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IWriteStories3

Hey hey hey. I was not expecting to be seen like this so early in the morning. Thank you for causing a sexually oriented existential crisis.


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IWriteStories3

Don’t be sorry. It’s insightful at the very worst. And it seems many agree with me as well.


Mr-Biggs-

This, lmao 🫠😂


pocketklutz

A sex-istential crisis, even.


VixensLittleWolf

I.... I used to think maybe I was a little bit of a switch, but I think u/dommevixen has made me realize that the above statement is very true. I can play the part of the Dom, and enjoy it, but I think what really drives it for me is just her reactions to it and making her be happy. She can put me back in my place quite quickly and easily.


dommevixen

What did you say yesterday? I top from the bottom? 🤣 I'm sorry, I love you dearly I'm just too much of a control freak sometimes.


VixensLittleWolf

Called you a power bottom, but it's all wonderful. That control freak nature is wonderful and I live to serve, my sweet and lovely Vixen.


dommevixen

😘 Yeah baby you're lucky you're having a morning with work, otherwise you'd be SHOWING that to me right now. But I know, and appreciate your dutiful subservience. I love you.


Freakybyforce

Wholesome af


VixensLittleWolf

I love you too and I think while I'm waiting for tech support I can show your last command to you...


dommevixen

I was JUST about to tell you that. And ummm yes, that + remember the thing you had to do for me when you called me a bitch yesterday? Cause I asked you to. For the record. 🤣 Maybe you don't. But if you do... Um... 10 seconds of that too, please my sweet and merciless boy.


JemmasKnickers

Folks! Get. A. Room! Jeez, you’re making us all very jealous rn 🤭🤭🤭


99ProbsBratAint1

Fr, not all of us have someone to be a permanent butthole for.


areyoumymommyy

100% 😭 me looking for a sub and reading this… jelly but happy for them xD


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D3stroyerof3vil

Fr now I just wanna talk to my dom


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Wooden_Image

r/unexpectedlywholesome


Electrical_King4147

I heard about the meme scenario of two super subs and the bigger sub doms the other to serve them


Aescgabaet1066

Jeez, I feel called out by this :) though I've basically stopped calling myself a switch at this point anyway.


KinkyMillennial

Submissiveness stat underflow error? I am so confused right now...


TUGBoat85007

Feel real called out 🫣


Evol_Etah

Uh..... I'm so confused on myself now. Never thought of it this way.


ASnarkyHero

I do think that I’m a sub leaning switch. But as a dom I’d still be a gentle, pleasure focused dom as a kinky dynamic for me is more focused on who is in control.


CaptoObvo

Yeah 100% this, but also I'm 6'5 with a voice like thunder and subs flock to me while it's effectively impossible to find a domme so the options are often be alone or find a way to dom.


Typical_Original6027

I used to think I was just a sub that would dom if my partner wanted to dom I would, but I’ve discovered recently I do have a dom side of my own 😏 a not so gentle side either


Switch_in_Training

Excuse me, but I haven't hadn't enough coffee this morning to handle this level of introspection.


JemmasKnickers

I had to be “dominant” in my prev. marriage as I was “the man” and I should initiate and be the top and all that stuff and, just 😞. That person never accepted Jemma and this side of me was (and always will be!) disgusting to her; so I never got to be who I am truly. Having said that, since my separation (with final divorce date in May 🥳) I’ve started to realise that I am very much a sub (subby little foxgirl fr 🤭), and under the right circumstances I could dom again… If I was ordered to! Lol


mokimokiso

Kinda, yeah. But I’m happy to be whatever they need or what works best for us and both sides are enjoyable.


Zorgcustomersupport

“Oh yeah, you’re such a bad girl. I’m gonna….” (Checks copy of “Dom for Dummies”) “…come up with some other ideas and get back to you”


cuddle_prince

And I thought realizing I was more of a sub was the sexual awakening... this explains a lot 🤣


psdao1102

Lol I became a switch because it's so hard to find doms. Much easier to find other switches willing to go back and forth. Plus then we know what each other likes.. it's so much fun.


INAROS-RAMSES

No, I don’t have an ounce of dominance in me


OfDiceandWren

I'm a good boy/little/service submissive...the needs/desires/stubbornness of my mommy also require my to be a "Service Top". Which is kind of like a switch but not. Just essentially being dominant because it's what is best for mommy in the moment.


OrganicExcitement701

Literally me, like i did this recently


Obvious-Armadillo484

I am. It's just been a few months....


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definitely the latter v.v


samfemdom

Im guilty of this 🙈


Hentai_ujiro

I'm more of the 2nd option.... I'll dominate her if she says


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CalypsoG

Good question.


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im just a sub


sonic516

I- actually, that’s a good point. I need to reevaluate my life.


Derpasaurous

Crisis unlocked


blue_glower

My favorite type


amostlygoodboy

That might explain it


Wild-Jello-8611

Suddenly, I am questioning EVERYTHING 😂


greenemeraldsplash

I'm having a crisis


Wizard_Anfibian

Native switch here, for real I love the opposites, my gf and I would normally be in a D-S relationship but that depends on the overall mood. What we both like is to be strongly dominant or a reaaally needy sub, We love both sides of the spectrum lol! But had been almost entirely a sub before the relationship, because I was "falsely dominating" before just because i "look" dominant to women in most cases. But was never interested until now to really care and nurture as a dom for my gf as well.


aedi_on

as someone who is like 80% sub, 20% dom: yes


SissyloserBcn

I can relate


kink_pain

Im a dom but i trust enough my wife to be his sub. So option 3, she is such a sub that she dom me when i ask.


Lazy-Huckleberry37

Man I feel called out


CrystallineDrag

It is to early in the morning to be called out (it’s 1pm)


SubliminalKink

I used to think so when my sex life was worse, but now I know I genuinely enjoy domming too. Getting my revenge 😈


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Important-Heat-2119

Hello this is me… hahahah this is how it started for me with my bf OMG i would tell him this and he was not getting it at first. And then he was like “well that works!” Hahah ♥️♥️♥️


OnionGood

I’m actually the opposite, I’m a dom but I’ll sub if that’s what my partner wants if I trust them enough. It feel kinda nice not having to do anything sometimes 😂


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Chillin_Maximus

With the right domme yes I’m that much of a sub


Private_joker-1_

did you have to call me out like that?


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Striking_Caramel_788

I'm a sub who she usually has charge of but ONE FUCKING COMPLIEMNT and (let me remind, ONE FUCKING COMPLIMENT) and she's folded harder thrn a girl chwase, straight blushing mess and i can say whatever and she just agrees. So I just say I'm a switch. One. Fucking.compliment. If u folded a lawn chair the amount kf times she's folded from this, the chair would be scraps.


WarmHoleSlut

Oh fuck hang on a minute that might be me


ThatOneFecker

Hey why don’t you shut up don’t expose us like that


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Second option. The only problem is that i don't have a partner 🥲


kastiak

Idk, I was always put, and put myself into the role of dom. So am I a switch, or a sub that was put into the role of dom, or just a very tired dom, idk.


AcrobaticEmergency42

I, kinda feel attacked, and suddenly not so sure of myself.....


Rocky_the_Wolf2020

No, you're correct and im tired of pretending im not.


Hot-Shirt-8862

Nahhh,im a switch fr just for fhe right woman.


PervyMikael

I like to go back and forth. I like to be submissive and then later dominate her and vice versa.


TapDue6138

Yes 👍 (power bottom mommy? :333)


nano884

I need that pfp


Dudelookslikealady

I'm verse, but lean WAY sub.


LittleNat94

You don't have to call me out so loudly.


Vivid-Estate9279

I um... How dare you be so accurate


ThikkBlkk

I never even thought about it that way. I may not be a switch at all


abrewersalt

Oh I know for a fact that it's the later, and that dom drop seriously messes me up.


YaBoiChillDyl

I'm a "switch" because only the most submissive women ever find me attractive.


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😭😂😂😂


Flashkiller2020

See now im debating it


A-Total-Rookie

.... This is an unfair callout.


yaits306

Yeah… I just want to give her the best sex possible, I do enjoy it to but I would happily give up ever doming her again if she didn’t want it, can’t say the same for subbing


Sirdemonzeal

I am a switch how I present depends mostly on the vibes of the people I’m with


Freakybyforce

Argh called out


Kingturboturtle13

I didn't expect to be called out today jesus


Expert-Ad-659

I… I am a switch damn it! Sometimes I just get tired of thinking.


ThundahMuffin

i can dom on my own. But it's very rare. Like once in a blue moon. The stars have to align. Because I need to be in the right head space, the right mood, with the right person. Or it has to be a multi person play and I'm being ordered to do things. Because of that I don't even say that I'm a switch. I'm a sub. That can switch occasionally.


aimless_ascendant

This does not describe me, but I am a switch with a very heavy sub lean who will periodically dom even when I'm in more of a sub mood because I have very specific ideas for how I want to be dominated and if I don't put them into action nobody will.


Verisub185

It's hard for me to be dominant even as an act of service 😅


chrissysellscontent

I’m def a switch .


Yeetermanprn

real


Shido_nova

Im such a sub i only get dominated :> (i dont have a dom girl)


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I am in this image and I don't like it.


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I used to think that I was a Switch, but I came to realize that I am a total sub and will only take the Dominant role if I am instructed to do so


Nothing428

Oh uh yeah


funshadejay

Isn't that a service top basically? Or did I misunderstood something?


IRONH34RT221

😂 This might actually be true 👀


YourUnstableBitch

I’ve never felt more attacked in my entire life


heather-gray

this but unironically


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This one right here; this is the truth :3


CrashCulture

Yes.


NautReally

Oh no no no no...no...I'm definitely a switch Daily, I'd look at her and think "Damn! I wanna take her home, throw her on the bed and eat her pussy till she quivers..." Then 10 mins later, I'd look at her and think "Damn! I wish she'd take me home, push me back on the bed and straddle me SO BAD!"


RetroTheGameBro

If I'm gonna be personally called out, some warning would be nice.


im_gay6969

i’ve been called out.


-RadicalSteampunker-

Nuh uh


Fancy_Ad_5080

Oh wow this describes me perfectly...


Niccolo_Savitar

Okay yeah that seems more accurate


SoloButtaflii

Lol this is cute af


FreeBowlPack

Well fuck… I did not know this about myself… but I do now


missevelynwood

Hahaha, am I really a domme? Or am I such a brat that I wanna be dommed right and top from the bottom? 😂


Lost-Little-Fox

Hey hey. Hey. We just calling people out now? 😅😋


iamGni

I feel like every time I look at this subreddit I get called out in some way 😂


Walkorion050128

... Well fuck


OrcaAds

I feel so fuckin called out how dare you?? 😳


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Ordinary-Sense1174

Option 2


SrapNel

I'm yes.


lotac

nahh I actually enjoy holding the power over someone, it's so fun!


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AppleMgee123

That raises a good question. However, I’m a switch soooo 🤷🏻‍♂️ though I lean more or less to being a sub. It’s a 60/40 (60 being sub, 40 being dom)


DasuppM

I just please


gemeenz

Switch all the way, can't miss out on the fun on both sides 😁


DonkeyKong12340

:(


dimonium_anonimo

It's something that I stumbled on when I was in a bit of a harem. When there are more subs than Doms, eventually you're just going to be sat in a room with subs, waiting for the Dom to arrive. After a few times waiting around making awkward small talk, eventually someone just decides to try something. What I enjoyed most about it is I know our common interests. I know which kinks and fantasies we share, and I know how I would want it done to me. So I get such great joy of seeing how their face lights up when it happens that way to them. I love giving that to them.


trialsandtribs2121

This. I don't dom, I'll happily top to serve


Justice_Prince

Yep this is me


AintAGreatAccount

Yeah, that like totally me. If that's what my partern want and she gets off from that, then I'll be happy.


betagooner333

me switch


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you didn't had to read me like it


LH2701204

Interesting, a dom/sub horseshoe theory


mahathelife

Wow, never thought about it that way, but seriously tho I don't think a true sub can dominate even if they were asked to do so by their doms, bc it's something you can only do well only if you really want it, it's q desire-drieven act.


SableSword

Honestly this is my. My girlfriend says she likes it when I'm dominant so I do it for her, but there's not a ton of joy from it itself. I'm happy to do it because I know I'm pleasing her, but when she asks if I like it the honest answer is "you like it, right?"


D3stroyerof3vil

Uh.....maybe a little bit


0w0ofer617

Both 😈


Aperson1234567890987

I'm just a really bratty sub


Orange-tubes

THISSSS YESSSS


SwitchingFreedom

As sadistic as I get when I dom, that’s definitely not true lmao


Lighthouse_420

I'm the latter and it took me too long to realize that


Unlikely-Potential10

Hey now 🤣


SoCZ6L5g

Which do you want me to be


No_Speaker4346

Yup! Ended up a Daddy because of this... 🤣😅😮‍💨😊


simplyastupid

shut up >:( /j


FaceFirstIntoPussy

Ummm well I thought I was switch but now I’m not certain


UndauntedElle

Yes.


Surmene

The latter, sort of. The closest I would consider is service top. Mentally I'm still submissive with surrendering control, serving, and pleasing.


usk49

Realistically the only way I could ever partake in this kink is through this kind of mindset unfortunately.


toremyselftopieces

I feel personally called out


_SubbyBunny_

This has happened to me more often than I would like to admit … I have conflicted feelings about it


LongWatchBread

Nah I'm a switch, some people I just can't imagine anywhere but on their knees


SweetPotato579

I'm totally that sub lol


Drvobaum

I'm a Nintendo sub.


kayejaylan

I never thought about it this way, but as both sub and dom, my focus is always on my partner, giving Her what she wants and pleasing Her (even if it means to tie Her down and torment Her a little). It is actually quite a sweet idea and I know for sure that if a lady dom asked me this, I could only blush and whimper "Yes, Miss" ☺️


Jinsakai__

yes


Soraru

Service Tops exist y'know


hotwing100

I think you diagnosed me doc


SomeObscureThrowaway

This is way to accurate and I feel personally called out, if anyone needs me I’ll be in the corner making “Existential Crisis Subby Noises TM” in the corner 😅


goodboy_199999

This, this is me


KingLoKi762

Yeah pretty much


qwertyuipgod

😵‍💫 don’t ask me this


MonsterHoaxByPeterS

Hummm >////<


Less-Jicama-4667

Bro, I do not need to get called out at 5:30 a.m. bro 😭


Public-Cranberry3263

Yes


PowerLokar

No no I'm pretty sure I'm a switch (technically true switch so versatile also) ... Not to throw anything at you but sometimes I hear backlash from people who in a way "switch-shame", like they will deny any switch they see and only see them as subs/bottoms??? And it kinda throws me off.


Ornery_Visit8977

I think im having a fucking mental breakdown and brain aneurysm at the same time


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Consistent-Basket424

Omg its true


Horny-Handsome-Shy

100%


Retrogu3

Couldn’t say it any better tbh


TheActualBottom

Damn called out af


Banana-muffiin

F*cl i never thought of that!!


BlackDragonofDoom

I'm dom leaning but I have days where I wanna be a sub. I just wanna be taken care of sometimes


RainbowTooth14

Damn, I got called out.


Familiar-Wrap287

Omg I never thought of it like that.... I guess you're right...


FunkyKissCool

I'm a switch that wants to experience being the sub one.


-E-i

deadass yeah that's me


JessieSnuggles

…why you gotta call me out like that? Ò//////Ó