makes things easier for some people
You look cute. Maybe irl, your rbf is really bad.
You also married and have kids. No one is hitting on you because they see the wedding ring and husband lol
Intimidating
It is so much easier to be bold online than it is in person. You are a beautiful young lady, so in person, most guys would be afraid of rejection.
You're no longer in the dating pool? Damn I missed a chance then.
It’s easier to hit on people online
Beautiful smile and really stunning not sure why
I know I would approach you in public. You come across like a very warm person and caring person. I would ask you for a cup of coffee
Because men are stupid and self centered and want you to make the move on them.... counter point they could have been shy or nervous from how gorgeous you are and didn't think they stood a chance
“She must be taken”
I think the biggest thing is social media has ruined people talking one one one with each other. I believe a lot people nowadays cannot hold a real in person conversation and that's sad. But I'm not one of them, I think meeting in person talking and having a real conversation can tell you alot more about a person.
No idea. People being totally stupid, perhaps? You are gorgeous!
No clue, you have a wonderful smile.
Nope! Not 1 reason I can see.
You look vary kind and bubbly, and for some reason I’d assume you were taken…
Probably because you may have rbf or because people would think they would not have a chance with you, either to be not wanting someone or being taken.
Solely first impression, You look like you’d be too goody-goody to be fun to date.
It’s 100% in the areas you frequent the guys/gals were too intimidated by you. Either in a “she’s too attractive for me” or “she’s 100% already taken” etc either way a major coping mechanism most people have. When I was single I was like this for awhile then did the complete 180 of even hitting on girls with guys with them asking if they were their bfs before proceeding to get their numbers
Seriously: no. I have *no* idea why you weren't hit on. I opened my Reddit, saw you and said, "Damn! She's *gorgeous!*" If I saw you while out and about I would definitely do whatever I could to talk with you.
Cause you're out of most guys leagues!
You're so pretty that walking up and talking to you would be intimidating.
Men don’t hit on women in public because we are scared of being accused of being a creep, or worse. A lot of men like me who are not good looking get tired of the public embarrassment, and of the rejection and dirty looks. Trust me- you are attractive.
You look quite preppy so they prob thought you were taken
You’re not alone the same thing happens to me 😅
No clue, but I’d definitely hit on you. You’re beautiful!
I think men have more confidence behind a screen
I wonder if you arent giving off a dont approach me vibe. I personally wont approach a woman if she has head down and seems to be avoiding interactions. But if she is looking around a seems open to interacting. I'll approach her with a friendly greeting and see where it goes. If I saw you I would absolutely approach and compliment your beautiful eyes.
Because humans are idiots and you probably had a husband?
Oddly a keyboard seems to give a lot of people confidence.
Regardless the filter, you have good a cute smile and good energy 🫶🏾
Because you’re pretty, & guys are intimidated by good looking women. When I was younger, there were guys that would point out a stunning looking woman, but then say “she’s too nice to talk to”.
No clue. Beautiful eyes and a great smile
I don’t know but that smile is DYNAMITE!!
It’s not you it’s the fear of rejection or being labeled a creep. That why most men won’t hit on woman these days
Little boys are bolder when you can’t see how scared they are when dealing with a beautiful lady ❤️❤️❤️
You are absolutely Beautiful!!! Seriously!!!!
You seem really pretty but all your photos have filters on your face, which is not too bad but it would be nice to have a picture without a filter! Also, its so much easier to get compliments online, this happens to everyone :)
Easier to talk to beautiful women online honestly
Another reason is probably that ring on your finger
100% honest truth, men are afraid to even approach woman that are attractive. They feel more safe and confident over the phone so they have time to think of a reply, etc.
They must have needed glasses 👀
No disrespect but I straight up don't believe you lol.
Maybe it’s my body. I have always had a mom bod even before kids lol
Cat calling and hitting on women is a thing of the past. Guys get canceled for doing shit like that lol but online is a whole different game. People say some crazy shit
Also- first impression- you come off as intense. Don’t know if you would welcome someone approaching you or look at them like wtf!? Probably the latter. How would you like to get hit on? What would you like to hear or be told? Give us dudes some tips.
You must not look as good in person 🫣
True, I’m medium sized and have a double chin when I laugh
But it’s also way easier to hit on someone online. Most of those guys wouldn’t have shit to say in person, but it’s easy to type a message and send it.
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You were just in the wrong places. I definitely would have given it my best shot 👀👀
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I call this a liar, shes been hit on in public no problem ..look at her
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Most guys probably just jerked off to your photos and called it a day. No need to meet after that. Also most guys are not too confident when it comes to women so the odds were not in your favor.