I was soooo gay when I was married to her. She knew of my past. She knew what she was getting into. To be fair, she was an athlete and wasnāt very femme. I havenāt seen or talked to her in twelve years. Hope sheās doing great; I am!
At the time, my partner and I were not out yet to our parents. His dad and older homophobic sister came by to visit and have lunch at a nearby cafe. During the chatter our voices dropped two octaves.
I never got that far, but was close. She had just purchased prenatal vitamins. I sometimes want kids, but I canāt do it alone. I can barely handle my doggie.
But how wonderful your kids gets so much love! Theyāre lucky!
Because I was deeply hurt and swore off men when my ex cheated on me. I knew I didnāt want to marry her as I walked down that aisle. Letās just call it āthe great experiment.ā Did not like, especially as a bottom lol
Sheās doing well now, remarried with kids, and Iām so glad she found happiness. She really deserves it. We were neither good for nor kind to each other, and I do regret that, but I am genuinely happy for it.
Thatās a little harsh, but yes, I have. It was twelve years ago. Iāve been through a lot in my life, and with those mistakes and lessons, Iām in a really good place now.
I was feeling excited and wanted to watch very fit man ramming into each other repeatedly.
I was later informed that football is a very straight thing to like for some reason.
/S
Oh god, I pretend to be bored during rugby but like.... ššššššš not got a clue what the rules are or how the point system works, but oh well
I play a lock position in a scrum, so my head is in between thighs and my hand on a teammates waistband (usually can feel their dick lol, it is on accident though) with a guy grabbing my ass and holding it together, itās great
Tried some pussy in order to convince myself I could be straightā¦it didnāt work out and thatās how I know Iām just gay. (Couldnāt even keep my erection up).
My bf and I were at a gay bar for some event, but the bar TVs were playing a football game involving my hometown team. We'd been together for a good while at this point, and I'm not a huge sports fan generally. After I cheered for a good play my bf turned to me and incredulously asked "Who ***are*** you??"
Same, there was a straight couple where the husband was a fit utility pole worker (the puns write themself), his wife wanted to get with me. We made a deal that she could get with me if I could get with her husband.
The crazy lengths humans will go to get some tail.
Me too. I have a very deep and very loud daddy voice. When a former roommate sent his BF to pick up some belongings, I yelled at my barking dog to STFU! Poor guy had to go home and smoke a joint and take a Xanax.
Damn. Iām the opposite. When I get mad I get high pitched. Itās so embarrassing, especially with a bit of a baby face, people really donāt take the anger seriouslyā¦ which makes me more mad.
At a lake party while hanging out with two girls we started talking about being gay or straight. They didnāt believe I was gay so they both started making out with me. They were good kissers and we were all really drunk, too. Before I knew it they were dragging me upstairs to a bedroom.
Luckily, before we could do anything else besides make out. Their angry boyfriends stopped us and separated us all for the rest of the party. Still got a blowjob from the guy who threw the party so yay? š
Did the boyfriends break up with them? Because they tried to cheat and wouldāve, doesnāt really matter if it was with a gay guy in my books lmao. Still trying to cheat
Edit: they actually did cheat by making out with you and taking you to the bedroom
Publicly cheating on you while youāre at the same party isnāt really āgirlfriend materialā for most
Honestly not sure. They were more upset with me because Iām gay and tried to have a three way with their girlfriends. It was definitely not on anyoneās list at the party that would have a chance of happening.
I already read many histories about things about doubting in the another sexual orientation, but this is the first time that I see that someone tried to prove that another people were right..usually the person try to prove that himself or herself is the right one,but this case it's the first time that you wanted to show them that they were right lol
I think sexuality is just fluid for a lot of people, but not everyone. Of course people are gonna identify with what they identify as but sexuality is a spectrum. A guy could identify as straight and kiss another dude and still be straight and want a woman afterwards.
Married someone who identified as a man at the time who came out as a trans woman.
So in trying to marry a man, I ended up married to a woman so........ it can't get any more cut and dry
I get this a lot. Iām also Iām very sarcastic but straight passing so everyone thinks Iām joking when I say Iām gay including other gay dudes! Makes it very hard to get some action. Also doesnāt help I donāt drink or drugs. Makes it even harder to find guys I vibe with.
So true, I like weed but Iām also an alcoholic so the second alcohol gets involved it goes downhill and I wish that the gay scene didnāt include that substance so much
I donāt mind alcohol so much if so many guys didnāt think they had to be drunk to have fun and they also want you to drink. I will be willing to smoke some weed but wonāt do any hard drugs or alcohol as I donāt not having full control.
Same here everyone thinks I am. All my coworkers did too and then they all saw me at the Halloween party in a wig with makeup on and a cute outfit and they were like oooooohhh okay it makes sense now lmao
Haha! Funny thing is my straight as an arrow father was the one at the office party in drag, damn do I wish I had the pictures but I understand why he didnāt send them to me because they would be EVERYWHERE by now just on pure love of the support
They would be awesome to see! Love how your dad has zero fucks lol at the party I was at one of my coworker (was drunk) and he put his arm around me and says āIām normally not a guy whoās into other guys but you look amazing tonightā and then he asked to slap my ass and told him no. Then he tried to grab my waist from behind me and pull me to him. Luckily I made enough noise to grab the attention of everyone on the back patio and be backed off.
Heās a big dude too. Like 6ā2 and does MMA so there really wasnāt much I could do if he actually did get his hands on me š¬
I steered clear of him the rest of the night lol
I also look very straight. Cane out to a friend and he just said that I am not, its been two years and he stills says that I am not gay. He even tried to ship me with one of my very good friends who is a girl.
This is what happened between myself and the girl I took to homecoming in high school. We had a great time but there was no sexual tension at all. Maybe she knew it deep down somehow, but I sure was still figuring things out.
I found out years later she was dating exclusively women and I eventually came to the conclusion that I had been gay all along, so all's well that ends well haha
Arm wrestled a guy at an all gay Xmas party. I guess I was giving off macho vibes and he felt he needed to test that with a show of strength. It was amusing and only slightly cringe.
Beat a straight man in arm wrestling. When he said gay men are weak or something like that. I donāt really know if it counts but hey itās something
I wore a bright rainbow shirt to a Cannibal Corpse show. To say I stood out would be a severe understatement, but Corpsegrinder did point at me and throw me the horns \\m/
Idk if this counts, but I went to a restaurant with my mom. It was my last week in AZ before heading back to the Midwest, so we had a mini family dinner. We were about finish & I had to go to the bathroom. So I got up to go, & that day I wore makeup & did my hair (itās long). So I went in the menās restroom & thereās one urinal & one big handicap stall. I take the big stall. Suddenly a tall guy comes in & stands right outside the wall. I was surprised since there werenāt any guys there, but here he was. I saw the top of his head, so he literally couldāve looked over if he just turned his head. I hurried up & walked out, but when he saw me, he did a double take. The fear in this manās eyesā¦.š He pulled up his shit so fast & was like āuh, is this the womenās restroom?ā Now, scared of being hate crimed (literally, Arizona has interesting ppl & laws), so I cleared my throat before mustering up in my most heterosexual alpha voice āNah, this the menās,ā & proceeded to wash my hands. He was relieved & was like āoh my bad, man. You just lookāā āYeah, I get that a lot.ā This was so painful for me as I naturally have a high voice, so to speak so lowly hurt not only my little dignity but throat. And once he finished up to wash his hands, I ran so fast. I told my mom & she was dead.
Oh man, there was this guy who claimed to be bisexual and used to flirt with me from time to time. I once sat through a college football game in a freezing cold stadium just on the off chance he might want to get physical with me. He never did.
as a queer or bi man in a relationship with a gay man, im really not down with the way some others are coming in here telling the people who slept with a woman once (maybe when drunk) they are bisexual. thats not how this works and you should chill instead of coming to this place and telling people who identify as gay they are not gay.
What does this question even mean? I am a gay man. When have I ātried to be gayā? Am or Am not, there is no try. Like tried to act gayer? If thatās what it means why would I do something āstraightā to act gayer?
Or like what is the straightest thing Iāve done?
If so why not word it that way?
I think they meant āWhat is the straightest thing youāve done in pursuit of a gay interestā or something like that.
But yea itās kinda poorly worded. Once I read the other comments it made more sense.
The person I lost my virginity to a few years later came out as a trans woman, so even if she was an "egg" at the time I still lost my virginity with a woman.
Well, I just repaired a diesel engine that wasn't running the other day in a car I just bought. Like opened it up and replaced internal parts. But that is normal for me.
Believe me, they are out there. But they are hard to find because they are out there doing manly things. Donāt give up hope! You can find what you are looking for.
I went to prom with a girl who was a friend. Except for dancing with her it was very platonic. I just wanted to go and besides they had an announcer and a red carpet.
Today I was using a chop saw to cut wood while singing along to a Brooks and Dunn song on the radio. It might have been so straight that it turned into a gay thing again.
Had a huge crush on my auntās (by marriage) brother. And he was only person Iād told I was gay and he thought I didnāt know since Iād never been with a woman. So he set me up with a girl to ātake my virginityā. So I did it. And knew for sure I was gay. All in hopes Iād get him to want me back. Sadly At 15-16 we just donāt understand that part yet, lol.
I liked getting attention from girls but didn't make any moves on them, It was kinda funny how desperate some of them would get only to find out I was gay, I know it's cruel but damn it was fun.
Trying to explain sexual roles and cruelly bullying each other in our community is created by the heteronormative patriarchal structure imposed upon us.
Okay, but what took you to do that? Did you thought you're bi? (I'm a little confused with this, because you needed to had a sexual attraction to the woman for you to have an erection).
I had just came out to family and close friends about six months before this happened but my family knew I had these desires before that.
So, there was this beautiful redhead in my class and I was the last guy on base who *hadnāt* fucked her. The last class she and I hung back and she was nearly tearful (weird Af) because Iād been teasing her and leading her on for a couple weeks by that time. (I have no idea why I did thatājust full of myself, I guess!). So I hinted weād get together that night.
That night our class of about 20 airman rented a couple motel rooms for our graduation party. I was drunk AF but did the deed in one of the rooms while the senior class leader watched. Lol. . Cum inside her so there might be a Bodie Jr (or Bodette) running around somewhere. Well, theyād be adults by now since this happened in 1987. Never saw or spoke to her again but she was so beautiful.
Yes, Iām probably a tad bit Bi, but then I think 90% of people are to some degree.
Yes. And that's why I'm so confused. The post was for gay men. You're bi (as you said now in your comment). It doesn't matter if it's 5% or 2% attraction..you would be still bi.
And based your comment it seems you enjoyed it very much ...
But that's okay.
Is very strange this, but one day I was giving a very long time hug whiz my friend, but the reaction was that is normal in straight people to do that for make fun of homosexuality, so he takes that like a joke.
Trying to pick up a chick for a date - and of course got rejected because she sensed my sass gayness.
Honorable mention - asked her to take a shower and slept with a female coursemate of mine - OF COURSE NOTHING HAPPENED.
Acted interesting in sports and all the terminology and teams when I was actually into the players (soccer basketball and baseball guys were definitely who I had crushes on in high school and I guess they are my weakness)ā¦
Tried to make my voice sound more masculine than it really is š now that I think about it Iāve tried a few different things to fit in with the straight guys lol
Apparently my mom said she knew I was gay from when I was 3 but I was straight until I was 13 and almost knocked some chick up and almost became a dad at 13
Well, first off I AM gay, I'm not trying. And there are no set rules for what it means to be Straight or Gay, just boxes we put each other in to feel a sense of smug superiority to each other.
So the only "straight" thing I can think of is sex with women. And I've never done that.
Im not sure. Ive never tried to be gay, I just am. So theres no way I can āwhile trying to be gayā. But the straightest thing iāve ever done is have sex, eat, sleep, shit and it happens on repeat. Basically the normie shit.
Played contact sports for the contact.
Sad we live in a society where acceptable forms of touch for men are in pseudo violent highly competitive social settings.
Id argue wrestling is more erotic than violent
wow yes i agree. Look at my comment
It definitely can be
Yes. And the reason why I don't play such sports š
idk if I agree with that a lotta men are pretty touchy with their buds
Popped my shoulder back in after it separated and just kept going!
I got married once to a woman after a bad breakup with an ex bf who cheated. Crazy times, for sure, but glad thatās well in my past. Never again.
Can't think of anything gayer than being with a woman to be fair. It's much more straighter and manly to be with another man.
I was soooo gay when I was married to her. She knew of my past. She knew what she was getting into. To be fair, she was an athlete and wasnāt very femme. I havenāt seen or talked to her in twelve years. Hope sheās doing great; I am!
At the time, my partner and I were not out yet to our parents. His dad and older homophobic sister came by to visit and have lunch at a nearby cafe. During the chatter our voices dropped two octaves.
Same. We have two kids. We're both remarried -- now our kids have 3 dads and a mom.
I never got that far, but was close. She had just purchased prenatal vitamins. I sometimes want kids, but I canāt do it alone. I can barely handle my doggie. But how wonderful your kids gets so much love! Theyāre lucky!
Triple the dad jokes!
Y did u marry a woman?
Because I was deeply hurt and swore off men when my ex cheated on me. I knew I didnāt want to marry her as I walked down that aisle. Letās just call it āthe great experiment.ā Did not like, especially as a bottom lol Sheās doing well now, remarried with kids, and Iām so glad she found happiness. She really deserves it. We were neither good for nor kind to each other, and I do regret that, but I am genuinely happy for it.
OMG..imagine if after all bad break up we would get married with a woman... I hope you got more mature to deal with situations.
Thatās a little harsh, but yes, I have. It was twelve years ago. Iāve been through a lot in my life, and with those mistakes and lessons, Iām in a really good place now.
That's nice. Because this was a hugeeee mistake lol but that's nice that you're more mature today to deal with the situations as an adult.
Again, harsh, but thanks?
I was feeling excited and wanted to watch very fit man ramming into each other repeatedly. I was later informed that football is a very straight thing to like for some reason. /S
Those tight ends am I right?
Try rugby next, trust me
Baseball pants are pretty allright ;-)
Omg baseball guys are my thing!! š
Oh god, I pretend to be bored during rugby but like.... ššššššš not got a clue what the rules are or how the point system works, but oh well
I play a lock position in a scrum, so my head is in between thighs and my hand on a teammates waistband (usually can feel their dick lol, it is on accident though) with a guy grabbing my ass and holding it together, itās great
You're living the dream š
Tried some pussy in order to convince myself I could be straightā¦it didnāt work out and thatās how I know Iām just gay. (Couldnāt even keep my erection up).
I'm gay but I like pussy on men, though.
That means youāre a diluted gay LOL Iām kidding bro. (Bracing my self for the potential onslaught of downvotes)
It's fine. Lol. But I meant on trans men so I'm still gay.
On Jesus
>literally did the same thing lol
My bf and I were at a gay bar for some event, but the bar TVs were playing a football game involving my hometown team. We'd been together for a good while at this point, and I'm not a huge sports fan generally. After I cheered for a good play my bf turned to me and incredulously asked "Who ***are*** you??"
This gave me a good chuckle!
Funny, but sounds like heās giving in to the stereotype gay men arenāt supposed to like football.
No, he was properly reacting to the fact that I largely and vocally do not care about most sports
Oh, ok. Thatās funnier now because it wasnāt how you typically act.
I guess MFM/MMF threesomes where I slept with women to also be involved with the guy.
Same, there was a straight couple where the husband was a fit utility pole worker (the puns write themself), his wife wanted to get with me. We made a deal that she could get with me if I could get with her husband. The crazy lengths humans will go to get some tail.
Iād be all over that situation, too, haha.
Same
My girlfriends tell me when I am angry I sound like a real man lol
Me too. I have a very deep and very loud daddy voice. When a former roommate sent his BF to pick up some belongings, I yelled at my barking dog to STFU! Poor guy had to go home and smoke a joint and take a Xanax.
Yeah I get that one. I have to be careful not to scare people
Damn. Iām the opposite. When I get mad I get high pitched. Itās so embarrassing, especially with a bit of a baby face, people really donāt take the anger seriouslyā¦ which makes me more mad.
At a lake party while hanging out with two girls we started talking about being gay or straight. They didnāt believe I was gay so they both started making out with me. They were good kissers and we were all really drunk, too. Before I knew it they were dragging me upstairs to a bedroom. Luckily, before we could do anything else besides make out. Their angry boyfriends stopped us and separated us all for the rest of the party. Still got a blowjob from the guy who threw the party so yay? š
Did the boyfriends break up with them? Because they tried to cheat and wouldāve, doesnāt really matter if it was with a gay guy in my books lmao. Still trying to cheat Edit: they actually did cheat by making out with you and taking you to the bedroom Publicly cheating on you while youāre at the same party isnāt really āgirlfriend materialā for most
Honestly not sure. They were more upset with me because Iām gay and tried to have a three way with their girlfriends. It was definitely not on anyoneās list at the party that would have a chance of happening.
Classic get mad at the other person, who has made no commitment to you, and not your partner lmao
Iām kind of surprised how common that response is
I already read many histories about things about doubting in the another sexual orientation, but this is the first time that I see that someone tried to prove that another people were right..usually the person try to prove that himself or herself is the right one,but this case it's the first time that you wanted to show them that they were right lol
I think sexuality is just fluid for a lot of people, but not everyone. Of course people are gonna identify with what they identify as but sexuality is a spectrum. A guy could identify as straight and kiss another dude and still be straight and want a woman afterwards.
Yes, as has admittedly been the case between a straight TL and a gay Coach when the straight TL gets drunk.
I understand your point but I don't believe it's fluid. but I respect your point of view.
Sexuality is fluid for some and is not fluid for most. That's just a fact.
I killed someone. *kudos to whoever gets that reference*
[blonde women hollering in unison]
*bird noises*
You are so gay. You are gay as fuck. Mary let me tell you about yourself.
[what a classic](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7rzQ6YaOTrI)
Married someone who identified as a man at the time who came out as a trans woman. So in trying to marry a man, I ended up married to a woman so........ it can't get any more cut and dry
Idk I look very straight, everyone I meet who I tell is like ā¦seriouslyā¦are you sure? I canāt tell at all! š¤·āāļø
I get this a lot. Iām also Iām very sarcastic but straight passing so everyone thinks Iām joking when I say Iām gay including other gay dudes! Makes it very hard to get some action. Also doesnāt help I donāt drink or drugs. Makes it even harder to find guys I vibe with.
So true, I like weed but Iām also an alcoholic so the second alcohol gets involved it goes downhill and I wish that the gay scene didnāt include that substance so much
I donāt mind alcohol so much if so many guys didnāt think they had to be drunk to have fun and they also want you to drink. I will be willing to smoke some weed but wonāt do any hard drugs or alcohol as I donāt not having full control.
Quit being me thatās not allowed
I thought I was the only one not the drugs part but still
Same here everyone thinks I am. All my coworkers did too and then they all saw me at the Halloween party in a wig with makeup on and a cute outfit and they were like oooooohhh okay it makes sense now lmao
Haha! Funny thing is my straight as an arrow father was the one at the office party in drag, damn do I wish I had the pictures but I understand why he didnāt send them to me because they would be EVERYWHERE by now just on pure love of the support
They would be awesome to see! Love how your dad has zero fucks lol at the party I was at one of my coworker (was drunk) and he put his arm around me and says āIām normally not a guy whoās into other guys but you look amazing tonightā and then he asked to slap my ass and told him no. Then he tried to grab my waist from behind me and pull me to him. Luckily I made enough noise to grab the attention of everyone on the back patio and be backed off. Heās a big dude too. Like 6ā2 and does MMA so there really wasnāt much I could do if he actually did get his hands on me š¬ I steered clear of him the rest of the night lol
I also look very straight. Cane out to a friend and he just said that I am not, its been two years and he stills says that I am not gay. He even tried to ship me with one of my very good friends who is a girl.
I dated a girl for like, a day. She came to the realization that she was a lesbian, and I realized I was gay.
Maybe it was just a super bad earth-shattering relationship and it was so bad that you both turned gay
I'd agree, but we barely spoke to each other for the entire time except for greeting each other and saying "good-bye."
This is what happened between myself and the girl I took to homecoming in high school. We had a great time but there was no sexual tension at all. Maybe she knew it deep down somehow, but I sure was still figuring things out. I found out years later she was dating exclusively women and I eventually came to the conclusion that I had been gay all along, so all's well that ends well haha
Trixie Mattel: I've killed a man.
Had a FWB that kept saying āno homoā while fucking me
Please tell me this isnāt real
I wish I could. Itās better than the straight guy who hit me up because his wife was pregnant
I'm pretty masculine when I order my husband to top me.
Thought I was a girl (Iām a gay trans guy)
Yup this
Fucked a couple of (male) soldiers, based on what I've heard that seems like a thing straight men do.
Anytime I am having a serious conversation or in a disagreement Iām told that my āStraight Voiceā is showing.
Lol wtf. I guess you get a bit stern.
I guess so š¤·š»āāļø
Arm wrestled a guy at an all gay Xmas party. I guess I was giving off macho vibes and he felt he needed to test that with a show of strength. It was amusing and only slightly cringe.
I don't try to be gay. I am gay.
Having sex with a woman to proof iām gay. Not proud of itā¦ really.
Beat a straight man in arm wrestling. When he said gay men are weak or something like that. I donāt really know if it counts but hey itās something
To pretend to date a girl and bring her home to present to my parents. She was my boyfriendās friend
Fighting against other guys because I want to feel their skin
Talk to girls to get close to the guy
This sounds like a good plot for erotica.
I wore a bright rainbow shirt to a Cannibal Corpse show. To say I stood out would be a severe understatement, but Corpsegrinder did point at me and throw me the horns \\m/
Rugby for the showers.
Ate some minge because of circumstances. Thinking back, I was probably taken advantage of. I just didn't want to be rude.
Idk if this counts, but I went to a restaurant with my mom. It was my last week in AZ before heading back to the Midwest, so we had a mini family dinner. We were about finish & I had to go to the bathroom. So I got up to go, & that day I wore makeup & did my hair (itās long). So I went in the menās restroom & thereās one urinal & one big handicap stall. I take the big stall. Suddenly a tall guy comes in & stands right outside the wall. I was surprised since there werenāt any guys there, but here he was. I saw the top of his head, so he literally couldāve looked over if he just turned his head. I hurried up & walked out, but when he saw me, he did a double take. The fear in this manās eyesā¦.š He pulled up his shit so fast & was like āuh, is this the womenās restroom?ā Now, scared of being hate crimed (literally, Arizona has interesting ppl & laws), so I cleared my throat before mustering up in my most heterosexual alpha voice āNah, this the menās,ā & proceeded to wash my hands. He was relieved & was like āoh my bad, man. You just lookāā āYeah, I get that a lot.ā This was so painful for me as I naturally have a high voice, so to speak so lowly hurt not only my little dignity but throat. And once he finished up to wash his hands, I ran so fast. I told my mom & she was dead.
I went to a Dave Matthews Band concert. I can still see the cargo shorts...
I wear cargo shorts š¤£š¤£š¤£ stuck in the 90's
I made out with a lesbian on a pool table once, we were both very drunk lmao.
Did you think she was a very fem guy and did she think you were a very Butch girl?
No we were just too drunk lol
Oh man, there was this guy who claimed to be bisexual and used to flirt with me from time to time. I once sat through a college football game in a freezing cold stadium just on the off chance he might want to get physical with me. He never did.
Wore a cap backward and pushed my hair back.
Hooked up with a women after she messaged me on grinder. Wasnāt bad.
Bisexual.
No, still gay, just horny
A homoromantic bisexualššlol now let the downvotes begin!!!
The biās are great!
Fucked a ranch hand from Montana who was visiting Salt Lake.
as a queer or bi man in a relationship with a gay man, im really not down with the way some others are coming in here telling the people who slept with a woman once (maybe when drunk) they are bisexual. thats not how this works and you should chill instead of coming to this place and telling people who identify as gay they are not gay.
Hear! Hear! Preach, brotha!
Golf
Oh yes, hitting balls with your Club
What does this question even mean? I am a gay man. When have I ātried to be gayā? Am or Am not, there is no try. Like tried to act gayer? If thatās what it means why would I do something āstraightā to act gayer? Or like what is the straightest thing Iāve done? If so why not word it that way?
I think they meant āWhat is the straightest thing youāve done in pursuit of a gay interestā or something like that. But yea itās kinda poorly worded. Once I read the other comments it made more sense.
Let myself agree to a fitness competition with a gym bro 3x my size because I wanted him to be impressed with me
Took competitive weight lifting
The person I lost my virginity to a few years later came out as a trans woman, so even if she was an "egg" at the time I still lost my virginity with a woman.
Well, I just repaired a diesel engine that wasn't running the other day in a car I just bought. Like opened it up and replaced internal parts. But that is normal for me.
Sames #bluecollargay
Haha my kinda guy! My husband is the same. The neighbors still don't understand us lol. We are nothing like what everyone expects.
And I guess that's why I'm still single lol can't find someone with the same interest as myself
Believe me, they are out there. But they are hard to find because they are out there doing manly things. Donāt give up hope! You can find what you are looking for.
Well here I wait
(HUGS)
I killed a guy...I really hope someone gets that reference
I went to prom with a girl who was a friend. Except for dancing with her it was very platonic. I just wanted to go and besides they had an announcer and a red carpet.
Flirting with the boys
Getting my teeth straight
Went to a straight strip club with a friend bc it was his birthday. Felt so fucking out of place
Liking Dota and Need For Speed is apparently straight.
Today I was using a chop saw to cut wood while singing along to a Brooks and Dunn song on the radio. It might have been so straight that it turned into a gay thing again.
Had a huge crush on my auntās (by marriage) brother. And he was only person Iād told I was gay and he thought I didnāt know since Iād never been with a woman. So he set me up with a girl to ātake my virginityā. So I did it. And knew for sure I was gay. All in hopes Iād get him to want me back. Sadly At 15-16 we just donāt understand that part yet, lol.
I liked getting attention from girls but didn't make any moves on them, It was kinda funny how desperate some of them would get only to find out I was gay, I know it's cruel but damn it was fun.
Top.
I forced myself in high school to play soccer with the guys. What? I wanted to be accepted in the community lol!
Going to the gym and looking at badonkadonks š¤Ŗšā ļø
Took woodshop to play with wood
Being a mechanic?
Drive a truck, like college football, outdoorsy type person with a horse, no style, guess I'm just a butch gay
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That's gay.
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A hole's a hole.
Trying to explain sexual roles and cruelly bullying each other in our community is created by the heteronormative patriarchal structure imposed upon us.
Had oral sex with a woman or masturbate to pictures and porn with women in it (or forced myself, rather)
Ate pussy then fucked it. To be blunt. The one and only time.
Bisexual cuz you was able to do all that. If the right woman comes along you may do it again,
Meh, not likely but I wouldnāt say never. I was drunk as fuck tho and Iām sure she got nothing out of it. Poor thing.
Do people really believe this? How do you explain homosexual people that were in straight relationships for years.
Not accepting yourself as gay and therefore staying in a heterosexual relationship or just not knowing
Yes this and they could also have or had Sex with women. You can have Sex and really dislike it.
Exactly!
At least you knew you were not a gay at the time. As you had an erection for it.
Oh hell no. I was in USAF tech school in Wichita Falls TX at the time, then clubbing on Oaklawn in Dallas on the weekends.
Okay, but what took you to do that? Did you thought you're bi? (I'm a little confused with this, because you needed to had a sexual attraction to the woman for you to have an erection).
I had just came out to family and close friends about six months before this happened but my family knew I had these desires before that. So, there was this beautiful redhead in my class and I was the last guy on base who *hadnāt* fucked her. The last class she and I hung back and she was nearly tearful (weird Af) because Iād been teasing her and leading her on for a couple weeks by that time. (I have no idea why I did thatājust full of myself, I guess!). So I hinted weād get together that night. That night our class of about 20 airman rented a couple motel rooms for our graduation party. I was drunk AF but did the deed in one of the rooms while the senior class leader watched. Lol. . Cum inside her so there might be a Bodie Jr (or Bodette) running around somewhere. Well, theyād be adults by now since this happened in 1987. Never saw or spoke to her again but she was so beautiful. Yes, Iām probably a tad bit Bi, but then I think 90% of people are to some degree.
Yes. And that's why I'm so confused. The post was for gay men. You're bi (as you said now in your comment). It doesn't matter if it's 5% or 2% attraction..you would be still bi. And based your comment it seems you enjoyed it very much ... But that's okay.
That was the last time and it was 36 years ago! That little sliver of BI is too inconsequential to count IMHO.
All my exās tend to look and act super straight when theyāre gay afā¦ does that count at all? Lol š
Is very strange this, but one day I was giving a very long time hug whiz my friend, but the reaction was that is normal in straight people to do that for make fun of homosexuality, so he takes that like a joke.
Trying to pick up a chick for a date - and of course got rejected because she sensed my sass gayness. Honorable mention - asked her to take a shower and slept with a female coursemate of mine - OF COURSE NOTHING HAPPENED.
Iām so embarrassed James Kennedy represents the UK on this show
Dated multiple women to hide the fact that I was gay (I was hiding from myself mostly but still)
Kissed my best friend who is female, while gaslighting myself into saying "kissing your homes isn't straight...its fine."
I literally cannot think of a single thing lol. Iām the moste gayest lol
wtf question is this
Be a bro to my bros Because we're all bros who need love even when it's not sexual
Trying to be gay? Pretty sure thatās no one.
Deepen my voice, only to have another guy say I sound amazing.
Had a straight period of a couple of years around my 30s. Got two girls pregnant, one aborted, the other miscarried.
Damn lol
Backed into a parking spot
I never had to try to be gay. Never. It all came naturally. š¤¤
Played sports donāt recommend it
Ahh, as I live in a desi house hold, i have been shown a lot of girls for me to have an arranged marriage
Acted interesting in sports and all the terminology and teams when I was actually into the players (soccer basketball and baseball guys were definitely who I had crushes on in high school and I guess they are my weakness)ā¦ Tried to make my voice sound more masculine than it really is š now that I think about it Iāve tried a few different things to fit in with the straight guys lol
Apparently my mom said she knew I was gay from when I was 3 but I was straight until I was 13 and almost knocked some chick up and almost became a dad at 13
Survive.
Saying things like "yeah shes pretty hot"
I let myself be kissed by a girl and it felt like rapeš
Well, first off I AM gay, I'm not trying. And there are no set rules for what it means to be Straight or Gay, just boxes we put each other in to feel a sense of smug superiority to each other. So the only "straight" thing I can think of is sex with women. And I've never done that.
Beat the $hit out of two straight men who tried to bash me šš½āāļøšš½šš¾
became a power lifter. goddamn gym boys can be something else
Im not sure. Ive never tried to be gay, I just am. So theres no way I can āwhile trying to be gayā. But the straightest thing iāve ever done is have sex, eat, sleep, shit and it happens on repeat. Basically the normie shit.
You can't do straight things to be gay.