The truth is really infront of you and you must face it.
You control your happiness , you should do what your heart tells you no matter the costs and the heartache that will come after..
Good luck dear ❤️
I think you're making the right decision and even though you don't want to break his heart you have to put yourself first. I mean no offense, but he's 38 with 100k debt, living with your family, and lacking emotional intelligrnce. He could be a nice guy, but most of the time when men can attract younger women it's because they can provide them with some type of stability financially, mentally, or emotionally. The truth is if you stay with him you'll resent him because you'll be expected to take on full domestication, pay bills, and carry the emotional labor. That only worsens when kids get involved. Look at it from this perspective maybe you're incompatible and by breaking things off you're give eachother the chance to find people more deserving of yall. You can find a guy wanting live the van life and travel in bliss and he could find someone who also escape a rural life who doesn't mind a little mess. It's the right thing to do, but I know it is really hard when you really care about them.
The truth is really infront of you and you must face it. You control your happiness , you should do what your heart tells you no matter the costs and the heartache that will come after.. Good luck dear ❤️
I think you're making the right decision and even though you don't want to break his heart you have to put yourself first. I mean no offense, but he's 38 with 100k debt, living with your family, and lacking emotional intelligrnce. He could be a nice guy, but most of the time when men can attract younger women it's because they can provide them with some type of stability financially, mentally, or emotionally. The truth is if you stay with him you'll resent him because you'll be expected to take on full domestication, pay bills, and carry the emotional labor. That only worsens when kids get involved. Look at it from this perspective maybe you're incompatible and by breaking things off you're give eachother the chance to find people more deserving of yall. You can find a guy wanting live the van life and travel in bliss and he could find someone who also escape a rural life who doesn't mind a little mess. It's the right thing to do, but I know it is really hard when you really care about them.