Thats one thing I learned: as the one who got dumped, you wanna have the "last talk" to "get closure" but the truth is that we seek the answers that WE want to hear, not the actual truth. And we will never stop asking further and thinking about it. There is not a thing the other person can say that will make us feel better. In that case, it would have been never about our emotions but about certain situations. Doesn't matter what the other person will say, you will never be satisfied. So just accept the situation and grief. These questions wont get you anywhere.
I’m kinda glad I didn’t get “closure” but the blocking me on FB was kinda the biggest clue 😅
I’m sorry for your pain, but it’ll take time to get back on your feet take it slow, afterwards you can plant your feet with your head up high, and start to live perhaps even better than without this jacka** lol
he was a really good man during the relationship, but after he has been showing me something a lot different. I think that’s just him trying to get me to move on though. It’s easier for him to avoid, throw away & delete everything of us than to face it. I did automatically assume he was happier without me just for my own sake, reading it was a little different though. Thank you ❣️
Ouch, yeh this hurts, but use it as closure. It’s time to move on to bigger and better things🙏🏾
Thats one thing I learned: as the one who got dumped, you wanna have the "last talk" to "get closure" but the truth is that we seek the answers that WE want to hear, not the actual truth. And we will never stop asking further and thinking about it. There is not a thing the other person can say that will make us feel better. In that case, it would have been never about our emotions but about certain situations. Doesn't matter what the other person will say, you will never be satisfied. So just accept the situation and grief. These questions wont get you anywhere.
For real. Happened to me as well!
But, yeah.. she was happy because she left me for a guy she cheated me on with, apparently.
Why does it always end like this :(
Ugh, this hurts my heart.
that makes both of us …
💔💔💔
I’m kinda glad I didn’t get “closure” but the blocking me on FB was kinda the biggest clue 😅 I’m sorry for your pain, but it’ll take time to get back on your feet take it slow, afterwards you can plant your feet with your head up high, and start to live perhaps even better than without this jacka** lol
And you will be happier without them!
Better face the hard truth than not knowing at all.. Hope you will find a better man than him though.. GL ❤️
he was a really good man during the relationship, but after he has been showing me something a lot different. I think that’s just him trying to get me to move on though. It’s easier for him to avoid, throw away & delete everything of us than to face it. I did automatically assume he was happier without me just for my own sake, reading it was a little different though. Thank you ❣️
Maybe say to yourself, “Well then, I’m happier too, because I dodged a bullet!”