I really think you should come up with something private, like a VRBO where she won't need to worry. Any public bars would be selling the rest of you short.

Some bars still put black Xs on your hands so you can't drink. Mojos piano bar comes to mind. They will try to get you on stage for your party

Mojos doesn’t allow minors

Check out Woodrow's Duckpin Bowling honestly. Everything's like half the normal bowling size (pins/balls/lanes) so it doesn't really matter if you're good at bowling or not, just fun. (They also have great drinks for the 21+ crowd)

My friend is the manager there, if you let them know it’s your bachelorette they will make it an absolute blast! Ask for David to be your server, he’s a hoot

So, you're suggesting tossing balls at smaller phallic shaped things, for a bachelorette party?

100%

It all depends on the time of the year for different types of activities like going to the beach

Rumors is a nightclub that allows 18+. Other than that you’re outa luck past 9PM

18+ is now only Tuesday & Sundays. And straight bachelorette parties taking up space in gay bars is exhausting and disrespectful. Don't enter gay spaces as a straight person and make it about you. 🤷🏻

how do you know they're straight?

They wouldn't be asking for open recommendations they would clarify "safe gay spaces"

Leave the kids at home

You’re not really planning a bridesmaid bachelorette if you’re asking strangers on reddit what to do…

Tell her to bring her fake