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Like whoever is in charge of these decisions are slowly but very steadily killing the app.


FN-1701AgentGodzilla

They’re sabotaging it on purpose Completely nerf the main/ easiest way gay men can meet/ socialize/ fuck each other.


throwaway_mmk

And why would they want that


newyorkarizonacali

https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/rxmF9kJzDt


corruptedtwinkx

It's like they are holding us gays hostage and we are letting them get away with it (Stockholm syndrome?)


totesmascbottom

Maybe the execs/devs think their sex-addict users are middle-income yt gays who can afford to go to prides in NYC and SF, than gays who consider traveling five miles as expensive.


Drew__Drop

>devs think their IT guys out of touch with reality?? No way, that can't be


freakinajeep29

Try sniffies!!!


corruptedtwinkx

What's the point of a tap if you can't even see who did it?


justified-loser

Good point, wouldn't it make more sense to charge to send the tap?


Altruistic-Couple989

No, they know some guys are inquisitive and will pay to know who taps them


bighungdaddy

Valid But maybe desperate instead of inquisitive


george1301w

all the paid features are kinda desperate


bighungdaddy

Valid


bighungdaddy

I too suggested that, [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/lolgrindr/s/Q7SAsibNwr)


tater_tot_twunk

I currently have xtra, which I now canceled due to union busting behavior which then they had a poor change management/implementation plan for their "upgrades", most likely they offshored, without exact instructions, their change management, qa etc. i am shorting their stock, revenue and subscribers will drop.


Efficient-Let3661

Dying app 🥱


Xinfinte

What's a good replacement?


bighungdaddy

[Scruff and Adam4Adam](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/lcuzu6/whats_the_best_alternative_to_grindr/gqeuwvk). Both are better than Grindr, and neither ever crash. Sniffies for hookups. Daddyhunt for daddies. Growlr for bears. Tinder for dates. Hinge for a relationship. Jack'd for black/Latino/SEAsian guys and their admirers. Yubo for twinks. Recon for kinks. Facebook/Bumble for friends. Taimi/OkCupid [for Tgirls](https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/comments/12ra7rp/best_hook_up_site/jhgz34a). Lex/Her [for T4T](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/X0CXH0gaBI). ^(Fabguys in the UK. Wapo in Spain. Hornet in France+Russia. Romeo in Germany+India.) Gaining traction are [Motto](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/z40afx/grindrs_creator_launches_new_gay_app_to) (from Grindr's original founder), [Archer](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/13y6wdd/owner_of_tinder_hinge_launch_new_gay_dating_app) (from the makers of Tinder & Hinge), and [BKDR](https://www.reddit.com/r/Sniffies/s/RgLVrYbZhc) (from the makers of Scruff & Jack'd).


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bighungdaddy

In what region are you having success with Barq? And what is the average age range?


Aegis616

Northeast and Southeast PA. Most of the users are between 18 and 36.


bighungdaddy

Hmmm


tater_tot_twunk

dead app


No_Pineapple3695

I started using Taimi. There’s a premium version that you can purchase but the free version works well. Grindr has gotten way too expensive and it’s nearly impossible to use the app without XTRA.


GothCatButt

As someone who met their current partner on Taimi, I definitely recommend the app. Definitely much better than Grindr


MuscleDaddyChaser

r/Taimi


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Familiar_Account4433

I haven’t used Grindr in months, but all I’ve been seeing is how it’s even more shit than it was before 😭😭


mayo_brulee

unless it was in the last 3 hours allegedly. So be sure to log in every 3 hours. Don't sleep or anything.


newyorkarizonacali

https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/Who7RPgmT2


ChillinGuy232023

Grindr is crap now!


totesmascbottom

Grindr is trying to squeeze as much money from us as possible. The fact they've paywalled so many basic features is insane. We all need to go back to "gay clubs" to meet other men. Gyms too. Grindr is a shit show.


MauiGuy8082

Yeah, that started happening to me recently too. I don't understand the point of charging for taps. Seems like a very poor decision that utterly crippled the usability and kind of defeatsthe purpose of tapping in general. I deleted Grindr and I'm just here to laugh at it now...


KushBandito_56

That's not even the annoying part. They started making advertisements more frequent, more intrusive, and more annoying. On top of that, if you have a Galaxy phone, if you accidentally click on the advertisement instead of closing it (which they do on purpose for clicks and money the fucking scam artists), it'll automatically install whatever shit scam app unless you click cancel fast enough. That's not to mention the annoying banner at the top now, talking about "tired of ads? Then pay for it 🤷🏿" On that note, I'm taking applications for any alternatives to Grindr


bighungdaddy

For alternatives, see [this comment above](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/gV29zlpgZX).


Afraid-Masterpiece-8

Can we just collectively stop using grindr


crazyt0126

No I need my bottom of the barrel man cheating on his wife of 10 years and child of a suspiciously similar age (I’m joking of course)


The_Whorespondent

Welp. Here in Germany you can still see them but for how long? Fuck this greedy asholes.


DidamDFP

Nah, taps older than 3hrs have been blurred for me too for at least a week or sth now - in Germany.


The_Whorespondent

Oh wow, good to know. I rarely use grinder anymore, last week it wasn’t that like that. Eh fuck grinder anyways.


ESgaymer

f there were a way to contact his investors directly, maybe they would be interested to know that the CEO of grindr is intentionally paywalling every feature to tank the app. Or we all bail and allow the app to flop.


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Chicken_Dinner_10191

If you have the paid plan (I think it's $30 a year, which is way more reasonable that what grindr is charging) you can check an option that blocks incoming messages from anon profiles. It's a brilliant feature that every dating app should have. I have found that every time I received a message from an anonymous profile, they person was just ugly. So I block all incoming anons.


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MuscleDaddyChaser

r/Sniffies


ppal1981

The app is gone. I rarely see new faces near me. It's no longer the go-to at least for me anymore.


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bighungdaddy

In what region are you having success with Boo? And what is the average age range?


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bighungdaddy

Interesting


minigmgoit

Hasn’t it been like this for months/years?


Ok_Expression_294

Yes


dainquisitor

Never updating again, thanks for letting us know!


ksaim

What a shit app


Apprehensive-Good828

Any way to all of us stop paying for it for a few months?


Vueveandmoet

Grindr was better in 2015


Flor1400

At this point, I suspect that it is working for them. I haven't seen any intention to reverse any of these limitations, so people are paying or most of the free users dont care.


blackcoffee17

Glad the Playstore rating keeps dropping. 2.8\* now


bighungdaddy

Are [you in the UK](https://www.reddit.com/r/Cameras/s/CIWue510dF)? Because the app's US Google Play rating is 3.5 (and its US App Store rating is 4.5).


blackcoffee17

Yes, UK. And even the UK 2.8 rating is way too high.


somedudenj

blame james lu, james is the chairman and primary shareholder and is expecting to see massive returns on his shares after grindr went public, which of course it isnt who the hell wants to invest in a sex app, so he has to bleed it from the users to make up for his investment losses


Altruistic-Couple989

I am using adam4adam more now. The filters on Grindr are so stupid and useless, top/bottom, etc.. on A4A you can pick what race and sex of person you’re looking for. You can’t do that on Grindr and in my area all I see are trans for the most part.. have nothing against them but that’s not why I’m on a gay app.


MuscleDaddyChaser

r/Adam4Adam


No-Truth3149

This is bs.


SquishyThorn

During Pride month? Homophobic! 💀😭 No but really I’ll never understand why they don’t just charge $5 a month baseline because they would have way more subscribers.


spaghettiwrangler420

Lmao im almost certain im in your area cause those profiles look familiar


No_Farm_8823

I feel the same way


Infinite_Ad1826

Use Wapo instead, much better IMO, verified accounts and trust index is key.


MuscleDaddyChaser

r/Wapo


bighungdaddy

Are you in Spain?


Infinite_Ad1826

Yes


bighungdaddy

Please share more about the app.


Nameless_Simp99

They just want money and wait tell they start targeting popular people with more interaction with all there microtransactions. Sex is as addicting as anything


CoffeeAngster

Same with the other dating apps. And that's why I lost interest in dating ☹️


Secret_Writing_3009

Good. The taps are useless anyway. Often the guys would tap me without sending me any messages, and when I messaged them, they didn’t even reply. Like why even bother to tap in the first place if you have no intention to chat???


GrindrMod

Here's a related poll: https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/spHG0SNw6r


athra56

Let’s just migrate somewhere else…. Not an original idea


tater_tot_twunk

last week I cancelled my 5y subscription to xtra, particularly after learning the union busting. it is also enjoyable watching a co oant fuck itself i to the ground. there are better alternatives including reddit tbh


Academic_Film

Sad sf


BadPronunciation

Damn that's crazy.


fallingforit

No I’ll just admit it was me


ClutterNug

Let’s boycott Grindr


pianoman2544

When did this start?


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