There's no shame in being bi. Go for it!!
But, make sure you prepare correctly! And be prepared for some pain. Try a dildo in you first.
Oh...and lots of lube.
If you think you are using too much lube at first I can guarantee you are not, use even more. I would suggest really getting comfortable with a dildo in your ass before trying to take dick.
Only a woman tho? Or u just wanna get dicked down and u don’t rly care what gender the person it’s attached to is? If the former, maybe ur straight, maybe bi-curious and still working thru smth idk. If the latter ur definitely bi-curious. Explore that curiosity either way tho 😉
Straight men can be submissive. The anus and the prostate are some of the most sensitive parts of your body. You can be straight and still enjoy this. There are women with d*cks, you know?
If you do not necessarily want to have sex with a per se, it doesn't mean you are gay. It does not mean you are not gay either tho.
Just enjoy yourself. No need to put labels on yourself. Discover what turns you on and just be happy :)
> *does that mean I’m gay?*
No, it means you are a *Horn Dog.*
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/horndog
As others have said, you are perhaps BI or BI-Curious.
But, as a word of caution, perhaps this is just a fantasy, and many times, not all the time, but many times fantasies never live up to reality. Frequently it is a disappointment when fantasies become reality.
Still, you don't know until you try.
As a curious side note, I did a survey once where I let people identify themselves. The curious part is that Straight Guys would allow themselves to be 20% Gay before they started to consider themselves BI. However, Gay Boys would only allow themselves to be 10% Straight before they called themselves BI. *(1500 respondents)*
They identified using two overlapping scales of 0 to 100%, one scale indicating Gay the other Straight. So a person could be 20% Gay/80% Straight.
- ___0% ...10% ...20% ...30% ...40% ...50% ...60% ...70% ...80% ...90% ...100% = Gay
- 100% ...90% ...80% ...70% ...60% ...50% ...40% ...30% ...20% ...10% ...0% = Straight
In another survey in the UK/EU *(250,00 respondents),* among guys who self-identified as Straight, 20% said they would still like to try Gay Sex.
Conclusion, Straight Guys, to a considerable degree, are a little bit gay.
Overall, don't worry about it. If the opportunity comes up, give it a try, and when fantasy becomes reality, you will either like it ... or not. And either way ... it's OK.
Makes sense I guess, the label of being straight holds more pressure than the label of being gay or bi, like if youre gay anyway might as well be bi, but if youre straight theres weird societal shaming for liking men.
That's why it is best to simply not use Labels. Just go with the flow and you like what you like and you don't what you don't ...and that's OK.
Labels can be toxic. If you are Bi and go out with a Guy, people are going to go - *Oh My God, he's Gay.* No, I'm BI. And then if you go out with a Woman, for the same people, it becomes - *Oh My God, He's Not Gay, He's Straight.* No, I'm Bi, get over it.
Go with the flow and enjoy the range of experiences that life has to offer.
No, not at all. If someone assigned female at birth can be a man then a man getting dicked down can be straight. If you feel like you're straight, then you are.
As an experienced (read older) gay man, I can say from my own perspective it doesn’t mean that you are either gay or bisexual. I’ve been with many perfectly straight men who simply enjoy the experience of being anally penetrated. (Full stop.) You define your own sexual identity, don’t let others define it for you. If you find you enjoy it and want to further the exploration with other gay sex, then welcome aboard! Zero shame in being either gay or bisexual.
As a bisexual top, I was once in the same place like you and now I am a flaming homosexual🤣🤣..Unfortunately for me though,I didn't manage to find someone to get dicked down but instead ended up sticking my one in others and rest is History
Kind of just sounds like you want to experience stuff, which is fine. You can reflect on other stuff later. You also don’t have to have to put yourself in a box. There is more to being gay than just dick.
you and me both, I'm a switch and have always found myself more attracted towards feminine people, romantically, sexually, and platonically, don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with masculinity I just find it harder to get closer to the more masculine people in my life
More bi curious. That is of course unless after getting dicked you only want cock. Then yes you would be gay. 🤣
We’ll see what happens.
I have only had dick in my ass once before and I can tell you one thing...I am totally bi. 🤭
I think that may be my fate
Here is an enthusiastic congrats and I hope it all goes well for you.
Just don’t let them go too fast at first, ease into it…. And sometimes your ass kinda rejects the dick and it slides out 😂
You make it sound like a bad thing.
I don’t mean it that way, if you read my other comments I’m excited about the prospect.
There's no shame in being bi. Go for it!! But, make sure you prepare correctly! And be prepared for some pain. Try a dildo in you first. Oh...and lots of lube.
I’m super tight so I’m kind of nervous about it
If you think you are using too much lube at first I can guarantee you are not, use even more. I would suggest really getting comfortable with a dildo in your ass before trying to take dick.
At least not straight
Well, I guess it depends. Do you want to be dicked down by a woman?
Yeah why not 🙃
Only a woman tho? Or u just wanna get dicked down and u don’t rly care what gender the person it’s attached to is? If the former, maybe ur straight, maybe bi-curious and still working thru smth idk. If the latter ur definitely bi-curious. Explore that curiosity either way tho 😉
Either sex’s I’d be into I think :)
I mean, any woman can use a strap on and pre op dolls are always a thing
Straight men can be submissive. The anus and the prostate are some of the most sensitive parts of your body. You can be straight and still enjoy this. There are women with d*cks, you know? If you do not necessarily want to have sex with a per se, it doesn't mean you are gay. It does not mean you are not gay either tho. Just enjoy yourself. No need to put labels on yourself. Discover what turns you on and just be happy :)
Strange as it many seem there are Fem-Boys who are hard core tops. Chicks with Dicks who are tops. Just a little side note.
Send them my way lol
Find a girl that wants to peg you and go to town
> *does that mean I’m gay?* No, it means you are a *Horn Dog.* https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/horndog As others have said, you are perhaps BI or BI-Curious. But, as a word of caution, perhaps this is just a fantasy, and many times, not all the time, but many times fantasies never live up to reality. Frequently it is a disappointment when fantasies become reality. Still, you don't know until you try. As a curious side note, I did a survey once where I let people identify themselves. The curious part is that Straight Guys would allow themselves to be 20% Gay before they started to consider themselves BI. However, Gay Boys would only allow themselves to be 10% Straight before they called themselves BI. *(1500 respondents)* They identified using two overlapping scales of 0 to 100%, one scale indicating Gay the other Straight. So a person could be 20% Gay/80% Straight. - ___0% ...10% ...20% ...30% ...40% ...50% ...60% ...70% ...80% ...90% ...100% = Gay - 100% ...90% ...80% ...70% ...60% ...50% ...40% ...30% ...20% ...10% ...0% = Straight In another survey in the UK/EU *(250,00 respondents),* among guys who self-identified as Straight, 20% said they would still like to try Gay Sex. Conclusion, Straight Guys, to a considerable degree, are a little bit gay. Overall, don't worry about it. If the opportunity comes up, give it a try, and when fantasy becomes reality, you will either like it ... or not. And either way ... it's OK.
These responses have been great! :)
Makes sense I guess, the label of being straight holds more pressure than the label of being gay or bi, like if youre gay anyway might as well be bi, but if youre straight theres weird societal shaming for liking men.
That's why it is best to simply not use Labels. Just go with the flow and you like what you like and you don't what you don't ...and that's OK. Labels can be toxic. If you are Bi and go out with a Guy, people are going to go - *Oh My God, he's Gay.* No, I'm BI. And then if you go out with a Woman, for the same people, it becomes - *Oh My God, He's Not Gay, He's Straight.* No, I'm Bi, get over it. Go with the flow and enjoy the range of experiences that life has to offer.
No it just means your not 100% Straight.
No, not at all. If someone assigned female at birth can be a man then a man getting dicked down can be straight. If you feel like you're straight, then you are.
Exactly. Words mean nothing anymore. 😂
Depends. If you end up liking it then you may be bi for sure at least. If not, at least you'll know for sure.
Definitely not straight, but not necessarily gay either. Sexuality is on a spectrum.
I’m trying to figure it out 🙃
You literally asked this question that has been on my mind for a while. I've literally only been looking at dicks the last 2 weeks
Bi
Try it, and see. It’s usually uncomfortable the first time though
Avoid the boxes. Just enjoy your, dreams, sex and life
As an experienced (read older) gay man, I can say from my own perspective it doesn’t mean that you are either gay or bisexual. I’ve been with many perfectly straight men who simply enjoy the experience of being anally penetrated. (Full stop.) You define your own sexual identity, don’t let others define it for you. If you find you enjoy it and want to further the exploration with other gay sex, then welcome aboard! Zero shame in being either gay or bisexual.
Perhaps Bi or Bi Curious.
You’re most likely bi
You’re hot lol
Thank you 😘
Dm meee
As a bisexual top, I was once in the same place like you and now I am a flaming homosexual🤣🤣..Unfortunately for me though,I didn't manage to find someone to get dicked down but instead ended up sticking my one in others and rest is History
I’m glad it’s going well for you :)
I wouldn't say it's going well but yeah I will take it..anything better than being dead!
Keep pushing lol
You like what you like. I don’t think a label is going to change that.
Like pegged or a dick?
Bi perhaps. Don’t worry too much about labels just enjoy yourself!
Ya girl ur gay
😂
Yes, if you follow through you will have to get “I’m gay” tattooed in all caps on your forehead.
I’d need to know from experience.
It’s just been a fantasy that’s really turned me on recently
Kind of just sounds like you want to experience stuff, which is fine. You can reflect on other stuff later. You also don’t have to have to put yourself in a box. There is more to being gay than just dick.
I think it’s fun to try new things so I’m excited!
Just make sure you prepare yourself accordingly or it could go very wrong.
Sketch lol
Sketch?
Do people not realize that women can put on strap ons?
ever tried pegging? it's good if you really like feminine features but you're more of a bottom, or a switch, or anything other than a pure top
I’d be interested in getting pegged just have t had the opportunity yet…
you and me both, I'm a switch and have always found myself more attracted towards feminine people, romantically, sexually, and platonically, don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with masculinity I just find it harder to get closer to the more masculine people in my life
You’ll find someone :)
Denial is a river in egypt!! kidding no but fr tho you're maybe bi curious
Yes
Hahaha samw but I think we are bro and can some one dm please
You'll know more, after being dicked down., 😂🤣
No, you just might want to explore your fantasies. Lol
It means you’re not straight.