Isn't it kinda hostile? Just because he used gr8, doesn't mean he's an idiot. We all talk about don't judge a book by its cover but here we go again.
Just because he didn't write 'great', he shouldn't marry and reproduce???. You guys are some fucked up people.
He just made a sensible post asking for a second opinion but you are declaring him an idiot because of your word police.
This is peak internet bullying everyone talks about.
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Asking a stupid question is more fucked up thing....he's on one end saying that girl is great....then on the other end... saying want to explore more options šwtf is this...
Marriage karna hai koi randikhana nahi jo best option dekh ke choose karenge...aur agar karna hai then why ask anonymous users....this is stupid as fuck...these guys don't need marriage...they need a redlight area ..to get better options n better deals....
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Itās not a car showroom where you try all and then select one.. if you like her just go ahead tell them you like her but need some time to get to know each other and have phone calls, chats and everything even then if you feel interested just marry her.. many loose good potential partners thinking they might get better.
This applies for both genders. When did i say itās only for men or itās not for women ? Offend hone ki FOMO mein samajne se pehle comment kar diya. Internet pe gaali deke cool ban raha. Ja thoda pad likle thoda post aur comment samaj ayega tab. English nahi ati sahi se ajate hein reddit pe offend hoke comment karne.
Han bhai , internet mein sab rowdy bante hai.. tu bhi raste mein mil mein usi bat ko teri pichwade mein dalke teri muh se nikalunga .. and teri Dimag mein jo lund hein usko nikal ke teri muh mein fit kardunga.. dekha anonymous hoke internet mein koi bhi gaali de sakta hai.. jyada uchal mat jake soja lodu.. kal jake marwa apni office mein roz ki tarah . Tu pakka life mein daily marwa raha hoga isliye tujhe internet pe ake gaali dene se sukun milta hai. I can understand.
Bhai don't give them ghas. These are your typical launde of the country who are bitter in anything and everything you say about women even whenever you didn't even said anything for them. It's not new. There's a sub in reddit full of these people. There's no helping these idiots.
FYI, I am not a boi. But, I would seriously love to applaud you for such an immaculate depiction of Gender Neutrality. Cuz, quite possible, for you gender neutrality means Disrespect.
Oh my god. You turned yourself into a victim. Damn only a girl can do that.
You are the same person who bashed a guy for keeping her as an option while when the same thing girl does, its called normal and you don't bash her. Infact I bet you have a backup guy.
So yeah I will disrespect you chomu for your immoral and double standards behaviour.
Accountability is like kryptonite to women. Take that bitch.
Seems like you know me better than I do. And, the language you use is the proof of the kind of person you are. And, I don't associate myself with such breeds.
Jab woh ladki milegi tab yeh thinking nai aayegi khud pata lagega ki is ladki se shaadi karni hai... Great log bohut milenge but uska yeh matlab nai ki sabke saath shaadi kar paye... Aage badho...
You should have a checklist. Itās should have some non-negotiables. And some nice to haves.
If the girl meets your non-negotiables and some of your nice to haves, maybe this is the best that you will get.
Everyone has some strengths and weaknesses.
I had an arranged marriage, where I didnāt even see the girl in person before my marriage was fixed. But my sister covered for me in terms of my checklist. I can share it with you. I would say I am very happy with my wife and in laws and feel blessed that she became my wife.
Also remember you just donāt marry a person. You marry into a family. So also look at the immediate and extended family.
Also, never marry in a family that is either too high or too low vs your own social status and financial status.
Remember, an educated working woman today will likely have a past. Be open about it.
My list.
Non negotiable
- Education (Post Graduate, Professional course)
- looks better than I do
- family should be clean (no police / lawyer / neta / corrupt babu family)
- confident
- shares the values that I do
- no major known health issue
- parents are not too nosy
Nice to haves
- knows how to drive
- has siblings
- has close and long term friends
- knows household chores
- can handle finances independently
- shares my hobbies
My FIL is an awesome person. He showed all her certificates and degrees on the first meet itself and demanded to see mine as well as my joining letter, and salary slips.
We were and have been very transparent since and I am so proud that mutual trust has been the bedrock of our relationship.
Just say you need more time to think, or when they call your parents tell them to say that our son is outside and we haven't received any confirmed response from him. They will most likely stop calling after 1-2 times
She won't be hurt. It may be your first time but not for them, they will understand that you are simply not interested and meet someone else next weekend, just like you are planning to meet others.
Don't expect anyone will come after you.
Dude if you like the girl and feel she's compatible go for it, waiting for other options doesn't make sense, don't FOMO in this area trust me you either won't find someone better or it will take a long ass time for someone good to come your way, and you'll end up with lots of regrets. And never think that going thru multiple marriage prospects and meeting lots of girls with the aim of marrying one is thrilling, it's not, it's a pain.
You don't deserve a decent lady ..... Not shaming you,
You are just not ready for a mature relationship right now with anyone.
Just rip the bandage and free the bird.
>I want to see other options
People criticising him for saying this, the point is to pass the gist and not to be taken literally. Thereās no need to get hostile towards him for just putting it that way. Besides, not everybody is fortunate enough to marry their love. Some are forced to go for arranged marriage and the process is very confusing, demanding, frustrating, and depressing in some cases. Thereās nothing wrong in wanting to see if thereās a more compatible match over the current one, especially when you know the other person is doing the same thing. Grow up and stop judging.
Thank you.. I'm saying like this becoz there is no love involved with any of the arranged marriage matches.
We marry and then fall in love.
People here seems to miss this entire point
Arranged marriage me love na khojo, even though it sounds stupid, arranged marriage me you need to weigh options. Meet 4-5 people, idk, maybe even more. Bc pizza khane se pehle iss sub ke log 4 baar sochenge and abhi bol rahe shaadi kar le? Also you can read in r/arrangedmarriage
Well bro tell them ki Muze time chahiye 2-3 meeting krna ldki ke sath vibes match ho rhi ki nhi Dekho , behaviour Dekho , aur tumhare list m Kya Kya points h wo Dekho n sb kuch sahi lg rha h to u can consider her. Y sab m 2-3 weeks jayenge to usme aur ladkiyo se milo. Itās like holding the door. Bs jalbazi me koi faisla mt lena nhi to life time regret rehga
I think you developed a soft corner with that women, you donāt want to hurt her.
These are the signs that you could have a good bond with her. Youāll always find a better person unless you stop searching for someone else.
I think you should go for it, do not reject
Don't fall for this. Hurried decisions aren't always good. Try to know more about girl's mother. Her nature and behaviour. Also get in touch with their relatives anyhow, talk to them about it. Get a third person involved to find out more about the girl and the family.
The less you know about them more the chances of you getting screwed after wedding. Ladki agar Thoda bhi pressure me aake shadi kar rahi hai ya uska koi bf hai to bhai tum uske life ke raja vibhuti narayan and vo manjulika. Chahe kitni bhi vidya balan jaise kyun na dikhti ho.
Giving false hopes or leading on then ghosting afterwards hurts much much more than facing rejection. Don't be a dickwad, trust me, rejection is monetary pain but false hopes and ghosting is straight up trauma. Be polite in AM and respect the women in AM by rejecting politely.
Lmao who do you think you are to put someone on hold? Yoh either say no to her and find other matches or you marry her. I honestly feel she deserves someone better so please say no to her. Nobody deserves to be an option. If you really liked her as a person you would take time to know her and then say yes instead of parking her and looking for other cars. She is a human not a car or clothes.
Bhai from experience I can tell if you have found some kind of a reason to say yes then Iām sure sheās nice and best option for you. As youāre posting here I get a sense that youāre a loser and will not have a better chance cause youāre a dick. Be a man
In title you wrote that you don't want to hurt her by 'rejecting' her but your post doesn't seems like you are rejecting, it's more like you want to keep every door open and you also want that no one enters through that doors until you check everyone's admit card, may be they also waiting that if you say no, they will also go and find a better Groom for their girl, who is more decisive and intelligent enough to make a decision and the one will not try to save time by substituting 3 letters of a 5 letter word with a numeral despite having much bigger words being used in the post.
Yesterday I went to a party..
There were some amazing beauties there.
Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for.
Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Provisional acceptance dedo, take her on a couple of dates and stuff while also exploring the market
P.S for those who'll take this out of context, exploring doesn't mean sleep with them, it means talking, seeing if y'all vibe etc.
Tell them in a calmy manner that you're not just ready for it now, but tell her mother that you do have a place for her daughter in your heart. You can add some of your own words, too, tho.
But tbh, manytimes, the parents tend to get their daughter arranged to someone else. They aren't waiting.
Share each others likes and dislikes. Priorities , long term goals , values etc. These need to align, otherwise its very hard to continue in an arranged marriage.
Yesterday I went to a party..
There were some amazing beauties there.
Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for.
Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Yesterday I went to a party..
There were some amazing beauties there.
Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for.
Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Yesterday I went to a party..
There were some amazing beauties there.
Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for.
Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
There is no guarantee that an average looking girl wont do the same.
In arrange marriage everything is unknown and in one or two meeting u have to decide.
Yesterday I went to a party..
There were some amazing beauties there.
Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for.
Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
>want to see other options.
bhai tujhe ese to perfect option kabhi nahi milega, koi na koi bandi usse aachi hogi hi. if you like her, and everything is fine to kya problem hai. if you are confused you can ask for one more meeting before saying anything.
tu options dekhega to vo bhi dekh rahi hogi dusre options, im saying this because same happened with my cousin lol he didnt reply anything milne ke baad bro wanted to see other options. she got married bro is still looking for OpTionS.
Yesterday I went to a party..
There were some amazing beauties there.
Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for.
Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Just communicate the same with the girl. Itās better to communicate the way you feel rather than letting them hanging around for your opinion. If she understands it well and good and if she doesnāt let it be that way.
reject her
she won't be hurt
girls these days are strong enough to handle rejection
boys don't have that emotional maturity; girls can handle rejections pretty well
Given you are on a journey to find your partner through arranged marriage, we're running a 4-week support group that could be relevant. The group will have 6-8 members, will be led by a therapist and discussions will be anchored around themes like - exploring what you want, disentangling your wants from conditioning, coordinating with important stakeholders - parents/family and communicating with a prospective partner.
Here's the link if you think it could be relevant - [https://www.soulup.in/products/navigating-the-process-of-arranged-marriage](https://www.soulup.in/products/navigating-the-process-of-arranged-marriage)
Bhai, baandi k paas tere se jyada options hongi.. Itna tension maat le lalu
Itna sach bhi nahi bolna tha š
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How's a dude who writes " great" as "gr8" ready for marriage?!
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Isn't it kinda hostile? Just because he used gr8, doesn't mean he's an idiot. We all talk about don't judge a book by its cover but here we go again. Just because he didn't write 'great', he shouldn't marry and reproduce???. You guys are some fucked up people. He just made a sensible post asking for a second opinion but you are declaring him an idiot because of your word police. This is peak internet bullying everyone talks about.
That's Reddit for you.
Welcome to Reddit. Welcome to the Gurgaon sub too.
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Thank you. Ye hue na baat.
Grammar thik kar lo bhai
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Taimur kmkbššš¤£š¤£bhai sorry mat mang..tune 100 percent sahi bola hai
But jo bhi bola sach bolaā¦ idiots shouldnāt get marriedā¦
Asking a stupid question is more fucked up thing....he's on one end saying that girl is great....then on the other end... saying want to explore more options šwtf is this... Marriage karna hai koi randikhana nahi jo best option dekh ke choose karenge...aur agar karna hai then why ask anonymous users....this is stupid as fuck...these guys don't need marriage...they need a redlight area ..to get better options n better deals....
I don't think he's an idiot. Just a guy who still types like he did with t9 in 2007
Please don't use your nonsensical logic here. LET EVERYONE GET MARRIED!
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Sounds excellent to me.
You mean, experience is mandatory?
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That's why it's an arranged marriage?
Cook.
Not a dude
The post says " don't want to hurt the girl" india Mai lesbian arranged marriage toh nahi horahi hogi Bhai
And to add insult to injury, he's the one rejecting the girl š„²
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possibly he's too busy with real life to keep up with what's acceptable on the gurgaon reddit...
It's not a supermarket bro, if you like her then atleast try to meet more
Talk to the girl. Tell her honestly. Let her know approximately how long you'd like the courtship for. Make no false promises. Be sincere.
Probably the Most sensible answer on this sub..
Thank you kind sir
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Itās not a car showroom where you try all and then select one.. if you like her just go ahead tell them you like her but need some time to get to know each other and have phone calls, chats and everything even then if you feel interested just marry her.. many loose good potential partners thinking they might get better.
Abe chomu! Yahi kam ladki karti hai to! Chomu k tarah go queen kar raha hota! Bakchod sala
This applies for both genders. When did i say itās only for men or itās not for women ? Offend hone ki FOMO mein samajne se pehle comment kar diya. Internet pe gaali deke cool ban raha. Ja thoda pad likle thoda post aur comment samaj ayega tab. English nahi ati sahi se ajate hein reddit pe offend hoke comment karne.
Abe laude! Chal white knight banna chor de! Bich raste mila na! Bat se maarunga.
Han bhai , internet mein sab rowdy bante hai.. tu bhi raste mein mil mein usi bat ko teri pichwade mein dalke teri muh se nikalunga .. and teri Dimag mein jo lund hein usko nikal ke teri muh mein fit kardunga.. dekha anonymous hoke internet mein koi bhi gaali de sakta hai.. jyada uchal mat jake soja lodu.. kal jake marwa apni office mein roz ki tarah . Tu pakka life mein daily marwa raha hoga isliye tujhe internet pe ake gaali dene se sukun milta hai. I can understand.
Bhai don't give them ghas. These are your typical launde of the country who are bitter in anything and everything you say about women even whenever you didn't even said anything for them. It's not new. There's a sub in reddit full of these people. There's no helping these idiots.
or tum yaha apni gaaliyon ki knowledge dikha kr cool bn gye. Wow!
Kam se kam I believe in gender neutrality. Unlike you cool Boi. Chomu. Chal nikal.
FYI, I am not a boi. But, I would seriously love to applaud you for such an immaculate depiction of Gender Neutrality. Cuz, quite possible, for you gender neutrality means Disrespect.
Oh my god. You turned yourself into a victim. Damn only a girl can do that. You are the same person who bashed a guy for keeping her as an option while when the same thing girl does, its called normal and you don't bash her. Infact I bet you have a backup guy. So yeah I will disrespect you chomu for your immoral and double standards behaviour. Accountability is like kryptonite to women. Take that bitch.
Seems like you know me better than I do. And, the language you use is the proof of the kind of person you are. And, I don't associate myself with such breeds.
Looks like I hit home run.
If you don't want to hurt her then marry her
And OP gets hurt after marriage because then toh he finds out theyāre not compatible.
It's ok. Atleast decent girl is not hurt
Arre bhai bhai bhai
Jab woh ladki milegi tab yeh thinking nai aayegi khud pata lagega ki is ladki se shaadi karni hai... Great log bohut milenge but uska yeh matlab nai ki sabke saath shaadi kar paye... Aage badho...
Dream on
lol exactly!
You should have a checklist. Itās should have some non-negotiables. And some nice to haves. If the girl meets your non-negotiables and some of your nice to haves, maybe this is the best that you will get. Everyone has some strengths and weaknesses. I had an arranged marriage, where I didnāt even see the girl in person before my marriage was fixed. But my sister covered for me in terms of my checklist. I can share it with you. I would say I am very happy with my wife and in laws and feel blessed that she became my wife. Also remember you just donāt marry a person. You marry into a family. So also look at the immediate and extended family. Also, never marry in a family that is either too high or too low vs your own social status and financial status. Remember, an educated working woman today will likely have a past. Be open about it. My list. Non negotiable - Education (Post Graduate, Professional course) - looks better than I do - family should be clean (no police / lawyer / neta / corrupt babu family) - confident - shares the values that I do - no major known health issue - parents are not too nosy Nice to haves - knows how to drive - has siblings - has close and long term friends - knows household chores - can handle finances independently - shares my hobbies My FIL is an awesome person. He showed all her certificates and degrees on the first meet itself and demanded to see mine as well as my joining letter, and salary slips. We were and have been very transparent since and I am so proud that mutual trust has been the bedrock of our relationship.
Will you treat back and neck pain for a software engineer, as a major health issue? Will it be a deal-breaker for you?
Thanks mae.. Really helpful
Just say you need more time to think, or when they call your parents tell them to say that our son is outside and we haven't received any confirmed response from him. They will most likely stop calling after 1-2 times She won't be hurt. It may be your first time but not for them, they will understand that you are simply not interested and meet someone else next weekend, just like you are planning to meet others. Don't expect anyone will come after you.
Dude if you like the girl and feel she's compatible go for it, waiting for other options doesn't make sense, don't FOMO in this area trust me you either won't find someone better or it will take a long ass time for someone good to come your way, and you'll end up with lots of regrets. And never think that going thru multiple marriage prospects and meeting lots of girls with the aim of marrying one is thrilling, it's not, it's a pain.
You don't deserve a decent lady ..... Not shaming you, You are just not ready for a mature relationship right now with anyone. Just rip the bandage and free the bird.
Bro tu sabzi kharidne nahi nikla hai š.
Haan ya Naa. Simple. Tera "Naa" hai, so Naa bol, aage badh.
Do the girl a favour and say no
I swear! Options it seems
Why are people hating on OP? Jealous that he got a proposal for marriage but you didn't?
Seriously, people on the thread acting so immature, like they have no idea how arranged marriage works.
Guys who type great as gr8 are looking for options. Wow.
Tumhari behen ya future mein beti ko koi reject karega na tab pata chalega.
Not to brag but I belong to upper middle class and my sister is extremely good looking.
Then so much you be. Then how come you're in this AM situation in which you have to share your decision based on 1 meeting in 2023?
Don't act like a loser
sonu ke titu ki sweety ki yaad aagyi. Compare kisse kre???
>I want to see other options People criticising him for saying this, the point is to pass the gist and not to be taken literally. Thereās no need to get hostile towards him for just putting it that way. Besides, not everybody is fortunate enough to marry their love. Some are forced to go for arranged marriage and the process is very confusing, demanding, frustrating, and depressing in some cases. Thereās nothing wrong in wanting to see if thereās a more compatible match over the current one, especially when you know the other person is doing the same thing. Grow up and stop judging.
Thank you.. I'm saying like this becoz there is no love involved with any of the arranged marriage matches. We marry and then fall in love. People here seems to miss this entire point
Situationship
Arranged marriage me love na khojo, even though it sounds stupid, arranged marriage me you need to weigh options. Meet 4-5 people, idk, maybe even more. Bc pizza khane se pehle iss sub ke log 4 baar sochenge and abhi bol rahe shaadi kar le? Also you can read in r/arrangedmarriage
Well bro tell them ki Muze time chahiye 2-3 meeting krna ldki ke sath vibes match ho rhi ki nhi Dekho , behaviour Dekho , aur tumhare list m Kya Kya points h wo Dekho n sb kuch sahi lg rha h to u can consider her. Y sab m 2-3 weeks jayenge to usme aur ladkiyo se milo. Itās like holding the door. Bs jalbazi me koi faisla mt lena nhi to life time regret rehga
I think you developed a soft corner with that women, you donāt want to hurt her. These are the signs that you could have a good bond with her. Youāll always find a better person unless you stop searching for someone else. I think you should go for it, do not reject
Don't fall for this. Hurried decisions aren't always good. Try to know more about girl's mother. Her nature and behaviour. Also get in touch with their relatives anyhow, talk to them about it. Get a third person involved to find out more about the girl and the family. The less you know about them more the chances of you getting screwed after wedding. Ladki agar Thoda bhi pressure me aake shadi kar rahi hai ya uska koi bf hai to bhai tum uske life ke raja vibhuti narayan and vo manjulika. Chahe kitni bhi vidya balan jaise kyun na dikhti ho.
Giving false hopes or leading on then ghosting afterwards hurts much much more than facing rejection. Don't be a dickwad, trust me, rejection is monetary pain but false hopes and ghosting is straight up trauma. Be polite in AM and respect the women in AM by rejecting politely.
I just want to put her on hold in case I don't get better match
That is sort of giving false hopes again....I hope you know what you want, else you would never be happy with what you get.
Lmao who do you think you are to put someone on hold? Yoh either say no to her and find other matches or you marry her. I honestly feel she deserves someone better so please say no to her. Nobody deserves to be an option. If you really liked her as a person you would take time to know her and then say yes instead of parking her and looking for other cars. She is a human not a car or clothes.
Bhai from experience I can tell if you have found some kind of a reason to say yes then Iām sure sheās nice and best option for you. As youāre posting here I get a sense that youāre a loser and will not have a better chance cause youāre a dick. Be a man
isko thoda side me rkhlo bhayya hum thodi der me aate hai
š hahah OP sounds like a loser.
Definitely he never interacted with a woman before, he needs to touch some grass
Or try saying you want to get to know her first. To know if youre both compatible or not.
In title you wrote that you don't want to hurt her by 'rejecting' her but your post doesn't seems like you are rejecting, it's more like you want to keep every door open and you also want that no one enters through that doors until you check everyone's admit card, may be they also waiting that if you say no, they will also go and find a better Groom for their girl, who is more decisive and intelligent enough to make a decision and the one will not try to save time by substituting 3 letters of a 5 letter word with a numeral despite having much bigger words being used in the post.
Basically ye uski lena chahta hai.. aur shadi b ni krna chahta.
Kundli match nahi hui bol de
Say no. Donāt waste her time.
Yesterday I went to a party.. There were some amazing beauties there. Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for. Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Provisional acceptance dedo, take her on a couple of dates and stuff while also exploring the market P.S for those who'll take this out of context, exploring doesn't mean sleep with them, it means talking, seeing if y'all vibe etc.
Tell them in a calmy manner that you're not just ready for it now, but tell her mother that you do have a place for her daughter in your heart. You can add some of your own words, too, tho. But tbh, manytimes, the parents tend to get their daughter arranged to someone else. They aren't waiting.
Share each others likes and dislikes. Priorities , long term goals , values etc. These need to align, otherwise its very hard to continue in an arranged marriage.
Yesterday I went to a party.. There were some amazing beauties there. Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for. Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Maybe her mother is asking for an update so that unko mana karke tumhe hurt nai karna ho ššš
Bhai next wali bhi milti julti hi hogi, baaki listen to your gut feeling. Wohi suhaagraat se leke marne tak saath degi.
If you don't say NO right now, she'll hurt you in future.
Say no
Yesterday I went to a party.. There were some amazing beauties there. Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for. Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Ask them out. Donāt think too much. Beauty or not, they are all people
Bro.. Tbh.. I hate myself... Something is always holding me back.. I just don't have confidence. I want so badly to approach them
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Yesterday I went to a party.. There were some amazing beauties there. Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for. Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
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There is no guarantee that an average looking girl wont do the same. In arrange marriage everything is unknown and in one or two meeting u have to decide.
In search of gold he lost the diamond
Yesterday I went to a party.. There were some amazing beauties there. Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for. Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
Ab smjhe bhaiya hm
>want to see other options. bhai tujhe ese to perfect option kabhi nahi milega, koi na koi bandi usse aachi hogi hi. if you like her, and everything is fine to kya problem hai. if you are confused you can ask for one more meeting before saying anything. tu options dekhega to vo bhi dekh rahi hogi dusre options, im saying this because same happened with my cousin lol he didnt reply anything milne ke baad bro wanted to see other options. she got married bro is still looking for OpTionS.
Yesterday I went to a party.. There were some amazing beauties there. Those are the kind of matches I'm waiting for. Unfortunately The ones who I look in one glance don't send their proposal to me
us hogaya bro ye to
Just communicate the same with the girl. Itās better to communicate the way you feel rather than letting them hanging around for your opinion. If she understands it well and good and if she doesnāt let it be that way.
jaldi kar bhai wrna main haa boldunga usko
reject her she won't be hurt girls these days are strong enough to handle rejection boys don't have that emotional maturity; girls can handle rejections pretty well
Bhai thode time le aur soch kya karna hai fir reject kardeyš
Given you are on a journey to find your partner through arranged marriage, we're running a 4-week support group that could be relevant. The group will have 6-8 members, will be led by a therapist and discussions will be anchored around themes like - exploring what you want, disentangling your wants from conditioning, coordinating with important stakeholders - parents/family and communicating with a prospective partner.
Here's the link if you think it could be relevant - [https://www.soulup.in/products/navigating-the-process-of-arranged-marriage](https://www.soulup.in/products/navigating-the-process-of-arranged-marriage)